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1. Bose Subhash Chandra.. Netaji Founder-Leader of INA..(Indian National Army), Azaad Hind Fauj. & Bhagat Singh Socialist Martyrs of Indian Freedom Fighting. Learning from ‘Bose the Boss‘ of INA and Indian Freedom Fighters (Radical-Nationalists).. (More Rational & Left wing Ideology..) https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=DjlgfPeHnek
2. Buddha /Basavanna (Reformers & Founders of Religious movement.) The great Buddha created the 3rd largest and most rational religion in Asia. (More Centerist Middle Path)
4. Babasaheb (Law Minister, Constituent assembly chairman for making Indian-Constitution) and Babaji, the guru of Paramahamsa yogananda and RajniKanth. (More Neo-Centerist Ideology)
5. Bodhidharman: A Tamil Buddhist royal who went and preached taught and founded the Great Shoalin school of China and created Zen Buddhism.
There were Path finders, Pact Makers & Prefects with large visions and missions for nation & humanity.. our Tributes to the Great Bearers of Indic_Values and Hopes.
Any More Indian Big Bs in the list you can suggest in the comments.. thanks for reading
More about Bose.
Bose freed India, not Gandhi. 👇
The declassification of the Netaji files sparked off a massive debate on the need to rewrite modern Indian history. Former British prime minister Clement Atlee said that, the role played by Netaji’s Indian National Army (INA) was paramount in India being granted Independence, while the non-violent movement led by Gandhi was dismissed as having had “minimal effect”. British were compelled to grant independence to India, due to the erosion of loyalty to the British crown among the Indian Army and Navy personnel, as a result of the atrocities inflicted on the soldiers of the defeated Azad Hind Fauj (a.k.a. INA).
In India, officers of INA were put on trial for treason, torture, murder. This series of court martials, came to be known as the “Red Fort Trials”. Indians serving in the British armed forces were inflamed by the Red Fort Trials.
In February 1946, almost 20,000 sailors of the Royal Indian Navy serving on 78 ships mutinied (revolted) against the Empire. They went around Mumbai with portraits of Netaji and forced the British to shout Jai Hind and other INA slogans. The rebels brought down the Union Jack on their ships and refused to obey their British masters. This mutiny was followed by similar rebellions in the Royal Indian Air Force and also in the British Indian Army units in Jabalpur.
Eventually the British were terrified. After the Second World War, 2.5 million Indian soldiers were de-commissioned from the British Army. In 1946 the Indian soldiers were inflamed and could not be relied upon to obey their British officers. There were only 40,000 British troops in India at the time. They couldn’t fight the millions of battle hardened Indian soldiers who rose against the Empire. It was under these circumstances that the British decided to grant independence to India.
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3 Types of Parenting & Partnering Styles: Cat, Cuckoo and Dogs Parenting & Partnering Styles.
Diff of Nuclear and Molecular Families?Cat-Mindset & Feline-Familyset vs the Dog-Mindset & Canine_Familyset. FelineVsCanine. CatsVsDogs, Billi Aur Kuttha. Free-radicals Vs Free-Rationals.
#Parenting_Styles_Spectrum.
Why Radicalized Crimes, Dysfunctional family & broken_childhood Rates are increasing? How to reduce them and create more Happy, Harmonic and Integrated Members, Families, Communities & Societies? Family Sub-Atomization of Nuclear families Vs Integrative_Molecularization of Nuclear families.
We at the 4G’s Family had a group Discussion on what are the top 3 Basic factors in Parenting and Family.. (Btw this was an after effect as yesterday we watched a movie called Varisu/Successor). The War for a befitting Varisu by Vijay(Tamizh Movie).
We came up with 3 Factors as the “CAT Parenting Triad.”
Keywords; Nuclear-family & Sub-Atomic_Family, Electronic/String family.. Vs Molecular and Latticed family.
CAT Parenting style (for Nuclear Isolated Families) vs DOG Parenting style (For Joint/ Semi-joint Integrated Families) what’s your required style?
The top 3 Factors we see in a happy parent-child relation and intergenerational family-making are..
1. Care: To care for the child & family member by BiParental-care, medi-care, emotional-care, resource-care.. etc. Most current parenting is limited to providing money to school, daycare or nannies giving indirect care where the locality and parental bonding is built towards third party and hence we see emotionally depressed kids. Less-Direct BiParental Cared kids become CareLess Teens and Dysfunctional Adults in Later Life.
2. Attention: To attend to the needs and give attention (focused dedicated quality time at frequent intervals) to the child and family members. Money can buy Indirect-Care, but BiParental-Attention is irreplaceable and invaluable.
3. Timed-Teaching. To nurture our children with knowledge and train the child by awareness, right culture and values.. most current parents are able to give Indirect-Care (through non-parents) and Delegated-Attention (through nannies and Technology supervision and parental control) but seldom can parental-teaching be replaced by the best teacher in the world. BiParental-Teaching(Both Bio-Socio Parents) is the most important input a child can get in its healthy upbringing and making for an upright life.
Bonus share is other factor like CATL (Care,Attention,Teaching & Love).
Care not to feed Crap to kids.
The difference between cats and dogs are.. the Felines(Cat-Lions Pride) and the Canines(Dog-Wolfs Pack).
