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Keywords #Love-Recruitments, Marital_Politics, Love-Jihad #Marital-HeadHuntingConversion. Ideological-Subversion through Socio-Sexual & Marital Relationships. #Sustainability of Ideologies. Spousal-Ideological Abuse, Psycho_Parental Child Mental_Abuse part of Parental-Abuse.
REEL_Fakers Vs REAL_Fakirs (Fraud_Fu€K@R$) Vs REAL_Truthers(Lovers4Life). Eg. Neurotic_Nityananda (FakeKailasa-Bidadi(BadDaddy), Jim Jones,.etc (Team-C) VsTeam-A Responsible_RamaKrishna Paramahansa(Maker of Vivekananda), Kabir, TulsiDas (India).
Religions are like Startups & Corporations or Companies they need to do founding, co-founding (First Disciples), head hunting, recruitments, firings and birthings either to propogate (newer religions), survive (older passive religions from neo-religiompanies (eg Scientology), to maintain their growth rates (stable religions) and to dominate (aggressive monopolistic predatory religions).
Many allies get together due to ideological-compatability and many relationships break due to ideological-incompatability.. at root of Kinship is Physical-DNA (The Genes) & root of human relationships is Ideological-DNA (The Memes). -GRP
Important Pre-article Questions.
Could your parents have Indocrinated you? & are you indoctrinating your kids and future Citizens of India/world?
Do you wonder why do people feel closer to their maternal-relatives compared to paternal-relatives? There is a promotion of parental-inequity.
What methods can Toxic Ideologies or ideologues covertly use for inter-personal, communal or global domination & propagation?. ANS: Its Ideological Subversion, Love-Recruitments, Socio_Economic impartiality. Propoganda based Mind-Control, more Ideological_Bias/Discrimination & Less Rational_Basis/Discretion.
Ideological-Wars also happen at individual level at Homes, on beds and inter- Families/Groups like it happens inter-party (Grass-roots or Microcosmic @BOP) or inter-nations (Forests or Macrocosmic @ Top of Pyramids)
Can You or Your Family be ideologically-Recruited by another aggressive/Subversive ideology?? You can self-evaluate here.. Secrets of Cult/Religious Recruitment Techniques.
When propagative, promotive, Predatory and polarizing ideologies (Religion, Politics, Social, linguistic, ethnic, commercial or economic ideasystem) wants to spread faster or has to survive outside endogamy and wants to grow and have demographic-dominance at higher rates of growth there are 3 systemic Methods the Ideologies use for Sustenance & Dominance..
Method 1. Love-Recruitment. This is to consciously or imperatively pursue members of other ideology-groups and engage in romantic relationships so as to reduce the chances of their ideology to grow or survive. This can be in many names Love-Trap, Marito-propaganda, Love-Crusade/Jihad/Budhhutva/Hindutva/Atheistva..etc (when an idealogical-person love-traps the target-persons with a plan to recruit them by conversion-later (add them and their children into their ideology & in effect subtract them from the other rival-ideologies). Its akin to Horse-trading eg.. a BJP leaders son trying to love-recruit a Congress Leaders Daughter so that they can reduce Congress power and add to BJPs.. Similarly a Daughter of Religion1 eg Buddhism trying to seduce a son of Religion2 Christian and try to bring him and their children to and under or faith-group or religion1 by undue influence or freechoice. Love & Marriage Based Religious-Ideological Conversion and Supremacism.
Another variation is to take advantage this is form of Sex-Recruitment (Casting-Couch in Film and Fashion (Skin-Show Industries). Ppl seeking jobs, beware..
HR Indha HecHRrike…(Kannada Translation beware of H.R(Human Resourcing)
Method 2. Marital-Conversions: This is when before marriage the religion-recruiters do not show their Non-Secular Ideological reality but after having sexual, financial or emotional bonding with the targeted-recruitee from competing or rival ideologies.. slowly groom them and coerce them to convert formally to their ideology and religious beliefs.. this is marital conversion. More Info here.. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marital_conversion
Method 3. Parental-Indoctrination i.e Have More Indocrinated-Children of your ideology by undue influence and child abuse. (Ideological-Offsprings).(Quantity and Quality)
Illustration with a video of parental-indoctrination (Super set) of kid of which Parental-alienation and psuedo-single parenting is a subset. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=o2SpLxqphXA
Parental Indoctrination (Forced & False/Disempowered Kid) vs Parental Information (Optional & True, Empowered Kids)
In modern times with gender biased matrial, educational, socio-legal systems, its much easier for females to indoctrinate kids at womb, cradle, home & schools & until 18 years than can men influence the kids, this is also due to “matrilineal-advantage” that translates to “patrilineal Disadvantage”.
