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Let’s Unite to “Educate, Agitate, Organize.” _ Dr.Ambedkar
Deeply Exploring & Explaining these 3 Words & Concepts their Roots, Shoots & Fruits.
Ambedkar’s 3 main Ideological-Influences of life: Are the 3 positive personalities & related Eu-Ideologies of
1. Jyothi Rao Phule (Educate-for Rationalism of Masses I.e Innocent-Sheeple. JR Founded SatyaShodak Samaj in India).
2. Gautama Buddha (Agitate for Egalitarianism against Supremacism of Narc-Systems I.e Arrogant-Elites/Tyrants/Wolves Founder of Original Buddhism 1.0).
3. John Dewey (Organize-with Pragmatism of Just_Egalitarians I.e Resilient-Guardians/Sheepdogs). Philosopher & Research Academic Guide of Ambedkar.
All the 3 above Personalities were challengers of Status-Quo and Systems-Reformers, Which helped Dear_Ambedkar become Dr. Ambedkar.
Ambedkar’s Works Library. https://blogs.cul.columbia.edu/global-studies/2019/04/15/speaking-truth-to-power-dr-ambedkar-and-columbia-university/
Its cyclically a triad, Ambedkar wanted to positively impact all 3 spheres of 1. Education by Rationalism (in Societies-Culture for Equality), 2. Agitations by Egalitarianism in Politics for Justice. & 3. Organizations by Pragmatism in Constitutions & Religions for Fraternity of all Citizens.
Ambedkar was a voracious reader, researcher & Writer. He was a Democratic-Socialist by ideology of his guide Prof. John Dewey.
Extending the Trium.
“omne trium perfectum‘ https://virtualspeech.com/blog/rule-of-three-speech
1. Educate Civic-Socially,
2. Agitate Religio-Rationally, &
3. Organise Consti-Politically.
This is what Ambdekar did with
1. Educate with PES, https://www.brambedkar.in/peoples-education-society/
2. Agitate with Navayana. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Navayana
3. Organise with Constitution & RPI.
1. https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-india-65175711
2. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Republican_Party_of_India
The Mission to Transform India for a more Egalitarian, Ethical, Rational & Constitutional India was set as per Ambedkars Visions and Aspirations for the Egalitarians.
John Dewey’s Influence on Ambedkar.
https://www.forwardpress.in/2017/05/john-dewey-pragmatism-communication-and-bhimrao-ambedkar/
Below are 3 Projects Linked to Triumic_Slogan popularized in Dr. Ambedkar’s Message.
1. Educate: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/08/03/s336-egalitarian-students-resources-page/
3. Organize: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2021/12/06/s88-project-jaibhim-india_2030-groups-vision-for-indian_egalitarianism/
When we try to decode the enigma Babasaheb we find he was at core a “Rational-Pragmatic_Egalitarian” Rational(Phule) & Pragmatic(Dewey) Egalitarian(Buddha). He rejected most top 3+ Major Religions of his time and Chose a Rational: Atheistic-IndicReligion of Buddhism and tweaked for current times as Navayana or Navayanism for furthering the Causes of Justice, Equality & Fraternity. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/07/20/s326-ambedkars-tri-slogan-tri-mantra-decoding-ambedkars-code/
Ally Place for Rationalism. *ResrcGrp:* Place 4 Rationalism, Scientific-Temper, Atheism& Secularism and sharing Concepts of open, deep-tech(A.I, ML..etc) & Free_Sciencers.
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Why Buddhism? Chosen by Ambedkar over other 20 other Religions in India?
Below text is post by an our intellectual friend Mr Mangesh Dahieale from Secundarabad. Recommended reading.
Buddhist Approach to Knowledge Production
As we all know that the world is subjected to change, impermanence, decay, and death. All the physical things are undergoing change. However, when we study the biological entities, like life, it appears to be changing fast in terms of the individual species, but on the level of life, the DNA appears to be in existence forever, if we consider the deep history of life on the earth. The ability to replicate goes on with the information is repeated in all the life forms. Yes, the individual species does not long last, but the life as such goes on. This continuation of the information is due to replication, but the replication is subjected to environmental interactions. This dynamic interaction gives rise to knowledge that create resilient species to the change. This knowledge in the species is for the survival. The two key terms introduced by Darwin are ” Variance ” and ” natural selection ” which leads to evolution of the species without any creator.
Chiara Marletto, in her fascinating book the Science of Can and Can’t, explains that there is another resilient entity ( or let us call it system). That is, thinking, the world of ideas. The knowledge is produced by virtue of two operators, conjectures and criticism. The evolutionary equivalents of variance and natural selection are conjectures and criticism in the knowledge production. MarIetto’s book is about science and in itself a fascinating read. But we will cull these two important ideas of conjectures and criticism for our use here. It is the knowledge, in the biological system and human societies, that can create survival or continuation. Knowledge production is essential for the evolution of the societies and their continuation.
That no knowledge is final and nothing is infallible is the important feature of the knowledge production in Buddhism. The Buddha never accepted anything as infallible. This led to flowering of the philosophy, philosophical ideas, systems of thoughts in the Indian subcontinent. This led to creation of inquiring, inquisitive, and open society. In a nutshell, it helped to evolve human societies, before the thinking society was countered with the violent forces. The emergence of knowledge society has also helped the rival systems of thoughts to revise, rethink, and reformulate. The process of knowledge production came to the grinding halt in the Indian subcontinent only to be continued by the truth seekers (sants, derived from the Indic root reflecting truth, sat ) such as Kabir, Ravidas, to name a few, who majorly came from the masses.
The knowledge produced by the Buddhists is not lost to the time. It exists in the form of manuscripts available even today. The Buddhist thinkers today have access to the rich knowledge. But the environment has changed a lot, particularly, the man – made environment in terms of technologies, communication, habitation, and even climate.
The rival system of thoughts of Buddhism, the brahmanism tried to locate the source of all knowledge in the Vedas and continued to preach the sacredness and infallibility of the Vedas, thus creating a dead, fossilised, and hieratic philosophical system. It cannot survive the dynamic environment, but still is resilient, causing unprecedented damage to the humanity. Its modern avatars, Nazism and Fascism, were destroyed by force.
Karl Popper, one of the advocates of the fallibilism, that nothing is final or infallible, prefered evolutionary reforms over revolutions. The debate perhaps goes back to Thomas Paine and Edmund Burke during the French Revolution. It goes back to the Buddha’s time. To take sides is not easy. However, one can not discount the fact that production of knowledge, reconstruction of the past knowledge, and inquiring into possibilities of newer knowledge is critical for human race.
What is the Buddhist position on knowledge production ?
As the Buddha is evolutionary in his thinking, he encouraged thinking, which essentially involves questioning. In the Early Buddhist Texts, the Buddha is questioned by all sort of people. When the Buddha was alive, he interacted with the people, at times, counter questioning them directly or rhetorically. Questioning the Buddha and his answers have been handed down to us as the knowledge produced by the rigorous questions and answers. This implies that we can question the Buddha today with the new questions. The living Buddha is not there to answer but left enough behind to make conjectures ( like he did) and apply critical thinking (again what he did as well).
On limits of language/concepts and contemplating one’s own mind
The Buddha used language in an innovative ways. In the process of knowledge production, he invented new language, terms, conceptual frameworks. His most important insight was that there is a limit to language and concepts. However, they are necessary means to contemplate and understand.
The Buddha taught using languages and concepts to know the basis of all the experiences, the mind itself. Though the efforts are now made to know the mind empirically, the Buddha offered methods to know the mind. This knowledge to know the human mind is handed over to us, but with a caveat that one apply the methods. The methods lead to cessation of signs, languages, and stilling of mind which is source of all human experiences. This going beyond the grasp of language and conceptual framework is nirvana. This is the ultimate realization, but this experience when emerged out of it informs all the interactions with the world of humans and environment prompting higher planes of existence for all.
Like in Modern Times people Consumers of Telecom-Services can Change their Phone-Network with same Phone-Number called at MNP (Mobile Number Portability) similarly Religious-Services can be changed with Religious Member Portability (RMP) where religious services is dependent less by–chance of birth-clanhome or adopted-family but is more by-choice and by well-informed decision of existing-options. By Birth one can belong to parental-religion/nation and by choice one can get Visa or Religionship(Like Citizenship) of a rational and better serving religion.
The UCC: Uniform Civil Code can either be..
