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‘I thought I had met my soul mate, when I got married in August 2013. Nevertheless, I signed my final divorce documents, as granted by the court in March, 2015. It was a bitter end to a very short marriage, which had incompatibility issues, as the main cause. My advice to those who are yet to marry, is that there is no need to rush into marriage. Take your time to know your would-be-partner and be certain about your choice, as this can save you many heartaches and pain’. (Statement by Lady J.K.O) What is Due Diligence? I was inspired to write this piece, based on experiences like the one above, and others I have read and heard; about the importance of not hurtling into marriage. Organisations and individuals use due diligence as an inquiry tool to get information about entities they would like to engage with, for business purposes prior to signing an agreement. In most cases until they are satisfied and convinced of their investigations or inquiries they may not engage in any business activity.
Written from epi-center at city of Mysuru in Karnataka, India (14-10-23). A travelogue through experiences of dialogues with the ideologues of the city. Expressing both What’s in Vogue and what was value in the 2days.
CONTENTS:
1. Safer Driving the Bangalore Mysore Highway.
2. The Controversies I witnessed at Chamundeshwari hill top.
3. The Contexts People and Practices on roads of Mysuru.
4. The return via SriRangapatna and Triveni Sangama.(Confluence).
5. Lessons Learnt.
Deep dive into useful questions of
Spectrum between Mahishasura-Mardini(Correctors Devi-Angels) Vs MardaSura-Mahishinis (Corrupters Devils-Asuris).
Mythic Mahishasura-Mardinis (Products & Victors of Indian_Womanism like Lakshmibhai, Chennama, Meherbai Tata, Obbava, Sudha Murthy, Maharani Ammani, HPB, Karolina, Sister Nivedita, Mirra Alfassa, (with prime motive of social-Harmoney they are Social Correctors by spreading shared values) and many ‘ethical Indian-Sisters’..etc)
Versus Narcic Mardasura-Mahishinis (Products & Victims of American_Feminism like Rakhi-Fathima, Monica Bedi, Sushi Sen, S.Leone, P.Pandey (with prime motive of personal-money they are Social Corrupters by selling bared bodies to Netizens) and many other Unethical Traitors(More Lusters less Brothers or Sisters) of Indian Constitution & ethics.
What are the differences between Womanism (Resultant Character) and Feminism (Causative Factor)?
Between Manism and Masculinism?
History of Mahishasuru Mardini Akka Chamundeshwari Devi can be found here.
This post is dedicated to the mothers and form of genuine-Godly Good Women who have by power of their Sense of Social-Compassion before sexual-passion, Truth, Beauty and Justice have fought darkness of Lies, Ugliness and injustices of materialism, narcissism and Supremacism in many forms or genders.
It also exposes the fake-women and false-casers who are taking undue-advantages of having “womeny bodies but with demony mindsand felony lives“. Who are not mahisahura-mardinis(DemonKillers) but their ideological opposites I.e “mardasura-mahishinis“(DemonLovers) who are actually harming the society by harming Indian Justice.
[14/10, 21:52] G.R.P (G.R. PrasadH), VR4 Grit, Reasoning & Peerfulness.: Insighful response to an Inquiry. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Ry3NzkAOo3s&pp=ygUQR2FicmlhbGxhIG11c2xpbQ%3D%3D [14/10, 21:59] Shiv Healer Malleshwaram: But inspite of this response a year less than a decade ago – Lebanon is now become an Islamic country [14/10, 22:50] G.R.P (G.R. PrasadH), VR4 Grit, Reasoning & Peerfulness.: Thats because Any mind, person, family, group, city, state, region, nation, continent and world can be radicalized by any religious idealogy including the more rational-buddhist/Communist Idealogies..
if there isnt rationalizing secularizing forces like Constitution, Judiciary or civic societies that can counter the radicalization.
One sister speaking truth may not be help enough to counter such extremism..
Eg.. this secular sister got no defense against radicals.. that’s why they need rakshabandan-awareness about the idealogical risks to womanhood.
It’s the thread of right thoughts in the right people thread keeping the pages of rational-books that can protect us and our society by spreading threads of messages and stop spread of message by threads in the anti-virus masks.
Think about it? These are critical threads woven by rationals that keep the fabric of our lives from being torn by radicals.
KYC_Know Your Customs in Journalism. How to find and read and motivate Ethical-Journalism?
A Professional should know the code of ethics of hirs profession..& an Ethical-Professional knows and Practices the Code of Ethics also makes hirs own too.
A Client if knows the career ethics will be more aware to judge the profession and make valid informed choice of the professionals.
Homage Page to 2 Great Personalities and two great mysteries. M.K Gandhi & L.B Shastri not only shared same Birthday on Oct 2 but shared similar views, patriotism, ethics and deaths. But they are great freedom fighters, empaths and leaders of India. Our Salutes to these great souls.
