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What’s your answer in a word? Is it A. Mental Disorder, is it B. Crime, or is it C. Satanic influence in Kaliyuga..?
A. One word can explain both the news is a narc epidemic “Porndemic“. It affects people across the spectrums of Gender, age or region, religion etc..
Point: The corrupting nature of internet-porn and media has resulted in deviant behaviours and toxic environments in the brains & relations of the intellectually & morally-vulnerable sections of the society.
Proposal: We need to inform the latest 3 generations of brains (2015-1975) of the risk it poses for them, their lives and their communities.
Its like pandemic of coronavirus which effects the respiratory-system to malfunction, this is a pandemic of internet-porn which effects the mental-system or neuro-reproductive systems to malfunction in our society causing sexually deviant behaviours and abuses. Just like covid it needs some immunization and vaccines.
If The war is to be fought & to be won it starts with taking on many battles at different fronts.
First need the allies then the plans to implement at one unit then replicate to scale up… one seed at a time one deed at a time..
This problem is created from 40 years since 1960.. it wud take our society time to heal and rebound to an equitable state. The top 4 issues I see are as follows.
Solution: Brotherhood-Friends Support to train & empower Positive Masculinity/Genderity.
Only the brave warriors can take this on, it’s an invisible battle fought in our minds, homes, on roads and at all places inhabited by internet & media.
An Appeal to Citizens to enable Parental-Controls & Safeguards to prevent & Ban Toxic- SexualContents & providers like Pornhub, tiktok, Playboy, SexToys and Sex-Drugs like date-rape pill & ipill and OTC viagra/dildo-vibrators accessible to teens & kids.. etc (Websites like (Porny Social Media) A+Bollywood Songs and films and Pornification of India, as its destroying our kids the Future Indians to evil of hyper sexualization & commercialisation of sexuality instead of proper institutionalization in family and societies. Porn-Toxicity is Breeding ground for Sextremists who engage in deviant-sexuality into Bias, Harrasment, Rape, BDSM, and even Necro-philic or bestial Rape.
On One Side: Why are Juvenile & Youth Crimes-Rates and its Severeities (Rapes, Murders, Frauds Suicides.. etc) increasing in India and the World? Why Morality, Ethics, Familial-Piety, Community-Bonding & Mental-Purity, cultural-values decreasing in India?. Eg Aftab-Shraddha, Chandigarh Gangrape by and of Kids(under 18).. Effects of Hyper_specialized (Sex_Radicalisation, Porn_Jihad) Internet and media on young minds need to be observed. Eg. https://www.indiatimes.com/news/india/kerala-man-masturbates-sitting-next-to-a-woman-on-bus-she-films-his-act-gets-him-arrested-603074.html
On the Other Side: Why are couples infertility, erectile dysfunction, miscarriage, abortions, child deformity, divorce, family breakdowns, suicides and mental issues increasing?.. Can social media misuse,porn and sexual-malpractice induce depression, nervous issues and mental illness?
This news piece(link below) was shared today and it set a thought process on What’s the root or ‘rot’ cause for this event? And what could be the steps towards a Persono+Social Solution for preventing & helping our youth today.
#PornLessIndia #BornFreeIndia
#ToxicInternet #IndianDarkNet PoisoningKids.
#Beware of DOGS:Darknet-Oogling@GoodSouls.
#Save Kids From Pedodhilic-Bots/Programs/Companies/Entities
Our Theory is #IndiasRapeContagion induced by De-culturization (eg BigBoss, MTV, FTV, Splitsville, GorryWood, Dexter, Child-porn, Rape-porn MMS, etc,) and we need to recover #IndiaGreatCulture/purity.
Questions Asked: Is this Toxic-Event/situation Preventable?.. How can our Indian-Youth be away from such troubles.. any ideas please share in comments it can help future readers.
If for a healthy future we can reduce in society Rapes, sexual abuse to zero events what needs to be done today.
Probable Answers :
1. Sexual malpractices like Aggression & Abuse in men, women & Transgender could be linked to improper or lack of Relational (Moral+ Sexual+Gender) education or Marital-literacy in the individuals & society.
