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Homage Page to 2 Great Personalities and two great mysteries. M.K Gandhi & L.B Shastri not only shared same Birthday on Oct 2 but shared similar views, patriotism, ethics and deaths. But they are great freedom fighters, empaths and leaders of India. Our Salutes to these great souls.
Globally First Gandhi-Shastri SwabhimanDeshi Week(Oct2 to Oct 9th) And “Gandhi-Shastri Peace Month” of October 20XY.
Jai Gandhi, Jai Shastri. Jai Jawan Jai Kisan, Jai Vigyan, Jai Insaan.
If Gandhiji Is Father of Nation, Then Shastriji maybe the Beloved Uncle of our Nation.
We See that both share common Birth-day, Life-play as freedom fighter for nation and Deathways by Assasinations.
They fought not only the European-Brits but also the In-house Biases in people with their actions of Equanimity in Politics. They were imperfect human and had flaws but they had their influences we see the root of what created their Personalities.
*SAMU- ACitizensThinkTank2 Identify & Promote India +ve Choices + 2 Avoid & Alert India-ve Choices.* We Celebrate Gandhi-Jayanthi and BudhaPoornima for renewing our Swadesi and Minimalistic Vows and Oaths.
What’s the reason for conflict. It depends who the father of Nations is. Father Abraham is common father of Jew, Christian and Islamic lineages Ideologies and tribes.. They can reconcile with commonalities instead of differences.
Sapthapadi or 7-circles with 7-Vows importance in hindu weddings. Illustrated with 2 live caselaws Indian Cricketer Shikar Dhawan Versus his Australian Ex-Wife Eesha Mukherjee (Divorce-Trap 2012 to 2023). #Marital-Navigation_Systems.
7 Marital-Compatibilities Checklist. (SatDwars & Sat Checkin more Inner-Personality (Mind_Moral Quality) before You CheckOut Person Profile (Face & Body, Qualifications).
#7Rounds of Marital-Interviews Before #7Rounds of Havan. #Saat-dwars before Saa-Pheres. If not marriage can not survive of 7Live but can end in 7-years,months or 7days
1. Genders Compatibility: (Natural Complementary Genders) (Same_gender Marriages is unnatural and is of no use to Nature.) God dint create Adam & Steve. Shiva & Parvat. Eg. One person dint check the genders It was a third Gender(Intersex) hiding as a women to extract Alimony from husband after filing fake false case Harrassment of good family.
2. Age, Maturity & Attitude Compatibility: One family gave false age to get married to younger persons (younger & younger looking women (<30) get better marital offers &deals than older women as menopause is earlier for Women). had Bad attitude to life saying life is about money and gaining wealth and property only. So they marry with gaining status of a married woman/man only upon pressure from family. And not genuine interest in marital-commitments to other spouse.
3. Ideological Compatibility: They have conflicting idealogy of Toxic-genderity where they want to act opposite way to the needed marital_gender roles. They want to be the other gender too and are miso-gendery (Misandric, MisTranny or Misognic). Toxic-Feminity, Toxic-Tranyity or Toxic-Masculinity is harmful to formative_family & Supportive_Society.
4. Family Compatibility: are the families legal misusers having history of Civil_Criminal Litigations of abusing the Legal-Systems. Then they will be prone to repeat in marriage.
5. Hearty emotional Compatibility(EQ): people with high IQ but low_EQ & Empathy are prone to turn selfish, narcissistic in a relationship and turn it into a toxic-relationship.
6. Biological Compatibility: Genetic, Hematological & Sexuality factors. People with HIV, Opposite RH factor, Genetic Disorders like NPD, and Diabetes can turn the marriage into a carrier of such genetic disorders and diseases.
7. Sociological Compatibility: Social Supremacism and Superiority or Inferiority complexes in the larger clan_group can impact the marriage negatively by losing respect to the relationship and Partnership. At worst it can end in honor killing and best in relational discontent and disconnect.
Shikhar Dhawan Test-Cricketer but not a Test-Marrier because BCCI regulates Indian Cricket. But who Safe guards Indian Untested_Marriages.? So marriages are being like 20-20 cricket reels instead lifetime-deals. A 7 year itch is becoming shorter with googly witches and unstable unplayable marital pitches. Making Duck-out of good Batsmen, by wicked bowling of lie spinners coming of twisted tongues and viscious minds of unethical-marriers.
What is a Marriage? Whats 7pheras for 7Janam(Lifes) or 7 Jahanums(Hells).
