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A man Trusts his biological & Nurtural parents and relatives who have helped all his life to see the life_options and make_choices that have lead to positive results. Or may distrust them and make their own self-choice instead of a family-choice.
But there comes a time in Life when needs to take up steps and decisions which may be in formed and guided by elders and his heroes, but maybe limited to their experience and knowledge.
He will stand trial by life when like in the metaphor of the churning of Ocean (Sagar Manthan) the society which seems a mix of grey.. will have to be churned in ourself between our rational self and the emotional self.
This will lead to the distillation of everything and first the crude stuff or poison comes out and then later the Manna or nectar of life.
Trials after Betrayal.
So first like in Jesus’ life in an unjust system driven by materialism & not spiritualism, there will be many betrayals by our closest ones.. the brother will betray another by prodigality & deflecting, sister will betray the family by eloping or relatives will bring in character assassination due to desire to singularly possess the common shared property of the grandparents,
also religiously-vowed wife and with genetically indebted Children will betray their husband & father by filing false cases & accusations.
We all have been, are and will be controlled by external and internal scripts that impact Life. Whether its benign-good_control or malign-bad_control that is the question. This post shall help one see which are the bad controls in Life. So one can see & create the good ones.
Our Control starts from Womb to tomb, from our Family-House to International Parliamentary Houses.
We are under covert control and influence of our Parents, Caregivers, Family, Relatives, Peers, School, Edu-Systems, Media, Religions, politics, neighborhoods, laws & language, every frame is a firm of control, the question is it intent benign (for benefit of many & all) or malignant (advantage of few and small groups).
Age-wise Content.
1. -9 months to 4years:
2. 5 to 10 years:
3. 11 to 18 years:
4. 19 to 30 years:
5. 30 to 60 years.
Intro what is a controller?… its an entity that controls our ideas, thoughts, thinking, words & actions also our days and lifes.
1. -9 months to 4 years.: Our genes & memes of our Parents and their Controllers Control us.
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I have been to many capital cities, but find the most deadly city in India to be Delhi. We need to change this from Deadly_Delhi to Delightful_Delhi. The Choice and the Voice for Dil se Delhi is here.
Below is a list of News that proves why Delhi is leading most dangerous city and how can it and other cities be made safer.
Sharing my Lived_Experiences, Inferences & Interventions from 15years(2008-2023) of evolving as an IIScian being close to IISc & IITs (the Campuses, Communities, Controversies & Contributions).
#SaveOurStudents Campaign2021 #Preventing_Students_Suicides & Deaths in Academia.
1. Riisc of the Mind: Mental_Fatigue, Info_Overload, analysis paralysis.
2. Riisc of the Body: Deficiencies Due to Brain Stress and Overwork. Eye Strain and issues, sedentary lifestyle diseases.
3. Riisc of the Groups/communities/Societies: Academic Bullying and abuse.
4. Riisc of the Situation_Environment/eco-Systems: Chemical and experimental setup risks.
5. Conclusion of How to Prevent and overcome these Risks.
With PoweR comes 4Rs: Resources, Rights, Responsibility and Risks.
This maybe few vulnerability or one of the Riiscs, R’IISc’s with IIScians..
“Analysis Paralysis”.. knowledge, paths and options for actions are more so it takes time and difficult to decide which path or option to take.
How to overcome the Analysis Paralysis and “just do it.”?. This is of gud inquiry where to draw the line for knowledge seeking and start to apply_practicing.
Game of Thoughts/Theories @Institutes
5. Conclusion of How to Prevent and overcome these Risks.
Request to not attack a person or family nor the Institutions in groups. The Blame-sharing factor varies case to case fro 20:80 to 50:50. Between Genetic & Environmental Factors for Suicides risks.
Testimony from an Alumni: anonymousised to hide Identity of Person and Place.
“On the topic of suicide, it is very easy to advise the right thing to do. But in reality, the affected person often shuts himself or herself off. Keeping a distance from others. Often hiding behind closed doors. Not giving access for others to help. I lost my close friend to suicide at Institute. He was brilliant and wanted to do the best research ever done. His experiments would be perfect, no less. It took him a long time to do his research, partly because he chose a very difficult problem. Probably all his batchmates finished before him and I think he was the last student of the batch finishing his work. I was not there at that time; like most students, I had gone on a post doc, in my case, to the National Health Institute . I got the news via a letter from another friend that this friend of mine had committed suicide in his hostel room on the eve of his PhD defence. I believe the overseas examiner, an ex Intitutian, had commented in the thesis report that the work was good but asked what the relevance of classical protein chemistry was in the scientific world where recombinant DNA technology was coming up. This devastated my friend. All his hard work, standing overnight many, many times in the cold room, shivering, manually collecting fractions to purify his protein and planning and executing perfect experiments… was all a waste. And he took his own life.
I think if some of us batchmates and friends were there, we might have been able to save him. He was alone and lonely and unable to handle the condescending comments of the examiner. I don’t know if there was any other factor leading up to this since I was not there at the time. It is important to keep in touch; with email and WhatsApp, that is easier these days.
“1984/85. I left IISc in Oct 84 and this happened a few months later. Yes, you can refer to this case. He was also from a very poor family in Punjab. He was supported in his studies and otherwise by his brother who was doing PhD in physics in Panjab Univ. The suicide created a vacuum that cannot be filled. He had so much potential.( in Indian Academia and Life).
Money-minded People speak of Genders-pay Gap, but non Speak of Genders-risks Gap or Genders-Suicides Gap why? Aren’t lives valuable than mere Money? One genders wants alimony because marriage has become about all-money.. not family or social harmony.
2. Place for men Genders_Sciences, Gender-Cultures & Genders_Safety for BetterMent of Sense, Self & Society. Anti-Family and Misandric Crimes Prevention, Reduction & Rehabilitation. *#Sarva-ManavaHitham.*
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