For Humanism, Indians, Bengalureans & IIScians: We Grow Resourceful Purpose_SpAces: Collaborate with Mitrallys wanting to know, Grow & Help Futureones Grow.
3. Inter-Personal & Critical Reasoning (Moral Reasoning): Legal Reasoning in common law and decision making. Arts, Administrative & Business Reasoning at Higher levels.
10 Ways of Looking at a Coin & Things. #TenTypesOfSeers. #SidesofCoin Depends on the Morphology of the Coins and the Idea-ology of the Seers.
The 1.Non-lookers to the 10.All-lookers on the “Looking/Seers-Spectrum.”
10th Type of seeing can help in discovering the paths from Toxic Drama to Positive-Optima, from Trauma to Enigma. This page is dedicated to our superheros Dr.Strange and Mr.Spiderman. who can see the world in multi dimensionally and not be Polarized.
If people lookout for each other’s back, then we are more collectively & mutually-protected. If there are less good-seers in society there will be more blind-spots of societies where social-accidents like Traffic accident can happen in more dark places. On the contrary if more good-researchers there can be less Knowledge-gaps or ditches on the paths of lives.
Question: How Many Sides does a Coin have? Heads & Tails and what else?… How many Sides are there to a story?
Many will answer Coin has 2 sides.. what’s ur Answer & Why? 2, 3, 5…
This page will bust the Myth that a coin has just 2 Sides.. Heads & Tail..
it has minimum 3 Sides.. if counting the edge between the 2 sides too. And even deeper it’s got 5-sides if considering the rounder corner-edges & under a Microscope it has n-number of or Infinite-# of Sides/Surfaces.
Similarly many topics, narratives and subjects have multi-sides and dimensions like a spider web diagram. One can expand their limiting monocular thinking to be a free-thinker with multi-POV Looking.
Multi Spider-View Thinking.
The way the World looks at you depends on the way you look at the world. The Seesha(Mirror) ka Shiksha, Mirrorly-Education , The Worlds-Missions slowly-minutely Mirrors our World-Visions. Good Seers are good Fore-seers and All-seers.
Page Purpose: Listing out different kinds of looking and lookers based on the time spent using the types of looking a brain develops that kind of prominent mental-frame, mindset, attitude and behaviours & life. All-Seers may have a chance to See More-Wider, more deeper-sharper & have Holistic-Harmonising views of things than viewers near to Non-Seers.
0. The Non-Looking(Non-Lookers): This type of looking is not wanting to look at things. Just stopping from looking out for knowledge, Self or others. Its 99% of the time we are practicing this type of looking that is not look at anything for widening perspectives or wisening visions. This Non-looking attitude is similar to Non-living and non-loving things. The non-Conscious is Non-looking. They perceive less than 1% of the realities.
1. The Away_lookers: When seeing any issue or problem if the primary reaction or response is to look away. This type of seeing may perceive less than 5% of the Persono-Social Issues-problems & Deeper-Realities.
2. The Onlooking(On-Lookers) Semi-Side Lookers: These types of lookers keep on-looking at things and events. Just like any other only witnessing the happenings and passing by. When a problem happens on road this kind of people pull out their mobiles to take videos and not wanting to see how they can help. They may perceive upto 25% of the Social-Realities and assume remaining falsities. These are the most vulnerable as the half-knowledge is most dangerous.
All-lookers and Saintians are looking to Prevent All-crimes & Cyber-Crimes in India & Beyomd..
3. The Up & Downlookers: These Types of People look up to certain people and look down on certain people (Polarizing-Dicriminatory Vision). The Peer-looker looks at people as equals and his peers (Equitizing-Equanimous Vision). The Cultic Mindsets do this to further the Othering of the fairers & Selfing of the unfairers. May intend to see 30% of the realities. Eg: In a Coin seeing only the Number value of the coin on one side.
4. The Narrow & Shallow-lookers (The DystemsThinking) The one Side Thinkers. The thinking is to look for their own self-interests only limited and isolated to me, mine and myself. May get to 50% of the realities.
5. The Outward or Inward Lookers:(Introspective) These type of looking is to look outside the personality for acquiring and possessing things or to looking inwards to self-observe & self-growth. May reach 55% of immediate Social-Realities.
6. The Deep & Wide lookers (The Systems Thinking): Both-Side Thinking. This is the Big & more resolution looking. Seeing the big picture of People, things & events. With this looking we can see Both Sides of the Coin. 50% of All-Looking. Eg: Seeing Both Sides of coin Head and tails. Probability: https://youtu.be/5BIpCtwZHys
What is a ‘Side’? One continuous surface bounding the solid coin.
7. The Past-Presentlooker:(Retrospective-Seers) The focus of looking is on the past and the present events. Retrospective. One can see that some coins had 4 Sides in the past (2 faces + 2 Edges Outer and Inner=4 Sides): https://www.money.org/museum-masterpiece/rai-stones
8. The Present-Future looker.(Prospective-Seers) The focus of looking is on the present and future events. 75% of All-Looking Level. May reach out to level to see the coin has 3-sides.. the edge also is a side, which sometimes falls in a toss. Isn’t it?. Futuristic the Bitcoins has zero-sides and mined at multiple sites.