1. Cats, CAT-family & Cat-Societies are more secretive, more individualistic, independent or non-collective, less bigger familial or un-social and neo-philic (attracted to new things like curious & highly explorative & experimentative). May be posted near ultraliberal on the political-compass spectrum.
Hence parenting style required is for nuclear isolated families where very few isolative care-takers and care-givers and the focus is on power polarization and accumulation, survival and individuality. One parent or grandparent is or are the authoritarian and breeds co-dependency between the parent and child without any other social or extended familial influence.
CAT-parenting creates more Electron-ic-family (orphaned or single parented) & Nuclear-family I.e money-oriented and less Intergenerational Molecular-families.
MORE Outcomes and results of more ultra-catty CAT-parenting is more Individualistic-individuals & Isolative-groups, individually excelling, elite & exclusive-mindsets, more emotional factoring (operative negative emotions are higher fear, anger distrust & hate) of presumptions, Suspicions, bias, assumptions and superstitions, Polarization with less rationality (Black n White thinking) & Narcification of children and teens, socially-irresponsible, highly-supremacistic, Toxic_Competitive & less Collaborative/Cooperative, high risk taking, uncaring for public consensus or defences. My way or the highway kind of personalities and cultic groups or systems.
2. Dogs, Dog-families & Dog-societies are more social inter connected, open, collectivistic, inter-dependent on the pack are more conservative and neo-phobhic, maybe close to the Conservative traditional side of the spectrum.
More integrated & loyal to the family pack and family traditions and practices.
Hence parenting style required is for non-nuclear joint integrated and intergenerational families where there are more integrated care-takers and care-givers and the focus is on empowerment sharing and distribution, survival+ thrival collaboration and collectivity is encouraged. Both side of parents or grandparents and relatives are supportive and breeds more inter-dependency between the parenya and children with more engagement with other social or extended familial influences.
DOG Parenting involves. Diversity-distribution, Opportunity and Groomping.(Grooming+Grouping).
1. Diversity in family with both contributions of balanced integration of Feminine energies from mother and maternal relatives side (Nurturing & Nourishing) & Masculine energies from father and paternal relatives side (Providing and Protecting).
2. Opportunity Giving-Sharing: This style gives opportunity of relational loyalty to the parents, grandparents & larger family and not only to the controlling individuals or ideologies like in cat parenting.
3. Grouping: there is more happiness in groups collective excellence is encouraged. The individuals are less self-centered or selfish about my god, my religion, my ideology etc. And more group-oriented having the collective mindset of our family, homes, our people, our nation, our world..etc..
More DOG-Parenting creates more Intergenerational families and less nuclear and atomic-families. These families and members are more Group Harmony oriented and less individual money oriented.
MORE Outcomes and results of more ultra-doggy DOG-parenting is more Socialistic-individuals & Integrative_groups, collectivelly excelling, teamic & inclusive-mindsets, Empathification of children & teens (with emotional factors of gratitude, respect, love, affection, care & sharing), more rational-outlook with scientific and civic patriotic temper, socially-Responsive & responsible highly-Collaborative Egalitarian-Healthy Competition & less –Dominative or supremacistic toxic-competitions, calculated and informed risk taking, more caring for public consensus or defences. OUR way and the higher purpose evolved-way kind of personalities and culturic groups or systems. As more people engaged more trusting, trustable and trustworthy truths-based (not lies-biased) minds, individuals, networks & organisNations can be created.
An example of Dog-Parenting Father Abraham-Lincoln.
Disclaimer and Note: This post is a creative expression of the observation of parenting style spectrum, human beings are an outcome of the existent mammal animalistic parenting I.e to say parenting is not exclusive to human our earlier species like Primates, Cats and Dogs had evolved it millions of years ago. And Other parenting styles of mammals Chimps-family and Elephant-family also of Whales and smaller fauna can be explored for analogies and inspirations for parenting.
These two are more popular and simple to understand.
Conclusion: It maybe observed how an individuals life and mindset is shapes by the parenting styles they are exposed too. This is also an opportunity for parents to see which parenting style they are applying to thier kids is it the CAT or the DOG Parentingstyle..Ideal is that parents, guardians and grandparents engage in the Cat’s style of parenting in the initial 5 to 6 years and move to the DOG Parenting style as it is said ” It takes a village to raise a healthy kid.” A marital red flag for new family creation is when one spouse is a cat-parented/mindseted bride or groom marrying a dog-parented/Mindset spouse. This leads to parenting conflicts, more dysfunctional- broken families, and maladaptive children with Parental Alienation Syndrome(one of root of misgendery or hate towards one gender usually targetted and later the targetive-abusive parent). Beware of psuedo-Cat/Dog families who may intially project as the other during intial courtships this can lead to later Court-shops by Depression-medications & Oppressive-litigations.
More Indian families were DOG-Parented until 1950s and 80s (Indian Marital System 1.0 to 2.0). Now since 30years 90s more trends are towards CAT-Parenting (Indian Maritals 3.0+) which is copying the Non-Indian colonial Euro-AmericanSystems this risks are also being copied as seen below.
Acknowledgements: I dedicate this blog to all four of my Godly and Molecular Grandparents who used the DOGly parenting & Grandparenting styles. Which lead to my MaPa(Dad-Mom) to exhibit the More DOG-parenting style as they are trusting and open with troth side (Maternal, Pattern and Professional) of my circles.. I have got lot of love and care (also risks, threats & betrayals) from my parents, family, relatives, friends and community). I am grateful to all the great elders who have made me who I am today.
