S41: Project HithaShala: HealthyIndianSchools /Margadarsi-grp.

1. Hitashalas by Margadarshis Project-Page: Updtd(19/1/21) (#Healthy-Schools by Path-Visionaries). #ProjectHithaShala for (Parents-Kids-Teachers-Citizenry),

Our SharedVision: Ideal School Environments with Excellence for Ideal Future Citizens.

Purpose: To influence & bring in Systemic Grassroot level Changes for a healthy school environment and functioning to nurture Ideal Healthy Citizens of the Future and sustain the cascade.

Multi-Stakeholders Approach: Parents, Teachers, Students, Educational Researchers, Child Rights Activists, Child Psychologists, Systems Architects, School Designers, Policy Makers, NGOs, edu-partners, etc onto one space & platform for Discussions & Deliberations towards Ideas+InfoExchange and Implementations.

Group Invite: https://chat.whatsapp.com/HhClmFy8izIF8zMRAtYrXH

10 Major & Urgent Edu-Challenges to be Identified, Acknowledged and Addressed(Worst & Best Practices) at School & Block Education level.

Child Rights Abuses(Sexual & Non Sexual), Bullying, Child & Teen Depression /Suicides, Racism, Idealogy & Cult Abuse, Environmental and religious abuse…etc.

At Primary School Level(1-3): 1. Child Abuse Prevention & Healing Support, 2. Involvement of both parents and Family System, 3. Moral Reasoning 4. Social Media & Digital Distress Literacy.

At Middle School Level(4-6): 1. Bullying Prevention 2. Gender, Racial, Class-Caste & Religious/Sect Discrimination Prevention. 3. Genders & Gender-spectrum Sensitization, & personality development. 4. Physical & Sports education & Training. 5. Lack in Life skills(life kills). 6. Environmental Education. 7. Emotional Literacy 8. Substance abuse & Addiction Prevention Training. 9. Art & culture appreciation.

At High School Level(7-10/+12): 1. Scientific Temper (Critical Reasoning) & SecularHumanism education(Article-51ah), 2. Moral & Spiritual based Value Practices. 3. Civic-Social and Family Responsibility Relational-Education Awareness and Training 4. Sexuality & Relationship Education 4.Suicide Prevention Training. 6. Financial Literacy 7. Cultural Diversity & Empathy Training 8. Character & Basic Psychological & Teambuilding education. Depression & Suicide Prevention training & program.

At Pre-University college: Violence Prevention(All 5 Genders) ( Self Defence Class, WWE, Boxing etc)

https://www.protectyoungminds.org/good-pictures-bad-pictures/.

We want to promote Rationality, Science & Sensitivity: RSS- A Trinocular Vision.

The choice as Indian Citizens is this.. our education system has many flaws It produces the best Engineers, Doctors, Civil servants, Pilots, nurse.. etc we are Creating Financially Wealthy but Culturally Poor Children, but where is the education which can give the best Holistically Healthy Children & Citizens, best Healthy Minds, Bodies and societies for our nation and future. HEALTHY CHILDREN(Future Parents&Teachers) COME FROM HEALTHY SCHOOLS created by Todays Parents & Teachers. (Home & Societies) (HithaShalas).


Invite:
https://chat.whatsapp.com/KbkOJJ6vBMB99OKe2S7QNL

Hithashala-ProjectSheet: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1N6c5DTLFlHtzxsSNbwqGAejuJCjFmRvNTaZI9gftWFw/edit?usp=drivesdk

Our General Reference Documents:

1. https://www.unicef.org/child-rights-convention/convention-text-childrens-version

2. https://work.chron.com/roles-responsibilities-special-education-teachers-11790.html

3. https://www.indiatoday.in/education-today/featurephilia/story/7-immediate-changes-needed-in-the-indian-education-system-1579167-2019-08-09

4: Principles for Excellence in groups: https://tinyurl.com/y2xhv7la

5. https://psychcentral.com/relationships/top-reasons-for-divorce

*#where it is all goes? Dried-out or Misguided Love#*

Is there one core reason that’s root of all the 12 reasons listed in above link?..

I think its in Narcification of Children, Parents and Families.

If you want to save ur kids from Narcification.. Activate Project Hithashala in schools..

Narcification: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/01/30/s262-who-are-the-narczis-and-how-world-war-3-0-is-happening-under-our-noses/

Empathification: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/07/18/s324-empaths-toolkit/

Teachers are Reachers.

Suggestions to NEP & UCC. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2021/07/15/nep-school-reforms-by-prjct-hithashala/

S40: #TheGreatRevival : 1. Project_DearAllys & 2. A.N.Ts Alerters System.

Being informed of the ditches or humps ahead could it help in our collective journey? Have caution signs & Symbols helped the causations in your life?

Dear G-ders you may find, some Take-aways here from My(me+mydearones) 30+ years of Life’s experiences to give a way for our good lives.

CueWords: #DearAllys globally, Mission4 #HaPeer_World2030.

Like there are helpful ‘caution signs’ on the road journey, here are few signposts which I would like to hold out for G-ders here as redflags in our life journey.

We have seen brothers and sisters lost & suffer on the wrong path, they may not have had such signposts informing or warning them. So sharing here these signposts for you and our dearones to have a Safe & Sound Journey Ahead.

A Kind Street Sign for a safe journey.