What’s the significance of this ritual that every Rational-Hindu needs to know and practice these, which Blind-Believers of every practice may ignore at their own peril and perish in life.
This the Ceremonial Service conducter Panditji or Priest/Poojary needs to explain & give as an administeredvow (like in Christian and Islamic Acceptance of Marital Contracts) being the Facilitator of good marital practice. But alas the Religio-Social Responsibility of Religious leaders is not followed. Weddings are done as fancy rituals on stages and money spent to showcase the economic status of the marriers parents and families.
Wedding are jus bland ritualistic and not meaning-making events, which are supposed to align the marriers in a Marital-Contract for life. And make them good spouses who understand the roles, rights, duties, responsibilities and also the risks of breach, liabilities and legal penalties consequences to their paired-actions, marital-behaviours and family alliances.
The modern meaning of procedural_marriages and relevance of Marital-Weddings are lost to history and over driven by the Religio_Marital-Industry.
7 Important Marital Vows & Needs:
1. Family Food (Metophorically Anadanam-Anappurneshwari): Food is the most basic need. Top priority is life Providing food for family in earlier days of Large family Home-Making with division of labor even seen in Nesting behaviours of Birds, primates and tribal familes like in Africa and Asia. one genders members had role of outdoor Food gathering like Hunting, Farming, Bread-Winning & Protecting Home from animals and invading tribes. Another Gender used to accept the food brought by the foraging and Outdoor-labouring gender, ration and prepare food and equitable sharing for all members in the family.
2. Health & Prosperity (Metaphorically Ayurveda Dhanvantari & ArogyaLakshmi).
3. Wealth (Metaphor of Dhanlakshmi).
4. Love & Respect (Metaphor of Kamadeva & Vasudaiva-kutumbakam) for each other and both paternal and maternal families.. but this is being changed with matrilineal advantage in current gynocentric-society where the Mothers family gains an upper hand over the maritals & children of marriages. The paternal members’ respect and equal rights are polarized by scrupulous abusive maternals.
5. Children from Familyhood. The Children were seen as inheritors of paternal families and culture as Indian marriages primarily being patri-local. But due to lack of choices for maternal grandparents and their greed for progeny they are ready to breach fair-marital practices and usurp the children as property of Brides Father and mother. This maybe due to the unconscious greed for Male-progeny in the Only Female Familied Parents.
6. Long life for each other. Earlier partners cared for each others long life like Karva chaoth and fasting prayers for the long life of more risk taking partners. But due to life insurance and pension schemes death of partners is more beneficial to the sitting partner after the children is born and taken under control of maternal families. The fathers are disposable members only useful for further milking of alimony and properties. This is done as narc-minded women and MILs need the in-marriage baby as thier future insurance slaves and workers, but dont need the husbands. They would have gone for IVF and Artificial Insemination if Govt makes it legal for single parenting without stigma of illegal pregnancy in society. Marriage gives them a cover to hide their intentions also an opportunity to extract social status and privileges of married women. While they can fix the husbands in fake false domestic violence and maintenance cases. So shorter the life of husbands the better is it for such narc women and they can live life care free and responsibility free. With alimony money and custody of the slave-mindcontrolled kids.
7. Loyal Friendship: This is good as companionship is a hall mark of partnering and collaboration for life and afterlife Spiritually.
But current materialistically motivated generation is just friends for benefit. Spouses are driven by greed for more money, property, sex, lust, power and dominance for self. Eg. Ceasar, Marc Anthony and Cleopatra.
2. Shikar Dhawan.. could hit sixer of googly on cricket field, he but on marital field dint have proper coaching, should not have been trapped by this googly from a family from hooghly.. beware of Matrilineal Familes.. they are trap for men like this..
This is why manavamitras is doing Family Maritality awareness in groups. Since 2019.
Unknown Insights & Secrets of Dr. Swaminathan’s Life by his own words, works & worlds. We see here how Spiritualic-Patriotism of his elders influenced the Scientific-Rationalism in young one. #Vivekatva and #Nationalistic-Sciences.
#Swami & His Sciences.
He passed away today at a ripe old mature age of 98years.. He contributed to Indian Sciences, Farmers and Indian Citizens Phenomenally. Here is a Tribute to an Indian-Firstly and Lastly from a Patriotic Family.
These are some deep-interpretations that ordinary media doesnt showcase and show the cause.
This post analyses and what is the roots causes in life of this Indian-Scientist and his Indianity that contributed towards the *Evergreen Revolution* how he contributed towards a Brown-Revolution in agri-sciences and influenced by Indic-Bharat.