2. Spread of Porndemic in the society is leading to deviant socio-sexual Behaviours, interactions & events.
3. T.V, Social Media & Movies Role: There is an underlying threat to happy youth, homes and communities which maybe going unnoticed or unchecked currently due to Pandemic-Neglect.
The childhood exposure to toxic adult content, expressions & representations of Intimacy, pre-marital sexuality, (PreTeen(10-18yrs) Dating in serials, Advertisements of Condoms, Harrassment, sexually violent, splitsvilla(Idolisation of pornstars in bollywood), Rape, Big Boss(Voyuerism),
Few probable Solutions:
1. *De-Hyper Sexualization* of content on T.V, media and Applications. The western countries being the major source of Adult-content online have developed measures and mechanisms to keep things in check. Which is lacking in India and other developing countries.
2. #De-pornification of our Indian Digital-Society to prevent & mitigate the Porndemic. China is doing a good job to protect its Netizens and Families from the Globalistic Pornification.
3. Ethical Culturization or De-Radicalization or Mind Liberation (Extremist Idealogies) Relevant Helpful awareness programs & filters for underaged Morally/Sexually-Illiterate Kids on Media, Amazon, Netflix, Internet who may be Intellectually-vulnerable & not have the necessary critical skills to have immunity against all-radicalization into extremisms.
4. Man’date’ory DigitalSafety awareness to all Netizens & Digital Technology users (Similarly Food-Safety Awareness). Why do we have Driving license to drive a motorized vehicle?.. Driving-Schools helps in reducing accidents on road networks, Similarly if there is awareness or Surfing-Schools it can prevent accidents on Digital Networks.
Resources for Recovery:
This points came-up in a conversation with Open Indian Mens Group. We want to empower Indian Brothers on the right path to ‘Healthy-Masculinity’ in boys, men, transmen & gender role takers.
The world has seen multiple Nuclear bombs & 3 Nuclear devastations in the world earlier, we may have learnt it in Schooling of World history. If we term it the product of material science for toxic-power of world war. Having a thought exploration, to balance in same line what could be positioned on opposite side of the neutral axis? we can position the below idea of World-Bar, the world wars kill, the World-Bars chill.
When the world initiated the nuclear arms race to end world war & start a cold war, can there be a New-clear Minds gRace to end worlds wars & start a cold bar where everyone chills-out in peace.
New-clear bombs is a Guidea(Gword-GuidingIdea) for WEapons of mass Construction(WMC instead of WMD).. it wud be carried not on missilles but ‘fixilles’.
Just like WMDs when deployed and detonated can destruct cities & societies, WMCs New-clear bombs when used & retonated can construct/reconstruct cities & societies.
How can we create such radical inventions for interventions? These WEpons or designs when created & deployed can positively impact cities & citizens to heal & prosper.
Instead of radiation hazard and nuclear holocaust.. this would have positive Intello-Emotional radiations, vibrations or Talk-waves. Which can bring in radical positive Transformations such as Social Health, Healing & Helping social happiness indices.
Police IN India( hand of the judicial establishment legacy of British) are observed trending towards becoming more corrupt & exploitative needs to be investigated (engage with Citizens Informers /Whistleblowers hotlines), https://www.rahulmehta.com/articles/prob_police_atrocity.htm
For selection & interviewing prioritizing physical fitness tests are not enough, to make fair & just-police emotional intelligence & moral reasoning are requirements too in public service. Public service commission mostly get cracked by the (Physically & Mentally)passionate, what they may lack is being Emotionally and morally Compassionate: if that could be added it could bring Real Public service instead of Disservice to our nation. https://moralsensetest.com/
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A proposal to the GOI for NEP2020 & school curriculum. Sent to the education ministry & legislature committee on education viz rsc_hrd@sansad.nic.in (last date 15thJuly)
For peer review and implementation. Do please share comments so it may help us to improve.
Attempting here to collate points shared in discussion groups & forums like.. Margadarsi & Project Hitashala,. Which could benefit as feedback for our policymakers & curriculum makers in education system.