9. The Positive-Negative lookers. Thelooking is for the negatives and neutrals of People, Place, & Things. Sharing pessimism & toxicity in environments increasing the Mistrust & Distancing.
while the more positive-looking sees the positives of People, Places, Things & Systems. This looking creates Better Systems, reforms and Positive-Integrative Culture of Trust. This looking can help one reach 75% of Looking-Level. Eg, May see the coin has 4 sides, the Outer and the Inner sides
10. The All-lookers (All-Seers): This kind of lookers Look at_All (People, Things & Events), look with_All & look out for_All. As he/she/tse is progressing through all the above 9 types of seeing while connecting with more genuine_sources & tested_methods of Knowledge of the All(Theories of Every_things) and is wanting to get closer & merge with the All. This Looking can help in accessing 100% of Social-Realities. Eg: under the MicroScope the coin has multiple Micro-Sides on the etchings of numbers and valleys.. and on surfaces too isn’t smooth having Infinite-Sides. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=WlnRkSLGAwc
Conclusion: There are multiple ways of looking at things using less limits the thinking and the more types one uses the more capable seeing-skill the person can acquire.
1.Our Seeing_Observing may be aided by instruments like lensed-tools like telescopes, microscope, periscope.. etc or by Sensed Instruments like Radar, Sonar, Thermometer, Radiation Guages etc..& aided by people, groups & places like College and Universities; but most important part is the Open_Scientific_Curious Learning Mind without which all instruments are useless. Active PFCortex & stable EmotioHormonal-Config. (Optima+Enigmatic_Virtous Spiraling)
2. Or our Looking_Seeing can be hindered by distance or dust of bias, logical_fallacy, prejudice or closed_Unscientific_irrational & Fearing_mind, More active Reptilian_Brain & unstable EmotioHormonal-Config (Drama+Trauma_Vicious Cycling)
There IS everywhere the All. In Tamizh ‘all’ means person(Sm-all or Tall). In Islam its Allah. The All-mighty nature_existence is All-seeing(Omniscient), All-being(Omnipresent), All-doing(Omnipotent) and wanting to add one more here All-Evolving (Omni_Transformant)(GRPword).
This page is Dedicated to the All-looking All-Lookers.. Its due to them we see more harmony of All-Ideas, All-Sciences, All-Arts, All-Colors, All Rhythms & All-Flavours with All-Humanities.
Mirage of Mirrors.ssumptions if informed from wrong source becomes mis-assumptions.. and from right source becomes righTrue-assumptions.
Your Future Societies depend on this 3S-Ratio. Qstn: Where do we Stand Now & Where are we heading?
Target Audience of this Post: For those Brains which want to Grow ThySelves.
What is the current “Saintic: Static: Satanic Humans-Ratio”? (3S Ratio of Societies: Chart-1). The trend on the Crime-line & Time-line depends on this very neurological feature in the brains called the Mirror-Neurons (Dysfunctionality of this becomes the “Terror-Neurons” G-Word).
#Trendency of Society Depends On Tendency of Societicians (NearOnes/Mitras who create the Society)
Chart-1: 3S Tendency-Ratio Of Societies. One Side of Chart Has Higher Empathic-Brains Networks vs Higher Narcisstic-Brains Networks.
The Greeks Phrase of “Know ThySelf” is an easy short instruction the beginning of Self-understanding. But how to know Thyself? is a difficult and ardous question that is of utmost importance. Even Maslow’s Needs-Pyramid has Self-Actualization as the top of the Pyramid. This is the Keystone the Apex-Idea to Selfs-Realization or Selfs-Improvement or Selfs-Growth.
The Most Important part of our Body which makes us Human, the root of the Selfs is the Brain. And the most important part of the brain is the Prefrontal Cortex and the most important neuron-network in the brain is the “Mirror-Neurons”. This is what can make you or anyone a saint, human or a criminal.
With more increasing Capacity for empathy in the brain(Personal,Familial & Social) the Personalities can become Selfless- Inclusive of Others, Accommodative, Co-operative, reformant and Helping-Collaborative. More-Democratic & Egalitarian Brains-Network.
The lesser the emapathic-ability of the brain(Personal, Familial & Social) Personalities become less Selfless more Ego-ish or Exclusive, Isolatory, Idolatry, UnCooperative, de-dormant and Hurting-Competative. More-Supremacistic and Tyrannical Brains-Network.
1. Individual Personal-Brain is your Physical Brain. Your Personality is not independent its Brain-dependent.
2. Familial/Group Brain is the linked Brains in your immediate close-circles. Like your Parents, Relatives, lover, spouse, peers and close-groups. So Your Relational-Personality depends on who we connect with and disconnect from.
3. Social-Brain is the larger Brain-Networks. Can extend to the Global Brain also reflected in the Zeitgeist and internet. This is the creation of the Menta-verse. The Mind-verse. Our Worlds-Personality depends on this the Global-Family, Vasudaiva Kudumbakam.. The Gaia-Consciousness.
This is a Saintic-Brain: Saint Ramana Maharishi From Thiruvannamalai_India: “More Self-ing of Others”
If The Greeks made statement now they may want to rephrase it as “Know ThySelves”.. the Wise Greeks have Reincarnated and incorporated as the Geeks in modern time.. The Acropolis is the Current Digitalopolis. Or even Know Thy Digital-Self. “Aham Digitalasmi.“
And the bible said the meek shall inherit the earth. May be rephrased as the geek shall inherit the Digital-earth.
