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Questions to ponder that will make one Wonder. Do try answering your fav that you may share in Comments section. When we ASSUME, we make Ass of You and me.

1. What is the question that you should be asked to know the most valuable truth about you & your closest ones?

2. What do you & your family care about and what are things that you & your family dont care about?

3. Who are people you are grateful for, and what are the things you are thankful for?

4. Where were you 5 years back & where do you see yourself 5 years from now?

5. What are the things close to your heart, and who are the things close to your heart? What does it say about the size of your heart?

6. What do you worry about and what do others worry about you?

7. Which is more important question to you-r people ‘The whats’, ‘The whys’, ‘The whos’ or ‘how much’?

8. What do you remember as most aromatic, dramatic, dramatic, prophylactic and/or therapeutic incidents/factors in your life?

9. How do we trust people, who are the most trusted people(Living or past) in our lives, why & how much do we trust them?

10. What are our common goals we can collaborate for and common duels we need to overcome.

11. What can be a worthy purpose of human lives? What has been purpose of your parents life, and what is yours?

12. What do you subscribe to that people are driven by logic or emotions or by any other factor?

13. What are the strengths and weakness of you, your family and your professional and personal communities. (SWOT)

14. How would you describe when theres a cup having water upto half level?.. what would others say?

15. What were the questions you were asked the most number of times, what were your answers?

16. What’s the best and worst thing about the society right now?

17. Who maybe closest most intimately with you(They know it all about you)? Is it your mother or father or someone else?.and why do you think so? And who do you think you are closest to intellectually, behaviourly, socially, emotionally & genetically(anyother-ly)?

18. Where do we not apply Gender Differences and where gender roles come into play.

19. What is more important to you the question or the answer?

20. Who should be trusted and who shouldn’t be?

21. What is ones deepest desire and why?

22. What makes people good, Average and bad? How does it apply in your experience?

23. When does experience matter and when it doesnt?

24. Why do companies do Background checking of people? Whom & How it helps?

25. What is proper way of doing Background check, what would you disclose and what would you hide?

26. What are the principles you hold up in your life?.. Sharing, Brotherhood, Integrity, cleanliness order etc.. why does it matter? How does one keep them in practice.

27. What are the best things of value your parents have given you? What have been the worst you have got.

28. Have you or someone else been blocked by people around you, or you have blocked someone on your phone. If so why?

29. What are you & your families favorite quotes ?

30. What has been most happiest times for you and your family & which has been the toughest? How was it experienced

31. What are things that people like to take away and what are things that they like to give away in general? What is it that you like to take away & give away.

32 What are your views on current affairs? What are your views on your views.

33. What did you wish to become when you grew up.? What’s your dream.

34. Where Do you see a  Boxing Ring where One opponents Arms are tied by the Boxing-rules and the biased-refree is freely joining & hiting the tied persons along with the other unfair contenders.. It’s happening in Real Life.  Where?? ANS: Indian Marital-Legal System.

There are many exams that people take to be as a gateway to some places of value and quality. You may have taken few here formally, and may have taken few informally even without your knowledge, but all exams are important to attempt and know your prospects for a better future & higher education or opportunity. Have written 34 posts before this for General Readers this is little mature readers only(18+ years & Explorative minded). Please recheck the 2 criterias before reading further.

Your GATE score may help you in finding formal entry into the right gate of top academic institutions. Similarly ones FATE scores can help one formally get into the institution of marriage and family.

First in series are career(money) oriented exams the B.series are family(society) oriented exams. Being good in careers(MoneyMaking) and being good carriers of Genes and memes(Family-SocietyMaking) are a different ball game. (Pun intended).. eg Abdul Kalam, Modi etc.

1. GATE-exam: Graduate Aptitude Test in Engineering is an examination that primarily tests the comprehensive understanding of various undergraduate subjects in engineering and science for admission into the Masters Program of institutes as well as jobs at Public Sector. Is conducted jointly by Indian Institutes of Science and Technology in major cities.