1. Need to help innovation with maintaining & improving the quality & equality in education. By enabling cross-dissemination of good practices in education. There could be Experts-audited appraisal & Quality managementsystem for School Teachers & admins by combined inputs of all Edu-stakeholders i.e Students, Both Parents, co-teachers & School Mentoring panels at Union & State levels(Also inputs from Unesco). This will aid and fasten innovation and quality in Education. Keep Gender Ratio of Male:Female Teachers as 50:50. Currently there is a Gender imbalance in schools with 90:10% Skewed Gender dynamics.
2. International student exchange programmes at high school also can help us in India to learn from other standard national educational systems. Eg from Finland, Japan or China. Iys not for the competing tendency with students but building the collectives- Competencies.
3. Promote Indian Patriotism, rationalism & egalitarianism in letter & spirit to achieve our constitutional goals through right education. To distribute Indian Constitution as a textbook for reduced price make it accessible to all citizens. It’s the most important subject any Indian needs to learn & study. (CQ) Constitutional-Quotient may be more important for India it will enable us in IQ Or EQ. Every Indian home may or may not have Religious books, but having the COI & Civics textbook will enable better-Citizenship. Reduce Criminalism(Corruption) & improve Contributism (Co-operation).
A Centrist Alternative for Sustainable Development Through Education. Will help reduce Right-wing or LeftWing Extremisms and imbibe Empathic-Centrism.
4. To capitalize on Inter-generational learning Have regular effective GPTAs Grandparents-Parent Teachers meetings.. which can help the families. China’s power is in its familial piety we are falling behind. This will aid the Mental & social wellbeing of Student-Parents-Teachers as a Social-Family Unit. Matha-Pitha-Guru-Daivam.(Father-Mother-Teacher-God & Me)
5. Have Multimedia-books instead of only outdated uninteresting ‘text’-books, Have supplementary content platform and apps QR coded connected with as extensions of textbook to enable e-Education through interactive animations & collaborative buddy documentation.
6. Have Financial literacy, Digital literacy and media literacy, integrated in curriculum to amplify rationalism and critical thinking.
7. Evaluate each chapter and contents on it enabling improvement in 3 just criteria for the inherent value it can provide for the reader and students. A. Intelligence Quotient(IQ), B Emotional Quotient(EQ) or C. Social Intelligence (SQ). The current Content in text only has RQ that is Route-learning Quotient just Take in memory and vomit in exams. This has less ability to impact any of the 3 criteria. This 3 criteria will help in Relational-Literacy which may be a prime factor in Social-Success not just private or personal success.
8. Cherish Team-Spirit and enable Collaborative Collectivism instead of Individualism and Personal-Competitions. This may help national-integrity by having interpersonal integrity in classroom. The unhealthy competition is giving way to Bullying, Ragging & S.A.D Situational Deaths(SuicideStress, Anxiety & Depression)
9. In Textbooks Prioritize Life-Skills(Why-to) as equally to Technical-Skills(How-To). Because India can easily become a Economic or Technological superpower the real challenge is to be a Moral & Social Superpower with Life-Skills. Else life-Kills.
10. Critical Reasoning & Moral Reasoning needs to have focus so we have an empathic creative society. Have Group-Discussion & Debate skills for rational dialogue and conflict resolution this would reduce juvenile delinquency, crime rates and improve Secularism, Democracy & true-socialism.
11. We can Inculcate more practical hands on problem understanding and collective solving in communities through stories and realife accessible contemporary Indian model citizens and civic idols. Like APJ Abdul Kalam, Olympians etc. It will help in overall personality.
12. Train P.T teachers not only for Physical Training but Personality Training which builds Team-Management and Startegic thinking in students. (J.Simon) also let them have a book and curriculum with lesson plans. Similarly for Music, arts or Hobby extra curricular classes. Our Olympic Medal score is dependent on this.