1. Ugly-designed Cievil Code or 2. UltiMATEly-designed Civilizing Code.
Everthing Depends on Participation of the Baseful_BASISED in Facts from Intellectuals+Academia & Committed Citizenry (i.e Neo_Politics V5.0) Vs the Baseless_BIASED by fiction of Vested-Interests & Committed_Tyranny (Old_Politics 1-4.0).
Rooted for Our Nation, Our Needs & Our Reforms towards Our Futures. UCC for India can be for safety & security of families & it can turn out to be the greatest remedy (Medicine), comedy (Mistake) or tragedy (Malice), it depends on the principles of the Communities (Minds) creating & implementing it. We Sow what we reaped, and reap what we sowed.
Visions to Divorce-proof & create Sustainable-families by Safey-fying well-informed & formed Marriages & Reduce Ill-informed Damages.
Whether marriages are made in Heaven, Havan or in Oven. Depends on the two or more Inter_family Mothers-In-laws & Ideological Compatibility between the partnering-spouses in many cases where the Mothers-belief or mater-Religion/ideology hold the remote control of the minds & relational life choices of children & family members.
Can Share about UCC Suggestions @ .Gov.in
Top 4 Better_UCC Sources of Suggestions here, feel free to take any, add more and Cite them and fill for the UCC suggestions. Neglect our social duty at own and others risk. Or Do it for Safety of all. Please Care, Share & Amplify this Call2 Action.
Our Opportunity for Better_Indian Familial_Systems.
#BetterCodes = #BetterFamilies
#Bitter_Codes= #BitterFamilies
Choose or Loose Opportunity to betterify with well-designed systems: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/07/19/s325-rational-ucc-vs-biased-ucc-citizens-call-for-better-uniform-civil-code/
Like it or not This is going to affect us all at the roots. If we act rationally it can be better, if we neglect or let others make it irrational, it can get worse. Be aware, Be Warned.
Source1: UCC Proposals by GRP July14 https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/07/14/s320-hatrick-day-moon-modi-honeymoon/
Source2: Note from a WiseElecter Citizen(Indra):
UCC can accommodate different customs/requirements of tribals, sects, regions & genders, by including them as options along with secular rational UCC option for each life stage/circumstance in a Pre-marital agreement. Each couple can mix, match, choose & finalize as per their individual requirements.
A pre-marital agreement should be mandated to be filled & signed by each couple before wedding. A detailed list will bring clarity & mutual understanding of each other’s expectations, wishes, preferences, rights, responsibilities, spending style, parenting approach & plans for a married life as well as how to handle divorce.
Write a list of family issues & legal suggestions.
Get reviewed by a psychologist & law professor.
Submitted: https://www.civis.vote/consultations/513/read
Source3: Vaastav Foundation https://twitter.com/vaastavngo/status/1680050635004317696?s=20
Source4: Mens Rights India(MRI): https://docs.google.com/document/d/1zJAN8TYEo2tC81VSH6NQlg9rW5Rged4dwfOwQ0q_Ceo/edit?usp=sharing
More Resources, Discussions and Call to Actions at Manavmitras & HumaRA Mitrad Groups.
50+Helplines: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/01/07/s241-top-50-indian-helplines-for-you/
Positive Genderity Group: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2021/12/02/s87-project-manav_mitras-connect-heart2heart-for-universal-brotherhood-fraternal-culture-friendships-group-prasad/
Risks of Breaking India Forces to Break Indian Families: https://psychcentral.com/relationships/top-reasons-for-divorce
More Family Safety Is in Better UCC.., More Family Failures in worser UCC.. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/07/19/rational-ucc-proposals-2023/
Some more Info Sourced from Indra in Wewadh Debates Group.
Feedback Points on Uniform Civil Code by Vivek Deveshwar is marked with CC0 1.0 Universal
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Introduction
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Alimony Reforms
Duration of Marriage
Duration of marriage should be codified into alimony consideration and calculation: Under Hindu Marriage Act (HMA), there is no concept of duration of marriage in deciding on alimony amount. This leads to very unfair and unequal treatment where a wife who stayed with husbands for few days or weeks gets treated on par with a wife who has lived married life for 20 years before separation. Supreme Court has mentioned about duration of marriage in Rajnesh vs Neha judgment. However, this needs to be brought into statute in a proper codified manner. Just as an example, below is Texas, US law on deciding alimony based on duration of marriage: https://texaslawhelp.org/article/spousal-maintenance-alimony
Supreme Court in Rajnesh vs Neha 2020 judgment (page 37) has recognized that duration of marriage should be a factor in determining amount of alimony award and lifetime alimony will be inequitable on husband for short duration marriage:
Permanent alimony
(i) Parties may lead oral and documentary evidence with respect to income,
expenditure, standard of living, etc. before the concerned Court, for fixing
the permanent alimony payable to the spouse.
(ii) In contemporary society, where several marriages do not last for a
reasonable length of time, it may be inequitable to direct the contesting
spouse to pay permanent alimony to the applicant for the rest of her life. The
duration of the marriage would be a relevant factor to be taken into
consideration for determining the permanent alimony to be paid.
Lifetime alimony when no children is bad public policy: Also, it is seen that many women become eligible for awards of lifetime alimony for relatively short marriage and no children in marriage. It is unjust on men and their families who are burdened with a huge financial outlay for no fault. It is again unjust by not differentiating between women who contribute in marriage for decades and then separate and those who stay for a few months or 1-2 years at maximum.
Reference: Summary of how alimony varies by duration of marriage in few states of US
Summary of Alimony laws in few states of United States limiting time of alimony (monthly) based on duration of marriage
California
For marriages that lasted less than 10 years, the general guideline is that spousal support may last for a period equal to half the length of the marriage. However, this is not an absolute rule, and the court has discretion to deviate from it based on other relevant factors.
For marriages that lasted 10 years or more, there is no presumption or guideline regarding the duration of spousal support. In such cases, the court has broader discretion to determine the length of support, and it may continue for an indefinite period, especially in long-term marriages where one spouse has a demonstrated need for support and the other has the ability to pay.
It’s important to note that spousal support orders can be modified or terminated based on a significant change in circumstances, such as the supported spouse becoming self-supporting or the paying spouse experiencing a significant decrease in income.
Texas
In Texas, alimony is referred to as “spousal maintenance.” The Texas Family Code provides guidelines for the duration of spousal maintenance based on the length of the marriage.
For marriages that lasted less than 10 years, the maximum duration of spousal maintenance is generally limited to five years. However, the court may order a shorter or longer duration depending on the specific circumstances of the case.
For marriages that lasted between 10 and 20 years, the maximum duration of spousal maintenance is typically up to five years. However, if the court determines that the spouse seeking maintenance has a disability or is the primary caregiver of a child with a disability, the duration can be extended up to ten years.
For marriages that lasted 20 years or more, the court can order spousal maintenance for a maximum duration of up to ten years.
It’s important to note that these are general guidelines, and the court has discretion to deviate from them based on various factors. The court will consider factors such as the spouse’s ability to provide for their own needs, their education and employment skills, the age and health of the spouses, and any history of family violence, among others.
Additionally, spousal maintenance can be modified or terminated under certain circumstances, such as the remarriage of the recipient spouse or a substantial change in the financial situation of either spouse.
Massachusetts
In Massachusetts, the duration of alimony is determined based on the length of the marriage. The Massachusetts Alimony Reform Act, which went into effect in 2012, provides guidelines for the duration of alimony payments.
For marriages that lasted up to 5 years, the general rule is that alimony may be awarded for a period of up to 50% of the length of the marriage.
For marriages that lasted between 5 and 10 years, the duration of alimony can be up to 60% of the length of the marriage.
For marriages that lasted between 10 and 15 years, the duration of alimony can be up to 70% of the length of the marriage.
For marriages that lasted between 15 and 20 years, the duration of alimony can be up to 80% of the length of the marriage.
For marriages that lasted more than 20 years, the court may award alimony for an indefinite duration, without a specific time limit, unless there is a reason to set an end date.
It’s important to note that these guidelines provide a framework, but the court has discretion to deviate from them based on various factors. The court considers factors such as the length of the marriage, the income and earning capacity of each spouse, the age and health of the parties, the ability to become self-supporting, and the financial and non-financial contributions made during the marriage.