Globally First Gandhi-Shastri SwabhimanDeshi Week(Oct2 to Oct 9th) And “Gandhi-Shastri Peace Month” of October 20XY.
Jai Gandhi, Jai Shastri. Jai Jawan Jai Kisan, Jai Vigyan, Jai Insaan.
If Gandhiji Is Father of Nation, Then Shastriji maybe the Beloved Uncle of our Nation.
We See that both share common Birth-day, Life-play as freedom fighter for nation and Deathways by Assasinations.
They fought not only the European-Brits but also the In-house Biases in people with their actions of Equanimity in Politics. They were imperfect human and had flaws but they had their influences we see the root of what created their Personalities.
*SAMU- ACitizensThinkTank2 Identify & Promote India +ve Choices + 2 Avoid & Alert India-ve Choices.* We Celebrate Gandhi-Jayanthi and BudhaPoornima for renewing our Swadesi and Minimalistic Vows and Oaths.
What’s the reason for conflict. It depends who the father of Nations is. Father Abraham is common father of Jew, Christian and Islamic lineages Ideologies and tribes.. They can reconcile with commonalities instead of differences.
Sapthapadi or 7-circles with 7-Vows importance in hindu weddings. Illustrated with 2 live caselaws Indian Cricketer Shikar Dhawan Versus his Australian Ex-Wife Eesha Mukherjee (Divorce-Trap 2012 to 2023). #Marital-Navigation_Systems.
7 Marital-Compatibilities Checklist. (SatDwars & Sat Checkin more Inner-Personality (Mind_Moral Quality) before You CheckOut Person Profile (Face & Body, Qualifications).
#7Rounds of Marital-Interviews Before #7Rounds of Havan. #Saat-dwars before Saa-Pheres. If not marriage can not survive of 7Live but can end in 7-years,months or 7days
1. Genders Compatibility: (Natural Complementary Genders) (Same_gender Marriages is unnatural and is of no use to Nature.) God dint create Adam & Steve. Shiva & Parvat. Eg. One person dint check the genders It was a third Gender(Intersex) hiding as a women to extract Alimony from husband after filing fake false case Harrassment of good family.
2. Age, Maturity & Attitude Compatibility: One family gave false age to get married to younger persons (younger & younger looking women (<30) get better marital offers &deals than older women as menopause is earlier for Women). had Bad attitude to life saying life is about money and gaining wealth and property only. So they marry with gaining status of a married woman/man only upon pressure from family. And not genuine interest in marital-commitments to other spouse.
3. Ideological Compatibility: They have conflicting idealogy of Toxic-genderity where they want to act opposite way to the needed marital_gender roles. They want to be the other gender too and are miso-gendery (Misandric, MisTranny or Misognic). Toxic-Feminity, Toxic-Tranyity or Toxic-Masculinity is harmful to formative_family & Supportive_Society.
4. Family Compatibility: are the families legal misusers having history of Civil_Criminal Litigations of abusing the Legal-Systems. Then they will be prone to repeat in marriage.
5. Hearty emotional Compatibility(EQ): people with high IQ but low_EQ & Empathy are prone to turn selfish, narcissistic in a relationship and turn it into a toxic-relationship.
6. Biological Compatibility: Genetic, Hematological & Sexuality factors. People with HIV, Opposite RH factor, Genetic Disorders like NPD, and Diabetes can turn the marriage into a carrier of such genetic disorders and diseases.
7. Sociological Compatibility: Social Supremacism and Superiority or Inferiority complexes in the larger clan_group can impact the marriage negatively by losing respect to the relationship and Partnership. At worst it can end in honor killing and best in relational discontent and disconnect.
Shikhar Dhawan Test-Cricketer but not a Test-Marrier because BCCI regulates Indian Cricket. But who Safe guards Indian Untested_Marriages.? So marriages are being like 20-20 cricket reels instead lifetime-deals. A 7 year itch is becoming shorter with googly witches and unstable unplayable marital pitches. Making Duck-out of good Batsmen, by wicked bowling of lie spinners coming of twisted tongues and viscious minds of unethical-marriers.
What is a Marriage? Whats 7pheras for 7Janam(Lifes) or 7 Jahanums(Hells).
What’s the significance of this ritual that every Rational-Hindu needs to know and practice these, which Blind-Believers of every practice may ignore at their own peril and perish in life.
This the Ceremonial Service conducter Panditji or Priest/Poojary needs to explain & give as an administeredvow (like in Christian and Islamic Acceptance of Marital Contracts) being the Facilitator of good marital practice. But alas the Religio-Social Responsibility of Religious leaders is not followed. Weddings are done as fancy rituals on stages and money spent to showcase the economic status of the marriers parents and families.