13. From a reallife incident:
Yesterday I met a shy student of 9th standard from Northern districts of Karnataka, I asked him what’s his favourite subject, he said science.. I felt happy shared with him about Indian Inst of science in Bangalore, next asked him which particular science he liked I.e Biology, Chemistry or physics. I felt amused when he replied ‘no’, he liked ‘social Science’..
I was intrigued, I further inquired with him: “ok, which stream of social science” he liked he replied history.. then our conversation moved to Bangalore’s history.. I think we need to rethink about social-studies or social-science..
Response From a fellow margadarshi Dr.Guru Prasad Rao:
Yes, thanks for your incident share…it is opening up a lot of things…
Student view of Science
View about History as a part of social studies / science
What made him think ?
Our own minds architypes of the world
We need to introspect About Learning, knowing, Science, Knowledge etc.
There is need for reclassification
From Shravan: I feel history and culture should be given a hierarchical importance. More on local, then in the district, state, country, continent and the world. GRP: please include this suggestion too
Agree, this suggestion too came up in the discussion we had @Pratap, Indra & @dr.gowri on sunday
Priority-History based on geo-spatial relevance to the student.
14. Textbooks need to have these Outcomes in mind.. 1. Proctive Ideal Citizenship, 2. Social awareness & integration, 3.Character-Building not only Skill & Knowledge building. 4.Empower the Preamble goals of Justice, Liberty, Equality, Fraternity with Collective-Responsibility. To reduce Systemic-Inequalities, Discrimination/Biases like Genders, Caste, Race-skin, Regionalism etc..and improve Egalitarianism & Indianity.
15. Ideal- Indian Textbooks can be made so valuable that the students keeps it for life as their legacy, as a manual for their life as an Indian & global Citizen & an Holistic-educated human being a Life-Champion. Make it a Souvenir of hirs educational journey of 10th/12th. Have workbook space for the ‘studenTeacher’ to create their own content & life lessons. It should be like a treasured book on the students personal library till his last breath. This could be the gold standard for a school text book. Values of Money, Power, fame, royality & Knowledge should come after value of Truth, Trust & Relationship & loyalty to principles rather than materials.
16. Take inspirations from Nalanda, Taxashila, & Alexandria to make Library science, research and other Non-Engineering and medical subjects equally lucrative that non- Brain drain occurs intra-sector, so that we have gud quality and quantity of professionalism across the sectors and jobs. Its not only employability that is goal of education but Social-Integrity is prime concern.
17. Special education textbooks to be also developed for Diversity and inclusion in the society for the socially marginalized(Bahujan Dalits & ethnic minorities) or people from the socio-economic lower strata of society.
Physically marginalized, Visually, auditory, verbally challenged.. etc on similar lines as above so they are on par and not left behind in personal Development & social-integration. Learning from the Nordic or Japanese Education systems which are setting global standards.
We hope these points are considered to give us not just textbook for a subject in scientific or materially advanced Apes of Western society, but life-books for our originality and Indian Happy society. We need to be a good Vishwa-Shishya (Global Student) before we become areal Vishwa-Guru.
After seeing Beautiful butterflies in the garden near home, I returned home to enjoy Nutriful sweet honey-milk and wrote this post on bed Priked-bitten by mosquitoes in my room later turned Painful due to Dengue. All these thanks to 3-insects with different impacts. Why is it so? InSECTology_Answers.
Like Wolf in Sheeps Clothing, there are Blood sucking Mosquito with wings of Butterflies. Looking like Remedies for pain these are SugarCoated Bitter-Poison Pills(Metaphor for Narcs) that lead to tragedies (traps, injuries, disabilities or death). Narc-immunizing Red-pills that need to be understood by the placebo_bluepills. Matrix Analogy.
Guess which Insect is this? Mosquito or Butterfly?.
Its a Mohammed Ali Beeuttery- fly, that floats like a butterfly(Beauty) & stings like a mosquito(Beast) Beautiful-Beast.. Guess the insect? MosCuteor-fly.. Generic Modified cross between mosquitoes(narcs) and butterflies(empaths). like in analogy Ravana or Kamsa or gatotgacha.. hybrids (Intellectual_Materialistic Criminal) between an empath Tonic_father and Narc Toxic_Mother(or vice versa but effect is less due to mothers matrilineal advantages).