Furthermore, alimony orders can be modified or terminated upon a substantial change in circumstances, such as the recipient spouse’s remarriage, cohabitation, or a significant change in the financial situation of either spouse.
Fault of Spouse in determination of Alimony
Fault of spouse: Fault of a spouse e.g. Cruelty, Adultery, Desertion under HMA should be a core consideration in deciding amount of alimony. A faulting spouse should lose benefits or reliefs so that there is incentive in society to treat the matrimonial bond with sanctity and respect. Currently, it’s the opposite with a faulting spouse (usually wife) who may get almost the same award of alimony even if her husband gets divorce by proving her cruelty.
E.g. in the below reported news the high court noted that “even in cases where divorce is granted on the ground of cruelty, courts have awarded permanent alimony to the wife and there is no bar of cruelty in the right of the wife to claim maintenance”. https://www.tribuneindia.com/news/nation/occasional-adultery-wont-bar-wife-from-maintenance-delhi-high-court-386664
So a faulting spouse should get reduced alimony.
To create a balance of incentives and disincentives and also to preserve sanctity of marriage, a faulting spouse e.g. who does adultery or cruelty may be burdened with a higher alimony amount than may be otherwise ordered as per current laws.
Maintenance Reforms
Allow only single maintenance petition (and if needed amendments to it can be made)
Filing of Multiple maintenance petitions: The plethora of personal laws regarding maintenance like HMA Section 24, HAMA sections, and CrPC 125 and PWDVA need to be harmonized and inconsistencies removed. It should be made mandatory for a maintenance claimant to file one maintenance case under any of these laws. Filing a single case only for a cause of action is also a generally accepted good practice under procedural laws. Current practice allows multiple maintenance cases to be filed (sometimes across multiple states) which is like seeking the same economic / financial relief multiple times and it is neither common sense, nor sensible from the point of view of reducing unnecessary burden on courts where many other litigants are waiting patiently for years.
Create disincentives for able-bodied and qualified women to sit idle
Married women (especially without children) must not be incentivized to sit idle: Current maintenance laws like CrPC 125, DV Act are too lax in the sense that with the object of providing relief to destitute or oppressed women, they have gone overboard in granting huge maintenance amounts to women who are able-bodied, qualified, and can very well do some paid work but they willingly incapacitate themselves. MP HC has said in similar words in Mamta Jaiswal judgment in 2000 (https://indiankanoon.org/doc/1728023/) that law regarding maintenance should not become an excuse for a qualified wife to sit idle. Unfortunately, the subsequent case law has tended to ignore the principle that society cannot incentivize people to sit idle and have free lunch at someone else’s expense. And so it is commonly seen in judgments that a woman cannot be expected to work just because she is qualified. Not even a mention is made of any circumstances which have hampered her from searching for or doing a job.
Treating women as the weaker section of society is not a sound interpretation in 2023 when in many judgments by HCs and SC women are given equal privileges and benefits as men based on Right to Equality under Article 14. But in judgments related to maintenance, the paradigm of women as weaker class seems to be prevalent presumably also due to Article 15(3). But this dichotomy of interpretations vis a vis women’s rights is leading to confusion among general public is unable to understand how women are equal to men in certain scenarios e.g. regarding perks and emoluments, but also women are the weaker section of society when it’s about maintenance and alimony. In the case of husbands, it is commonly held that he has to provide maintenance for wife even if he has to do physical labour. But for a woman she is not supposed to work even if she is able-bodied and qualified. Such a divergent interpretation of laws based only on gender will create perverse incentives and destabilize the institution of marriage. It cannot be a sensible way to create healthy families and society.
Let all able-bodied women seeking maintenance at least do community or honorary work: Going further, if a woman without children seeking maintenance tries to find work but is unable to (and proof is provided to the court), then the court must ask her to spend similar hours in a week in a community centre, NGO, hospital, aanganwadi etc so that society can benefit from her efforts and talent and the taxpayer money spent on subsidized education, and she can also gain valuable experience which will help her to find paid work in future. It will also reduce incentives from voluntarily incapacitation of oneself.
Interim Maintenance award should be made within 3-6 months and duration of interim maintenance should be limited to 6 months to 1 year: The concept of interim maintenance has evolved to grant maintenance to wives while the main case is pending. However, it creates perverse incentives to file a false case on the husband with concocted allegations, get an interim maintenance order, and then enjoy interim maintenance and stop coming to court to finish the trial in a time bound manner. Even if the husband is able to prove wrongdoing by the wife later, he will not be able to recover the illegally obtained maintenance amount already paid and spent by the wife. The proposed solution is to make an Interim Maintenance award within 3-6 months and the duration of interim maintenance should be limited to 6 months to 1 year. Else, the only alternative solution is to finish the complete maintenance trials quickly within 3 months to 1 years maximum and pass only final maintenance orders after cross-examination, and full trial. In no other type of civil cases, the interim orders are allowed to grant so much reliefs as in maintenance cases. Such a practice is against principles of natural justice where the husband’s evidence is not even looked at and he is unable to do cross-examination of wife before grant of relief to wife. E.g. a recent judgment stated that though the husband has provided evidence of wife’s adultery, that evidence cannot be looked into at the stage of interim maintenance grant: https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/mumbai/maintenance-cant-be-denied-over-adultery-charges-court/articleshow/92242284.cms
Similarly faulting spouse must not be given the gift of maintenance for years altogether (also see interim maintenance duration limit above): News stories like below where allegedly adulterous women are getting interim maintenance (which they may be able to enjoy for several years) shake the confidence of law abiding citizens that those who want to use the law ‘appropriately’ can get undue benefits which may seem immoral and unethical but wholly legal in the eyes of law:
https://indianexpress.com/article/cities/chandigarh/solitary-act-adultery-wont-disentitle-wife-to-claim-maintenance-hc-8181557/
https://www.tribuneindia.com/news/nation/occasional-adultery-wont-bar-wife-from-maintenance-delhi-high-court-386664
https://indianexpress.com/article/cities/chandigarh/solitary-act-adultery-wont-disentitle-wife-to-claim-maintenance-hc-8181557/
Taxation of Maintenance and Alimony amounts
The Maintenance & Alimony amount paid by a spouse should be deducted from his/her total taxable income.
The Maintenance & Alimony received by a spouse should be made taxable in the hands of the spouse who gets paid.
Abortion without good reasons and without consent of husband should be ground for divorce
Having children and family life is one of the core reasons for the institution of marriage. In case a wife is unwilling to have children post marriage and decides to abort, a husband should not be left hanging for years altogether trying to prove cruelty in courts. It would be better to codify it as part of the statute.
Also, it has been held in Samar Ghosh vs Jaya Ghosh 2007 Supreme Court judgment:
https://indiankanoon.org/doc/766894/
(xi) If a husband submits himself for an operation of sterilization without medical reasons and without the consent or knowledge of his wife and similarly if the wife undergoes vasectomy or abortion without medical reason or without the consent or knowledge of her husband, such an act of the spouse may lead to mental cruelty.
Recognize Pre-Nuptial agreements and they should have overriding value
Pre-Nupital agreements for division of assets / property, alimony after divorce should be honoured by courts and should have an overriding effect or much higher weightage over other legal provisions related to property, maintenance, alimony, stridhan etc.
Pre-nuptial agreement should not allow one parent to give up parenting responsibilities of any future children born in marriage.
Amendments to laws on Stridhan
The stridhan law should be amended to take into account the duration of marriage and whether the gift was given from the wife’s family or husband’s family. I propose the following:
A wife can claim to stridhan gifted by her own family as per existing laws.
A wife can lay a legal claim to stridhan esp valuables like gold and jewellery given by husband and his family only after the duration of 10 years of living married life with husband. Duration of separation should not count (unless due to reasons of travel of spouse for job etc).
This provision will plug the loophole wherein a newly married woman can take away accumulated wealth of husband’s family in the form of gold and jewellery (and some of it handed down over generations) even after a very short period of married life.
Child Custody
Law Commission of India Report no 257 must be implemented: The laudable provisions of joint custody and shared parenting mentioned therein must be codified into statutory laws like GWC, HAMA etc. Already there are many such HC judgments where shared parenting and custody has been adopted as the right solution keeping in mind the Welfare of Child principle. Guardianship should also be shared between parents.