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Risks of Caty parenting: the mind voice is This is MY-child I will do whatever I want with him..nobody has any rights to tell me what to do. I am the best parent in the world whatever anyone tells “I DONT CARE” so does my Child.. because he/she is Me only.
2. More Divided Atomic & Nuclear_families more commercial childcare high risk to child abuses, more Integrated Molecular_families more Intergenerational grandparental-chilcare less risk of Child-Abuses. Need for Family-Molecularization.
Perception shapes Reality. We me – j Read article or view video on Guru Wonder blog post There is no such thing as reality. There are only perceptions which shape our individual reality. Here is a simple example.
If we write down the letter ‘W’. We will probably only see the letter ‘W’, because of the angle at which we are looking at it.
If we turn it upside down, we will suddenly see the letter, ‘M’; If we look from the right side, it appears as the number, ‘3’, and looking at it from the left side, we see the letter, ‘E’.
Just because someone else has a perception which shapes their reality is different from our perception, does not make them wrong or us right.
If one accepts that everyone has their own perspective and reality, we will not only be tolerant but more respectful of others. This in turn will help us achieve success and realise happiness.
I am grateful to my friend Bahram Shahmardaan, for this lesson.
Extracted from my proposed book: ‘Achieving Success and Realising Happiness’
I think if Conscious Mind is the RAM.. Subconscious Mind maybe something like the ROM in the Background.
And this ROM is scripted by hard coded Genetics and SoftCoded memetics..
Both scripting of Genetics and Memetics of our childhood is done my our parents and families.. hence i see our roots biological and ideological are from our education at home and schools.
As I see it our collectiveReality = Perceptions encoded in our Brains and Physicality by Nature (Parental-Genes)+Nurture (Familial/Educational_Memes)+Flexure (GeoPoliticoSocial_Games).
Like in physics the Reality is the Summation of Work Done= Force × Displacement and Force= Mass × Acceleration. This Work of Reality = Mass (of Nature) × Acceleration (of Nurture) × Distance (Flexure).
CarJourney(In Reality) Is a Function of the make of the Car/fuel (Nature) and motivation of the Driver/A.I+Passengers (Nurture) and matter of the Path (Flexure).
A Cuckoo-Parenting is leaving or abondoning the young underaged child under the care of a non-parent/relative and leaving them in schools or creche for keeping their bi-parental caretime as low priority.
UnInformed-LifeDecisions_Risks Vs Well-Informed LifeDecisions_Benefits.
I dedicate this blog-post in the memory of a soul-sister Meghala Akka, a Toastmaster, a Tamizhichi, a Grouper (a collaborator in Sharing-Jobs Group), a good_giver & a superb-soul. Today morning (19-Jan 23 8am) we got the sad news of her sudden demise at an young age(near 40), it disturbed me emotionally and I am expressing my grief here in this post with moist eyes and sad feelings (Known her since 2017 as an Office-Bearer (Vice-President) from Dhwani Toastmasters club @ JP Nagar, Bengaluru city in India). Hope to share in this written tributes; about her presence, her attributes and positive influence that she was to me & us as a community.
I mourn the loss of My sister and many like her, I have suffered loss of men, material and morale due to my own and many times others Ill-informed, Ill-Presumed life- decisions. I aim to change this for Well-informed choices & decision making protocols in life for global welfare.
Tamasoma Jyothirgamaya (Sanskrit from Darkness to Light.. Mark of Gurutva Guru+Tatva), From Bias to Basis, Higher Objective is to move From Materiality to Morality through Right Methodality. From Entrapment of Illness to Empowerment of Wellness.
Life can get dark & Cloudy at stormy times, this is when we can reach out to the crowd-source and can be more equipped to make clearer health & Life-decisions. #Tool for making Better Life-Decisions. #MeghamJeevaPragnyam.(Cloud-LifeSense).
She connected us in a Parents Network group(Source of my news and other fellow members’ Homages to her), she got us to a health awareness session she organized at her home with Indic-herbs and native millets and cereals in 2018, we benefitted from her Tamizh Siddha networks & knowledge sharing, she served us Mulakathan Kerai(Siddha-Herb)Soup. We also picked up the herbs roots from the neighborhood, she had swollen feets that week but she hosted us all(about 30 Members) well like a true Host-master. From then onwards we(my Home) started eating varities of red rices (Rajamudi, mapilla Samba, Red Boiled rice.. etc) at home instead of plain white polished (high calorific_low fibered) rice. THIS SESSION BENEFITTED ME AND MY FAMILY A GREAT DEAL FOR HEALTH & Wellness. She had a unique high pitch voice, a good sense of humor and a giggley unforgettable laugh that spread through the room and still remains in our memories now.
I am happy with her sisterliness, I tried to reflect & understand what did I/She/we missed out on that may have prevented this eventuality and helped her and her family away from such decision dependentlife-risks.
We got the below message as reference forwarded in group “She was not able to take any food for the past few days and was hospitalized. In Apollo Greams Road Hospital, they advised to dialysis but ‘she did not agree (Patient’s Right to Consent-Italic is authors Interpretingan inner-voice) because of the fact it would be painful.’ Later she was taken to the Tamilnadu Multispeciality Hospital(Chennai) where gradually her hemoglobin went down and then water accumulation happened on her lungs , that led to an organ failure taking her off from all of us!!!!.”