Agony ants are there to listen to your pain after it happens, while anticipatory ANTS try listening to your future pains & preemptively alert you to prevent the hurt. Because Prevention is better than cure.

There are Allies who are serving higher purposes that help, sharing their links here. This is the ANTS method (AlertNearonesTrackerSystem).

1. PREVENT Being Scammed: https://scamprevention.info/

2. For Preventing Academic Burnouts for Schools and Universities; https://careertools.binghamton.edu/blog/2020/10/23/what-is-academic-burnout-and-ways-to-avoid-it/

3. For preventing educational Trauma: https://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/us_8619536

4. Preventing mobbing & multi-discriminations: http://stopbullyingcoalition.org/stop-mobbing

What Can you do to Minimize Workplace Discrimination and Harassment

5. Prevent Toxic Relationships(Guilt+Shame) Provide access to Tonic_Relationships(Gratitude+Sharing):

https://www.prevention.com/life/a28005124/ending-toxic-relationships/

https://www.wikihow.com/Avoid-an-Online-Romance-Scam

How to recognize and recover from the sociopaths – narcissists in your life

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/having-sex-wanting-intimacy/201705/4-ways-overcome-toxic-relationship

6. Preventing Racial, Facial, Social Discrimination:

https://www.wikihow.com/Avoid-Discrimination

https://velivada.com/2020/10/21/how-to-be-an-ally-here-is-the-answer/

7. For Preventing Social Media Addiction: https://www.thesocialdilemma.com/the-film/virtual-tour/host-a-screening/

8. Preventing Depression & Suicides.

https://www.verywellmind.com/suicide-prevention-tips-1067531

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/depression/how-prevent-and-manage-depressison

Also we have started an Suicide prevention Awareness Project and Support Group with a vision for Happier HaPeer_Indians details here. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2021/01/26/s45-i-want-us-all-to-survive-thrive-my-tryst-with-suicide-prevention/

Do share this message with others & also your links and awareness in comments below to others to prevent them into getting hurt, trapped or scammed. We dont expect much from the 99% G-ders they wont share any kind of awareness(they are just takers here for a take-away). it’s the 1% who may share awareness they are the Sharers (they are The Just Givers here to Give-a-way). If you are a Sharer I need not tell you this, Do share for alerting/empowering others, on the paths ahead which elders have tread.

Thanks to 99% for reading happy till here. Do detox from toxic places, people & principles. Thanks to the few maybe 1% of my G-ders for paying it forward you maybe/are a SAINTian(Self-check with link) welcoming you to the SAINTians group(we share SafeT alerts on multiple topics here).

*DEAR (Deep Expression Aids Recovery) Allys-Grp* (Depression Preventers(Dear_Allys)

Vision4OurHappyWorld

*GrpAIMs:* *Through Awareness & Proactivism* Preventing Negatv Incidents of DepressioN, DiscrimintN, DeceptN,DejectN, *End Suicides GlobALLY* by SystemicSupport-Info&Aids.

*ResourceSharing4:*: EmpthcSharrs, MHFirstAidrs Survi-Thrivrs, *How May I/V Help?* Gatekeepers4HOPE.

D🎯:Help+Heal 4Prevention
D🚫nt: Hurt/Spam.

*SupprtivSundays*

*DEAR_Allys invtd* https://chat.whatsapp.com/HQFz5Saug1G2xE9bGhFAZ2

DEAR_Allys United here: https://chat.whatsapp.com/HQFz5Saug1G2xE9bGhFAZ2F

Further relevant reading: Best Interview Questions and Mechanism: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2021/01/15/s37-questions-in-the-5-kinds-of-interviews-in-life/

2. Supportive September Campaign(2023). https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/09/02/s351-supportive-suptember-campaign/

S39: WhatsApp Migration: Survey & Results /sElectWisely-GRP

Lot of uncertainty was shared on Whatsapp”s new policy change, we asked in a survey for finding the best alternative and this was the results of the open random survey linked here: The survey is still open you may choose your preferred option in Qlink here.

Questionaire: https://www.strawpoll.me/42415141

Results: https://www.strawpoll.me/42415141/r

Results on (16/1/21): 1. 60% of participants had choosen Signal app

2. 28% participants choosen option Telegram app.

3. 12% other apps

Ideated by GRP for understanding the Situation and clarifying the way ahead.

Useful tools for groupmates Inter-Group Movement.

1. GroupS MAPping showing (Environments of Excellence)

Brought by ‘sElectYsly‘ a open grp4Democracy: the Select Wisely Group: https://chat.whatsapp.com/FcVe8iFJEtKJLcdYLLqNKm

S37: Face & Ace 5 kinds of Interviews!! Top- FAQs (Frequently Asked QUESTions) /GRP.

A2Z_Interviews’ Preps & Quizzes. #Job_Interview Intelligence. #Art&Science of Interviews.

Info from A to Z Hiring: From an Architect to a Zoo-Keeper, from an Abbot to a Zombie-killer, Bonus link to a Jobs-sharers Community group in end of Post.

This article Shares my Life-Insights from 20+Interviews as Interviewee(@Top Institutes & Companies) and 10+ Interviews as an Interviewer. Best wishes for next Hire & Hike.