Global Peace = Higher Mirror Neurons in Individuals, Family and Social-Networks, & DigitoBiosystems. Resonance of the Happy-World.
Global Pieces = Lower Mirror Neurons Active in People, Dys-Families & Fragmented Societies & DigitoBioSystems.. End of the Happy-World
This is a Satanic-Brain; Notice the Other-ing.. The Saintic Brain will Transmit like below. More Other-ing & Bothering of Self+Others
Rephrasing from his brain if it was connected in Nazi-party from when he was child to more empathic-Parent/Teacher/Guardians from Empathic-Neural_Networks.
All great Human Movements are Purposeful Movements. They are the simultaneous blooming of trees of human excellence and empathy, inspiring action by the blessed Goddess of Wisdom or by the lamp of the rationally-spoken words presented to minds of the people._ Gudolf Hiealer Doctator not Dictator of Germany.
Bonus Question.
Which Pet can kill the owner Reptilian_Snake or a Mamalian_Dog or a Primate_Monkey??
Answer. All 3 pets can harm and kill the owners but the degree of the death depends on the Mirror_Neurons Structure in brain
#SpectrumOf Skins. How to Get Fairer in 5 Mins? Read this Post..
A very important concept for life is about Fairness.
Fairness_Awareness and practice can reduce worlds bitterness.
Do you have a darker or lighter skin does it matter to our life, Relationships & Maritals?
What matters is the SparK_wIthiN.. Inspired from Abdul Kalam (Dark-Skinned Bahujan genes with the memes of Spark-within to Ignite Minds), Gandhi, MLK, Nelson Mandela, Obama, many other darker skinned humanity and my Grandmas, Relatives and Friends who have Darker Skins but Fairer-Minds and Redder-Hearts…. Darkness(Tamasoma) is not matter of skin, what matters is the spark of humanity (Jyothirgamaya) within.
1. Fair & Lovely (Face-Cream) Vs Fair & Logically (Race-Dream). VS Fair & HumanelyOintment (Grace-Cream).
Whether it’s by eating Badam, Saffron applying Turmeric or Creams; which is the best way to be more Fair and achieve More_Fairness in societies? (Rhetoric)
We see the world moving towards more unfairness, conflicts gets polarized instead of being resolved and lot of fractures and irreversible changes happen.
The problem we can see is in schools and college we can learn about more Material-Sciences (Physics, Chemistry, Biology-Medical Science, Computers… etc) & also about Arts and Commerce (Language, History, Geography, Finances Banking, etc) and also Humanities (Psychology, Law, Political Studies).. but few Critical Subjects are Missing which brings in us a lack in the system.
This lack is what may be a gap in our social-fabric which may translate to general lack in fairness.
To be fair is to be impartial to be free of bias, logical fallacies, presumptions, unreasonable-assumptions.
Now how can we do that.
There are 3 methods towards being fair to fairness.
1. Understand Ones and peoples Implicit-Bias. Think Are you are fair and not Biased? verify how much we may be biased here.
There are different spaces, places and groups with levels of Rationalness dependent on their Rationality-Awareness and Practice of Scientific-Methods.
When we are aware of the 3 points above we can be more fair in life and spread more fairness.
Regards,
Yours EmpathicAlly.
Empathic-Skeptic Prasad
I too am on a journey to be more fair to life, Multiple Times life has been unfair, that’s what motivates me to search for more fairness and fair places, spaces and connect with fair people and principles in life.
Mirror Mirror on the worlds wall, Tell me who is the fairest of them all.? The most fair person I have found is Aristotle.
The RMC-Triad of Fairness: Get Fair & Rationally(Within) or Fair & Lovely(WithSkin).. ur choice.
A1. Context: 2nd Sunday of May is Celebrated as International Mothers’ Day, Similarly the next month 3rd Sunday of June is celebrated as Fathers’ Day. This post is dedicated to my Mother Dr. Gowri and my parents’ Mothers (Subba-Lakshmi & Ponnachi).
My mom is one who is an Empathic, loving, caring and Spiritual Mother spirited like Mother_Yashodhara of Krishna, like Mother Mary of Jesus, Like Mother of Buddha. Very unlike smothers; Kaikesi of Ravana or mother of Judas or mother of Devadatta (Buddhas Anti-thesis) . #KindsOfMotherness. #KindsofFatherness.
I thank and am grateful to my Honorable Mother Gowri (Gowram means Honor).. She is one Who gave me this life, body and healthy childhood till 6years in collaboration with my dad and family.
A2. 23+ Kinds of Mothers described & explored. The Mothers-BiSpectrum.
Amma, Ma, Aai, Annai, Mother many words one feeling caring related to love, nurturing, sharing, femininity, empathy and more such positive words for the lucky children.. eg like our motherland Bharat-Mata ki jai..(for child of India) Children grow as responsible Citizens Ideal Global Humans. CEOs of MNCs, Prime Ministers of Colonial Nations.. etc.. good Empathic-mo(fa)thers and motherlands help create Rational-collaborative-Constructive Minds of kids.
& for the unlucky children it’s related to abusing, Child-Neglect, slavery, Hate-mindsets, irrational-competition, Narcississtic-Home, Possessive-Mind Control, Cultic-Domination and power, like Pakista-Mata ki Bhay. Exporters of Terrorism, Safe Haven for the Talibani,..etc.. Bad Narc-Mo(fa)thers create by replication worser irrational-Conflictive-ConfrontationalMinds of Kids… this leads to the Mother Wound.