Deem giving up on parenting of child as against public policy: It is observed that in many mutual consent divorces, one parent (usually father) gives up all access to and parenting of the child. Whatever the circumstances in a particular case, such a practice is wholly deplorable and a civilized society must not be seen to be giving a “clean chit” to such giving up of parental responsibilities. If marriage is an institution with a core object being welfare and healthy growth of children, then giving up on parental responsibilities cannot be encouraged. Mere arranging of finances for child’s future is not a substitute for the presence and role of a parent (and grandparents, cousins, extended family) which a child needs for healthy growth and full self-expression.
The word ‘visitation’ should be removed from statutes. ‘Interim Custody’ can be used instead.
Stop incentives to make false Child abuse allegations and POCSO as tactics: It is being seen that some mothers file POCSO case or similar sexual abuse of child allegations on father just to gain advantage in child custody case, or to deny custody altogether to father. This is a highly deplorable practice. If general laws are not sufficient, then a special provision should be added to laws that any parent making such false allegations of child sexual abuse or any other form of child abuse will stand to get reduced custody and guardianship, and even lose custody rights altogether in severe cases.
Overhaul contempt laws to deal with flagrant violation of custody orders: If existing contempt of court laws are deemed to be insufficient, then provisions must be added to personal laws so that any parent violating grant of custody order to other parent must be penalized including losing custody access himself / herself.
Child support money be deposited in a separate bank account of child: It is commonly seen that maintenance amount which includes maintenance for child(ren) is given to wife. It is much better to make it mandatory that each child have a bank account where the maintenance amount be deposited. Then it becomes much easier to track inflow and outflow of funds and the probability of use of those funds on anything else except for child’s own welfare is highly reduced. Also, the accumulated funds in child’s account can be used for child’s future needs once he/she turns 18 years old.
Marriage Registration, Aadhaar, Reduce fraud in marriages
Marriage registration can make it mandatory to mention either aadhaar id or another unique id by government of India.
It is often reported that a woman (or man) is serially marrying multiple times without disclosing past marriages. It is also commonly seen that married people undergoing separation falsely state that they are divorced while their divorce is under process. To reduce this kind of fraud, a privacy protected database can be made where people can check about the existence of past or current marriages if any prospective bride / bridegroom based on aadhaar id.
To reduce the decades long litigation post marriages, the lawmakers can also deliberate upon making some disclosures related to one’s own past health, medical conditions etc to be made by both spouses as part of marriage registration. False disclosures made at this time can be held against the person in future.
VC hearing / e-filing for Matrimonial Trials
Virtual Conference Hearing should be allowed on request of either party in a matrimonial case. It is seen that in 70% of matrimonial cases (according to a social media survey) the wife files maintenance or other cases on husband in a different city, mostly the city/town of her parents where she is also residing. While this is legally correct as per HMA, CPC / CrPC 125, DV Act etc, it creates a huge logistical burden which further delays the trial and one reason why matrimonial cases take so long before disposal. Hence I suggest that with widespread adoption of technology in courts, the virtual hearing should be allowed on request of a party except where a physical presence of the party is needed like cross-examination etc. Foreign courts are already using communication technology where parties can join remotely and routine hearings and orders get passed.
Similarly e-filing should be made an option for matrimonial proceedings to reduce the burden on spouses, courts, and also increase transparency and trust in the judicial legal system
Unify matrimonial litigations, suggested amendments to CPC or FCP
Unify all matrimonial litigations to a single case and single court for holistic view of the case, and thereby also reduce burden on both spouses and courts.
Prima Facie decisions or reliefs granted thereof must not be based solely on statements made, but based on preliminary documentary evidences submitted along with application to court.
Create easy to fill templates / forms for filing of routine Interim Applications which result in verbose pleadings, counters, and so on. These are also common in other countries in matrimonial and child custody related cases.
Non-adversarial procedure in matrimonial proceedings (Family Court Procedure FCP)
There is a need to move away from Civil Code of Procedure (CPC) based procedures in matrimonial cases which are based on adversarial law. The Indian Evidence Act may need to have suitable amendments too if needed.
The current regime allows for cases to drag forever even when allegations are difficult to prove. There is incentive to make many allegations knowing well that there is no proof for most of them.
Instead, a new non-adversarial mode of procedure can be adopted by making suitable changes to the Family Courts Act for matrimonial related proceedings. Let’s call it Family Court Procedure (FCP).
The FCP will allow judges to examine and summon all kinds of records regarding both the parties like call detail records, bank statements, WhatsApp messages, and so on and the entities like telecom, banks and the spouses themselves will be bound to provide them.
The judge can then seek a negotiated reconciliation to get back together, or else a mutual divorce and alimony between the parties based on strengths or weaknesses of evidences, or give them an option to contest the cases should they choose to go forward. In the contested divorce scenario, the other alimony and maintenance provisions will apply as suggested in my feedback points (duration of marriage, faulting spouse, number of children etc).
This new procedure will result in disclosure of evidence upfront instead of waiting for 4-5 years to reach the evidence and cross examination stage. A lot of the time the general public who file matrimonial cases themselves are not aware of the strength or weakness of their own case. It will allow them to make a better attempt at reconciliation or negotiated divorce, rather than filing multiple unprovable allegations and making both spouses run around in courts for several years.
Age of Consent, age of marriage, POCSO
It has been reported in recent HC judgments where a Muslim minor girl has been allowed to marry at the age of 14-15 ( P&H HC judgment), whereas in another judgment in this year Karnataka HC has said that POCSO will override the ability to give consent for marriage. For a serious crime like POCSO, a uniformity of laws must be brought in for all citizens of India.
Relevant Resources:
https://www.barandbench.com/news/litigation/telangana-high-court-parents-right-not-to-specify-religion-or-caste-child-birth-certificate
Practice of Constitutionalism by the Indian Judiciary for this Rational Decision of Debiasing Society.. This is a Landmark Event towards more Rationalism & Egalitarianism.
1.
https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/03/15/project-saghar-safespaces-for-skeptics-agnostics-humanists-atheists-rationalists-mission_scientific-nations2030/
2.
https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2021/12/06/s88-project-jaibhim-india_2030-groups-vision-for-indian_egalitarianism/
[27/11, 22:57] G.R.P )= G.R. PrasaHd =Grit+ ReaSon+ Peers) SatvyamJayam by Indigo-Indians.: UCC is one of Tools, a Mechanism, main theme or Intent & Vision is told in Video proof as in snapshot at 39seconds is “Secular-Constitution”.. Articles 25-28 & 44 are the supporting factors. Vision is Secularity in Preamble and SC judgement shares yesterday is another proof.
[27/11, 23:08] G.R.P )= G.R. PrasaHd =Grit+ ReaSon+ Peers) SatvyamJayam by Indigo-Indians.: Point 3 will update with A.44.. but the make of Tool is dependent on the lawmakers. biased parties will include bias in the tools. Hence UCC can go either way it can solve or create more problems depending on political-bias depending on Party-vision & wishes.
#FreedomFrom_ToxicTraps
Ever wonder how some good friendly people get Trapped in lives by their opposite-gender Narcs or (any gender Narcs in case of asexual/ non-marital relationships & their foullies-gang in Toxic-Circles & Narcic-Cycles? Here’s How and Why the “Empaths-Dictionary 2023-Toolkit”. Conceived & Created by yours empathically GRP. #EmpiesVsNarcs
There is Gynic-Rape of Indian_Sisters and Systemic-Rape of IndianBrothers. That needs to be addressed and stopped.
The real threat to world that’s more than terrorism in the backyard of nations, is the Narcissism behind backs of nationals. Why is it so? Because The Overt Terrorists We can expect and can come externally with Weapons, Gun or Bomb, poison etc visible in Hand or operated and one can defend with bullet proof vest and defensive guns.. whereas
The-Covert Malignant Narcissists we cannot expect when or where from near us they can backstab us with their evil-intent, Toxic-tongues or acts and ones who mistakenly trust them will be defenceless to their LAME-ness (Lies, Abuses, Manipulations and Exploitations). That’s Why Prevention is best Cure, and Information is best Protecture.
GRP (Narc_Prevention & Empaths Safety Resourcer).
Must read for friends who are true_Natural_empaths and also friends & family of empaths(HSP).
Welcome to the Empathosphere away from the Narcopsheres and the Empaths Portal for Empathic Perspectives. Empathy(duty of +ve care) is opposite of apathy(deep or Negative Care), SocioPathy, Psychopathy, Narcopathy etc..