Globally the 50 Most Important Interview & Review Questions in Work & Personal Lives

There are 5 kinds of Interviews in life, which are for purposes of 1.Selecting, 2.Hiring, 3.Training, 4.Promoting & 5.Appraisal: Firing-up (Inspiring) (Entry-extension Interview) or Firing-out (Terminating) (Exit-Interview). These may be part of processes an Individual, group or Organization (Company or Business). It may be useful in Professional & Personal (Familial-Community) Proctols too. #HR_Wise

Your Interview 3 Interviewers and 1 Interviewee (You, me or our brosis):

Intent of Grite-up: HELPFUL & USABLE for candidates, collaborators, core teams, Collectives, clans, college, company, community, country & Cosmos (9Cs).

WE wish all people to read2ask Questions in this article for Selecting/ Recruiting/Electing the right people for the right place, groups & positions? For our Right Futured SOCIETY, we may need to be prepared to answer (Interviewees) or be informed & confident to ask (Interviewers) these critical_questions (go/No-go) on behalf of self, groups, organizations & Ideas-Principles.

We need to Connect the right resource with the right requirement in the right way. Being born from a set of couple(parents) is maybe purely by chance, but taking up a role in a family, College, an office, Social group, romantic/platonic relationship, marital home, spiritual orgs or in the digital world depends on a couple(#) of deliberate choices(Informed or uninformed)by people.

These valuable Questions below attempt to Raise awareness from (Multiple)sides, so that You may lead in life by making better informed choices & helpful decisions for self, others & Ideas.

The 5 Categories of Interviews we can view are: Going through this questionnaire by which we can validate their Recruitment Pitch, Midway-Stitch or Switch & EoD-Ditch.

1. Admission into College/Institutes/art & science Academy for Students.(Education) eg. IITs, IISc or IIM interviews etc.. GRE or GATE_exam_score and other competitive Exam Scores matter along with the Colleges Ranking. Professionally done by the Career Counselors, and Educational agencies.

2. Admission into Jobs/Company/WorkPartnerships for Workers/Teams/NGOs.(Profession/Occupation) eg. Google Interviews, Army Selection, Parliamentarian Selection(Election), Govt jobs or private jobs.. etc UPSC score, Bank_exams, and other competitive experience till Date_Exams Score matters along with the Organizations Ranking & Banking. Professionally done by the Campus Placement, Commisions, HR, Third party BG Verification & Recruiment agencies testing, secret interviews & data collection done of your accomplices.

3. Admission into Marital Homes/Socio-CommunityCircles for Spouses/ LifePartners,HomeTeams (Marriage/Cohabitation). Recruitments for Spouse(Husband/Wife), Son-Inlaw, Daugter-inlaw, Sis/Brother-inlaw, Friends-inlaw(/GRP).. etc.. Eg. Dating, Arranged Marriage process, Marriage interviews. What matters here is Socio-Marital Compatibility, MATE exam Scores of you, your spouse(Romantic Partner) & both the families along with the socio-moral rankings. Supposed to be Professionally done by matchmakers and matrimonial agencies, not done in India, it’s just done commercially. Idea of formal Marital-Interviews with BG check is a radical idea to reform the Marriage-Industry.

4. Admission into the Civic/Spiritual Societies/Religion for the SpiritualSeekers & initiates. (Saints/Seminary). Eg Church, Mattas, Ashrams, Buddhist seminary, Atheist organization etc. Here your FATE_examScore matters along with the spiritual orgs ethereal Ranking.

5. Exit Interviews for leaving any of the above. Here your HATE_exam-Score matters along with the companies, community, economy etc trust levels tanking. Done by HR internal.

The common Questions In each pair of interview we can observe below. Also good way of reading this post is reading the same Numbered question in both the Set A & B consequently for better understanding.

SET A : Education or Job Interview Questions to be asked at Schools and Offices and Public Work & Material Spaces. Eg. Startups, Auditions, Music, Institutes, Industry, Commercial Investment etc..