This is where either Idealogical person and group encourage and promote more births & more indoctrination of kids through radical religious education and practice. Without giving the kids a free choice of Idealogies, religions or Faiths.. This is how intergenerational Idealogical subversions take place through Love, Romance, Marriage and progeny.
There are covert Ideological subvertinh methods of idealogical+genealogical propagation.
The overt way of enforcement or endorsement is also with undue force and undue-influence.
Most ethical way of Idealogical_propagation is through conviction, education, free & fair explanation of ideological concepts and requesting review and acknowledgement with encouragement by free-information and free-consent.
One more incident of attempt at Romantic-Predators in Love-Recruitment…
Two months after in Oct 2020, he pursued a romantic relationship with me. Just within 2 days after, he lied that he's invited to join @VCKofficial_ by its leader @thirumaofficial while he's the one who pursued. Since then he demanded unconditional support to his political career. pic.twitter.com/bUGouBxQnk
How to see True-lovers Vs Fraud-lovers? With Real Life examples of 2 Couples (Shrada & PK) . Initiated by 3M(Murli) Bangalore and PK (Mahanandia) Bhubaneshwar.
What are factors for Human-Happiness Vs Human-Hardships? The Ideologies of Happiness.
Your Socio-Biology inserts your “Core-PersonalIdeology“(OS) that defines your Ideas(, & those Ideas define your Life. -GRP.
More Happy Societies/Groups are created by better Realationships and Crappy Societies/groups are created by worser Reelationships by creating & controlling Human Perspectives, Thoughts, Opportunities, Probabilities, Positions, Interactions, Results & Outcomes.
Thoughts Create actions, Actions create Interactions, Interactions Create Habits, Habits Create Characters, Characters create Conducts, the Conducts creates a Conduits-Company, the Conduit-Company creates Community, Community creates Society, Society Creates Personality and Life and Life Creates Thoughts…cycle repeats.
Critical Question: What creates your Basic Thoughts??
My Answer: Your Vision/Ideology creates your Mission/Physio-psychology which creates your Values/Methodology..-GRP.
What’s your Life’s Ideology-Philosophy is your life. Eg.. A Rational-Ideology of CV Raman(Nobel Scientist) created his mindset of Scientific-Temper and Temperence, which created his Basic-Thoughts Ideas for Scientific Life-Discoveries for pursuit of Human-Excellence. if He had been indocrinated by Radical-Ideology like “CV Ramanula Chris Laden” may create his mindset of AntiSocial-Temper which creates ideals of mass violence and pursuit of inhuman-dominance over others and others lands.
A.I Vs RH.I (Artificial-Intelligence Vs RealHuman-Intelligence) .. The Amorally-Radical vs the Morally-Radical.
The Relationship Polarity illustrated by the Real lives of Two-Indian Men. Psuedo-Vedic (alienic) Vs Real-Adhic (Asiac).
1. Reel-ationship are fake, false and virtual bondings/Trappings. Built on undue advantage, coercion, misrepresentation, misinformation, commercialism and materialism. Low on level of Morality may or maynot be low on rationality. It’s for property(QuanTITy) and not improving Human-Properties(Quality). These are more about power and resource Accumulation and Retention with few (Abahujanutva-Oligarchy). Superiority/Discriminatory Mentality for Dominance over Others.(Alpha-Wolfishness)
The core focus of Reel-ationships is Personal-Profit Maximization & Loss-Minimization. Narrow-minded, Closed-community and scarcity mindset biased-thinking.
Loves of Supremacism (Superiority/Inferiority-Peak Hierarchy) Versus Egalitarianism (Equality-Flat Hierarchy).