Dedicated to all the empaths in my life: my Grandparents, Parents, Relatives, Friends, School College, Work mates, Neighbors and last but not least my misunderstanders, opposers, abusers and aggressors.. all the Indians & humans here who are empaths at heart and mind. Let Empaths Spread more in the world for world peace and ease.
26+ Key Concepts (A-Z) that Team_Empaths need to know about themselves and their polar opposites their Anti-thesis the Narcissists_Gang and the 3rd section of audience the Sheeple-People. This is the Game of life for Name, Dame and Fame that everyone has to play as a human.
Content-Index:
1. A2Z Differences between Empaths & Narcs Toolkits.
2. Trueom on “An Empaths Path.”
3. Resources to the Toolkits.
1. Intro: Difference between Teams & Gangs.. Teams are created by law-abiding members for a formal, noble & moral cause for benefit and ethical-purpose. Gangs are created by law-violative members for an illegal, ignoble, immoral cause for profit of self or loss to other by unethical purposes. Are we part of a Social team or Anti-Social gang?
Below are few concepts that can help in the analysis of Situations (Phases), Sources (Places) and Servers (Persons). #Empaths_Toolkit #Empaths-Dictionary.
Empaths_Traits Vs Narcs-Traitors. Empaths Help2Heal longterm while Narcs Hurt2Harm longterm.
A- Altruism Vs All4Me-ism. Ideology of doing good selflessly without any expectations in return. Not many in Society spread altruism there are rare Altruistic-Empaths based on gratitude and love4all (Their Fav-Sholka is Loka Samastha Sukhino Bhavanthu, Appo Deepo Bhava), they are a in social minority, there are mostly Neutral-Sympaths who can swing as flying-monkeys being vulnerable to Opportunistic-Narcs’s manipulations. On the contrary the all4me-ism spreads Materialism and Narcissism Their fav Shloka is Aham Bhramasmi, Sarvam Mama padasmi. I am God, everthing is under my foot/control (Everything is mine alone, everyone for MY service only)
B- Backup Vs BackStabbing/ Back-Biting.
At times of need Empaths Act as Backup for all help one needs & Narcs backstab at right opportunity of the others time of need.
C- Courteous Vs Covetous & Coverteous. Courtship vs Court-Ship.
D- Delicious_Desired Vs Devious_Detested.
E- EveryTime and Never Mentality. Statements like Evertime I want to help and never do I want to hurt you are from empaths.
While oppositely “Evertime you hurt and never are you good.” Every message You share is waste, Useless and worthless. Such words I have heard while sharing msgs in an Altruists group. Is most probably from a narcy mindcontrol.
https://psychcentral.com/health/all-or-nothing-thinking-examples
F- For You Vs Fuk you & the World Mindset. Frauds on Humanity are The Narcs (VishwaShatrus_VishwaBandooks). Friends of Humanity are Empaths(Vishwa-Mitras/Bandus)
The Smear Campaign
G- Generosity Vs Grandiosity GasLighting Vs GoodLighting.
H- Humility vs Humiliation
I – “I Care” Vs “I Dont Care” Attitude. Empaths Path is Idealizes, Add-value & Display while a Narc-Path is Idealize, Devalue & Discard.
J- Joint Efforts Vs Jolt efforts.
K- Kindness Vs Kingness, Kinth_Kinsness.
L- Love Vs Lust (LoveBombing)
M- Meaningful Vs Meanness : Mirror Neurons Vs Terror Neurons.
N- Natural_Nurtural Vs Nasty_Negational, Natural-Projection Vs Narc-Projection/Mirroring
O- Opportunity_Sharers Vs Opportunitists.
P- Pleasure Vs Pressure. Provision Vs Poisoning
Q- Quest4Sharing Vs Quest4Holding. Quest2Empower Vs Quest2SolePower.
R- Rational Vs Radical.
S- Seer-Campaign Vs Smear-Campaign. SADISM and Smirk.
T- TasksMaster Vs TaskMaskter. Tonicity Vs Toxicity
U- Unifier Vs Uni-fryer.
V- Valuer Vs Verter ; Vindicator Vs Villifier
W- Wisening Vs Widening
X- Xylem Vs Xanthic Acid
Z- Zeny_Zeroic Vs Zoonotic_Zombic. Zero-Conscience or Guilt(Narcs) vs Zero-Ego(Empies)
2. An Empaths Path. A Truer Poem = Truoem. 19/7/23.
An Empaths Path is hard to travel, but lot of insightful jewels it shall unravel.
As a child he like every baby was a narcy,
Caring about only oneself and nothing else.
It’s when one depends on nursing,
By Others who care more for the young ones and nothing else.
As he grew to be a kid, he did getaway with whatever he did,
Pulling the sleeping cats tail, killing the little ants with nail,
Then few empathic-elders tried to guide and straighten his childish ways,
Some he listened to and some he rebelled against to their dismays.
Few narc-adults and flyingMonkey elder kids with jealousy on his parents targeted him,
His busy parents din’t know of the narc abuse of their innocent one, they being ignorant neglected him,
The lone lil guy was confused of what was happening,
Unaware being trapped by the ones he trusted in caring.
In school he was good and was a topper of sorts,
His natural abilities was good and was a good runner at sports.
As a teen at college he got many opportunities to become worse,
But he held faith in the morals and dint takeup any habits of curse.
As his education and work came to a good standing,
technically good but he lacked experience of intimate-socializing,
He liked to be a Social Worker and cared a lot for all his communities.
He was a communifier and sharer of joy and commonalities.
He had seen less fights & more delights for 30years of his life,
Next Ten were the antithesis worst years of his strife,
He and his Dearones faced yet again worser Narcissism and Trauma,
By their unawareness they couldn’t see the dark narc-gangs drama.
From online covert courtship he and parents were pulled into offline fake court-ship.
Being targets they were avoided by few relatives, friends and companies.
Though this showed up who were the true relatives, friends & support allies.
Thus it took 10 years to emotionally heal from the narc-abuse,
And more it will take to recover from the entrappers misuse,
Still the empaths network are few as many are settling their dues,
These 40 years on the empaths path, what difference has it made,
It has made the empath more aware of the spectrums un-displayed.
The spectrum or vishwa_roopam between allies and all-lies.
White-empaths mistake that all are white-hearted but these are fallacies.
The empath now is narc-aware and also narc-alerting,
He knows that narcs are anti-science and anti-conscience,
He has seen the darkest of the black and appreciates the brightest of lights.
He stands now as a testimony to test the resilience of an empath against the silencing of the narcs.
He holds the truths close to his mind and the truthers close to his heart.
His nations slogan he upholds as Satyameva Jayate, the box of lies may win few battles but the war finally is won by the power of truth.
Thus the empaths path is full of stones, thorns, snakes and storms.
Empaths are survivors of losses, abuse, cheats, double crossers & endures multiple harms.
His life is chiselled sculpture by blunt trovel, the culture he is & shares maybe a marvel,
Empathic Paths are hard to travel, but lot of insightful jewels it shall unravel.
-Written by GRP.
3. Resources for Reademption:
1. Abuse to Awakening: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2020/08/01/the-dangerous-3ns-the-empowering-3-es-which-fight-them-for-us-from-abuse-to-an-awakening/
2. Saints & SAINTIAN empaths: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2020/09/25/who-are-saintians-where-is-the-saints-hood-intro2the-saints-group/
3. Narc-Triodds. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2022/01/31/s103-the-narc-triods-narc-narc-allies-silent-enablers/
4. Narcification of Societies: Karenization https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/01/30/s262-who-are-the-narczis-and-how-world-war-3-0-is-happening-under-our-noses/
5. Project-Upstander: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/05/30/s301-project-upstander_intervener-susakshi_bharath_abhiyan/
How Unaware-Politics, Radical_Religiotics and Divisive-lunatics monopolistically threaten; to Replace Role of Parents, Grandparents, Spouse, Children & Rational_Moral-Institutions of Society. It is to gain as much Influence, Dominance, power and control over the individual Taxed-slaves Citizeno-Consumers.
But in longterm this unsustainable Mal-Startegy will cost humanity to steal from & break the moral and family based Institutions.
HOW TO REVIVE AND RE_EMPOWER THE Institutions of Communities, FAMILIES and Academies?.
Hindi there is a Saying Jab Raja Vyapari Tab Praja Bikahari.