  1. What are your strengths as a Student/Worker/Professional?
  2. What are your weaknesses as a Student/Worker/Professional?
  3. Why are you interested in Studying/working in [insert College /company name here]?
  4. Where do you see yourself in five years? Or Ten years? @College/company(Vision).
  5. Why do you want to leave your current College/company/collective?
  6. Why was there a gap in your studies/employment between [insert date] and [insert date]? (Reasonability)
  7. What can you offer us that someone else can not at Studies/Work?
  8. What are three things your former teacher/manager would like you to improve on?
  9. Are you and your family willing to relocate to offices across our locations/campuses?
  10. Are you willing to travel with company buisness demands? (eg..Hanuman & Co) *(Post COVID-19)
  11. Tell me about an accomplishment you are most proud of as a student/worker.
  12. Tell me about a time you made a mistake in studies/work.
  13. What is your dream Course/job & Dream Colleagues & Circumstances? (Expectations)
  14. How did you hear about this position in college/office. (SOURCES)
  15. What would you look to accomplish in new role the first 30 days/60 days/90 days on the course/job?
  16. Discuss your professional resume & experiences.
  17. Discuss your educational/Professional background.
  18. Describe/ Tell Us about yourself as a student/worker.
  19. Tell me how you handled a difficult situation at School/College & Office.
  20. Why should we Admit/hire you as Student/Employee ?
  21. Why are you looking for a new Degree/job? Intent.
  22. How would you deal with an angry or irate Classmate/collegue/customer? Teamability
  23. What are your salary requirements? (Hint: if you’re not sure what constitutes a fair salary range and compensation package, research the job title and/or company on Glassdoor.)
  24. Give a time when you went above and beyond the requirements for a project. (Commitment & Extendability)
  25. Who are our competitors/rivals at your college/job sector?
  26. What was your biggest failure as a student/Worker?
  27. What motivates you to study/work?
  28. What’s your availability as a student/worker?
  29. Who’s your mentor in education/occupation?
  30. Tell me about a time when you disagreed with your teacher/boss.
  31. How do you handle pressure in academics/work ethics?
  32. What is the name or identity of our Principal/CEO?
  33. What are your Academic/career goals?
  34. What gets you(Student/worker) up in the morning?
  35. What would your direct progress/job reports say about you?
  36. What were your Teachers/bosses’ strengths/weaknesses?
  37. If I called your Teachers/boss right now and asked him/her what is an area that you could improve on, what would he/she say?
  38. Are you a leader or a follower at school/college & Work environment?
  39. What was the last book you’ve read for fact or fun?
  40. What are your batchmates/ co-worker pet peeves?
  41. What are your hobbies related to education & work?
  42. What is your favorite website you most often visit for education/ work?
  43. What makes you uncomfortable at school & work?
  44. What are some of your leadership experiences at school & work?
  45. How would you quit or fire someone at school & work? (T.C, Pink Slip, Termination Letter, Legal proceeding on organization.. etc)
  46. What do you like the most and least about studying/working in this college/industry?
  47. What questions haven’t I asked you as a Seat/Job/Opportunity Giver?
  48. What questions do you have for me as an admission/Job/Work Taker?
  49. What are the Terms & Conditions in the offer letter we are signing as an official agreement. Joining & Orientation.
  50. What are the Colleges/company code of conduct/ethics, the HR policy, culture and growth opportunities compared to academic/industry Standards.

Asking and Answering these above questions satisfactorily you may not need to login to Monster.com again. and getting right answers for below questions before any-partnership one may avoid trapped by Monsters-In-law.com.

SET B : Home/Clan-Community & Retirement/Oldage-Homes Spiritual centre questions to be asked at Private-Residential & Spiritual spaces.

  1. What are your strengths as a Family member(FM)/Spouse-friend/Spiritualist?
  2. What are your weaknesses as a FM/Spouse-lover/Spiritualist?
  3. Why are you interested in Living-Loving/Marrying/Spiritualing in [insert HomFamilye/SpiritualPa t,FaithChurch Madarassa, or Matt]?
  4. Where do you see yourself in five years? Ten years? @Home/Matt
  5. Why do you want to leave your current Home/Matt?
  6. Why was there a gap in your Family/RelationshipStatus/Sadhana between [insert date] and [insert date]?
  7. What can you offer us that someone else can not as a FM/Spouse/Saadhak?
  8. What are three things your former friends/FM/Spouse-Lover/ would like you to improve on?
  9. Are you willing to relocate to familyplace/marital home/spiritual centre? Or u want to return to birth home or keep seperate home?
  10. Are you willing to travel with your spouse & family/SpiritualGuide? (Eg; Rama-Sita, QueenElizabeth-Prince Philip, Osho-Sadhguru-Prabhupada.. etc)
  11. Tell me about an accomplishment you are most proud of as a spouse-lover-friend/Spiritualist.
  12. Tell me about a time you made a mistake in home/SpiritualCentre.
  13. What is your dream home/Spiritual centre?
  14. How did you hear about this position/Opening in home/SpiritualCentre.(Referrals & Recos Preferred for trustworthiness)
  15. What would you look to accomplish in the first 30 days/60 days/90 days in our home/Spiritual centre?
  16. Discuss your Biodata/Spiritualpath/Siddhis.
  17. Discuss your familial/spiritual background.
  18. Describe yourself as a FM/Spouse/Spiritualistworker.
  19. Tell me how you handled a difficult situation at Home & Spiritual Centre(Temple,Mosque Church etc).
  20. Why should we marry/Accept you as FM/Spouse or Spiritualist?
  21. Why are you looking for a new Family/Spouse/ Spiritual Guide?
  22. How would you deal with an angry or irate Family member/ Spiritualist?
  23. What are your personal & family requirements? (Food, Clothing, Children, Money, lifestyle)
  24. Give a time when you went above and beyond the requirements for your family/friends & faith&Spirituality(Vows/Jihad).
  25. Who are our competitors at Neighbhourhood,Marriage/Spiritual sector?
  26. What was your biggest failure as a friend/FM/Spouse-lover/Spiritualist Worker?
  27. What motivates you to Family/Socialize with friends/Love-Sex/ do Spiritualwork?
  28. What’s your availability as a friend/Spouse/Father-mother/ Spiritualworker?
  29. Who’s your mentor in home/ExtendedFamily/FriendsCircle/ or spiritual circles?
  30. Tell me about a time when you disagreed with your parent/FamilyElders, seniors or your spiritual guide.
  31. How do you handle pressure in home & spiritual centre?
  32. What is the name of our Family elders(Matriarch+Patriarch)/Godparents/spiritual elders(Guru)
  33. What are your Personal/Family/Spiritual goals?
  34. What gets you(FM/Spirit) up in the morning?
  35. What would your direct Financial/medical/social/spiritual reports say about you?(Liabilities&Assets)
  36. What were your Parents/Spiritual Guide(Gurus) strengths/weaknesses?
  37. If I called your Parents/Elders/Friends/Spiritualists right now and asked him/her what is an area that you could improve on, what would he/she say?
  38. Are you a leader or a follower at home/Spiritual environment?
  39. What was the last book you’ve read for family, Society or Spirit?
  40. What are your friends, ex-lovers, Spouse, Spiritualists pet peeves/ complaints? Would they recommend you or give you a Background Investigation or BG Check for Due Diligence.
  41. What are your hobbies related to home & Spirituality?
  42. What is your favorite website you most often visit for home/personal use/Spirituality?
  43. What makes you uncomfortable at home & spiritual centre?
  44. What are some of your leadership experiences at home & spiritual centre?
  45. If you want to then how would one(you) quit, end personal relationship at home or spiritual centre. (Mutual Divorce, False/Fake Cases, Give/Take Alimony, legally terrorize in-laws/Children involved)
  46. What do you like the most and least about living/spiritualing in this family/path?
  47. What questions haven’t I asked you as a Spouse/Family/Spiritual Recruitee?
  48. What questions do you have for me as a Spouse/Family/Spiritual Recruiter?
  49. What are the Terms, Conditions & clear expectations in the proposal (Prenuptial) letter we are signing/Orally taking vow as a Socio-legal contract. Engagement, Wedding & Consumation.(mostly in fineprints)
  50. What are the FamilyClans/Seminary/MattAshram code of conduct/ethics, the SR policy, culture and growth opportunities compared to Social/Spiritual Standards.