I feel sorry for her, hubby, kids and family, I am sure they have done their best to save her life. They way we as parent group-friends feel the Loss of a sister.. says a lot about her values and care towards her kid, family & relatives.
We had spoken once about creation of Jobs msgs group like one below she had created for freshers. She was an ever empathic model friendly person and grouper friend.
There may be a regret in this situation as: what if she had taken an alternate decision to agree/comply and go with the Medical-advise of Dialysis, could her life pathway been different, could her life and her presence have been better? I feel this may need to be expressed and make people aware of alt-consequences of our well-informed consent and choosing at crossroads to paths of life.
Presenting here Voila!! the “Meghala-MatrixModel” for Choosing, Living, Giving & Thriving a better or Good_Life.
An Understanding with ways of better-decision making methods
In our life we are always in every moment at crossroads and the decisions we make at those crossroads or circles of decisions can affect us and the whole world around us.
There are few paths which have good roads and with U-Turns and few major Junctions or crossroads which can change the direction of our lives majorly.
What are the yopmost critical life-decision cross-roads where we have to make well informed decisions not only for our sake but on behalf of ourselves families, communities and the world.. these personal-private decisions have a major cascading impacts for our family and society. What are the major decisions we choose to take in life..??
They are the “4-Ms that matter for a Good Life“.
1. MORALITY (Schools/Spirtuality) of Society and Us.
2. MEDICALITY (Hospitals) of Society and Us.
3. MARITALITY (Residential_Beds) + MARTIALITY (National_Borders) of society.
4. METHODALITY (Minds & Thinking) used by individuals and collective to achieve their needs by noble-deeds & without greeds.
The 4M Clouds-Model for Life-Decisions (Char Megha-Lagnam Jivan-Nirnay Chourasta Ke Liye). चार मेघा-लग्नम जीवन-निर्माण चौरस्ता के लिए। This model diagram named ‘Megha-Matrix‘ as a dedication/Tribute to TM. Meghala a great Cloud which rained blessings for many of people in her life.
1. Our Morality (Spiritual-Religion-Intellectual-Ideology-Cult) Family-Community ethics and Religio-social commitments. Our Profession and Industry for right livelihood. Our Rationalism, Patriotism, Politics, Communalism, Casteism, Discriminations, Religionsism.. all-isms, our ways of life, nations and world depends on this critical-M. The Dharma or the Dutifulness. Our Spiritual_Social Health, Wealth and Stealth depends on the quality of decisions of morality.
2. Our Medicality (DailyCare, Health, MediCare, Modalities, Work, Food Security, Insurance, Family support, Health System Awareness, misguidance of Psuedo-Scientific alternative med-systems vs True-guidance of rational medical systems and the genuine Health and wellness Network, access to right information, places & our Finances.. etc.. Our and family Health wholly depends on this factor around us of medicality.
3. Our Maritality. (legal marital status,(Single, Unmarried, Monkhood, committed, married Seperated(legal,illegal), Divorced, Widowed) Our Romantic, Dates, Spouse, Divorce, Affairs,.. etc). A relationship with the right ethical mate-partner can make a hell of a life converted to heaven like an angelic, whereas a wrong relationship-decision can bring in trouble make a heaven of a life to hell by demonic-spouse or Inlaws aided by unethical socio-legal systems that dont support but create more hellishness in Maritality. This is more so in India with British-colonialic marital laws and systems.
4. The most important of the M.. which defines all the above Ms.. is the Methodality.. This is the power of Discretion to arrive at the right-decision, healthy-better-decision methods.
How do we choose our Morality, Medicality and Maritality depends on the Methodality we operate with. The decision making model especially for big life-decisions that can cost or benefit us a life time of value.
When taking any life decision it’s better to take personally or with power of authority given to a trusted-nominee a second advise or third opinion with the right sources and experienced-experts in that field. There may be coercion, hurrying or suppression by a bad faith Actors(3Ms) who maybe in conflict of interest(Direct/Indirect) with your decision. Eg.. beneficiaries of your decision in their favour. This is why a consultation_review of your Situations, choices and decision options with trusted-group is very important in the decision making process. Which can help you take Informed and Rationalized Decisions. Which one may not be in a capacity to take at a moment of stress or ill health. This is when the Attenders, Wellwishers or experts in that areas need to give their honest unbiased inputs that can help the situation and life.
We unknown to our conscious mind many methodalities, the way we decide to sit in a room, the persons we speak with or ignore, all acts they may be Based or biased on certain patterns or facts which may create for us a project impact.
The issue where I see what is lacking is the methods to get to the right valid-facts, that can set out acts/Life-Decisions into right paths and bring right impacts in life.
I dont know Its too late I could make Sister Meghala more equipped to take more better life decisions.. but I wish good health to other sisters and brothers who may benefit to have better Methodalities in life-decisions, it can make a very huge difference in our and others lives.
There are 3-Methodalities I have come across and sharing below for your use..
These 3 methods are to reduce the personal-biases (Irrationality+-veEmotionality) and improve the humaniversal_bases (Rationality+Ethics+veEmotionality).