This is what narcs are appear like a friendly butterfly(in public) but sting like a densive-bee(as a frenemy) or worse prick like a deadly mosquito(as an enemy).
In Boxing-Rings/Courts those who float like a Butterfly and sting like a bee are honored, but at Wedding-Rings/Courtships for Those who Float like a butterfly and sting like a bee, The Minds cant fix(fit with), what the guys cant see(black-boxes)._GRP.
There is a fair-unfair spectrum between extremes at Beneficial to Bloodificial Insects & Entities in our eco-systems. Where in-Sect are you positioned matters where you will move.
We may Divide the Spectrum into 3 sectors as 1.Self-Beneficial 2.Social-Beneficial & 3.Social-Bloodificial. we can place any insect in these 3-categories. For ease of remembering we can take example of one commonly known insect for each sector. What would the representative of the 3 sectors be?. This question leads to below content.
1. The Beautiful Butterflies(Self-Beneficial): They live in the moment, live life colorfully on their own. Feeding off the nectar shared by the flowers in life. They are active in the light, are solitary feeders but may flock together at certain places. They are symbiotic with plants and self-sustainedBiotic with their own kind, no social structures independent. Others insects in the category could be colorful dragonflies, fireflies(nocturnal), etc.. can you list down in comments below if you find others or know more?
Nectar sucking Individualistic Beautiful Butterflies. Its My life, Me, & Mine matters only for me.
In human nature these are are the people and sheeple who seek for their-self fame, status & social power. To show their lives colorfully & richly with visual pride of peacocks & voices of cuckoo’s. They value only themselves highly and nothing else in reality is of any concern to them, they may do for some PR or brand management exercise. They create a highly individualistic environment. Me & mine only matters, I need nothing else. These can be termed as the Swayam-mitras or only self-carers. They may be in mode of ignorance(tamas) and spread mostly beauty.(Kama-Khamma).
The inner-scores of their heartset may range in the average sector of the Empathy Spectrum or EQ-Test. They(80% Bystanders) may enjoy their own Ignorant-world of the Narc-Empath conflicts. Ignoring Other’s cries & crisis until they or their Dearones get caught in the web of spider or preying mantis some may not realize just like the Butterfly their ignorance is their bliss.
2. The Dutiful Bees (Social-Beneficial): They are the best social insects where they take nectar & pollen from flowers and convert into complex honey to be saved for generations to come. They work in the day (dawn to dusk) in teams and organizational structure. They are most Symbiotic in nature. They work in the daylight but are exposed to darkness interiors too. Other insects in this category could be Ants, Termites, etc..
Nectar Transformer to Honey Bees.. Its Our Lives(Cultures), We create Our Hives(Structures).
In human nature can see this category in people who seek for self, peers & others value in social work and welfare. They value the communities they are part of highly & They create a collaborative and safe environment(Sheepdogs). We(Self+Others) & ours matters. These can be termed as Priya-mitras: Thosewho care to empower self & others(ApatmeMitras) too. They may be in mode of goodness (Satva & urdha Satva) they spread more Duty & Devotion (Dharma-Dhamma & Moksha). They(Pro-active-Empaths) form the BEE-Hives (Mutally Beneficial & More Empathic-World).
The inner-scores of their heartset may range in the 10% above average sector of the Empathy Spectrum or EQ-Test. They are very aware Narc-Empath conflicts. They attend to Self & Other’s cries & crisis they help in creating the Beehive or anthill by nurturing the vulnerable inner world and protecting from predators their knowledge-spreading is their Power & Bliss. Ignorance is not bliss but curse that’s why they hold the light unto themselves for others too.
3. The Crueltiful Mosquitoes (Social-Bloodificial): They have the ability to feed survive on the nectar of flowers and plant sap, but still they suck blood of other animals too, they are parasitic & also vector for diseases(Zika virus, dengue etc). They hate coming into light they love to be in the dark themselves and their host-victims to be in the dark as well. Others in this categories include Bedbugs, leeches, spiders, Preying Mantis. etc
Blood sucker, Disease Spreaders Mosquitos most dangerous In-Sect. Viral vector.