1. Global Legacy of Mr.Swaminathan among 20 top Asians of 20th Century(1900-2000).
2. 3 Swamis who created personality of Swaminathan. (Swami Vivekananda(East), Swami Ramana Maharishi(South) & Mahatma Gandhi(West)).
3. He said No to his family profession of Medicine-Sciences and yes to the Nations_needs and calling of Agri-Sciences.
Contributions to Nobel Work & Laureate.A Pragmatist in life Dr. MS.Swaminathan was an informed and engaged Inquirer(P.I) for Indian National Interests.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=xum35-XplNY
Egalitarian_Humanitarian Scientist of the Day. Tributes to Dr. M.S Swaminathan. Father of the Green Revolution in India.
Good Sciences Increases Public_Safety. Food Sciences Increases Food-Security.-GRP
an example of this was Dr. M.S. Swaminathan.
A great Indian Scientist. Loved Sciences, Loved the nation.
Double Blind-Critics’ experiments for types of feedback mechanisms. Insights from group interactions with 4 of Baseless hurtful Critics and 1 Basised Constructive & helpful-Critic.
In our ideological daily lives we get to see and hear few of our silent supporters and many of our vocal critics. We also maybe indulging in presumptions with biased-basisless negative criticizing or back gossiping, mud slinging, dirt smearing and hurting others reputation or contributions.
Let’s go to & see the roots of this phenomenon of group defamation or community based Character-Assassinations.
The Identity of my dear messengers giving toxic feedback in conversation is hidden. This is an Academic exercise for collective improvement in group-messaging. If you have any complaints or feedback to give can give it personally to me in comments below or to my email. I welcome all feedbacks constructive and destructive too.
How to see if its “Blind_Criticism (Flawed_Bias away from Truths/Facts) or Rational_Criticism (Fair_Basis in Truths/Facts)?
Critic#1: Profile of message sender is Software Engineer from Bengaluru. Well-intentioned, well read, socially aware, bright intellectual and very capable and responsible individual. We are close intellectual friends. Our Ideas overlap in many ways.
One of my beloved and respected Friend and longtime Associate (He is a Dear good guy and most of time rational (Known and in communication since 5 years) but recently(since 3-4 months) has made multiple inter-linked false presumptions about me recently).
I trust he will understand me and my multi ideas-logies deeper & better soon. He had shocked and mocked me with this statement today:
1st Request Message and my response and requirement for compliance.. he could have asked other admins of group to add him too.
2nd Msg Response I received to above statements.
Rational Analysis of this Response:
1. Members also have observed that you allow frequent violations esp irrationality & unsubstantiated allegations to facilitate your ideology/parochialism. (Call for Other members observations) who are the members when they conveyed and what are the details not given? (Strawman Fictional Arguement)
2. You have not removed them & not even stopped them. (Past history against some members also group has other admins too)
3. I comply with standard discussion rules. (Reference was to specific Group messaging policy rules this is irrelevant to specific group places). Lex Loci (laws rules apply as per location or groups)
4. Later you intentionally skewed the rules to suppress questioning & rationality. (Trulse and false accusation.. it’s maybe possible that rules were improved but untrue it suppresses questioning and Rationality. What it does is aids freedom of expressions with responsibility of impressions.)
Do review the group rules or Community Guidelines here below also known as Model Group Code of Conduct: https://bit.ly/3zMlXJh see it if “the 10 rules here Suppresses Questioning or Rationality?” In any way.. infact the rules are meant to promote freethinking & expression while protecting group against abusive messages and abuse of members-rights to Excellent-Environment. Btw Statistically the Friend also is common happy-member of 10 groups. He had violated our group-codes in 2 of the groups and was removed with valid reasons. We have cleared things to him he is always welcome back with group model code compliance, but member is arrogantly rebellious.
We many times hurt ourselves, others, our relationships and our communities by making snap judgements, with prejudices or misjudices there are implicit or hidden biases in the society which are very deeply ingrained and like back of our heads very hard for us to see directly.
There is a way of Fair Rational and Constructive Criticism and this is below.
Critic#2: a common alumni and very helpful altruist shared values and interest for our alumni campus community group.
This is reference to Critic#1
Wonder and Survey to know more.
We got a feedback from member about Suppression of Questioning and Rationality in groups.. we are double checking with other members about this opinion. Plz do Express and feel free to suggest ideas to improve this Gmx Groupmember Experience.