It means when The King is the Trader then Public is the Pauper. I would replace this as Jab Mukya Mantri Vyapari, Tab Praja hogi Bikhari.
When the Politicians(Neo-rulemakers) are Buisness-men (for profit and not Servicers) then the public are the exploited beggars(co-dependants in few years time).
Pattern of #Narc-politics 1. Idealize-Provide, 2. Devalue-Disrespect 3. Discard-Destroy.
Real Marriage is Marital_Cohabitation for Familial_Cohesion. Longterm Intimacy and Commitment.
Live-in is Sexual-Cohabitation for Familiar_Copulation. Short term Fantasy and Enjoyment.
Hybrid is “MarriLive-In” one party (mostly naive guys) think it’s a real marriage but other party knows it’s just psuedo-marriage actually a Live-in situationship until 1. a baby born, 2. Relations torn and 3. alimony and maintenance drawn at cost of the victim_hubby & oldaged_Inlaws (Mostly Guys parents are older than Girls so the younger Hubby’s Narcy_MILs use the age gap to their advantage by taking control of the Kid and the Birthing-women.)
My Prediction for Free-Bus strategy are 2 cases 1. The Bus free Service Providers in 2023 BMTC and KSRTC will have heavy issues and losses.. They may be privatized and dissolved so the politicians can escape their liability. Or 2. The affected and aggrieved public will protest and force the Govt to revert.
Earlier Rulers-Govt was Police-State, (pre-1947).
After Freedom it was a freshly Freed-state, (1950s)
Moved to New Policy-State, (1960s)
Transformed to Welfare-State, (1990s)
Now we are moving to a Freebies-States, (2010s)
Or a Toxic-Politics_dependent state (2020s).
= Fully Govt-Controlled State (2030s).
Positive_Peoplitics Vs Toxic_Oligarotics. (ALL_Peoples_Politics (Empowered_Democracy) Vs Few_peoples_Politics (Empowered_Oligarcocracy).
Empoweror Vs Emperor State.
The Empowerer-State as third party in marriages will facilitate Relationships,
The Emperor Wolfish-State is playing game of replacing the provider and protectors role themselves. Devaluing this role is destabilizing families.
This is weakening the inter-dependency bonds and creating more dependencies on the state(Govt) less on family members. This is trend we need to address with UCC.
S219: Triad in Ideologies. The 3 Sides of Religions, Politics & Civic-Societies.
One eg is Free Bus for one gender,
Devalues the Other family members role transports like auto, cab and taxi..
99% of drivers are men who are breadwinners for their families.
https://www.barandbench.com/news/litigation/supreme-court-list-marital-rape-case
Solution is Better UCC:
S320: Hatrick Day for India on 14th July,’23. Moon, Honor & HoneyMoon.
*HumaRA_Vision: Just,🇮🇳&World*
*2UNIfy 3Js* Journalism + Judiciary + Jantha(NGOs/Actvists)
*Rescue & Resource Group For:* *HumaRA-Mitras 4 Deeper JudicialThinking*, GRouP-Rules: https://bit.ly/3zMlXJh
TG:
https://t.me/joinchat/nzk9uq85jMlkYmU1
*HumnRights-Mitras Mission4 More_Justier_India⚖️🇮🇳2030:*
https://chat.whatsapp.com/9PMcJmJGUjc0t0enr4BmqL
Giving something free is a trap a hook..
Remember Jio Sim 2016 it had 0% market share.. Now after 7years it’s controls the telecom Swim with 41% (2023) killing PSU BSNL. Similarly Govt free tickets will kill other players for monopoly.
The 2 Formulas for Family & Govt:
Formula for Happy Collectivistic Societies= Happy Families = Happy InterDependent & Family members More +vely Interdependent on Family Members +Limited Govt-Intervention (not Interference/Dependence) in Families. Empowered Inter-dependent Families.
Formula for Depressive Material-Individualistic Societies=
More Sad Broken Familes = Psuedo happy Indivualistic Independent ex-family members + -vely dependent on govt-politicians and divisive institutions + unlimited interference by Anti-family institutions & ideologies. Disempowered Co-Dependent Families.
CoI=Constitution tara is The Star. Like DhruvTara is the Guiding North Star. CoItara or the Constitution is our guiding star for Indians.
This is a inspired from Song Varaha Roopam from film Kantara.
Varaha Roopam… Daiva Varishtam
Varasmitha Vadanam, Mm Mm
Vajra Dantadhara… Rakshaa Kavacham, Hmm
Shiva Sambhootha… Bhuvi Samjaatha
Nambidava Gimbu Koduvavaneetha
Saavira Daivada… Mana Sampreetha
Bedutha Nindevu Aaradhisutha, Aa Aa
Constitutionalized Lyrics: Our Tributes to the Indian Constitution.
Baraharoopam Darige Deepam, Baraharoopam Bharathiya Daivam,
Vidi Smitha Samvidanam mm
Nyaya GranthaDhara Raksha Kavacham.
Praja Sambootha, Bhima Samjatha,
Nyayayutha thirpu koduvanitha
Savira vakilara manasampritha,
Courtalli Ninthevu Vadhisutha.
For all the Penjurli Daiva and Gulikha daiva.
Acknowledgements: I am thankful to 3 people who helped me translate and kannadify the idea Hema, Megha and Latha. Thanks to these Indian Sisters.
Bossy Person Says: Do as I Say, You need to do it my way.
Casusey Person Says: Let’s Find a Way, Come and be together come What May.
There are 2 kinds/Teams of people/ideology ones who value Harmony more than money.
And ones who Value Money more than Harmony.
The difference is the latter works by concensus & Contribution the other by conflicts and competition
Today 14/7/23 Friday is a Historic Day for India for 3 Reasons .ie in 3 Sectors: Science, Politics & Laws of “Family & In-laws.”
#Lets Fortify Roots of Society #Lets_Fortify_The_FamilySystem. #Flawless_Laws or #Lawless_Flaws. #Marital-Ethics.
HumaRA_Project of #BetterUCC 4 Reforms_India. Mission_Objective: A Violence/Divorce_Free & TopQuality_Marital_India. TalaqMukt-Bharat, TalaqPidith-Bharat Vs SuShaadhith-Bharat. Improved_MaritoLegal_Systems. Revolution in the Marital Industry. Maritology 3.0.
If Laws have Flaws they become Claws of Tyranny.
If laws have loves they become gloves of Safety._GRP.
Law-Codes can become greatest problem to us, where even one Clause not framed and followed well, that can bring societies to hell. FLawful-Hell.
Law-Codes can be the greatest solutions for us, where each cLAWse framed and followed well, that can ring heaven’s jingle bells. Lawful_Heaven.
We create the world by our choices, either WE create the law-rationally leading to more ethical_society, or creating law-irrationally, which leads to more criminal_society. What’s our choice? _GRP @ 2023
The 3 Events for Indians and Globals:
Consultation Paper of reforms proposed by Law Commission 2018:
Dear ones, for us There is help and there is hope..
There are resources and forces that help you cope… _GRP
Link to Such Resources here:
https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2022/12/28/s235-what-can-a-guy-do-if-he-is-abused-by-the-other-genders-female-or-intersex-transgender-helpresources-for-men/
Access to Justice NALSA: https://kslsa.kar.nic.in/
The Resistance for UCC_Solution is mark of the real deep Issue in law, it’s the National_Democratic_LawMaking Vs Sectarian_Autocratic_LawMaking. One’s choice will depend on one’s personal-ideology whether its “Nation & Rationality First” or “Religion & Communality First“. This is a Litmus Test between Nationality & Religiousity.. Personal Laws we choose by choice of our moral-inner voice or by external-Noise.
List2 : Our 10 Points for HumaRA UCC /Author GRP @2023: Citation: HumaRA UCC Top 10Point Proposal 2023.
0. BASE POINT UCC needs to be Comprehensive, Complete-Positive, Competent, ColLAWborative, Compatriotic, Considerate, Correctional, Constructive, Cultural, Constitutional & non-discriminatory, non-biased(by Classteed), non-conflictive, non-arbitrary, pan-religious, non-regressive, non-divisive & Non-Negative.
1. UCC needs to Reduce the Family Conflicts with National_Law Cases of Fraud-Maritals, Spousal Harrassment, Child Abuse, Divorce Rates & Family Crime cases. By creating more VIP Marriages. Roots of a good society are Families, root of good familes is good Marriage. More Secure, Safe & Strong Indian Legal Marriages.