For people who don’t want to spend time in being questioned in cases of (Medical, Legal & Financial places like Hospital, Courts or Bank-Loans) need to spend some time on these above questions. And like Good Companies Sign Professional_NDA’s– Non Disclosure/Discontinuation Agreements (Indeminity Bonds), similarly good Families & communities could sign Personal-NDAs Non-Deviation/Divorce-Deception Agreements (Community Bonds) for a Trustworthy Commitment and Conduct to keep integrity (Social-Roles, Responsibility & Rights).

Note to the G-Ders: If you think there are more relevant questions to be asked do share then in the Comments below to help the Candidates and Interviewers. Do share for other Candidates, (Maybe your Friends, Family, Colleagues or Community members and Country-Citizens)

Like Covid Protocol to be followed, Similarly these could be the BrotoCol, SistoCol, or Practocol, for different kinds of Interviews

Thank you.

Future Writings in pipeline:

Exit Interviews of Public & Private Spaces.

Further Related Readings:

1. MATE Exam Scoring

2. RelationShips Spectrum.

3. Environments of Excellence.

References:

1. https://www.glassdoor.com/blog/common-interview-questions/

2. https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/a32699646/questions-to-ask-before-marriage/

3. Exit Interviews: https://www.hcamag.com/nz/news/general/exit-interviews-what-questions-should-you-be-asking/243562

4. “InDiA Recruitment Method” : https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/01/08/s243-india-3step-method-for-candidate-selection-how-to-choose-the-right-person-for-the-right-placement/

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*For Money& Fin_Info, Job Offers, Business Opps, ShareMarket_Investing etc All Wealth Group Msgs: Financial Security_Empowerment of IndianEthonomy2030*
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S36: Quest for right Questions /GRP

Questions to ponder that will make one Wonder. Do try answering your fav that you may share in Comments section. When we ASSUME, we make Ass of You and me.

1. What is the question that you should be asked to know the most valuable truth about you & your closest ones?

2. What do you & your family care about and what are things that you & your family dont care about?

3. Who are people you are grateful for, and what are the things you are thankful for?

4. Where were you 5 years back & where do you see yourself 5 years from now?

5. What are the things close to your heart, and who are the things close to your heart? What does it say about the size of your heart?

6. What do you worry about and what do others worry about you?

7. Which is more important question to you-r people ‘The whats’, ‘The whys’, ‘The whos’ or ‘how much’?

8. What do you remember as most aromatic, dramatic, dramatic, prophylactic and/or therapeutic incidents/factors in your life?

9. How do we trust people, who are the most trusted people(Living or past) in our lives, why & how much do we trust them?

10. What are our common goals we can collaborate for and common duels we need to overcome.

11. What can be a worthy purpose of human lives? What has been purpose of your parents life, and what is yours?

12. What do you subscribe to that people are driven by logic or emotions or by any other factor?

13. What are the strengths and weakness of you, your family and your professional and personal communities. (SWOT)

14. How would you describe when theres a cup having water upto half level?.. what would others say?

15. What were the questions you were asked the most number of times, what were your answers?

16. What’s the best and worst thing about the society right now?

17. Who maybe closest most intimately with you(They know it all about you)? Is it your mother or father or someone else?.and why do you think so? And who do you think you are closest to intellectually, behaviourly, socially, emotionally & genetically(anyother-ly)?

18. Where do we not apply Gender Differences and where gender roles come into play.

19. What is more important to you the question or the answer?

20. Who should be trusted and who shouldn’t be?

21. What is ones deepest desire and why?

22. What makes people good, Average and bad? How does it apply in your experience?

23. When does experience matter and when it doesnt?

24. Why do companies do Background checking of people? Whom & How it helps?

25. What is proper way of doing Background check, what would you disclose and what would you hide?

26. What are the principles you hold up in your life?.. Sharing, Brotherhood, Integrity, cleanliness order etc.. why does it matter? How does one keep them in practice.