A Positive Feedback for Solution Thinking: by an IIScian LAN Grouper
3rd Roumd of Baseless and Personally Biased Criticisms.
The Causes: Most of these unfair criticisms are baseless and biased by exaggerations, all-nothing thinking, cherry picking and Attribution error.. 1. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attribution_bias
Another faulty-thinking and expressing is based on use of a psychological tactic called psychological Projection.
Where the group members who are anti-admins or anti-authority want to project their own assumptions onto the inadequacies of actions. They have a prejudice bias and instead of self correction project onto a person or group of persons. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_projection
Unfair Baseless Criticism 2024.
Case Study Criticism #4: This is from a New member about 2 months in a 4 year old group community of 198 members and had 17 admins, the newbie has an ideology that All Members have to be made Admins in order to make the Group be equal for all.. We had referred to the existing community guidelines and adminship requirements. This was a philosophical difference of opinion, now this was turned to adhominem by personal attack on admins & founder admin too. here is below tactic of personally attacking admin to enforce new ideas authoritarianly.
Two Men, 2 Pacts, 2 Paths and too many Impacts. Whom do U/V Celebrate? Let’s Cerebrate this question.
Why One Ideologue Attacked India (Like the Greeks, Arabs, Europeans & Chinese) and Other Patriot Supported India?
Short Answer: Kalams are Creation of a Secular Constitution & Kasabs a Creation of anti-secular Constitution (We see evidences in Neighbouring Nations also in Arab and African Nations with Anti-non Secular Constitution have State-sponsored Terrorism) Errors in Texts Causes Terror in Facts.
This Duo-Biographical Post explores how paths of “human-Rationality brings more Contributions and Cures” while “inhumane-Radicality brings more Destructions and Curses” for any Individual & society. How and Why In 75years of Independence of Sibling-Nations one is choosing and Benefiting from more-Rationality, while other is made to choose by coercion undue-influence and get hit by more-Radicality.
Religiousity (Me/My Heaven First) is different from Spirituality. Human-Spirit of Morality (mind)+ Ethicality (Action)+ Fraternity (Group) is= Spirituality (We/Humanity First).
Religious Ideas(Mind) + Practice(Action)+ Culticness(Group) is Religiousity(Me/My Clan/group -First).
Our Accounted-Actions brings Accumulated-Reactions, Thus Karma is not a bitch, “Karma is a Bommerang”, We Reap Tomorrow what we Sow Today. What One does and throws at others today is bound to return home and haunt us tomorrow(Narc-Collapse). Response can be Rewards in case of Positive Humane actions(Kalam) and can be Retards in case of Negative Inhumane actions(Kasab).
Two Personalities related from Indian Sub-Continent, both were Asians, both were from poor families, both of their parents may have had similar levels of educations (both kinds of edu I.e Scientific-Secular & Religious-UnSecular). They had many Commonalities and many Diversities as well.. the commonalities bring people on closer paths ; with diversities they can takeup different pathways. Like men have choice of being Kalam or Kasab, women examples are Kamala-Harris (US-Indian_Indic Ideological Roots) or Kalmee-Seema-Haider (Pak-Indian_Non-Indic Ideological Roots).
This post is a tribute to the great genius APJ Abdul Kalam; a Great Scientist and a Greater Humanitarian, an Inspiration and model-citizen for all Indians in general & Bahujan-Indians in particular.
My personal affinity to him is I have visited his home in Rameshwaram, I lived near his DRDO labs and adored his statues in Bengaluru, read his books and viewed his Speeches. Was an Organiser with a Spewch Contest by his Name in Bangalore. Also have Tamizh Ancestry like him.
Among Few of great Bahujan Inspiring Personalities. Like Bodhidharman, Kamaraja, A.R Rehman, Illaiyaraja, Pa Ranjith, RajniKanth, etc our Bahujan Scientist and Bahujan President APJ Abdul Kalam is a gem and genius.
Kalam was the Nuclear and Rocketing-Man who stood for Scientificity & Secularity. While Kasab was the unclear and Racketeering-man who killed for Religiosity, Virginity & eternity. First one had Thrilled many Indians in life(Ignited-Minds) and blessed by many youngones while the later-one killed many Innocent Indians (Ignited-Hate) and cursed by many people, families & nations. Why?.. They may have had the same instrumental Biological-Genes as south asians, same family circumstances.. then what was the difference in the Environmental Ideological-Memes.
and one got educated & selected as the President of a Nation and served the world Humanity by being a Scientist, Teacher and Empoweror of Values and Principles. He inspired many as an Indian & Bahujan, even now many aspire to be like him transcending religions, Clasteed, Linguistics or politics. Why?