The Kind of mother& father you get determines how you were nurtured as a child and what kind of family-choices you made & are making now. Also Kind of personality of your Mother-in Law you have will determine your spouse’s bio-psychological & moral character and role-modeling as the next mother/father in your clan (it can be constructive or destructive depends on mother’s nature as created by mother-nature). A Mother Creates another mother with her daughter, and a father creates another father through his son(exceptions for trans-intersex).
Basically there are 2 Kinds of Categories of Mothers:
1. Based on Physiology (Related to Body/Genes.) 1.Uteral-Natal,
Our Biological-Mothers are the human-females who are givers of half-Part of Our Body (DNA), Place(Womb), Food &/ Natal-care, which reared our Biological-Father’s gamete and made it into our body and Physical-Brain. Eg: Devki Mother of Krishna, Kaikesi Ravanas mother, Klara Hitler’s mother. Pauline-Koch Einstein’s Mother…etc. Mostly 90+% of motherhood. Exception a Father (Man)Bennet-Kaspar who became a Biological-Mother.
Our Sociological-Mothers are human-females who are the ones who give us part of our-mind way of thinking, Ideology, world view, culture & social/spiritual life, circles & capital. Eg: Yashoda Adoptive-Mother/ Foster-Mother of Krishna. Anjelina Jolie, Ekta-Kapoor, Mother Theresa, Dadis of BhramaKumaris …etc. 10+% of motherhood modern trend increasing.
It maybe more a Man’s-World outside at Labouring-Risks, (Agriculture, Industries, National-Defence, army..etc). More Leadership@Work-World: Testosterone-Driven Traits. Titled as Fr. =Father. Eg. Fr. Gandhi and Fr. Ambedkar & Br. =Brother
while deeply it’s more a Women’s-Family inside at Labour-pain risk (Homes, Residences, Matriarchal-Families, Neighbhorhoods, Communities..etc) More Leadership@Home-World. Estrogen-Driven Traits. Mtr. Kasturba or Mtr. Ramabhai & Str.= Sister, Str. Nivedita, Str. Florence Nightingale.
Biochemically a body which has Testes producing more testosterone is more a male body and a body with ovaries producing more estrogen is a female body. A other
1. Your DNA(X &Y Chromesomes) determines your Sex & Gender and
2. Your reproductive-glands-Hormones determine your Sexuality & orientation.
3. Your Family-Culture & Ideology determines your Gender-Morality(Misandry/Misogyny) & Gender-Justice (Toxic-Feminism/Meninism).
How many Kinds of Mothers does Mankind Have or Make? Trying to classify to demystify. Wishing Every one Happy Mothers’ Day.
Do share in Comments which Kind of Mother is new knowledge to you?
This Page is Dedicated to my 2 Biological-Grandmother’s, 1 Empathic mother and 4 Family-Mothers(Aunts). Also multiple Spiritual Mothers (Sharada-amma, Auro-Mother, HPB), Academic & Professional Mothers (My Female Teachers & Seniors).
You, me & A Child is a Product of 2 Genes the X-Chromosome(Maternal or Paternal) & Y-(Paternal). And Paternal-Equity or Dominance determines if a person is Balanced or Imbalanced. A healthy person/child is one whos Paternal-Masculine and Maternal-Feminine Influence and energies are equitably in Balance, else it leads to Misogny or Misandry in Kids. Where the Value one Parent and devalue the other. #Parental-Polarisation.
!. Divine–Mother, God-Mother: God The Mother.
From B.G. 9.17_ Photo Courtsy ISKCon Bangalore.
0. The Mother-Nature: Gaia Principle
Mother Land: Our Nation or Country. Bharat-Mata
1. The Natural Birth-Mother: From whom one is born biological. Nurturing-Mother: Who Nurses and rears us up. Adoptive-Mother: One Who adopts as children.
1. (A) GrandMothers– Mothers of Our Parents.
1. (B) God-Mother: like Aunts in India are also termed Elder-Mother(Dodda amma)/ Younger-Mother(Chickamma) (Elder Sister or younger sister of mothers). in Western concept a close friend of the mother or family.
2. Surrogate-Mother: One who bears the pregnancy of others child.
2.(B) Step-Mother: Wife of Biological Father
3. The Mother Of Languages: Tamil Thai, Kannada-Mathe, etc
4. The Holy Mother: Indian Context: Parvathi mother of Ganesh & Skanda and Hindus, Shakthi, MariAmman, European: Mary Amma,
5. The Western Mother: Parenting by Western Values and Cultures.
6. The Indian-Mother(Asian): Parenting based on Indian-Culture & Values.
Like VishnuSahasranama this is Matha_Sahasranama or multiple names of Mother.. Like Mothers have different range and shades of personalities some are from White, grey and black too..
GQ: *What kinds of Mother would kill by poison daughter’s classmate because he was topping the class??..*
Clue: there are 3 kinds of mothers who would do it.?
Try Answering it if You have can identify the types of mothers.
Answer: 1. The Narcissitic Mother 2. The Competitive-Misandric Mother 3. The Possessive-Mother.
Any more kinds of mothers can highlight in comments..
We Bet you may have not Known the *“latest and rarest kind of mother”(D-mother)* listed in the Blog.. if u knew about it shall put ur name in the page Below.
List of People Who Knew about the Latest & Rarest Kinds of mother before reading this page here.