Wedding are jus bland ritualistic and not meaning-making events, which are supposed to align the marriers in a Marital-Contract for life. And make them good spouses who understand the roles, rights, duties, responsibilities and also the risks of breach, liabilities and legal penalties consequences to their paired-actions, marital-behaviours and family alliances.
The modern meaning of procedural_marriages and relevance of Marital-Weddings are lost to history and over driven by the Religio_Marital-Industry.
7 Important Marital Vows & Needs:
1. Family Food (Metophorically Anadanam-Anappurneshwari): Food is the most basic need. Top priority is life Providing food for family in earlier days of Large family Home-Making with division of labor even seen in Nesting behaviours of Birds, primates and tribal familes like in Africa and Asia. one genders members had role of outdoor Food gathering like Hunting, Farming, Bread-Winning & Protecting Home from animals and invading tribes. Another Gender used to accept the food brought by the foraging and Outdoor-labouring gender, ration and prepare food and equitable sharing for all members in the family.
2. Health & Prosperity (Metaphorically Ayurveda Dhanvantari & ArogyaLakshmi).
3. Wealth (Metaphor of Dhanlakshmi).
4. Love & Respect (Metaphor of Kamadeva & Vasudaiva-kutumbakam) for each other and both paternal and maternal families.. but this is being changed with matrilineal advantage in current gynocentric-society where the Mothers family gains an upper hand over the maritals & children of marriages. The paternal members’ respect and equal rights are polarized by scrupulous abusive maternals.
5. Children from Familyhood. The Children were seen as inheritors of paternal families and culture as Indian marriages primarily being patri-local. But due to lack of choices for maternal grandparents and their greed for progeny they are ready to breach fair-marital practices and usurp the children as property of Brides Father and mother. This maybe due to the unconscious greed for Male-progeny in the Only Female Familied Parents.
6. Long life for each other. Earlier partners cared for each others long life like Karva chaoth and fasting prayers for the long life of more risk taking partners. But due to life insurance and pension schemes death of partners is more beneficial to the sitting partner after the children is born and taken under control of maternal families. The fathers are disposable members only useful for further milking of alimony and properties. This is done as narc-minded women and MILs need the in-marriage baby as thier future insurance slaves and workers, but dont need the husbands. They would have gone for IVF and Artificial Insemination if Govt makes it legal for single parenting without stigma of illegal pregnancy in society. Marriage gives them a cover to hide their intentions also an opportunity to extract social status and privileges of married women. While they can fix the husbands in fake false domestic violence and maintenance cases. So shorter the life of husbands the better is it for such narc women and they can live life care free and responsibility free. With alimony money and custody of the slave-mindcontrolled kids.
7. Loyal Friendship: This is good as companionship is a hall mark of partnering and collaboration for life and afterlife Spiritually.
But current materialistically motivated generation is just friends for benefit. Spouses are driven by greed for more money, property, sex, lust, power and dominance for self. Eg. Ceasar, Marc Anthony and Cleopatra.
2. Shikar Dhawan.. could hit sixer of googly on cricket field, he but on marital field dint have proper coaching, should not have been trapped by this googly from a family from hooghly.. beware of Matrilineal Familes.. they are trap for men like this..
This is why manavamitras is doing Family Maritality awareness in groups. Since 2019.
Unknown Insights & Secrets of Dr. Swaminathan’s Life by his own words, works & worlds. We see here how Spiritualic-Patriotism of his elders influenced the Scientific-Rationalism in young one. #Vivekatva and #Nationalistic-Sciences.
#Swami & His Sciences.
He passed away today at a ripe old mature age of 98years.. He contributed to Indian Sciences, Farmers and Indian Citizens Phenomenally. Here is a Tribute to an Indian-Firstly and Lastly from a Patriotic Family.
These are some deep-interpretations that ordinary media doesnt showcase and show the cause.
This post analyses and what is the roots causes in life of this Indian-Scientist and his Indianity that contributed towards the *Evergreen Revolution* how he contributed towards a Brown-Revolution in agri-sciences and influenced by Indic-Bharat.
1. Global Legacy of Mr.Swaminathan among 20 top Asians of 20th Century(1900-2000).
2. 3 Swamis who created personality of Swaminathan. (Swami Vivekananda(East), Swami Ramana Maharishi(South) & Mahatma Gandhi(West)).
3. He said No to his family profession of Medicine-Sciences and yes to the Nations_needs and calling of Agri-Sciences.
Contributions to Nobel Work & Laureate.A Pragmatist in life Dr. MS.Swaminathan was an informed and engaged Inquirer(P.I) for Indian National Interests.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=xum35-XplNY
Egalitarian_Humanitarian Scientist of the Day. Tributes to Dr. M.S Swaminathan. Father of the Green Revolution in India.