And another got er-ducated and sent to dent public and kill many nationals of neighbouring nations and harmed the Humanity by being a brainwashed, killer, mass murderer and religiously created terrorist. He sinspires many to lookup to Patriots like Major Unnikrishnan(Bengaluru-India) who defended the nation and nationals bravely. His nation honors him, while the criminal who killed him had his narc-nation abandon him & other terrorists as citizens of the country. This is the act of a frauds-nation creating global corruption.
In Indian peninsula also the same Contemporaries.. we got 2 AKs.. Abdul Kalam (AK77) a Missile-man and Ajmal Kasab(AK47) a Terror-man, one man was the pride of a Profession, Home-State and Whole-Nation. Another man the dread of a city, state and global humanity.
From same side of Hindu-Kush mountains. (Hindu Istaraf Kush Hain, aur ustaraf sabjalte hain, Hindu Ke Khushi sain) “HinduKush mountain range“= HappyHindu, The Right right side of which all Hindus are happy the other side of which non-hindus(morally) are jealous of Hindus hence attack and want to convert the Hindus to monopolistic centralized Vaticanism or Meccanism).
Ideological war between Sciences and Religions is happening globally. Indian Scientific-Patriotic ideologies created Kalam and Non-Indian UnScientific-Idiotic_ideologies created Kasab. Both the AK’s family religious-ideology rooted in Mecca. What was the difference that one is buried at a memorial for whole world to see and cherish , while others’ memories are wished to be buried by his own people else they will legally, spiritually and globally perish.
effect of Taqqiya or Deliberate lying to fool the enemy.
Ones life and works are celebrated and brought honor to one Nation and profession, while other’s life and works are denigrated and brought dishonor to his nation and humanity.
So where are we headed? If more people Choose Kalams path of Sciences and Compassion with will to create for his home-land, & without will to procreate with 66 virgins in fantasy land.
Then we will create higher possibilities of science, scientific temper, Conscience and nationa-prosperity and global-peace.
3. Welcome Empathic Skeptic.. our nations development will depend on sharing ratios of Kalams (Scientific Temper): Kasabs (ReligoCultic-Temper). Let’s create more Kalams of India.
Confidence and hard_work is the best medicine to kill the disease called failure lt will make u a successfull person …..APJ ABDUL KALAM🙏🙏
Conclusion: Both Men were born in similar conditions of poor vulnerable homes from same religion, yet different nations and ideological places, Both Received Educations but..
one received only Cultic-Education without Rational-education that kept me-first thinking, it gave him head of lies/ice (dont think by own intellect) and hands of fire (only act as told by cult leader). And you will get eternal-heaven with 72 virgins and more materialistic Freebies, facilities & amenities for your life. Just sacrifice ur life for the religious-war. High Materialistic :Spiritualistic Ratio in Education.
The other received Religious Education, Moral-education, Community Education in his city, and excellent Scientific-Technical Education from Madras University. From the Egalitarians_Triangle Zone in India. Thus this was with education of culture, celibacy, humanity, excellence & music and many more Human-Value based education. This leat to We-First thinking as a DRDO Defence Science Organization. It set him on developing Head of truths/Science (do think with own faculties) and Wings of Fire (do act to elevate self, nation and humanity).
Depends on the Type of Education received.
The Materialistic : Spiritualistic Ratio of the education..
If more Materialistic it leads to More Me-First thinking and more Spiritualistic education is more We Thinking..
Why India or Hindus or Indus-ism (Hinduism+Jainism+Sikhism+Buddhism) is Under attack since Birth of Abraharmical Religions or even Marxist Anti-religious Ideologies..? The Key is India was the Most Prosperous Land and nation of the ancient world and all other civilizations wanted to plunder its riches while converting and enslaving for colonialism which was successful until 1947 or 1950. the Key Words are Ghazwe-hind & British-india.
Facts of Case and Facts of the Cause (Root Causes) Relationship. Inquiry into the Use, Misuse and Abuse of legal processes, places and professionals.
There is a Spectrum of Justice between Whites of Justices and the Blacks of InJustices. There is a grey spectral area of Un-justices.
How in a Rule-OF-Law the Tool of Law like Complaint and Case-Filing can be used to do good for citizens & families as well-intended and also can be Used to do harm ill-intended by Nautyzens and their Gangs.
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