3. Addendum Power of Mothers to Change Nations: Happy Mothers Day 2023 To all,
I think Congress victory today in Karnataka India more credits goes to 2 high profile mothers however controversial they may be 1. Indira Gandhi & 2. Sonia Gandhi.. note how DKS (CM Candidate).. cried that S.G visited him in Tihar. Similarly Jayalalitha was felt as Mother to T.N called Amma, though they may have used fairly or misused the public trust it’s a different Issue dependent on perspectives.. Going beyond Party lines, even AAP and Congress in Karnataka giving free bus tickets to all Women.. shows the importance of Gendered_politics involved can win elections.
The regions & demographics with highest fertility rates will drive the next gen national politics as it creates more ideologues_voters. Congress winning is the result of contribution of political parents especially Birthing_Mothers for providing more voters to their particular demographics.
The first teacher of politics in family is the mother later only come others. It can be positive politics(Empowering kids to think based & rationally) or negative politics(Disempowering kids by inducing biases in children).
Know more about Different kinds types of mothers.. there are 23+ types in 2023..
To all mothers on life.. You are creating the world in through you. What world the next gen created is highly dependent on current women.
When a dynasty is destroyed, its traditions get vanquished, and the rest of the family becomes involved in irreligion. BG 1.41: With the preponderance of vice, O Krishna, the women of the family become immoral; and from the immorality of women, O descendent of Vrishni, unwanted progeny are born. An increase in unwanted children results in hellish life both for the family and for those who destroy the family. Deprived of sacrificial offerings, the ancestors of such corrupt families also fall. Source: https://www.holy-bhagavad-gita.org/chapter/1/verse/41
#Marital-SafetyTrainings & #Marital-Licensing & Familial_Certifications for Safer-Marriages & Stronger-families.
Marital Laws need to Mandate Prenuptial Assessments first, that will lead to Prenuptial-agreements & Post-nuptial Happiness.
Like Consumer Protection Act (2019)that helps Citizen-consumers from exploitative Fraud-companies, the “Marriers-Protection-Law” can help global Citizen-Marriers from exploitative false marriages by fraud-families & their Rogue-Agents & Entities by Error-proofing the Marito-legal systems. Derivative of Project_Manavamitras (HuMANitarians-India).
Familians (Collective Family-Holders(Family-First)) Vs Propertians/Moneyians or Selfians or Materialians (Property/Money/Materials First).
A subordinate act to The CCPA.. Comprehensive Citizens Protection Act. 2030.
What May be solutions?? Marital_Sciences, Maritology, Marital_Design, The Art, Science & Humanities of Family_Making & Clanning.
To protect citizens from Irrationality, Frauds, Criminality, immorality, corruption and evilization of civilization.. We propose.. Citizens Protection Act as a Sub-Act/law we have below the “Marriers Protection Act.”
Protection Needs to be at all 4 Stages of Marriages.
Focussing on Married Life.. develops as Pre-nuptial & Marital
1. Assessment (1-10 Months)
Agreement (1-2 Months)
Arrangement (1-2 Months)
Achievement..(Post Marriage)
Ascension Or Annullment Later Steps are based on earlier
Questions this post will help you answer: Q1. Which is the most Safest (Riskless) and Secure (Protected) legal-marriage? OPTIONS 1. Christian-marriage (Western Euro-Colonial Biblical Based), 2. Muslim-Marriage (Mid Eastern Arabic-Sharia Based), 3. Hindu-Marriage (Indian HMA-Based Jain,Buddhist, Sikh..etc) or 3. Irreligious-Registered Marriage (InterNational/Inter-Religious, Special Marriage Act(India) based), 4. Tribal/Live-in Copycat Marriages (Pop Cult-Culture/Biology/Ad-hoc, Elopement/ Sexuality based) uncommissioned/unsocialized.
Q2. How to create & sustain Happy, Safe, Secure & Prosperous Marital Relationships in Society for Publics & Pubics Welfare?
An Idea for a Better Marital-India through 5M Marital-Protocols for #Marital-Safety, #Marital-Security and #Marital-Insurance. #Indian Marital-Culture Family-Socio Reforms. #Marital-Reforms.
#Theory Of Maritality for better ways for Logical-Compatibility than Astroillogical-compatibility. Bilateral Roles, Assets and Liabilities disclosure & pre-nup Covenant Compliance.
Insights from Maritology (Study of Marriages) and Divorce-ology (Study of Divorces).
Which are more reliable marriages Arranged or Love Marriages?.
Neither.. most reliable and safer marriages are Covenant-Marriages. Through marital-schools, Training, Tests, Marital-Exams, Certification, and MRP..(Marital-Recruitment & Placements). Quality-Placements in Qyality-Families/Communities.
Are Marriages made in Heaven or Hell or at Homes?..
My Answer: this depends on 2 factorials 1. Biologically on both the Marriers & 2. Sociologically on the Ideo-Systems of the agencies(families) creating the agents. If there is Malignancy and incompetence of ignorance/innocence even in one of the Marital-Agents or their Ideology then its Hell and if there is High Benevolence in both the Agents & Ideo-systems then its Heaven.