2. Real-ationship are genuine, true and real/actual/Factual bondings/empowerings. Built on mutual-Social advantage, cooperation, Tru-representation, Eu-information, compassionism and ethicalism. High on level of Morality/Ethics and high on rationality(logics). It’s not for property(QuanTITy) profit and but for improving Human-Properties(Quality), social-benefit. Its Bahujanutva/Bahujanhitva I.e Equocracy(Rule for equality, Equity & Equanimity).
The core focus of Real-ationships is Perso-mutuo-Social Profit/Benefit Maximization & CommunityLoss-Minimization. Large-minded/hearted, Open-community and abundance liberal mindset based-thinking. Love-Fraud by fake-lovers. Power creation & Resources Sharing also Eqanimity/Equalistic Mentality for excellence of all. MY-Dominance Vs Our-Excellence. (Alpha Sheep-Dogishness).
Important Example of Real-ationships: 1. Case of P.K Mahanandia from India to Europe. (Bahujan-Indian with Strideologies from Dravidian-Egalitarian Ethos). An Untouchable who Touched the hearts of billions of True -Lovers (Men,Women & Trans). To Be inspired.. https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-india-35299608
3. Conclusions: A person/Family/Team/class/communities Happiness:Crappiness ratio is related to the bloody DOSEndorphins:Cortisol Ratio which depends on yOur internal and external Reelationships(Distrust) :Realationships (Trust) ratio in life. Which in turn also depends on the factor of unethicalCultures : Ethical-Cultures Ratio or the Narcs : Empaths Ratio (NEarness Ratio). Or Material-Supremacism(Who wanna be the Richest-Bitchest persons of power (Emperors of world) Vs Social-Egalitarianism (who wanna be the Integrous-happiest persons of empowerment (Empowerers of society). #Empowerers Vs Empowerers.
Similar like above there needs to be Relationship-impact Assessment to Prevent future Harassment or Embrassment.
Introducing Project-DIA(11/8/23) Dia in Hindi means light..
Every relationship we engage in Impacts our near and dear ones.. it can impact positively or negatively.. to understand this is required to be assessed.. Thats why this “Dearones Impact Assessment (DIA)” is the assessment of the environmental/Family Life consequences of a Relationship or Marriage plan, policy, program, or actual marital projects prior to the decision to move forward with the proposed action of Romantic, marriage or Sexual Relationship . In this context, the term “Relation-Marital impact assessment” is usually used when applied to actual marriages or affairs by individuals or families & communities and the term “strategic Family assessment” (SfA) applies to marital family policies, plans and programmes most often proposed by organs of individuals or familes or communities in marital state.[1][2] It is a tool of Family & community management forming a part of suitor or love-proposal approval and marital familial decision-making.[3] Family assessments may be governed by rules of familative procedure regarding pubic and marital participation and documentation of decision making, and may be subject to marital familial Quadpartite-review. (2Families+2CloseDearones).
Allied is also GIA(Group Impact Assessment) as any msg, change of Addition, Subtraction or Modification.. affects the geo
#New DigitalEpidemic of Narcissism & few Solutions & Remedies. Narc-selfishness Vs the Empathic-SELFishness.
the #Modern-Narcification Vs Indigenous-Empathification. #OvertEmpowermentVsCovertEntitlement. Post 1960s.. Pro-Invidualistic & immoraled Anti-Family and Anti-ethics Ideological Generations. Cultural Invaders of Homes and India.
Narcification of Society & Re_Empathification of Society.
The Narcs’ Truth & favourite phrase “I dont care” I care about myself only this is the only truth they can say (Me and only Mine thinking), The Empaths’ Truth say “I Do Care for You and others” while I Care for myself too.(We and Ours Thinking).
Critical Awareness to the globalNarczis; the WMDs weapons of mass dis-empowerment.. & the World War 3.0 that is happening how we can stay safer in India.
Modern Children, families and institutions(even marriages) are being flooded with Narcified and BrainWashed Individuals.. who may be zombified and Cultified.
+ve Cultural Vs -ve Cultical.
Narcically Deluded Individusls Vs Naturally Rationalized Individuals.
How Parents and Teachers are creating Narcified Narcisstic Kids. All it takes is one Narc-Injury or a Narc-Relative or environment to create a Narc-Child while it takes a village and whole world to create or rather preserve a empathic-child.