2. UCC needs to create a Marriers Protection Act for every citizen’s Marital Safety & Familial-Insurance which will reduce the broken and bad marriage rates. Just like Nation projects Consumer Rights, it needs to safeguard Marriers Rights, Interests & Longterm Welfare.
3. UCC needs to identify prevent black sheeps or narcification in family and cult abuse of family members. Prenuptial trainings, familial negotiations & pre-nup agreements to be enabled as Legal-Instruments in Indian family laws. Zero-Dowry given-taken Certificates to be taken along with Marriage Certificates. This will prevent false Dowry cases for mens family and real dowry harrassments on the spouses family. Maritally Checked Ok certification by Medico-Legal MRAI. (Marital-Regulations Authority of India) like TRAI safeguards Consumers Interests similarly MRAI to protect Marriers. This will aid healthy Spouses and Families to marry while unhealthy & unfit criminalistic spousing or famiLIEing can be prevented from hurting the trust on marital-institutions. Will increase the quality of marriages.
4. UCC needs to encourage on Empathy, Rationality, Home Science and Maritology courses for Succesful relations, marriages and family bonding and branding. Else we will progress in money and technology matters(Science, Arts & Commerce) but are fairing or failing terribly in Home affairs and Socio-Humanities matters.
5. UCC can spread healthy awareness on Familial-Relationships’ Costs, Benefits and Risks along with Sex Education, also train on family-making first before love-making.
6. UCC can have Eligility MATE tests like GATE test to filter people/families to check if eligible or unfit for marital relations. Based on 5M fitness of suitors. All RECords (Rationality, Ethicality & Civility Scores) of spouses to be made available to suitors to make well-informed life decisions. Like NEET (NATIONAL eligibility and entrance Test) there can be MEET (Marital Eligibility and Entrance to Familyship Test). If We as humankind want to reduce Need for Criminology course. B.Crime(Bachelor of Criminology) we need to increase graduates of B.Family (Bachelor of Familyology (Secular).
7. UCC needs to be aware of and consider all Genders & Orientation and Healthy-Sexuality spectrum of Male, Female, Transgender, Intersex and non-gender (no Genitalia nor attraction). Probationary period of 1 year to be suggested for having children. And an annual marital-review can prescribe the next stage of ideological and genealogical Compatibility, Else when the marriage fails the broken families can create broken children. This is a fail safe mechanism where better successfully coupled spouses can produce healthy children. This can prevent bad hereditary diseases like mental disorders & STDs, HIV, etc from sexually or familially transmitting to nectgen.
8. UCC should aim for healthy children & Next generation citizens how? Try to reduce both 1. <18years Child & teenage abuse, pre-marital sex, pregnancy and also old late marriages >50+yrs or forced singlehood due to unavailability of suitable suitors. As it produces genetic variations in by stream lining the biological-age. Genetic mutations in children can be avoided and child will thank and not curse the parents involved in healthy-familying practice.
9. UCC should make No-fault divorce more faster, popular and bring false case litigators (Spouse and Bridal inlaws) to justice and perjury who misuse legal process with malicious proceedings lying under oath. This will reduce the abuse of law for filing false cases also reduce the number of pending cases are. Once the person/family are criminal false-litigators have no consequences of false accusations they become emboldened as Serial-Litigators. So Medical & Legal, Litigation history of a Spouse and family needs to be on Marital Negotiation Table for fraud-free safe maritalosphere.
10. UCC should improve the Socio-Medico-legal system to complement the new family laws in UCC and repeal or override all old non-secular laws. As only improving law but not improving the lawyers and legal system doesnt help improve but only helps in creating more fLaws in the system. Have a Legal Rep Review system to reward good faith Actors and professionalism and identify to Grey-black list bad legal professionalism. With multiple Stakeholders Collaboration (Medical, Legal, Social, Rational, Religial..etc..) UCC will be a Success a Global example for Positive Nationality.
11. Debias the Constitutional Laws.. there are many misconceptions and miscontructed illogical doctrines that need to be rationalized with BMC (Basic Marital Code). The Supremeness or Sovereignity of Constitution need to be upheld so. Family-laws cannot be personal laws they are Social-National Laws. Personal or private laws deals with individual and not with partnerships or groups(family/teams) they become interpersonal and social. Thus Family laws are Social and National laws under the Constitutional Rationo-Democratic framework. They cannot be personal or private or religious scriptures based laws as these sources not sanctioned, sanctified or authorized by Our Democratic_Constitutional Scriptures and Values.
12. Indian_UCC is Family_Laws 3.0, Family-Laws 1.0(<1947) were Religionality based in ancient language Sanskrit, Hebrew, Aramic, Abrahamic, etc. Theocracy/Monarchy Given laws (Dravido_Aryan Royal Smriti, Mongol-Mughal Shariah and Romano_Brit-Laws) I.e Pre-1947. Family-Laws 2.0(>1950) were Nationality Based as per Regions Constitutions of freedom fighters with colonial mindset 1950+ Democracy and Ideology given laws. Family-laws 3.0(>202#) can be Rationality, Marital-Ethics and Marital-Science based for Universality and global-Humanism. It can be pro-humanity and anti-criminality created by decolonialized egalitarian ethics and universal human values.
A New Dawn of Society is upon us, when we can be free of shackles of Mental-SLavery codified by ancient Scriptures, and recodify for a More Rationality and Constitutionality based Laws Governing our Social-Conduct.
One can be every right free lawless out of the purview of society like the lone meditator in Himalayas or ascetics or like the solitary confines in crminal-jails or coffins. But when one is in interaction with society one needs to have the Socio-legal Responsibility to follow certain Basic Ethical/Marital Codes of Concept & Conduct.
This Proposal is Compiled by HumaRA-Mitra Prasad (HumaRA is short for HumanRights ActivistsAssociation). And Humara-Mitra hindi means “OUR-Friend” or our-ally.
*Rescue & Resource Group For:* *HumaRA-Mitras 4 Deeper JudicialThinking*, GRouP-Rules: https://bit.ly/3zMlXJh
TG:
https://t.me/joinchat/nzk9uq85jMlkYmU1
*HumnRights-Mitras Mission4 More_Justier_India⚖️🇮🇳2030:*
https://chat.whatsapp.com/9PMcJmJGUjc0t0enr4BmqL
References:
Due Privilege = Due Shared Responsibility:
Undue Control = Target Isolation + Undue Influence of minds + Undue Advantage of Power/Position.
Eg. The cults, occults & difficults (Corruptive-Ideology) controls the recruitable neophyte by Isolating the Target from Family & Friends covertly Influences the brain and takes advantage of the social power of Psuedo-authority or false-Narc_persona.
100% Familial_Right-Responsibility for Risks=100% Privilege & Claim and reward.
0% Familial_Right-Responsibility 100% Breach of Trust,Constitution/Contract = 0% Privilege or claim and 100% liability.
Resources for Preventing Flawed Inlaws and Relatives and Friends-Corruption in Family Realtional Dynamics:
Safe, Securative & Successive group Facilitation & Leadership-Teams.
AIO Safety Protocols & SOPs for Securing and making your Teams & Groups Safer, stronger, excelling and purposeful. This post is Primarily for WhatsApp groups members & admins, this can similarly help for groups on other platforms too like FB, Telegram, reallife.. etc.
#Mission Anti-spam.
#Share_Info2 Stay_Informed.
Way for Safe, Principled, Disciplined Benefit_Groups, systems and Places.
1. Enable the groups admin approval mandatory to add person to group. This helps filter Non-National Numbers which mostly are spammer Numbers. Enable group info editable by Admins only. Add only verified and known members for more safety.
2. For more security Enlist and Entrust committed, complying & contributive members as group admins, who care for group’s purpose and values. Not Complaining and Conflicting individuals as admins who scare and scar members and the group policy.
3. If spam event happens use 3Res remove individual, report number and revoke geoup invite link. Restore group security.
4. Make group and new members aware of
1. Groupship policy (SuSandesha Pancha Lakshana_5qualities of a Good Message) applied for all members including admins,
2. AdminShip guidelines (IndiAdmins Protocols) for admin operations &
3. Group Safety Protocols for groups security from Trolls & Controllers
5. Enable and empower groupmembers alertness and vigilance by listening, acknowledging and rewarding all members prompt helpful actions.