In human nature these are the narcisstic peeple who live of taking advantage of others(Sheeple+Sheepdogs) ignorance and power dynamics. They value only money, power & fame for self and devalue fairness or relationships. They create a highly competitive and unsafe environment for others(Wolves). Me & My narc supply only matters even at cost of others. These can be termed as Apat-mitras, Swartha-mitras Apat-Shatrus: Those who care to empower only their selves & disempower others(ApatmeMitras). They may be dominantly in mode of passion (Rajas) and like to see and spread Cruelty(SW-Artha, Artham)..
The inner-scores of their heartset & mindset may range in the 10% below-average sector of the Empathy Spectrum or EQ-Test. They may enjoy their own Arrogant-world of the Narc-Empire built on conflicts, Domination and victimization. Being the reason for Other’s cries & crisis. They(Oppressors) are at the roots of creating an unfair narcissistic-world. Others Ignorance is their Bliss.
These above insects in nature dont have a choice or abilities to go out of their animal-behaviour, but human beings endowed with more neural-abilities can read, study these entities in nature and human-nature. Take inspiration, precautions and lead a life based on the lessons and insights they can teach us.
Our Personal & Societies-Happiness may depend on.. Who are we Close associates related with more of Butterflies (Mineral Rich States with Energy-rich Indians, Gives as much as it takes (Systemic Net Zero), the Bees (hardworking states in India higher GDP in state pays taxes and contributes multi-ways, Gives more, Takes less Abundance-Mindset (Net Positive) or the mosquitoes (Criminal-rich parasitic States of India, Gives Less & Takes more Scarecity mindset (Net Negative). W.r.t Impacts on Humans and humanity.
Nature-Mitra Prasad.
GRP(10/7/21)
Acknowledge conversation with Architect-Venkatesh for the content & context.
Unaware Misinformed Humans Assume that All of Nature is good and naturally just. Reality is it’s not so Innocent, there is Criminality (Actus Rea) in nature & Natural-Laws too.
Here are the proofs for this less known Arguements.
Our India/Bharats roots of most problems can be seen in two places.. one in the silencing of the aware-innocents and secondly the non-questioning silence of the unaware-ignorants: Answer Key here.
Do you think all Birds are loving and innocent?.. think again, there is criminality in Nature too..
Yesterday I spotted a black bird in the trees near home, Crows are normal to be spotted around here in Bengaluru, but strangely its eyes were red, and its beak & tail was different from the common Indian crow. And what made it identifiable was its typical call of the cuckoo(Asian Koel).
Here is the photo that was clicked, the light being from behind, the bird was hard to spot too..
Cuckoo(Asian Koel) on a Champak tree.
Here is the video of its calls..
Calls of a cuckoo (Asian Koel)
What’s the 2 secrets of cuckoos? Very unique in the Animal Kindom that no other birds do? You may if curious to know can write your answer in comments and return to read the answer here.
Ans: Many will be surprised like me, it was 2 years ago in 2019 when I saw few videos- documentaries..
Secret-#1. The cuckoo lays its egg in the nest of other birds.
Brood Parasitism: The cuckoo doesn’t build it’s own nest nor takes care of its hatchlings. Other birds are manipulated to become foster parents. Its linked to Indian culture as favored by Kamadeva. Refer: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cuckoo
Cuckoo Secret #2 is not usually known is that the Cuckoo as soon as it hatches in its Hosts-Nest, Pushes out & Kills other eggs of the host bird. Its unbelievable but true.. see this video. And the real color and difference in size of the bird is seen but unrecognizable by foster birds very late after all damage is done.
Cuckoo Secret #3: The aggressive and ungrateful cuckoo chick not only abuses/kills its siblings, but the bigger cuckoo chick also it bullies/ pressurizes and attacks the poor smaller foster bird parents to feed it more and more greedily.