1A. FATE/MATE-exam: Family/Marital Aptitude Test in Engines-nearing, is an hypothetical examination that primarily tests expectations and the comprehensive understanding of various underbelt subjects in Young-in-hearing and soxcial science for admission into the Masters Program of institutions (Families, Tribes, Clans, Genetic-Communities, Races etc), as well as jobs at Pubic Sector. Is to be conducted by Indian Institute of Marital Sciences and Personal Technology.

To clarify the fog in fairly tales of the ‘Happily ever after’ story and move closer to reality, which Is happily ever after for the lucky people and maybe ‘sadly ever after’ with the unlucky/yucky people. Where Luck maybe right way of Looking to Understand Core Knowledge.

Course Books: Arthashastra, Yogasutra, Kamasutra, other sutras.

This exam is conducted by the Indian Institute of Marital Sciences. To give eligibility to B.L Bachelors of life for getting into courses of M.Fam Masters of family life. By doing this course they will be able to master all courses of life in form of discourse and intercourse.

Finally one will be awarded the certificate for eligibility into married life. Here are few other exams of similar relevance to Money-making and family-making.

2. CAT-Exam: Common Admission Test for Indian Institute of Management

2b. BAT-Exam: Bride/Groom Admission Test for International Institute of Marriagement.

3. AIEE-EXam: All India Engineering Entrance Examination is an examination organized by the Central Board of Secondary Education (CBSE) for admissions into Bachelors Courses.

3b. AIFE-EXam: All India Family-nearing Entrance Examination is an examination organized by the Central Board of Sexondary Education (CBSE) for admissions into Bachelors Courses.

4. NEET exam: National Eligibility Cum Entrance Test.

4B. MEET exam: Marital Eligibility Cum Entrance Test.(Pun Intended)

5. CLAT-exam: Common Law Admission Test for eligible lawyers.

5a. CLIT-exam: Common LoveOrgans Integrity Test. (For all genders Male, Female, Intersex, Thirdgender etc) for eligible lovers

6. JAM– Joint Admission Test for masters in science.

6b. JAAM– Joint Areas Admission Test for masters in home/family/couples science iska anJAAM ache hoga Jab sare questions sache honge.

7. CEED– Common Entrance Exam for Design conducted by IIT-Bombay

7b. SEED– Social&Sexual Entrance Exam for Designing Families conducted by IIT-JODIpur.(Indian Institute of Takatakology-Jodipur)

8. NATA-exam: National Aptitude Test in Architecture (NATA). Architects can create award winning Houses & human environments.

8a. SHATA-exam: Smart Homely Aptitude Test in Altrueism. Altruists can create rewarding Homes, families, groups & social environments.

9. UPSC-exam: Union Public Service Commission exam. The Civil Services Examination (CSE) is a nationwide competitive examination in India conducted by the Union Public Service Commission for recruitment to various Civil Services of the Government of India, including the Indian Administrative Service, Indian Foreign Service, and Indian Police Service.

9b. M.UPSC-exam: Maritally United Public Service Cummission of the world. The Civil Services Examination (CSE) is a passionwide compenitrative SeXamination conducted by the, yet to be proposed International Union Pubic Services Commission for recruitment to various Cevil Services of the human breeders of all nations, including the National SADministrative Service, National For-reign Service, and National poLICE Services.

10. GRE: Graduate Record Examination

10b. GRE: Gray-duet Record Examination, for testing ability to sing duets when old with grey hairs.

11. IELTS-exam: International English Language Testing System: is an international standardized test of English language proficiency for non-native English language speakers. 

11b. IEMTS-exam: International Empathy and Morality Testing System is an international standardized test of Empathic language proficiency for non-native Ethical language speakers. 

12. VISA-Interview: Very Important for Sailing Abroad, important for legal emigration.

12b. VISA-interview2: Very Important Socio-Sexual Alignment Interview for couples entering into a marital agreement and familial-social contract. Important for legal conjugation and copulation leading to guestation & Genes replication.