Do note current Society, Political parties are leader (Person)centric.. eg (Three PM/CM Candidates)
& less or not manifesto (Purpose) centric.. (This is in the background)
This is what brings Personal-Toxic politics and not Missional-Positive politics.
Nation First(Destination) & Mission First(Journey), missionaries are coincidental.. (Not Christian or any Religious-ideological mission but a Social/Public mission for Public Welfare).
WiseElecters is proposing an alt model of politics to focus on mission and purpose. With less interference of personality biases.
I learnt many things from Sisters and brothers like Meghala (means Cloud in Indic-Language) whom I am indebted to, that’s why I feel the Morality in me to share the important life-lessons their lives as message conveyed me.
I and we as group pray for Megahala’s daughter, husband and family, may they get the strength to cope with this huge loss. It’s a loss for the communities she created and built. I’m a beneficiary of the associations and connections she built and nurtured. Here impact for other life shall live on as her legacy.
The impact of a person is less known when they are present, and most know when the are absent (especially-suddenly). Let us not take people for granted do keep inquiry into our close people’s health and wellbeing.
How are You today, Hope all is good, is your day going well..
Not jus superficial but really concerned please do reach out to empathic-others if in high stress or distress. People do need you in life and can come of some assistance in making and supporting life-decisions.
I am writing this in an emotional state of mind, so if there may be some logical or typo errors, if you find some that may be of any concern to her or her family kindly let me know I can change it.
Thanks- G.R Prasad.
Further Helpful Related Posts Below for better Indian-Lifeology:
How Indian Youth and Public is being Dumbed down unduely by Socio-Politic-Religio & Cultural and Ideologic-Technological Influences? The imminent foreseeable Threats To India’s Future Youth and Society.
The Lack of Transparent-support, unbiased-guidance and Rationo-ethical_peerhood is leading to more Undue-Targeting, Undue-Influencing & Undue Advantage.
The Quadrinity (Four Factorial) of any Contract or Relationship.
1. Free-Will of People, Is there any free-will? As we are all pre-conditioned by our parents Gene’s and Present-conditioned by our environments Memes.
Our life is dependent heavily on our Peoples Clan & Allies of clan & Rivals of Clan (Genes & Capital), Places CPS Location(Cosmic Positioning System), Periods Contemporary Status of the world, Plans the Ideologies influencing the people, Processes in place like Constitution, Corrections and Corruptions, Planets ecology, Progress the quality, quantity and quantum of positive changemakers in action. All these can take one towards truly Free-Will of “Peer-Paradise” or lack of these can move one towards Free-ill of “Poor-MalaDies.”
2. Fair-Choice/Chance in the non Monopolyistic and Pro-Choices marketplace or ecosystem. Freedom and liberty is related to citizens being provided enough fair-choices (Rational Restrictions (Rules-Regulations) and empathic provisions. Also equal shared equanimous opportunity or fair-chances at making those choices.
3. Informed-Consent is when all the critical terms and conditions are explicitly stated and agreed with all relevant information.
4. Systemic & Agentic Synced performances and troubleshooting support of the contacts as per the said and unsaid Terms & Conditions of All-Contracts .
Premise: Equally important to What(IQ) we think/say/do is HOW(EQ) we say and with Whom(SQ) we say it too.. Logos, Ethos & Pathos of Life-Deals.
Tamasoma Jyothirgamaya.
From Darkness to Light.
Bayaoma Dhairyamgamaya.
From Fear to Courage..
Durgunoma Sadgungamaya..
From Wrong qualities(Vices) to the right qualities(Virtues)…
Durjanoma Sathjangamaya.
From the Evil-associates to the Divine-people.
Mayaoma Satchitananda gamaya..
From illusion to the ultimate divine bliss. -GuRuPanishad.
More awareness and proactivness on: How to reduce Genders-abuse, gender-enemity & genders-Wars and bring more genders-equanimity & peace..
Genders-Enemity or Gender-Equanimity & Gender-AMity how do we choose?
Note: these are written with real observations and not by imagination. Is Sarcastic and Satiric. As naturally a Human is born as a plain slate maybe with some genetic pre-coded. But most of the parento-social environment creates the bias, base or basis in a child or human. So hate, fear or love in Society is created by many factors this post explores these.
Contents:
1. Definitions of Mis-Groupic and Phil-Groupic.
2. Creating Misandry & Misogyny leading to more Gender-Conflicts, Crimes and Wars.
3. Creating PhilAndry & PhiloGyny leading to more Gender-Harmony, Chimes & inter-group love.
1. Definitions:
Mis-Groupic is a hate (Fear, Dislike & Anger) for members of a particular group.
Eg. Misandry is dislike and hate towards men or any human exuding masculinity(May be Implicit or expressed). Misogny is hate for women or feminity, Misotranny is hate for transgender or trannity. Mis-classtey a dislike/hate for a particular classteoureed(Class+Caste+Color+Creed) of people. MisoReligionic Is hate for religions..
Phil-Groupic is love (Trust, like & Respect) for members of a particular group.
Eg. Phil-andry is like and love towards men or any human exuding masculinity(May be Implicit or expressed). Misogny is love for women or feminity, Misotranny is love for transgender or trannity. Philo-classtey is love for a particular (Class, Caste, Color or Creed). Philo-Equanimity is love for equanimity, equality and gender-peace.