“Marriages aren’t made in heaven nor unmade in Hell, they are made by constructive Socio-Religio-Biological systems & broken by destructive marital-risk factors in the system”- GRP
This MPA Act can save pain of many Lives/Families/Marriages/Losses by 1.Prevention of the Social-Pains of Sad Broken Risky-Relations/Marriages/Families & 2. Promotion of successful happy Safer-Relations/Marriages/Families. Can Reduce the Globally high Divorce/Seperation Rates(Due to Red Hot-Marriages/#Malignant-Marriages) & increase the Occurance of Healthy & Happy Marriers & Non-Marriers & nations due to Violet-Blue Cool-Marriages.
This post-idea is Dedicated to the Safe_Marital_India of which you, our parents, Relatives, Friends & me are products, partners & promoters. This is a vision act from Indian Institute of Maritology. (Study Of Marriages & Marital-Unions). This can be Worlds First Maritologists_Group. Marriage_Counsellors are found inadequate good for the larger_demands and the irreversable-severity.. The Marital-World Needs more Science of Maritalology and Marrytologists.
Key-Concepts: #Marital-Safety& Future-Protection. #BetterWayofMaritalChoices; #Marital_Injustice vs Marital_Justice. Unchaste/Unjust Family-Members, #Marital-Frauds Prevention_Programme, Advanced Research in Maritology.(Science of Marriages)(GRP-Word).
Just like us Indians who are Consumers are Protected by the Consumer Protection Act..2019.. In this place is a vision for Global-Marriers (Ones who Marry/Live-in lovers) who take the Indian-Marital Services.. are to be protected by Indian Marriers Protection Act of 2030.
Our Global_Social Problems: International Relationship-failures, Global Broken-Families, Psuedo_Single Parenting, Child-Alienation(PAS), Marital-Violence, more Love-Crimes(Love-Jihadism by Sabotage, Alienation, Conversion & Termination). Adultery & Divorce_Rates are trending Higher globally Loss to Citizens & Nations due to high-problematic, Failing, Broken and Dysfunctional, Criminal people, families & Communities. More Toxic-Genderism (by all 3Genders) Dishonor-Killings, Home-icides, False-Dowry Cases, Real_Rapes & also Fake_Rape Cases, Marito-Legal Terrorism, Fatherless-Society, LoveFraud-Suicides, Narc-Spouse_Abuse… etc
5. SociaLegal-Fitness (GharJamai-Types, Family-Traitors, KulDrohgis, Love-Jihad, False-Prosecutors, Ex Convicts, Criminal, Serial Litigants/Abusers) 6. Spiritual-Fitness: Ideology and Religio-politics _Compatibility(High Materialistic-Money minded with zero Spiritual values to be Avoided for ones Marital-safety)
If 5-fitness not fulfilled with proposed-spouse or family may be seen unfit and risky for marriage. (This is Rational/Scientific-Matrimony not Astrological Fake-Science Based.) If all 5 Marital-Fitness 6Gunam-Poruthams(Tamil for 6 multiCharacters-Compatibility) ok then Safer.
2. GRPs, 5 Level Family/”Marital-Status Assesment Scale” or Marital-Rainbow : From Low Marital-Risk/Conflict Level 1(CoolBlue-Marriage/MGTOW)(Most-Secure) to 2(Green-Secure), 3(Yellow-Neutral), 4(Orange-Failing) to High Marital-Risk/Conflicts 5(HotRed-Marriage_Failed). Toxic and Difficult/Dominating Families tend towards Hot-Red Marriages.
3. Better protection for Inter-Ideological Marriages (Religion, Caste, Class, Morality, etc).. When there are 11 and more new Grounds For Divorce What Should be the Reasonable-Grounds for Good-Marriage.
Social SolutionAs a Public Policy: Just like Indian Consumer Protection Act 2019 (click link) Safeguards the Interests of Consumers with ‘Caveat Emptor‘. Similarly ‘Marrier Protection Act 2030‘ envisions to protect Marriers (Ones who Marry) from Bad/Risky Marriages and Have Safe and Better Marriage Systems. Grps Legal Maxim “Caveat Suitor” or Marriers Beware.
Just like Citizens & Nations loose finances & peace due to Bad Products, Contracts and Services. Similarly It’s huge social loss due to Toxic, Tortious & criminal people, Love-Contracts,Marriages & Divorces.
Hence need for this act to protect Vulnerable from criminal People and Toxic_Marriages and for a Brighter Family Future for India.
Below is the Proposed Act inspired from ConSumer Protection Act2019. projected to Consummated Maritals Protection Act 20##..
1 THE GLOBAL-Indians MARRIER PROTECTION ACT, 2030.(Draft_Proposal)
ARRANGEMENT OF SECTIONS Last Updated:05-05-2022
CHAPTER I PRELIMINARY SECTIONS
Short title, extent, commencement and application.
Definitions. CHAPTER II MARRIERS PROTECTION COUNCILS.
Global Marriers Protection Council.
Procedure for marriages fo Marital Council.
Objects of Marital Council.
State Marrier Protection Councils.
Objects of State Council.
District Consumer Protection Council.
Objects of District Council. CHAPTER III CENTRAL MARRIER PROTECTION AUTHORITY
Establishment of Central Marrier Protection Authority.
Qualifications, method of recruitment, etc., of Chief Commissioner and Commissioners.
Vacancy, etc., not to invalidate proceedings of Central Authority.
Appointment of officers, experts, professionals and other employees of Central Authority.
Procedure of Central Authority.
Investigation Wing.
Power of District Collector.
Complaints to authorities.