Just like people associated with these exams are insiders who may be more aware to Train people, prepare QP, conduct test, assess or leak the papers.. (Teachers, Lecturers, Professors, Medical lecturers, Question Paper Makers, Supervisors, examination body, interview panel, dept staff etc )

Similarly there are insiders of these B series Exams.. like Marriage Counsellors, Marital Legal experts, Sexologists, Psychologists, Lawyers, Advocates, Family welfare NGOs, Marriage Bureau Brokers & Breakers, Mediation centre employees, Documentary film makers, Family rights advocates, Family welfare workers, Broken families, ex-lovers(level3), Divorcees, Ex-Spouses, Relatives(also aware children) of Seperated/troubled Couples,.. etc) one may get a peak into the question paper from them if they are reflective & caring enough to share and clarify. But for the rest newbies in preparation these exams it’s more of a chance than choice, given that there is lack of coaching institutes and caring individuals for these exams.(the links below aims to help the naive newbie).

While Google may help you find resources with the A Series exam, you may not find resources for ur B.Series Exam preparations. But you can search on Gurugle’s Glog here This page wants to help you and our friends in preparations for the Family-Marital life exams.

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Disclaimer: This posts intentions are to inform and make minds think critically for yourself. DO your own Due Diligence, Do read what you may need, you may accept what makes sense for you now, reject what doesnt here and share with other dearones who may need it in future..

For all of us its easier to spot and see Some people are physically challenged people-groups, takes some efforts and tests to perceive the intellectually or mentally challenged people-groups. The toughest task we may have is to find people & places to help with the unmet needs of the morally, Psycho-Socially, maritally or ethically challenged. G-ders Alert: Beware of such people, family, places or systems. The A.Series exams help us in Scientific, Technological & Financial Advancements of individuals and their closed subgroups, while a paradigm shifting B.Series exams may help for Ethical, Social & Spiritual Advancements of Peoples’-collectives and societies-wholistically organically and sustainably.

Yours attempting to be Rationo-Ethically,

HumaRA-Priyamitra Prasad.

Friends are peer pleasure, Friends are a dear treasure.

#FamilyFridays #FranklyFridays

Family and friends are the roots of our self. The stronger and effective they are the longer and constructive our lives will be.

Who are friends? How does it help someone.

Bye Bye 2020, Thanks a Lot..

And Good to See you 2021!!! We Welcome you into our lives.

Dear G-ders wishing you a Happy New Year 2021 Ahead!!

A positive Attitude can get us to a certain Altitude, and when we reach a plateau its Perseverance with Gratitude that can keep us there and take us higher, further in our Life Journey.

Thanks giving is a culture of honoring all contributions and contributors in our life.

Which is the most Thankful-grateful commandment in the ten biblical commandments?

Iobserve it may be ‘Honor Thy Parents’@Ephesians 6:2 (Biological+NonBiological)(Sri Krishna, Sri Rama)’, as a gratitude for all that they have done for their children. When children are grateful to their parents’ pure/selfless and unconditional contributions the children get opportunities to rise up to their natural mode of goodness, reach an abundance mindset and create further harmony in their lives & environments. (Exceptions: Maybe unfortunate, historic orphans, abandoned/abused/alienated/arrogant childhood care in cases of situations, Narcissistic Biological/Tragical Traiting/trainings)(Eg. Karna, Moses)

This resonates with a south Indian saying, Matha-Pitha-Guru-Daivom (Meaning Mother-Father-Teacher&God is the sequence of reverence).

List of our Gratitudes for 2020.

1. Gods Grace, Our family having two second lives. parents having both been out from ICU, after Covid Scare. My Prayers for Krishna, Jesus & practicing Budheartful-Meditations were answered I feel so ever grateful.

2. Our extended Family and friends praying and supporting us for our well being during prevention, hospitalization and slow recovery. I cant thank them enough for in the coldest and darkest of hours it was the the candles(Dearones & their wishes) which gave us the light and warmth to keep us going.

3. Not many covid cases in our neighborhood. We are wishing/praying daily and sharing Covid Health info of prevention in various groups.

