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Intent to share for readers benefit My Experiential insights from two sides of life i.e the bright and the dark. From 4 decades of life experiments.
Q. What maybe the character traits practiced by traitors? Eg. Mir Jaffar, Brutus.. etc
1. Rejection of Connections to Moral Values and shared commonalities and heritage.
2. Focus on material and power pursuits and no regards to transparency, loyality or honesty. Practice of secrecy, disunity, dishonesty & double standards.
3. Deliberate use of back channels for negative-gossip, back biting, character assassinations, information leak, smear campaigns, flattery, spread of lies and divisive force causing more Drama, trauma & loss to groups and nation.
4. Hurt and help others hurt others. Selfish disservice to others.
Q. What maybe the Marks in character and behaviour of martyrs & Patriots? Eg. Shivaji, Bhagat Singh, Martin Luther King, Antonio (Merchant of Venice)
1. Projection of real Connections to Moral Values, shared commonalities and heritage.
2. Focus on social-humanistic, empowering pursuits and high regards to transparency, loyality or honesty. Practice of Integrity, dignity & shared ethical-standards.
3. Deliberate use of front & back channels for positive-gossip, back guarding, character amplifications, information sharing, clear campaigns, advisory, spread of truths and uniting force causing less drama, trauma & loss and more joy, healing & benefits to self, groups and nations.
4. Help & help others to help others. Selfless-service for others.
These are few points that comes to my mind.. Gders are welcome to share your points, feedback or suggestions for topics and questions/doubts in below comments for improvement of concepts and precepts expressed here.
To My Dear Mother, Dr.Gowri.. The Triple Queen (at Service of her Parental Homes(Hyd), Her Marital Homes(Blr) & Her Nursing Homes(Cvr)).
Dr.Gowri the Worrier.
Like mother earth which nourishes every life,
You nurtured me in every victory and every strife,
Your fingers may not be the ones that touched me first,
But your heart certainly is the one that listened to mine first.
You are Gritty & Godly to become the first doctor from your clan,
Your Observation of your dearones & patients has no time span.
Always Worrying for others health and well-being,
Rallying to Integrate Family, friends and sentient-beings,
Thanks to fly our family with father as other wing.
Your grace and your face my heart shall always sing.
Wishing you!! who gave me birth on your birthday.
Wish you a happy and strlong life, to God We pray.! 🙂
Values in Mother Gowri.
Ref: Strong + Long = Strlong (Goined word here)
A short Story of Dr.Gowri.
Born as eldest daughter to a dear couple of Mr. Sadasivan(Railways) & Mrs.Subbalakshmi she being born after 2 brothers may have been special daughter to her parents and first sister to her brothers. Being an obedient and lovable daughter and good student in her school she was a rank holder and monitor of the class. She has a book(English Dictionary) gifted to her as a school topper by P.V Narasimha Rao when he was invited as chief guest to her school Wesley Girls(Hyderabad). (Ex-PM of India). She has a Travel index of tours her family had gone to in the last pages of that dictionary, it’s in our Family-Library.
Book gifted to her as School Rank Holder by P.V. Narasimha Rao. Former PM of India.Says Wesley Girls School: Wisdom, Grace, Honor & Service. presented to Gouri Sadasivan.Her recording of 11years of Family Tours during vacations. 1965-1976.
She had a blessed childhood with good parents, siblings, uncles,aunts & relatives who were close and used to celebrate events at kesra gutta and participate in common traditions of Secunderabad. They were very supportive and caring in her childhood and she maintains those cherished bond & relationship even today.
She from a young age aimed to be a doctor, initially she had problem as no women before her was a doctor among their family or friends. So her mother wanted her to get married after 12th, some relatives even visited to see her as a bride..
But she shared this motivation with her father and he supported her aspiration. As her aim She prepared hard and cracked the entrance exam got admission in M.B.BS at Osmania University.. the best medical college in her city of those times(70-80s). She cherishes memories of her medical student life with friends who still are in touch like Dr. Anita from Australia and Dr. Jhansi at Kurnool. She had a hostel roommate a girl from Kashmir studying Unani medicine.
After her graduation as a doctor marriage proposals started coming through her family and relatives as she was good looking and from a respectable family and clan. But she was looking forward to marry a doctor as she felt there would be better understanding with Doctor-hubby. Like her wish through friends of her father she got a proposal from a Doctor at Bangalore.
She got married in Jan of 1983, and had a son the same year. She took a break from her profession caring for the baby as theres was a nuclear family, as mother-in law was no more and father in law was at home of other brother nearby.
She prepared for post grad as a Gynaecology and got her DGO from Bangalore Medical College in 1990. She worked at Vanivilas Hospital of Bangalore and later In 1991 she started her private clinic Sri Shakthi Clinic at Udayanagar near K.R Puram. She became a infertility specialist, treating childless couples(even 8-9 yrs) helping them to conceive & have safe child-delivery.
She worked for Abhayahasta Hospital at CV Raman Nagar for 6 years,
Her patients like her and her service calling her even during midnight emergency to attend.
She is a kind soul, now she is dedicating her time to spiritual pursuits of Brahma-Kumaris.
She is a Gritty soul who has faced many traumas and negatives in life, but her attitude is of a warrior more than a worrier. She is a bright ray of light around people and places who know her well and are her nature of service-mindedness. And good caring heart.
She started the Naggudasapura Laughter club with her son on April 1st 2015, She is a contributer for social causes, she is a good cook as she watches mostly cooking videos and experiments with new dishes, she likes to sing devotional song and also sometimes to walk and watch movies.
Her experience of these 66years are a roller coaster ride, from the lows of sadness to the highs of gladness.. She will take things in her stride whatever comes in this ride call life. With fellow travellers companions of her Husband Dr.Gajendran, her son and her brothers, sisters, in-laws and relatives.
All companies share the set of FAQ Frequently Asked Questions with the world, but are there any set of questions which have answers but go unasked?. Also questions which people think dont have answers and hence are assumed as stupid questions.
FUQ (Frequently Unasked Questions to ponder upon)
1. Who are the people who created English alphabets, words and grammers? (PLURAL INTENDED)
2. Why basic Education schools are not teaching about financial-literacy?
4. Why is rat race high in electronics & computer science but not in Ethonomics & Home-Science.?
5. Are more Indians becoming technically & scientifically sound but ethically and socially unsound? Are number of Morally bankrupt family groups increasing?
6. Why nation or society does’nt come first for most Indians but first Personal-identities and their own socio-economic interests is first and last priority.
Is it Capitalism, is it Communism or imperialism, or is it Democratic-Socialism, Do u foresee its Spiritualism or Scientism or Transhumanism.. what may define the destiny of humanity?
This is the description of our nation.. more bigger question than ‘Who am I’ the question we need to ask is “who are we”, “Who are WE” and ‘who are mWe’?
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