27. What are the best things of value your parents have given you? What have been the worst you have got.

28. Have you or someone else been blocked by people around you, or you have blocked someone on your phone. If so why?

29. What are you & your families favorite quotes ?

30. What has been most happiest times for you and your family & which has been the toughest? How was it experienced

31. What are things that people like to take away and what are things that they like to give away in general? What is it that you like to take away & give away.

32 What are your views on current affairs? What are your views on your views.

33. What did you wish to become when you grew up.? What’s your dream.

34. Where Do you see a  Boxing Ring where One opponents Arms are tied by the Boxing-rules and the biased-refree is freely joining & hiting the tied persons along with the other unfair contenders.. It’s happening in Real Life.  Where?? ANS: Indian Marital-Legal System.

S35: GATE Scores, FATE- Scores and other Exams of Interest.

There are many exams that people take to be as a gateway to some places of value and quality. You may have taken few here formally, and may have taken few informally even without your knowledge, but all exams are important to attempt and know your prospects for a better future & higher education or opportunity. Have written 34 posts before this for General Readers this is little mature readers only(18+ years & Explorative minded). Please recheck the 2 criterias before reading further.

Your GATE score may help you in finding formal entry into the right gate of top academic institutions. Similarly ones FATE scores can help one formally get into the institution of marriage and family.

First in series are career(money) oriented exams the B.series are family(society) oriented exams. Being good in careers(MoneyMaking) and being good carriers of Genes and memes(Family-SocietyMaking) are a different ball game. (Pun intended).. eg Abdul Kalam, Modi etc.

1. GATE-exam: Graduate Aptitude Test in Engineering is an examination that primarily tests the comprehensive understanding of various undergraduate subjects in engineering and science for admission into the Masters Program of institutes as well as jobs at Public Sector. Is conducted jointly by Indian Institutes of Science and Technology in major cities.

1A. FATE/MATE-exam: Family/Marital Aptitude Test in Engines-nearing, is an hypothetical examination that primarily tests expectations and the comprehensive understanding of various underbelt subjects in Young-in-hearing and soxcial science for admission into the Masters Program of institutions (Families, Tribes, Clans, Genetic-Communities, Races etc), as well as jobs at Pubic Sector. Is to be conducted by Indian Institute of Marital Sciences and Personal Technology.

To clarify the fog in fairly tales of the ‘Happily ever after’ story and move closer to reality, which Is happily ever after for the lucky people and maybe ‘sadly ever after’ with the unlucky/yucky people. Where Luck maybe right way of Looking to Understand Core Knowledge.

Course Books: Arthashastra, Yogasutra, Kamasutra, other sutras.

This exam is conducted by the Indian Institute of Marital Sciences. To give eligibility to B.L Bachelors of life for getting into courses of M.Fam Masters of family life. By doing this course they will be able to master all courses of life in form of discourse and intercourse.

Finally one will be awarded the certificate for eligibility into married life. Here are few other exams of similar relevance to Money-making and family-making.

2. CAT-Exam: Common Admission Test for Indian Institute of Management

2b. BAT-Exam: Bride/Groom Admission Test for International Institute of Marriagement.

3. AIEE-EXam: All India Engineering Entrance Examination is an examination organized by the Central Board of Secondary Education (CBSE) for admissions into Bachelors Courses.

3b. AIFE-EXam: All India Family-nearing Entrance Examination is an examination organized by the Central Board of Sexondary Education (CBSE) for admissions into Bachelors Courses.

4. NEET exam: National Eligibility Cum Entrance Test.

4B. MEET exam: Marital Eligibility Cum Entrance Test.(Pun Intended)

5. CLAT-exam: Common Law Admission Test for eligible lawyers.

5a. CLIT-exam: Common LoveOrgans Integrity Test. (For all genders Male, Female, Intersex, Thirdgender etc) for eligible lovers

6. JAM– Joint Admission Test for masters in science.

6b. JAAM– Joint Areas Admission Test for masters in home/family/couples science iska anJAAM ache hoga Jab sare questions sache honge.

7. CEED– Common Entrance Exam for Design conducted by IIT-Bombay

7b. SEED– Social&Sexual Entrance Exam for Designing Families conducted by IIT-JODIpur.(Indian Institute of Takatakology-Jodipur)

8. NATA-exam: National Aptitude Test in Architecture (NATA). Architects can create award winning Houses & human environments.

8a. SHATA-exam: Smart Homely Aptitude Test in Altrueism. Altruists can create rewarding Homes, families, groups & social environments.

9. UPSC-exam: Union Public Service Commission exam. The Civil Services Examination (CSE) is a nationwide competitive examination in India conducted by the Union Public Service Commission for recruitment to various Civil Services of the Government of India, including the Indian Administrative Service, Indian Foreign Service, and Indian Police Service.

9b. M.UPSC-exam: Maritally United Public Service Cummission of the world. The Civil Services Examination (CSE) is a passionwide compenitrative SeXamination conducted by the, yet to be proposed International Union Pubic Services Commission for recruitment to various Cevil Services of the human breeders of all nations, including the National SADministrative Service, National For-reign Service, and National poLICE Services.