Now Coming to human connections of modern days are these relate like:
1. Few Babies/kids born out of illegal-Love affairs before marriage or extra-marital affairs are abandoned by their Cuckold-mothers/parents to foster homes or in hospitals. Or live under the care of a non-biological parent mostly an unaware father.
2. The cuckoo-offsprings disturb and manipulate the host houses and show their real color & characters later in teen life when the true personality of the Biological parents emerges after puberty with Personality Disorders & immoral behaviours which may create havoc for the adopting/accommodative family.
3. Another human version is the Cuckoo-families send thier members for impregnation (Semen Stealth) to another home. After a kid or kids are formed break the marriage or relationship contracts and keeps the child alienated from their parent and family(mostly Paternal side) to take advantage of the innocence of the BrainWashed children and acquire it in their selfish Cuckoo-Cunning brood/clan(like LoveChild-Jihad). This is Brood head hunting. Which employs double standards of behaviour with two sides of their family most take advantage of the concept of “matrlineal-advantage.”
Lessons from the cuckoo-ing for Human being and their Families’ well-being.
1. Identify cuckoos, individuals, couples and their Offsprings early in our interactions to prevent-abuse of yourself & our dear ones’ families to becoming a Host-Victim of the parasites(Narcs) & their enablers(Flying-Monkey).
2. Take special care and keep filters and high selection standards with multi-background checks during adoption or marriage selection to prevent getting involved with cuckoos(Narcs), their family, extended family & friends-Sockiety.
Cuckoos are Criminals in nature, cuckoo-like people are un-seen & un-known criminals hiding in the dark shades of our societies. This post may provide the light which can help spot them like we spotted in Tree(picture), They can be spotted in the family-tree too, if family members not careful to avoid such relationships.
Because opposite attract strongly, Robbers Strike the wealthy. Similarly the Negative-Narcs Target to victimize the Egalitarian-Empaths.
MWe personally have identified & know 4 cuckoo-Personalities & 3 Cuckoo Familes. There are many more in our friends & relatives circles (Save Indian Families), For our safety one needs to identify them. They are ones, gangs & groups who will take & keep-away (Money, Property, People, power, Opportunites, time energy, progeny.. etc) from the Innocent-families leaving them helpless and give-back or do nothing in return, even if they can they wont. Keep away from such Cuckoos. Theres calls may be sweet to the ears in begining, but their actions are poison not to be neared or reared. Beware DearOnes will realize only later in life their impact!!
In a single line the Narc-cuckoos disintegrate, divide & rule, while Empathic-Doves integrate, unite & serve.
Instead of the Cuckoos Realize the importance of other birds, the Beautiful Green Parrot, The Hamsa Graceful Swan, The Intelligent Crow or Owl, the Peace-loving Doves.. there are many Beneficial Birds which take and give back more in return.. do share what birds do you like to flock with? Can you/we spot the Cuckoos & Vultures around you do share in comments below may help other chickens to turn out to be Peacocks or all seeing Eagles in future by seeing ur comments.
Cuckoo-Abuse or Narc-abuse is preventable and healable.. for more read our transformation journey from abuse to awakening.
7. The ultimate tactic of violence is not in the louder voice/verbal abuse of the abusers, but its in the silence of the victim & witnesses. Hence Share and make aware.
Kannada: Kogileya haadu kivige madura,
Adara vichara obba kavige sundara,
Aadare adara satya yellarigu ondu guttu,
E baraha vannu odiri swami dayavittu,
Agadu nimma jeevanake e-darode,
Thorisuthana e-prasada ondu munnode.
-Guru Prasad.G
Tamizh:
Kuyil paatu keetu varum oru talattu,
Anaazl adan varalaru kaatum oru kutra saatu.
Ethanai inmayana kural irikirado,
athanai bayangira karthu irikiradu.
Soluran indha gaja keekum kaadu eamatru kudukum,
Nalla Sollu, nalla natpu, nalla kaduvul endre endrum kaakum.
Muyarchi, Peyarchi, Vetri-atchi.
-Guru Prasadh Gajendran.
Telugu:
Cuckolding in Illegal_sexuality, aided by Legal India.