4. We as a nation faced so many challenges this year(Covid, Chinese, Pakistani agression) Indian systems going haywire but managing to survive

5. Thankful to have started blogging, Its good space of expression of love for ideas, words and writings. Also grateful to write & grow, Philosophers, RITers, MHTians and Actober group to be a motivation to write and share myself.

6. Thankful to the home where we cud have a small terrace & ground garden area, were we harvested a variety of vegetables.

7. Grateful for the nearby lake walkway for the family walks and long runs in the jogging track.

8. Grateful for the wonderful co-Sharers of various groups like SGMeditation, BuTEA, HumaRA, LAN(x) Wewadh-GD3, BKA, HTN, BTN, JOYn, MHT.. and many more . I have learnt a lot & benefitted in multiple ways from the sharings in the group. I am inspired by the grp members concern and care for the focusSubjects(Health, Meditation, Careers, Heritage, Languages etc) others.

9. Grateful to Bengaluru and Bengalureans for the community of citizens and atmosphere we create here, inspite of so many challenges we all still stick together and move ahead.

10. Its this magical spirit in many around, that makes us grateful for 2020 and hopeful for 2021.

Wishing all on completion of a very eventful old year 2020 & a Very Joyful new year 2021 ahead.

Thoughtfully Yours,

GRP

Week 2: #TruthfulThurdays.

Today I vow to speak the truth come what may, whatever questions are asked I shall answer in most truthful way.

#ThoughtfulThankingThursdays

Breaking Happens by Chance, Healing happens by choice. /GRP (7/1/21)

#ThankfulThursdays

Thanking all the people who were/are/willbe connected with us in our lives. For there are reasons why people come in our lives and those may sometimes be the very reason why people go away from our lives. But the only reason why people stay is the “Unconditionality” in them or commonality in us. They need no reason to be there for you except the reason is themself. Thanking all people unreasonably caring about relationships. Those who see the ‘me’ in others.. the others in ‘me’. That ALL is me only.- GRP

great people are grateful people.

When People Fall or fail. Observe these responses in people around. 1. Watch it happen silently 2. Laugh and mock the phenomenon 3. Laugh and mock at the person. 4. Walk to and help the person up. 5. Walk away and wish it never happened. 6.. 7…

It helps to practice detox, heightened efforts of removing ills from our lifestyle & character. Here is an attempt at weeding-out the mind-garden on Wednesdays, for the clarity of fruitful & beautiful mind-orchards.

There are useful ideas and thoughts collated here which may be common knowledge but which can be highlighted & realized, only with ‘personal, deep, reflective & empathetic thinking‘. Which many of us arent trained for in our formal education nor can these come from casual superficial experiencing. Sharing here for my dearest G-ders.

These are few realizations I have had from Family & friends/the minds who cared to share. What in our lives may be small-inner choices making large-outer differences.

Week-1: 31/12/2020

There are proper(Good/best practices)(Useful Plants) and improper Concepts(Ignorant/worst practices)(Weeds) and varied ways of doing things. Untill we know both/all sides we cant know the difference, which helps to choose the best way or approach. Here below are few recommendations for weeding out wrong practices on Weedlessday. Minor Changes can have Major Impacts(Butterfly effect). Clearing out the few small weeds can be a good deed for many big plants(Gutter-fly effect/GRP :))

1. While seated on a chair, is the habit of Crossing our legs good or bad for health?

A: Its common behaviour to cross our leg when sitting on a chair but it harms in many ways, it can cause a temporary increase in your blood pressure and lead to poor posture. Its especially dangerous for fertile men as it may raise the heat & pressure in the groin area and effect their sensitive reproductive system, leading to male infertility. BETTER Solution: Sit up straight with the legs positioned straight(no laptop obstruction) and we may cross legs safely at the ankle. (Idea Courtesy: Sidhha Guru on TV & Alexander Technique) Grooming tips for the groom/GRP.