10. GRE: Graduate Record Examination

10b. GRE: Gray-duet Record Examination, for testing ability to sing duets when old with grey hairs.

11. IELTS-exam: International English Language Testing System: is an international standardized test of English language proficiency for non-native English language speakers. 

11b. IEMTS-exam: International Empathy and Morality Testing System is an international standardized test of Empathic language proficiency for non-native Ethical language speakers. 

12. VISA-Interview: Very Important for Sailing Abroad, important for legal emigration.

12b. VISA-interview2: Very Important Socio-Sexual Alignment Interview for couples entering into a marital agreement and familial-social contract. Important for legal conjugation and copulation leading to guestation & Genes replication.

Just like people associated with these exams are insiders who may be more aware to Train people, prepare QP, conduct test, assess or leak the papers.. (Teachers, Lecturers, Professors, Medical lecturers, Question Paper Makers, Supervisors, examination body, interview panel, dept staff etc )

Similarly there are insiders of these B series Exams.. like Marriage Counsellors, Marital Legal experts, Sexologists, Psychologists, Lawyers, Advocates, Family welfare NGOs, Marriage Bureau Brokers & Breakers, Mediation centre employees, Documentary film makers, Family rights advocates, Family welfare workers, Broken families, ex-lovers(level3), Divorcees, Ex-Spouses, Relatives(also aware children) of Seperated/troubled Couples,.. etc) one may get a peak into the question paper from them if they are reflective & caring enough to share and clarify. But for the rest newbies in preparation these exams it’s more of a chance than choice, given that there is lack of coaching institutes and caring individuals for these exams.(the links below aims to help the naive newbie).

While Google may help you find resources with the A Series exam, you may not find resources for ur B.Series Exam preparations. But you can search on Gurugle’s Glog here This page wants to help you and our friends in preparations for the Family-Marital life exams.

Hard to reach KGF(KolarGoldFields) in Karnataka and mine for gold, similarly in karnataka are place offering priceless value Bengaluru BGF(BengaluruGoalsField) & GGF(GurusGoldenwordsField) at glog(Vcare2Dare) here.

Disclaimer: This posts intentions are to inform and make minds think critically for yourself. DO your own Due Diligence, Do read what you may need, you may accept what makes sense for you now, reject what doesnt here and share with other dearones who may need it in future..

For all of us its easier to spot and see Some people are physically challenged people-groups, takes some efforts and tests to perceive the intellectually or mentally challenged people-groups. The toughest task we may have is to find people & places to help with the unmet needs of the morally, Psycho-Socially, maritally or ethically challenged. G-ders Alert: Beware of such people, family, places or systems. The A.Series exams help us in Scientific, Technological & Financial Advancements of individuals and their closed subgroups, while a paradigm shifting B.Series exams may help for Ethical, Social & Spiritual Advancements of Peoples’-collectives and societies-wholistically organically and sustainably.

Yours attempting to be Rationo-Ethically,

HumaRA-Priyamitra Prasad.

S33: #ThankingThursdays / GRP

Bye Bye 2020, Thanks a Lot..

And Good to See you 2021!!! We Welcome you into our lives.

Dear G-ders wishing you a Happy New Year 2021 Ahead!!

A positive Attitude can get us to a certain Altitude, and when we reach a plateau its Perseverance with Gratitude that can keep us there and take us higher, further in our Life Journey.

Thanks giving is a culture of honoring all contributions and contributors in our life.

Which is the most Thankful-grateful commandment in the ten biblical commandments?

Iobserve it may be ‘Honor Thy Parents’@Ephesians 6:2 (Biological+NonBiological)(Sri Krishna, Sri Rama)’, as a gratitude for all that they have done for their children. When children are grateful to their parents’ pure/selfless and unconditional contributions the children get opportunities to rise up to their natural mode of goodness, reach an abundance mindset and create further harmony in their lives & environments. (Exceptions: Maybe unfortunate, historic orphans, abandoned/abused/alienated/arrogant childhood care in cases of situations, Narcissistic Biological/Tragical Traiting/trainings)(Eg. Karna, Moses)

This resonates with a south Indian saying, Matha-Pitha-Guru-Daivom (Meaning Mother-Father-Teacher&God is the sequence of reverence).

List of our Gratitudes for 2020.

1. Gods Grace, Our family having two second lives. parents having both been out from ICU, after Covid Scare. My Prayers for Krishna, Jesus & practicing Budheartful-Meditations were answered I feel so ever grateful.

2. Our extended Family and friends praying and supporting us for our well being during prevention, hospitalization and slow recovery. I cant thank them enough for in the coldest and darkest of hours it was the the candles(Dearones & their wishes) which gave us the light and warmth to keep us going.

3. Not many covid cases in our neighborhood. We are wishing/praying daily and sharing Covid Health info of prevention in various groups.

4. We as a nation faced so many challenges this year(Covid, Chinese, Pakistani agression) Indian systems going haywire but managing to survive

5. Thankful to have started blogging, Its good space of expression of love for ideas, words and writings. Also grateful to write & grow, Philosophers, RITers, MHTians and Actober group to be a motivation to write and share myself.

6. Thankful to the home where we cud have a small terrace & ground garden area, were we harvested a variety of vegetables.