Good Sciences Increases Public_Safety. Food Sciences Increases Food-Security.-GRP
an example of this was Dr. M.S. Swaminathan.
A great Indian Scientist. Loved Sciences, Loved the nation.
Double Blind-Critics’ experiments for types of feedback mechanisms. Insights from group interactions with 4 of Baseless hurtful Critics and 1 Basised Constructive & helpful-Critic.
In our ideological daily lives we get to see and hear few of our silent supporters and many of our vocal critics. We also maybe indulging in presumptions with biased-basisless negative criticizing or back gossiping, mud slinging, dirt smearing and hurting others reputation or contributions.
Let’s go to & see the roots of this phenomenon of group defamation or community based Character-Assassinations.
The Identity of my dear messengers giving toxic feedback in conversation is hidden. This is an Academic exercise for collective improvement in group-messaging. If you have any complaints or feedback to give can give it personally to me in comments below or to my email. I welcome all feedbacks constructive and destructive too.
How to see if its “Blind_Criticism (Flawed_Bias away from Truths/Facts) or Rational_Criticism (Fair_Basis in Truths/Facts)?
Critic#1: Profile of message sender is Software Engineer from Bengaluru. Well-intentioned, well read, socially aware, bright intellectual and very capable and responsible individual. We are close intellectual friends. Our Ideas overlap in many ways.
One of my beloved and respected Friend and longtime Associate (He is a Dear good guy and most of time rational (Known and in communication since 5 years) but recently(since 3-4 months) has made multiple inter-linked false presumptions about me recently).
I trust he will understand me and my multi ideas-logies deeper & better soon. He had shocked and mocked me with this statement today:
1st Request Message and my response and requirement for compliance.. he could have asked other admins of group to add him too.
2nd Msg Response I received to above statements.
Rational Analysis of this Response:
1. Members also have observed that you allow frequent violations esp irrationality & unsubstantiated allegations to facilitate your ideology/parochialism. (Call for Other members observations) who are the members when they conveyed and what are the details not given? (Strawman Fictional Arguement)
2. You have not removed them & not even stopped them. (Past history against some members also group has other admins too)
3. I comply with standard discussion rules. (Reference was to specific Group messaging policy rules this is irrelevant to specific group places). Lex Loci (laws rules apply as per location or groups)
4. Later you intentionally skewed the rules to suppress questioning & rationality. (Trulse and false accusation.. it’s maybe possible that rules were improved but untrue it suppresses questioning and Rationality. What it does is aids freedom of expressions with responsibility of impressions.)
Do review the group rules or Community Guidelines here below also known as Model Group Code of Conduct: https://bit.ly/3zMlXJh see it if “the 10 rules here Suppresses Questioning or Rationality?” In any way.. infact the rules are meant to promote freethinking & expression while protecting group against abusive messages and abuse of members-rights to Excellent-Environment. Btw Statistically the Friend also is common happy-member of 10 groups. He had violated our group-codes in 2 of the groups and was removed with valid reasons. We have cleared things to him he is always welcome back with group model code compliance, but member is arrogantly rebellious.
We many times hurt ourselves, others, our relationships and our communities by making snap judgements, with prejudices or misjudices there are implicit or hidden biases in the society which are very deeply ingrained and like back of our heads very hard for us to see directly.
There is a way of Fair Rational and Constructive Criticism and this is below.
Critic#2: a common alumni and very helpful altruist shared values and interest for our alumni campus community group.
This is reference to Critic#1
Wonder and Survey to know more.
We got a feedback from member about Suppression of Questioning and Rationality in groups.. we are double checking with other members about this opinion. Plz do Express and feel free to suggest ideas to improve this Gmx Groupmember Experience.
A Positive Feedback for Solution Thinking: by an IIScian LAN Grouper
3rd Roumd of Baseless and Personally Biased Criticisms.
The Causes: Most of these unfair criticisms are baseless and biased by exaggerations, all-nothing thinking, cherry picking and Attribution error.. 1. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attribution_bias
Another faulty-thinking and expressing is based on use of a psychological tactic called psychological Projection.
Where the group members who are anti-admins or anti-authority want to project their own assumptions onto the inadequacies of actions. They have a prejudice bias and instead of self correction project onto a person or group of persons. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_projection
Unfair Baseless Criticism 2024.
Case Study Criticism #4: This is from a New member about 2 months in a 4 year old group community of 198 members and had 17 admins, the newbie has an ideology that All Members have to be made Admins in order to make the Group be equal for all.. We had referred to the existing community guidelines and adminship requirements. This was a philosophical difference of opinion, now this was turned to adhominem by personal attack on admins & founder admin too. here is below tactic of personally attacking admin to enforce new ideas authoritarianly.
GRP_VCare2Dare 