2. The Shirt we tucked in our pant is visible , but what’s to be done with the inner wear the vests(Baniyan) we wear, is it to be over the innerwear under shirt or tucked in boxer/brief? Which is better & why?

A: Its good/better to tuck our vests in the brief/innerwear as the movements of upper body tends to bring the vest in an awkward way around the waist. Tucking in the briefs gives a manageable waistline and appearance. Also raising our hand (Idea courtesy: Karthik.B)

3. Line of shirt in the front to be aligned with zipline of pant for better aesthetics.( ICourtesy: KB)

4. Its better to keep the home UPS inverter system outside our homes compared to inside as it clears useable floor space and reduces acid vapour exposure for internal environments. (IdeaCourtesy: Ar.Venkatesh).

5. Improper innerwear can effect a persons health Bra size and womens health (IdeaIntroduction in msg by Priti.Patil in Ri-hab(Right Habits) Group)

6. Brief or Boxers which is better choice for mens health? and their families future.( A. Boxers are safer choice for male fertility and sperm count). Tight briefs and thick jean pants in summers or hot environment are sperm killers, also air tight VIP frenchies create a sweaty and moist environment for rashes, yeast and fungi infections. (IdeaCourtesy: Male Ayurvedic Doctor at J.B Nagar/Blr) Here is a informative survey on this question.

Do share any common sense idea you think you know should be common knowledge but you observe that many may not know as it’s not told or shared formally, which can be usefully highlighted here.

Week 2: 6/1/21(Wed@Bengaluru)

#WeedingOutWednesday IdeaXplorations/GRP Going for Whole detox.

1.Read into ideas in ‘Whole detox‘ by Dr.Dianna Minnich

2. Shanna Soulfrequency.com

3. Monthly Try-out Veganuary.com https://veganuary.com/try-vegan/3

Week3: ‘Simplicity is the ultimate Sophistication'(A.E) and the way towards it first is stepping through complications.- GRP

1. Being in tune with the music of our heart and dEARones hearts is an art of the heart and our ears.

2. It takes years of practice for the ears to learn the subtle difference between the notes and chords.

3. Our ears hear a lot of eternal noises during the day and for some its internal noise too.

4. How do we filter these and be in tune with ourself and our hearts music(beats -Rhythm)?

5. I think this is by being open to listen to everything thats happening around, but also choosing to Object, Accept, Reject, Deflect or/and most importantly Reflect using logic and synthesis, we may find resonance and reduce the cognitive dissonance in self & others.

6. Filter through the noise and we can find the music. We need to deal with the dirt & thorns to see the Rose’s. Here is an opportunity & way we can be tuned to play our part in this big symphony and orchestra of life.

7. How to reduce the noise & see the music better. Or See through the darkness and a light, similarly we experience the noise & music around too.. in case of noise of media and gossip we can see a way out here. https://www.allsides.com/media-bias/how-to-spot-types-of-media-bias

8. Which marriages are made in Heaven & which are not? Real adages and marriages are made in heaven when they are matched with lot of good decisions backed with more godly insights & guided by supportive efforts of characters. On other side the false adages and marriages are mad in hell when mis-matched with few bad choices blacked by more dogly in-fights & misguided by destructive defects of character.

9. When guided by right logics one can find success, while misguided by fright and tragics one can find ruckus. What is that we are searching for logic or magic.. that is what we will see.. We will See what we are See-king. Seek for the truth, seek for peace, seek for tuning on #TuniningInTuesdays.

10. Bandages are made in heaven, as they help2heal (Halal). While damages are made in hell as they hurt2harm (Haram). Inshah Allah if all are in tune with the almighty heart, the world will surely be a tuned place. #TuningTuesdays /grp

11. I am a born Hyderabadi, my hydra like tentacles of neurons spread far and wide across the mindscape, to gather for the heart loving insights messages which bring ordered filtered music to the mind & my G-ders tired off hearing and tolerating the noise of the world. Be in tuned for insights which are hidden in plain sight.