Genders-Diversity Vs few Gender-Dominancy. Gendered Professions like Army, Manual Scavenging, Driving, Auto-mechanic, preist-ing, illegal terrorism, alcohol & drug abuse and sex-trafficking.. etc is dominated by one gender where as Nursing, Gynaecology, school Teaching, flower ladies, brothels-prostitution, girl- trans child trafficking, begging. etc is dominated by other genders..
2. Creating Misandry & Misogyny(Misgroupy) leading to more Gender-Conflicts, Crimes and Wars. How to create a Fatherless or parentsless miso-family (dislike or hate for family) Society?
1. When Kid is born gauge ‘its’ or ‘hisr’ Gender, Color, Caste. etc and treat or name it with biases of Religion (name), Classte(surname) and Race(placename) etc from on that. Take undue advantage of the Matrilineal-Advantage and seperate kid from the kids father & the paternal family. Or if kid is born out of wedlock like teenage sex-lust affairs, prostitution, rape or surrogacy then abandon it, give unwanted or unplanned child up for adoption or state/government care homes.
2. When going to a maternity hospital try to see that the doctor & management is from your particular in-group (Classte, gender, or religious identity etc) and at any cost avoid the non in-group other community groups. Eg. +Ve Bias towards SameGender-Doctors & Healthcare professionals thus weedout the Out-group people by de-preferrring. So that they can give u sex determination and tell childs gender and if needed terminate it and create skewed gender ratio. https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2019/08/your-health-care-in-womens-hands.html
3. In Birth certificate if born in group with privileged classtey names continue the classtiness in use of surname. Dont give father’s name in birth certificate.. if child is from sperm donor, illegal conception or born of rape or to many father’s. This will devalue, undermine and unhealthily idea of fatherhood in the child’s life, family or society.
4. In School put the kid in a gender-biased or classte-religion biased schools run by politicians or religionists, where the school structure and human resource is dominated (Quantitative(numbers) or qualitative(power) or both) by a particular gender/identity/ideology. Eg. Recruit 90-100% of teachers/lecturers of a particular gender this would minimize diversity & inclusion also the value of other genders in childs education. Thus we successfully create a gender-power imbalance.
Do not include fathers name or number in th records so that the power, control and dominance of one gender is seen upon the childs life, so child can be under totalitarian control of parent of one gender and develop hate towards the other parent, gamily and targetted-gender.
5. In College/academia.
6. In Family & Relativehood.
7. In neighbhourhood.
8. In Office/workplace.
9. In Spiritual or worship place.
10. In public or street
11. In Government (Legis,Judis & Executive) or global relations.
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3. Creating PhilAndry & PhiloGyny leading to more Gender-Harmony, Chimes & inter-group love.
Look at all genders equally by encouraging inclusive and real-progressive ideologies. And not psuedo-progressive gender-biased, or Group-Biased logic and thinking.
Some Children are neglected & abused by their own parents and associated systems for their own selfish interests of gaining money or fame. Need to stop this exploitation of gendered-abilities. For eg male brain and bodies are due to hunter gathering times evolved for better spatial and orientation note most fast car drivers are men even if women compete they may do so if higher testosterone im blood. Hormones and neural networks gives abilities. This is being abused by Parents like below lead to child at risk.
How our patriots unite Indians by CommUnification and how the non-patriots, traitors & Anti-Indians (Supremacists of Chinese, Mid-East, Europeans, etc) divide India by CommunaLIEzation? For Vested interests in Global Geo-Religio_Politics.
KeyConcepts: Othering/Bothering Vs Brothering, Ferocity Vs Fraternity. Arbitrary-biased LIedeologies Vs Rationality-based Stridedeologies.
In India’s, any group’s, any Family’, your and our Futures; whether we have more Failures or Success depend on yOur support to forces that CommunaLize (Divide÷ and -Disintegrate) or CommUnify (Unite+ & Integrate♡) us. To know the difference between these 2 forces read this exposition.
Force that CommUnify is when the Central idea is to unite or unify around a focus based on Human Social values or National interests. Example a group for people interested in subject and sharing about Patriotism, Arts, Science or Education. Or communifying students or colleagues on a common path and vehicle taking us towards fundamental duties of our nation (Article 51_A CoI).
Effect of CommUnification is Harmonious Collaborative progressive collectives, systems & outcomes for Social-Peace.
Communalize is when the central idea is identity-biased were one is labelled by their religious ideology Sectarianism, color of skin(Colorism), ethnicity of race/face, class or caste identity. Where the gatekeepers allow their implicit-biases in choosing the persons to be let in the group.
Effect of CommunaliZation is Polarized Conflictivr Die/regressive collectives, systems & outcomes for Social-Disharmony.
The phenomenon at work in both and many related cases is this.
Are you Facing a Tough-Relationship??, Pause the cribbing (oral-complaining) to near/Dearones and start de-scribbing (docuplaining) with the clear-ones.
Many only speak about Friendship, there is even a day to recognize and celebrate it. FRIENDSHIP DAY, but what is less recognized is every coin has 3 sides and not just one. When is Relationships Day.??
There are 3 types of relationships (Friendship(+ve), Neutralship(0) & Enemyship(-ve).
And the relationships evolutes to 3 different paths. Friendships make our life easier and otherships makes our life complexier and complicating.