Powers and functions of Central Authority.
Power of Central Authority to refer matter for investigation or to other Regulator.
Power of Central Authority to recall Love-affairs & Marriages , etc.
Power of Central Authority to issue directions and penalties against false or misleading Tinder & Marriage Profiles.
Search and seizure.
Designation of any statutory authority or body to function as Central Authority.
Appeal.
Grants by Central Government.
Accounts and audit.
Furnishing of annual reports, etc. CHAPTER IV Marrier DISPUTES REDRESSAL COMMISSION
Establishment of District Marrier Disputes Redressal Commission.
More to add after Consultations of Maritology.
An Act to provide for protection of the interests of consumers/Marriers/Lovers and for the said purpose, to establish authorities for timely and effective administration and settlement of Consumers’/Marriers/Lovers disputes and for matters connected therewith or incidental thereto. BE it enacted by Parliament in the Seventieth Year of the Republic of India as follows:— CHAPTER I PRELIMINARY 1. Short title, extent, commencement and application.—(1) This Act may be called the Marrier Protection Act, 2030. (2) It may extend to the whole of World & India as per the Utility of Global-Citizenry. (3) It shall come into force on such date1 as the Global Citizens and Marriers may, by Acceptance, application & notification, appoint and different dates may be appointed for different States and for different provisions of this Act and any reference in any such provision to the commencement of this Act shall be construed as a reference to the coming into force of that provision. (4) Save as otherwise expressly provided by the Global Humanity, by notification, this Act shall apply to all Marriers and marital-services. 2. Definitions.—In this Act, unless the context otherwise requires,— (1) “Marital-advertisement” Bio-Data, Tinder-dating or Matrimony- app, Media, FB Profile means any audio or visual publicity, representation, endorsement or pronouncement made by means of light, sound, smoke, gas, print, electronic media, internet or website and includes any notice, circular, label, wrapper, invoice or such other documents motivated to see Spouse or Prospects for affairs; (2) “appropriate marital-laboratory” means a laboratory or an organisation— (i) recognised by the Marriers Council; or (ii) recognised by a State Government, subject to such guidelines as may be issued by the Central Government in this behalf; or (iii) established by or under any law for the time being in force, which is maintained, financed or aided by the Central Government or a State Government for carrying out analysis or test of any person with a view to determining whether such marriers or Marital-services suffer from any character or biological defects; (3) “branch office” means— (i) any office or place of work described as a branch by the establishment; or (ii) any establishment carrying on either the same or substantially the same activity carried on by the head office of the establishment; (4) “Central Authority” means the Central Marrier Protection Authority established under section 10; (5) “Marital_Relational- complainant” means— (i) a marrier(One who Marries); or (ii) any of the Aggrieved Marital-Family Members or voluntary marriers welfare association/groups.
(9) “Marrier rights” of Citizens includes,– (i) the right to be protected against the marketing or Marital-contracting of persons, families or clans which are hazardous to Marriers socio-mental life and property; (ii) the right to be informed about the family or Persons quality, quantity, impotency, purity, standard and of Spouse, Spousal-circles or relevant communities, as the case may be, so as to protect the marrier against unfair marital practices (Like Spousal-Abuse, Desertions or Fraud-Litigations); (iii) the right to be assured, wherever possible, access to a variety of persons, familes or Marital services at competitive values & prices; (iv) the right to be heard and to be assured that marrier’s interests will receive due consideration at appropriate for a; (v) the right to seek redressal against unfair marital practice or restrictive marital practices or unscrupulous exploitation of marriers; and (vi) the right to Proper complete “Marital Awareness;” (10) “Marital-defect” means any fault, imperfection or shortcoming in the character, quality, quantity, impotency, Moral purity or standard which is required to be maintained by or under any law for the time being in force or under any contract, express or implied or as is claimed by the marrier in any manner whatsoever in relation to any characters, persons or familes and the expression “defective” shall be construed accordingly; (11) “Marital-deficiency” means any fault, imperfection, shortcoming or inadequacy in the quality, nature and manner of performance which is required to be maintained by or under any law for the time being in force or has been undertaken to be performed by a Marrier, Marrier-Couples and their families+friends in pursuance of a marital-contract or otherwise in relation to any marital service and includes— (i) any act of negligence or omission or commission by such marital-persons which causes loss or injury to the marrier; and (ii) deliberate fraudulent withholding of relevant information by such person to the marrier; shall be co-liable also community-arranged marriages needs Absolute-Liability of the Spouses-Circles, Matrimonial-Agents and Brokers(Bhartha-Matrimony, Shaadi-Barbaadi.com, Jeevan-Haathi.com(No one wants to see the growing White Elephant calf… etc) Marrier_Community or communities.
4. Parallels for CPA, MPA can have Biological & Sociological Best Before & Date for Marriers Services (Non-Reproductive timeline Menopause(Men,Woman,Trans) .. also Like Customer-Feedback & Reviews of Products & Services.. Similarly there can be Marriers-Feedback & Reviews/appraisals for suitors, clans & citizens.
Q: What are the Chances someone will commit fraud on you or your nearones(Papaya2Pepper) or file a false allegation case on you even if you & your family+friends are Innocent?
Ans: The chances Depends on 2 main factors 1. You and your close circles Ignorance of the criticality of Due_Diligence processes & Un_awareness of Vulnerabilities & Risks. (HomoSapien_HypoFrontality ). 2. The Malignity of the abusers and their close circle’s Criminality (Reptilian_Neuroticism) aided by the Slack-Systems being engaged.