12. I am a conditioned Bengalurean trying to lure people into an utopian dream formed by groupspaces of rationalism(Wewadh) and egalitarianism(HumaRA). A beautiful symphony of truth and harmony which heals many and doesnt harm any.

1. We can be those leaders we always needed in our lives. Developing & making the higher self as the Guru in us, it can be a closer mentor to the lower self. Being the mentor we want for our self’s growth. appo deepo bhava. Here is a Motivational Video.

2. Who are our leaders? Leaders are ones who are fearless to be peerless in staying ahead of their old-self each day. Ones who think and link things to oneself such that it benefits every others selves. Ones who may have the principles of the great poet akka mahadevi to have & practice intellectual openess & nudity. And the guts of Socrates, and da Vinci’s invincibility.

3.Honesty is Transparency. To be able for the others to see all that is and what can be. The Naked Truth(Sat) is a Bitter medicine to cure the mass in maya(illusions).

1. We live Life one day at a time.

2. Morning Tips; In Summer Use a Lemony/Sandal Soap for oily skin and in winters use Moisturising & Oily soaps for dry skin(Glycerine).

3. Morning Tips: Drink a Gut cleanser first thing in morning.. Lemon juice, Amla juice, Orange Juice or ACV is good. To stabilize ALKALINITY OF OUR BODY.

At our home we follow a Family culture of being ultra-Vegetarians on Saturdays.

I never understood the logic as a child as I never questioned or thought about it deep enough. As to why all members at our home as well as our relatives need to be purely vegetarian(Plant+Dairy Based Diet) on Saturdays. I may remember the words of my parents telling me it’s a spiritual day dedicated to Lord Vishnu and we need to visit a Vishnu temple for prayers on this day. Also as our community our grandparents and relatives are Vaishnavas by lineage we need to follow this strictly.

And another Satvik influence in a strange coincidence is I studied and was encouraged in a satvik way at a protestant Seventh Day Adventist School(Saturday-Sabbath)of Bengaluru. Where I heard teachers promote benefit of vegetarianism also we had a speech contest in which I spoke (With mentoring from a beloved teacher Mr.Singh K Anthony Sir(Maldives), He saw something in me which I nor anyone in my circle did. Sir thank you for your coaching you were the best Bio-Science Teacher). He mentored my speech on the topic is “Vegetarianism a boon or bane”. I did lil research on the topic with my parents(Docs) as well as wrote a note which SingK sir upgraded. I won the second best speech on my debut extempore on stage it was a pleasure to win. Also won an Essay Writing Contest in the same Temperance Contest.

Its pleasing to have these trophies on shelf at home as encouragement to Speak and Write.

I was encouraged to follow veganism by Runner Arun @IISc also by my laughter yogaTherapy colleagues Tiffany Floyd(Indiana-US) and Inna(Frankfurt Gmny).

So I believe I’m at my Satvik Best on Satvik Saturdays. As my energies are focused on spiritual satisfaction.

By following spiritual Saturdays, helps me being a Veganish Reducetarian on weekdays and on some Saturdays even going on a one meal fast.

GRP-GeneralRhetoricPoetry

Saturday is the day for sattva,

Satvik is the way for saturation,

Practicing it we know the mehatva,

Stoic is the way of satisfaction.

This Day (26/12/20) I hereby launch a new idea to improve the satvicness of my life by promoting #SatvicSaturdays. To know more do read my PRASADH health Model Post.

9/1/21(Sat) Yesterday saw the trailer of a kannada movie KGF2.. and 3 weeks back while riding bike as I crossed Swami vivekananda metro station I had a thought on a dialogue from the movie “Powerful people come from powerful places”. I had a question so what about powerful places? Where does it come from rather who creates it. Then I related that powerful places are created by powerful people. This is exactly what I heard yesterday in the trailer.

And I dared to question a step further how are powerful people created or what creates powerful people? I got an answer its Powerful Principles that create Powerful people first internally which manifests externally.

What are the principles and values that define you my dear G-der.

The values which I want to define with self are Genuineity, Rationality & Prosperity(GRP).

GRP.