It can be interconnected but it takes efforts and events to interchange the lanes in life.
1. Path of Neutralship(0). Here the way is smooth and plain there is no Ups or Downs. Like a flat road. The 3 phases in it to Introduce, Share Info, have a working relationship of stasis & proximity without either enemity(-ve) or amity(+ve). There is neutrality. Path of Co-Trailers..
2. Path of Friendship(+ve). There is a good exchange of Spare (Time & Resources), Care (Attention-Emotions) & Share (Power, Place, Info, Events & Experiences). External factors strengthen the bonds like Scares & Threats to the collective peace and connect resources, Care for each others life & wellbeing, & Friends share many things like visions, purpose, events and good feelings in the relationship.
The 4 phases of Friendships are “SORCE” of love. I.e Socialize, Organize, Revalue, CommUnify and Empower. There is a buildup of helpful experiences, years of trust, respect and loyality-love for each other with deep bonding and positve exchanges. Mutual-Trust improves and collective growth and excellence happens.
Path of Complementing/Cooperating-trailers.(on the Life-Trails) Friendship is a simple interest, Enemyship is complicative phenomenon.
Presence, Attention, Trust & Honor (PATHway) of Love and Friendship is Founded on fairness, Justice and empathy.
3. Path of Enemyship(-ve). There is a decline of bonding with seperation, mistrust, miscommunications, misjudgments, negative emotions of fear, anger and hate. Scare, Dare, Snare and Stare tactics are used.
The 3 phases of which may be IDDiotic.. Idealize, Devalue and Discard.. more phases are offend, oppress, de-power, destroy. Path of Competing/Conflicting Trailers. Shaming, victim-blaming, defaming, character-assasination, dis/mis informing, manipulation, mis/mal-guiding, snitching, targeting, cheating, frauding, biasing, malicious avoidance, ignoring, neglecting, gaslighting, Discriminating, false-complaining, demeaning, gossiping, backstabbing, mobbing, ragging, harassing, abusing(verbal, physical & ideological), hurting, cutting, lying, criminalizing, murdering(Aftab-Delhi Murders) and killing.
Do analyse your relationships in life one may see it evolves in these 3 paths of life.
Any more paths do let us know and explore and discover together.
Thanks and do share if you find it of value.. as friends we set the trends.
Your Mitram-mitra Prasad.
We have formed focus groups and communities to share and amplify our interests and Fraternity.
Ans: Many Youth are on paths of toxicity and irrationality due to avidya (Ignorance) and adharma (Immorality) and can improve by listening and extracting value from Vivekananda’s message to the Youth of India.#ViVeKa-Method/Model of Life.
#Doctrine Of HigherDiscretion I.e #UpaVivekaSidanta. #Hitha-Vivekam (Beneficial-Discretion). Viveka is not Discrimination (DurBeda) but it is Discretion (Su-Viveka). Also there exists a Spectrum between Discrimination (Negative-Hurting) to Discretion (Positive-Helping).
Is your Viveka Ur power of discrimination or Discretion?.. Viveka is it being misattributed by faulty English translations.
Q: What’s Distinction between Discrimination (Fake-Viveka) & Discretion (True-Viveka)?
Both are forms of diffrentiation, difference is Discrimination is irrational, baseless and more biasful (@Whims and fancies of a tyrant or a dominant group) , while Discretion is rational, bias-less and more basis full (@needs and fairness of empaths and Egalitarian groups).
How to Go from Right Facts to Fair_Acts to Helpful_Impacts? Swami Viveka teaches us How.. through service dedicated to the nation Connecting Dots of Spirituality, Nationalism & Socialism.
“Arise, Awake and Stop not until the goal is reached“. said Swami Vivekananda the Youth Icon Of India since year 1893 the ripples of claps from the religious parliament at New York.. that is 120+yrs of waves of that Speech and Swamijis work have been transforming many lives and institutions.
In an aligned spirit Let me request you to scroll, read and stop not until the end of post is reached. What good can it do reading this today on National Youth day 2023?.. Ans: Its to highlight the Youthful Facts of Swamiji, his Soulful acts and the impacts it has around us and how it influenced many & me too personally, this expressed in just three “Steps of Vi- Ve- Ka.”
‘Viveka‘ in Indic languages means ‘Discretion‘, Intellect or Intelligence.. I can say that With the Vivekalike that of Vivekananda “Vee-Vake-up” to Ananda or Bliss.
In any subject the power/practice of discretion (different from discrimination that supremacism likes to mislabel it) or distinctions between things is essential to deeper understanding, be it Scientific-discretion (Rationality), Artistic-discretion (Artistry), Judicial-Discretion (Judiciary) or Civic-Discretion (Citizenry).
This critical faculty of Logical-Discretion (not Irrational-Discrimination) is what distinguishes us the homo-sapiens with ‘6th sense‘ I.e a more capable power among the animal kingdom. This power gives us the ability to say which is which.. eg. Which idea is helping and which is hurting, which tool is more useful and which is lesser useful to a given task. This is not to destabilize but to optimize our lives and society.
Below is what can make us better humans Vi-Ve-Ka (Vidya,Veeram, Kartavyam) (Education, Courage & Moral Duty).
Vi-Ve-Ka = Vidya +VeraVegam + Kar(tav)yam.