#Frauds2FratsSpectrum
Find difference between Alleviators & Alligators?
Your Personal, Family & Social, Fraternity, National Happiness Index Depends on the “Alligator: Allies: Alleviator Ratio” Specifically the “Alleviator:Alligator” INDEX or Frauds(Unethical+Irrational) : Frats(Ethical_Rationalists) of your 3-NearCircles.
KeyConcepts: False_Allegations, Alligators or Crocodiles Reptilian_Brained.
Why do people do False Allegations, Fake Accusations & Malicious Prosecution?
An Urgent Need For Indian Institute of ConScience & Humanism. Research into Conscience, Compassion and Happiness. #Happiness_Equation.DOCTRINE OF CareMa (Karma 2.0).
How to Convert Ahankaras (Personal-Egos/Material-Supremacism) to Ahumkaras (Community-LetsGos/Social-Empathism)?
Basic Premise is: Karma 1.0 is an assumptive and mythical ideological principle. Basic premise “Do good, good returns to you.” There is a selfish undertone to it. An Aham brahmasmi (I am the all_creation) gets More AhamKara (MeMe_Thinking). This translates away from Human_humility & towards Narcification & Supremacistic_tendencies ending in OPD (Othering,Oppression, Persecution & Domination)
Instead proposing a revision with more practical and socio-scientific Karma 2.0. Also called Care-ma.
The revision For this Concept is: the more one does good & cares for the community, the more ones get collective prosperity for the Society. Do good and collective good returns to your society. The focus is not selfish_you(Individual) but the groupish_you(Collective). So more aHUM Brahmasmi (We are the Universe) so more Ahumkara (WeWe_Thinking). This translates more to Human_humility, towards deNarcification & Egalitarian_tendencies ending in BPD (BrOthering, Partnearing & Development)
GOD defined in this CARE_mic philosphy is G.O.D= Get Over Delusions to get into rational Re_Visioning of un_rationalized concepts. One attains Godhood like buddha when one gets free of all delusions to become omniScien(ce)t.
Today(3rd May 2022) Being Basava Jayanti& Press Freedom Day, we can be inspired by the ideas and ideals propagated by the great Thinker, Philosopher & reformist Sri Basaweshwara of Bagalkot, Karnataka_India(Bharat). This post is Dedicated to the FreeThinker Basavana & FreeWriters of Indian-Press.
Declaration: The Ideas here are in addition or complementary to existing philosophies and ideologies and not in contradiction or derogation of the highly esteemed and time tested works. The intent is Idealogical welfare of all Indians & Humanity.
The Challenge we as an Indic_society faced in Times of Basavana when he was silenced & De_platformed is happening in current India too.. The General level of Public_Ethics is Declining, Crime, Bias & Diseases are Increasing leading to more Corruption and Oppression of the Innocent & Vulnerables it maybe a majority section by demographics too. Though the Constitution of India Gives us Indians Fundamental Freedom of Speech, the UnReasonable Restrictions have become more due to Polirized policing as seen below.
The Problem as inferred: The Nations Level of IQ (Intelligence) & FQ (Finance) have improved but the Average Levels of Ethics & Conscience have declined in years. Eg. White Collar Crimes VijayMallya Lalit Modi etc & Street Crimes as Shown in KGF, Kerala-ISIS Story(Treason against Indian Constitution).. Story( SOCIAL_NEGLIGENCE Causing NUISANCE to Nation. Chalta Hai(Hindi), Buisness as Casual(English) and Adjust maadi(Kannada) Attitudes, Reducing our International Altitudes(Height of Reputation) .
Ideas Of Basavanna And Buddha can Help us Like:
1. Vachana Dasoha & Dhamma
2. Kayaka & Kamma
3. Sharana-Sangha & Buddha-Sangha
4. Anubhava_Mantapa & Buddha_Vihara.
Two important Principles tested by collective deliberations and consensus.
Personal Spiritual Empowerment
1. Kayakave Kailasa (Work is Worship) -Basavana
2. Dasohave Ullasa (Service is bliss Salvation)
Manas idhare marga is a kannada maxim.
I feel to logically extending it to Manas Idhare Marge, Kanasu idhare swarga (Kannada Saying), it means: Where there is will there is a way, where there is good-vision there is heaven._GRP
Quad-Roots for Stable_Happiness is Through Pure_Desires flowing through Science + Conscience, That links Conscience to Compassion To Betterness (A Feeling of Happiness linked to Bettering, Hope that Life is Getting Better and better.)
The 4 Ingredients in Equation for Better Happiness = Conscience + Empathy + Ethics + Compassion H= (EC) Squared.
India is advancing fairly in the applications of Science and Commerce among public which is contributing to the progress of our nation. What is pulling the nation down is level of Public Conscience and Compassion.
As idea of Blaming_Karma lead to Victim-blaming or Victim-shaming behaviours
Care-ma can lead to Victim-helping behaviours.
This is my observations. Found an insightful source..
Care-ma= Doctrine of Dharma
Spiritually Compassionate Vs Materially Passionate Society. A Compassionate society is Ethics_Centric (Social Benefit Driven while a passionate Society is Finance-Centric.(Private Profit Driven)
GRP_VCare2Dare 