Many legally innocent citizens & Families are prone to False cases since 2005 as the Supremacistic Legal system Misguides and coerces Narc Families to initiate Malicious litigation on targeted individuals & families instead of ADRS or family counselling mediation and no fault mutual Divorce for greed of bigger alimony by legal extortion for dragging years in court. Justice done after 21years.. #JusticeDelayedis…JusticeCrucified. beware of Narc-litigants. NEED FOR PUBLIC DEMAND for good REFORMS like Pre-nups in UCC family Conjugal laws. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2021/12/02/s87-project-manav_mitras-connect-heart2heart-for-universal-brotherhood-fraternal-culture-friendships-group-prasad/
Exploring the Reality of Gendero-Sheres…Spectrum from Maninizers to Asexualisers…
The word Womanizers many may know and it’s easily accessible thanks to hyper-sexism & Toxic-genderisms, but others genderizers are to be know from genders-informed PositiveActivism. Here below are lot more similar types or embodiments that an aware society needs to know to be a “Genders-informedSafer-Society.” Darkness to light, from unknown to be known. #DextersLabFreezer #GF/BF/TF in Freezer /CopyCat Crimes…
These below concepts are the phenomenon that are going to cause more stresses on monogamy and marriages as the options to devalue the partnership opens up wider. These also may lead to higher incel-singles, never-marrieds, live-ins, sexual-traumatised/abused, separated, alienated, trafficked, divorced, jailed and relationally-suicided or Homicided population globally.
To create a rationally safer and Familially prosperous society people need to be aware of these risks and take preventive measures for the younger generations to not self-destruct in this evil path.
General formatically- a “Gender-Sexualiser” may be termed as a person who has multiple and promiscuous relationship with multiple partners or entities.
Like a politiciser is a person who gives a political character to ” politicize the discussion”.
Womiser may be interpreted as a person who makes something like a woman. Where as Womanizer may be a person who takes up multiple woman as sexual or emotional partners like in polygamy unlike monogamizer.
When romance or flirting and simultaneous-sexuality is with multiple woman it’s called a womanizer, when woman has sexual relationships with multiple men it’s a “maninizer” like in polyandry, when phenomenon is with Transgender its Transizer. If accepted do move on out.
If you are just a legal-adult(18+) then also dont read below this line.
If you are a legal & sexually active adult age 21+yrs & not able to understand and want to know many things that may be suppressed and repressed by the tabloid media and society then only read below to be more deeply-aware and widely-informed.
Whats the Phenomenon of a Female taking advantage of multiple Males.. #NameThePhenomenon. https://www.bbc.com/news/blogs-trending-37754565.. it can be called-out Female Poly-Hypergamy or Polyandry if polygamous-married. Similar to womanizing Male Poly-Hypergamy.
Conclusion: How these embodiments effects or harm society: This above message is for awareness of the spectrum of risks, problems & issues in already morality-depraved societies so that it can be prevented in India and Our healthier societies.
Which is the best -ism for practice? Is it Religionism, Buddhism, Jainism, Minimalism, Rationalism, Nationalism or any other-ism..? Which Systemism can get you only positive discretion and avoid discrimination? Its Constitutionalism..
The Patriots Keep and follow the Constitution-Book over the books of Bible, Gita, Quran, zvendavasta, guru granth or any other religious or ideological texts.. because for Patriots its always Nation-First, Religions-next. Where as Non-Patriots & Traitors keep their own Accounts-Book, Face-book, lusty-books or CrimeCase-books over Constitution or every other book. Citizens who value nation above all are Patriotic-Citizens(Givers-Harmonisers) and those who devalue national values for other things (Identities Religion, Money, Caste, gender, language.. etc are Traitoric-Citizens (Takers-Polarizers).
Smart-Electers @India 2023.. Superficially(Topical) can created by Smart-Cities, Smart Villages & Smart-Tech.. fundamentally(Intrinsic) at core its about creation of 3 Smart-Cs, Smart-Citizens, Smart-Constitution & Smart-Communities. Until this is done whatever it will be done topical its like polishing a smooth skin on a worm infested rotting apple.