Let’s now together Introspect and define Vi-Ve-Ka and we find it also relatable to the 3 phases of Swami ViVeKananda’s Life.
1. ‘Vi-step’ 1st Phase of Vishaya (Facts) (Years 1863-1881) Vidya (Education), Vigour(Energy), Vichara(Thinking), Vishala(Vastness), Vidya(education) and Vinamrata(Humility-Discipline) of the young Narendranath at Kolkata in his founding childhood years.
He was a very inquisitive and enquiring young child full of curiosity and compassion. He was on a Quest of inquiry (Vichara Vimarshane) into many questions of life and society. This vigour of questioning of vishaya facts lead him to question his spiritual guru Sri Ramakrishna and get initiated into the monastic life as Vivekananda. Which led to the 2nd phase of speedy dedicated acts.
2. ‘Ve-step’ the 2nd-Phase of Ve-ga (Speed/Acts) (Yrs. 1881-1892), This phase with speed and force he set-out on a journey across the nation from the north to southern tip of The Indian peninsula, to Kanyakumari and and dint stop where the land stopped he swam across the waters of Indian Ocean to the Vivekananda-Rock to look at the mother land and meditate on his journey and the future. Here he saw envisioned and set out planning his mission of life. This is his phase of Which moved on to the 3rd most brilliant phase of Impacts.
3. ‘Ka’ the 3rd phase of Kartavya/Karma Yoga (Duty-Impact) (Yr.1893-1902) & Karmaphala Beyond till date. Here he set out on the most extraordinary journey across the space and time.. from Kanyakumari to Chicago to Colombo to Almora and more.. The Ripples he created as a spiritual-citizen has turned to great waves for our nation.
Impact-1: In this journey his first major impact was when he met JN Tata the worlds most philanthropic personality of the Century ($102 billion donation), where he impacted Tata in the creation of India’s best Institute of research 110+ years back the Indian Institute of Science (Mother/Father of IITs) fondly called by Bengalurean localites by the founder’s name as the ‘Tata-Institute‘. His letter is also a testimonial fact to Swami Vivekananda’s acts & Impact on J.N. Tata sourced from Tatas Company website.
Impact2– Starting of the Ramakrishna Mission. Associating with greats like sister nivedita and other brothers of mission.
Impact3– Founding of Belur Math at Kolkata.
Impact4:Egalitarian Concept of ‘Daridra Narayana’. TREATING the Poor, Marginalized, Downdrodden, suppressed, oppressed and depressed classte as equally divine, godly and respecting them spiritually-honorable and valuable. Few ideas may have collaborated with Dr.Ambedkars Egalitarian Ideas if there may have been a chance meetup with like J.N Tata on the ship. There is a correlation similarity between Ambedkar and Vi-Ve-Ka that slogan of educate(Vidya), agitate(Veeram) and organize(Kartavyam) https://www.speakingtree.in/blog/when-swami-vivekananda-destroyed-the-caste-system
Impact4– Inspired & Inspiring many Indians including Subhash Chandra Bose (INA) , JN Tata(IISc), Gandhi, Tagore, Jayalalitha, Anna Hazare (Anti Corruption, Jan Lok Pal), etc
“Expansion is Life, Contraction is Death” – Swami Vivekananda.
Thus swami ‘Vi-Ve-Ka‘-ananda was a youth icon of the Nation who lived his initiated-name sharing viveka of Vidya(Wisdom), Veerya(Valour) & KarmaNistata (Dedicated Service).
May we all be inspired by his message and works to get to the Facts, convert it to dedicated Acts and create positive Impacts in our lives and nation as Patriots for a Prabuddha-Bharat (Awakened-India 2030) as is the vision of Swami Vivekananda.
Bharat Mata Ki Jai, (Glory be to Mother India)
Bharatiya Bhaiya (Vivekananda) ki Jai, (Glory to Brother Vivekananda)
Bharatiya janta ki Jai. (Glory to all Indian Citizens).
One line Summary:
Vivekananda’s life teaches us the Attainment of Rationalness Vivekatva.. ViVeKa= Vishaya/Vidya + Veeram/Vegam + Karya/Kartavyam.
Better Discretion can be Achieved by Facts by Education + Acts with Courage + Impacts by our Duty.
Thanks for reading this Tributeto the great true Indian Patriot Swami Vivekananda our Indian Youth Icon written on National Youth Day Jan12 2023.
Self-Declarations:
I am inspired and impacted by my earliest by yoga classes at Vivekananda Ashram at Ulsooru Bengaluru. that I started(in 2001) by reference from my 12th std IIT-coaching classmate and friend Vivek from Viveknagar Bengaluru. After 3 months of Yoga, I did a 3 day spiritual retreat at RIMSE Mysuru(2006), then I used to join in at Vivekananda Study Circle at Indian Institute of Science reading Swamiji’s books and attending lectures at Ramakrishna Ashram Basavangudi. My parents health has been benefitted by Nature retreat at SVYASA Bengaluru, we as family have Visited major places in Swami Vivekananda’s Journeys at Kolkatta and Kanyakumari. I am blessed to have this association of the paths, principles, people and places of Swamy Vivekananda and Shri Ramakrishna & Sharada Devi, Vivekananda embodued the divinity and spirituality moving towards Rationality and global-humanity.
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