7. If major spammers, hijackers and violaters make group unmanageable or dissonating. Make group admin msg only temporarily.
8. On receiving complaint with evidence of snapshot against any new less trustable foreign numbers members from old national active authentic members take action. Like below.
##. These are few guiding points to make groups more safer shall be open for comments and more Standard operating Protocols. Comments are welcome from groupers and public to modify and make it better too. Thanks for reading, understanding and practicing the Safety protocols.
There are good procedures that admins can follow.. They are detailed in the APC-2023 AdminProceduresCode, they deal with implementing Digital Safety and digital egalitarianism in cyber and physical-places.
S294: InDIA Admins Procedures Code. APC_2023.
Enable Effective Collaborative Communications in Groups:
Instinct-Interests- -Intention-Interaction-Institution-Interface-Interference-Intervention& Implementation. Intuition-incubation and Incumberenec. Opportunity and Sanctions. Results, Outcomes, Consequences, Impacts and Legacy.
Roles-Responsibilities-Reasons-Rights-Duties-Risks, Assets & Liabilities.
TAKE “Digital Safety Vaccine” & BE Cyber-PROTECTED:
S354: “Digital_Safety Vaccine”, Web_Literacy & E-therapy for our Citizens & global Netizens.
Impeachment of Admins Process: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=JRtJXnsUYBc
Students-Safety is First-Priority.
Welcome to Project_InSafe for Insaaf.
A Call 4IndianStudents_Welfare. Better_Students_Associations.
Unity in Diversity- PM Nehru.
“Unity in University & Univercities“- Project_InSAAF
Current Indian Ecosystem(@2023 since 2010 13years) is becoming Killing field of our Youth & Students lives and aspirations. How can we transform to make it safer and supportive for our young brothers, sisters and Kids.
Can we Organise Nationally for Students Safety and Welfare. Currently Students and Youth-politics are the weakest section with less effective and adult-politics infected representation.
Systemic_Bias leads to more Academic-Abuses which leads to more Students’_Loss. Better Edu-Systems leads to Better Students-Safety&Welfare.
A Call4 apolitical National Federation of Students Associations for focus on StudentsWelfare to Empower all Students Welfare Associations.
Index:
1. Challenges for Indian Students Associations @ 8 levels in Course, in Clothes, in Class, in Campus, City, County, Country, Continent & Cosmos.
2. Proposed Solutions by collaborations PAN (India). Peer Academics Network(PAN); For, By & Of Students.
3. Appendix with Data and Dated links
Project Purpose: Students Safety at at 4C levels from Classes to Country.
2 Challenges and 2 Solutions for Our All Indian Students Community, which has many members who are most Vulnerable, Marginalized, Resource_Lackers and Targetted by Commercial & Illegal Vested Interest and lobby Groups. This hurts and traps the lives of many Students. Refer the List of Top 5 Student Traps in Appendix.
Observations is: Injustices on Students Increasing in Society. Students loosing Years, Opportunities and Lives too.. Students Interests are less safeguarded by establishment of Universities & Faculty as they are non-negotiating with the defunct Students-Unions. There is lack of Power and Unity in the Students Unions as political parties are subverting Student Politics.
Challenge1 the illegal lobbies and mafia like the Drugs & Intoxication Lobby, Sex and Human Trafficking, Chinese and traitoric loan apps, the Supremacistic Bully Gangs, the Cultic_Grooming Recruiters, the Internet Scammers, Cyber Criminal Synidicates, sex_love recruitment predators, religious Convertors, Narcissistic bad faith actors groups and many more ideologies subverters, abusers and Controllers. These Above Negatives, threats, traps & risks needs to be Avoided.
Challenge 2: Students are Divided and ruled, there is less of non-political unifiers and all India associations, purposed Networks and groups. The existing active and reactive students bodies and associations are students wing of political parties.
Thus the needs and interests of Students as a section of public are being neglected and third rate citizens as a vote bank. A sign of this in 3Ds decay in Deducation System (Deathly Education System) is Depression, Delays, Dropouts and Deaths by suicides and elopements in students and youth. Can D.education system become L.education System (Lively Education System).
There is a need for improving the conditions of Students and Indian Youth. There is lot of places(Labs,Depts & Institutes) with more academic negligence, malpractices, Info-hoarding, covert_ragging/bullying/mobbing, inequality and injustices in the disempowered and fractured Indian students and academics community.
2. Proposed Solutions:
1. Project_INSAFe by PAN(IIxians) Peer Academics Network. Started in 19-1-2019 at PAN (Bengaluru) an offshoot of Campus Community groups called LAN(IISc).
INSAF or INSAFe is Acronym for = ” Indian National Students Associations’s Federation “. It attempts to link, connect & commUNIFY all Students Associations Across India at PAN(INSAF_India). With Peet Academic Network Chapters at State, City & Institution Levels.
Objectives of INSAFe is to connect and network the Indian students community across all Institutes of X..
1B. The LAN Clan Plan: LAN means Local Altruistic Network, This is the base for Creation of PAN groups & Project INSAF.
What is LAN-Network Group? https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/05/28/s300-purpose-process-of-lan-clans-groups/
2. Aware_Practice of USSP (Universal Students Safety Protocols). https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/02/27/s283-project-for-safe-campus_world-wide-through-international-students-safety-care-protocols-abbrv-issc-protocols/
3. Appendix: List of 10 Traps of Students life only from India.
StudentTrap 1. Chinese Students Loan App Trap.
StudentTrap #2: Trap of systemic bias, Bullying, Ragging & Mobbing based on discrimination of Class, Caste & Creed i.e Classteed. (Reservation by nepotism, EWS, Caste & Religion…etc misc).
StudentTrap #3: Personality Disordered Parentage.
StudentTrap #4: 12th Girl into Depression Trap https://indianexpress.com/article/cities/bangalore/teen-falls-death-11th-floor-building-bengaluru-suicide-suspected-8469463/
StudentTrap #5: Radical Cultic & Religious or Political Ideologies:
StudentsTrap #6: International GeoPolitics. Ukraine Med Students and current non-believer Students.
Related Projects:
1. Project Hitashala: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2021/01/17/s41-project-hithashale-healthyindianschools-by-margadarsi-grp/
2. Students Traps: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2022/05/24/s142-3-traps-of-a-students_life-money-traps-honey-traps-winey-traps/
3. Most recent Ignorant Student Vs Aggressor-Students. #Biased_Bullying.
What could be reason for this behaviour?
IndianSister Vs another Indian Sister.
IndianStudent Vs Indian Student??
What’s the Causes??
How can this be prevented for StudentsSafety.
This happened in my college hostel too to same gender student had taken bathing videos of hostel mates neighbhours. Stored on laptop.. for caught once. But matter dint come out the 25year old student was left without report nor action.
https://indianexpress.com/article/cities/bangalore/hidden-camera-washroom-karnataka-police-girls-college-8861497/
Let’s Unite as Indian-Students/Teachers, Parents & AcademicStakeholders for Indian-youths Welfare. Project SOS_ Save Our Students https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/02/27/s283-project-for-safe-campus_world-wide-through-international-students-safety-care-protocols-abbrv-issc-protocols/
Need for Better Schooling through Project-Hithashala. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2021/01/17/s41-project-hithashale-healthyindianschools-by-margadarsi-grp/
How to Co-Create:
*PAN(BLRu)-grp:* *Peer_Academics_Network*-grp for all *Indian National Students & Alumni Associations’ Federation* =INSAAF (4Bengaluru). PAN_Non_political Students welfare groups.
*GrpPurps:* CollectiveSpace4 Students, Academics & *Research related info 4Academic_Bengaluru*. (Bangalore Institutes’ Proactive KnwldgeSharing 4IndianResearchCommunities).
*Group Conduct Code:(GCC)* https://bit.ly/3zMlXJh
*ResourceGrp4:* Students, Alumni, Faculty & Community Members of *All Academic Institutes* in Benglru. *(IISc,RRI,NCBS,ICTS,JNCASR,IIITs,IIM,NLS, BU,ISRO,MSR..etc)* Open2 Collaborate4 research, scholars, all *Bengalurean_AcademicNeeds.*
Lets Co-Create “Namma Edu-City of Bengaluru”.
*PAN(PeerAcademicsNetwork)* Bengaluru’s Academic-Mitras:
https://chat.whatsapp.com/DgCmrkO1kMLLAjCgc894Oy
GRP_VCare2Dare 