Voters-Empowerment 3-IdeaLinks to make us “Wiser-Electors.”
Voters-India2030 by “InDiA Method Of Voting.” UnderEducated in Voting-Methods, time to change it with Mission Better InDiA-Voting Process. People/Systems change with Process/Critical Change.
Discriminative Vs Discretionary Voting Methods.
Poka-Yoke(Japanese idea-model) or Mistake-proofing is one of the fundamental duties of a designer of any system.
We applying this in Voting.. we can achieve lesser Voting, Dating, Mating & Recruiting Mistakes. By developing better Voting-Strategies.
A. Discriminative/Nonsensible Voting Methods & Criteria: “Voting-Biases kick our Collective Asses”.. Pancha Maha-Lotas to andh-voters.(Blind-Voters), (Chombu to Janata). Tenga and Mehenga Voting.
1. Historical Party Dynastic loyality: my Granpa, fathers & family voted for ‘X’party . I will vote for X-Party and grandchild. Dynastic nasty politics.
2. RRR-Bias:Religion-Region-Race.. by name identifying religion, classte and language or race, by face identifying colorism, racism, ageism, genderism..etc. people are biased to vote/mate/recruit for people who seem to “look” similar like them.. this is optical illusion leads to judging the book by its cover. Dont be biased by names, be based on the game (just/unjust by Constitutional Standards).
3. Classte-Bias: Candidate is of our class, caste, or area (Mohala, Agraharam, church.. etc).. Rich or dominant groups reserve their dominance by voting for their own caste or class.
4. Bribe Bias: Bribing voters, vote for note(Money for Vote), or other freebies like alcohol, food-biryani, products like TV, washing machine..etc (AiDMK).. services like free electricity,..etc(AAP) are not a healthy trend.
5. Polarized Power Bias: Identity-biased politics, Idealogy of polarizing people based on some identity and marginalizing or excluding minorities there by MOBilizing the Majority against the divided minorities.. This is winning in short term but may prove harmful/risky in the longterm for Irrationality, immorality & injustices. Booth capturing and EVM fraud voting.
B. Discretionary/Sensible Voting Methods & Criteria:
“Voting-Basis stick to our Collective Assets”.. Pancha Maha-dhootas to SatChitAnanda-voters.(Aware/Informed-Voters), (anbu to Janata). Rasta for grihasta Voting.
1. Quality/Qualifications of the candidature: Is the MP/MLA candidate qualified for Job (Graduate of Political Studies Science, Constitutional-Laws, Management Studies or any other Politics Related subjects), What are his Qualities. Is he/she empathic, with no criminal or corrupt or dynastic background.
2. What is hirs personal and party Agenda or Manifesto for this election. And does it have points for public good, have they delivered previous year manifestos without corruption or scams or tyranny(incumbents). What us their political performance and governance history are they safe & trustable to be given Vote/Date/Genes-Genitals/or Job/seat Offer Letter(Admission/Recruitment/Visa/Citizenship).
Rational Voters-Discretion(Basis) is applied and amplified against Irrational Voters-Discrimination(Biases).
What may be Best Practices for Indian Voters creating the Next Government of Public Servants/Representatives??
As Indian Citizen what’s the most important Constitutional-Power/Right to all citizens.. That we get as equal to the PM, CMs, Richest/Dominant Group Indians or from the Poorest/Marginalized/Vulnerable group of Indians..
The theme for the 13th NVD (2023) is “Nothing Like Voting, Vote for Sure”. As evident, the theme is such that it can capture the imagination of the voters. When citizens take pride in being a voter, as part of their civic duty, its impact on the level of governance is sure to be felt.
2. Voters Education, (International Resource) Indians maybe Educated but very few are Voter-Educated.. most of India has lack of Voter Education. It’s not only How to vote but what are better and Best Ways to Vote.https://aceproject.org/main/english/ve/ve10.htm
3. InDiA Methodto Vote:
1. Inquire about Constituency-, 2. Decide-Interview/m after you Investigate about Candidates.
3. Appoint by Vote Your Candidate/Choice(NOTA Too). (Note Candidate is one who is supposed to be accountable to you and can be held accountable by your first not the party or other partymen. The contract he has with you is the constituency/candidate-manifesto and party-manifesto.
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