7. Grateful for the nearby lake walkway for the family walks and long runs in the jogging track.

8. Grateful for the wonderful co-Sharers of various groups like SGMeditation, BuTEA, HumaRA, LAN(x) Wewadh-GD3, BKA, HTN, BTN, JOYn, MHT.. and many more . I have learnt a lot & benefitted in multiple ways from the sharings in the group. I am inspired by the grp members concern and care for the focusSubjects(Health, Meditation, Careers, Heritage, Languages etc) others.

9. Grateful to Bengaluru and Bengalureans for the community of citizens and atmosphere we create here, inspite of so many challenges we all still stick together and move ahead.

10. Its this magical spirit in many around, that makes us grateful for 2020 and hopeful for 2021.

Wishing all on completion of a very eventful old year 2020 & a Very Joyful new year 2021 ahead.

Thoughtfully Yours,

GRP

Week 2: #TruthfulThurdays.

Today I vow to speak the truth come what may, whatever questions are asked I shall answer in most truthful way.

#ThoughtfulThankingThursdays

Breaking Happens by Chance, Healing happens by choice. /GRP (7/1/21)

#ThankfulThursdays

Thanking all the people who were/are/willbe connected with us in our lives. For there are reasons why people come in our lives and those may sometimes be the very reason why people go away from our lives. But the only reason why people stay is the “Unconditionality” in them or commonality in us. They need no reason to be there for you except the reason is themself. Thanking all people unreasonably caring about relationships. Those who see the ‘me’ in others.. the others in ‘me’. That ALL is me only.- GRP

great people are grateful people.

When People Fall or fail. Observe these responses in people around. 1. Watch it happen silently 2. Laugh and mock the phenomenon 3. Laugh and mock at the person. 4. Walk to and help the person up. 5. Walk away and wish it never happened. 6.. 7…

S32: #WeedingOutWednesdays /GRP

It helps to practice detox, heightened efforts of removing ills from our lifestyle & character. Here is an attempt at weeding-out the mind-garden on Wednesdays, for the clarity of fruitful & beautiful mind-orchards.

There are useful ideas and thoughts collated here which may be common knowledge but which can be highlighted & realized, only with ‘personal, deep, reflective & empathetic thinking‘. Which many of us arent trained for in our formal education nor can these come from casual superficial experiencing. Sharing here for my dearest G-ders.

These are few realizations I have had from Family & friends/the minds who cared to share. What in our lives may be small-inner choices making large-outer differences.

Week-1: 31/12/2020

There are proper(Good/best practices)(Useful Plants) and improper Concepts(Ignorant/worst practices)(Weeds) and varied ways of doing things. Untill we know both/all sides we cant know the difference, which helps to choose the best way or approach. Here below are few recommendations for weeding out wrong practices on Weedlessday. Minor Changes can have Major Impacts(Butterfly effect). Clearing out the few small weeds can be a good deed for many big plants(Gutter-fly effect/GRP :))

1. While seated on a chair, is the habit of Crossing our legs good or bad for health?

A: Its common behaviour to cross our leg when sitting on a chair but it harms in many ways, it can cause a temporary increase in your blood pressure and lead to poor posture. Its especially dangerous for fertile men as it may raise the heat & pressure in the groin area and effect their sensitive reproductive system, leading to male infertility. BETTER Solution: Sit up straight with the legs positioned straight(no laptop obstruction) and we may cross legs safely at the ankle. (Idea Courtesy: Sidhha Guru on TV & Alexander Technique) Grooming tips for the groom/GRP.

2. The Shirt we tucked in our pant is visible , but what’s to be done with the inner wear the vests(Baniyan) we wear, is it to be over the innerwear under shirt or tucked in boxer/brief? Which is better & why?

A: Its good/better to tuck our vests in the brief/innerwear as the movements of upper body tends to bring the vest in an awkward way around the waist. Tucking in the briefs gives a manageable waistline and appearance. Also raising our hand (Idea courtesy: Karthik.B)

3. Line of shirt in the front to be aligned with zipline of pant for better aesthetics.( ICourtesy: KB)

4. Its better to keep the home UPS inverter system outside our homes compared to inside as it clears useable floor space and reduces acid vapour exposure for internal environments. (IdeaCourtesy: Ar.Venkatesh).

5. Improper innerwear can effect a persons health Bra size and womens health (IdeaIntroduction in msg by Priti.Patil in Ri-hab(Right Habits) Group)

6. Brief or Boxers which is better choice for mens health? and their families future.( A. Boxers are safer choice for male fertility and sperm count). Tight briefs and thick jean pants in summers or hot environment are sperm killers, also air tight VIP frenchies create a sweaty and moist environment for rashes, yeast and fungi infections. (IdeaCourtesy: Male Ayurvedic Doctor at J.B Nagar/Blr) Here is a informative survey on this question.

Do share any common sense idea you think you know should be common knowledge but you observe that many may not know as it’s not told or shared formally, which can be usefully highlighted here.

Week 2: 6/1/21(Wed@Bengaluru)

#WeedingOutWednesday IdeaXplorations/GRP Going for Whole detox.

1.Read into ideas in ‘Whole detox‘ by Dr.Dianna Minnich

2. Shanna Soulfrequency.com

3. Monthly Try-out Veganuary.com https://veganuary.com/try-vegan/3

Week3: ‘Simplicity is the ultimate Sophistication'(A.E) and the way towards it first is stepping through complications.- GRP

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