S249: Trialogy of Relationships. 3 phases and paths of any Relationship.

Are you Facing a Tough-Relationship??, Pause the cribbing (oral-complaining) to near/Dearones and start de-scribbing (docuplaining) with the clear-ones.

Many only speak about Friendship, there is even a day to recognize and celebrate it. FRIENDSHIP DAY, but what is less recognized is every coin has 3 sides and not just one. When is Relationships Day.??

There are 3 types of relationships (Friendship(+ve), Neutralship(0) & Enemyship(-ve).

And the relationships evolutes to 3 different paths. Friendships make our life easier and otherships makes our life complexier and complicating.

It can be interconnected but it takes efforts and events to interchange the lanes in life.

1. Path of Neutralship(0). Here the way is smooth and plain there is no Ups or Downs. Like a flat road. The 3 phases in it to Introduce, Share Info, have a working relationship of stasis & proximity without either enemity(-ve) or amity(+ve). There is neutrality. Path of Co-Trailers..

2. Path of Friendship(+ve). There is a good exchange of Spare (Time & Resources), Care (Attention-Emotions) & Share (Power, Place, Info, Events & Experiences). External factors strengthen the bonds like Scares & Threats to the collective peace and connect resources, Care for each others life & wellbeing, & Friends share many things like visions, purpose, events and good feelings in the relationship.

The 4 phases of Friendships are “SORCE” of love. I.e Socialize, Organize, Revalue, CommUnify and Empower. There is a buildup of helpful experiences, years of trust, respect and loyality-love for each other with deep bonding and positve exchanges. Mutual-Trust improves and collective growth and excellence happens.

Path of Complementing/Cooperating-trailers.(on the Life-Trails) Friendship is a simple interest,  Enemyship is complicative phenomenon.

Presence, Attention, Trust & Honor (PATHway) of Love and Friendship is Founded on fairness, Justice and empathy.

3. Path of Enemyship(-ve). There is a decline of bonding  with seperation, mistrust, miscommunications, misjudgments, negative emotions of fear, anger and hate. Scare, Dare, Snare and Stare tactics are used.

The 3 phases of which may be IDDiotic..  Idealize, Devalue and Discard.. more phases are offend, oppress, de-power, destroy. Path of Competing/Conflicting Trailers. Shaming, victim-blaming, defaming, character-assasination, dis/mis informing, manipulation, mis/mal-guiding, snitching, targeting, cheating, frauding, biasing, malicious avoidance, ignoring, neglecting, gaslighting, Discriminating, false-complaining, demeaning, gossiping, backstabbing, mobbing, ragging, harassing, abusing(verbal, physical & ideological), hurting, cutting, lying, criminalizing, murdering(Aftab-Delhi Murders) and killing.

Do analyse your relationships in life one may see it evolves in these 3 paths of life.

Any more paths do let us know and explore and discover together.

Thanks and do share if you find it of value.. as friends we set the trends.

Your Mitram-mitra Prasad.

We have formed focus groups and communities to share and amplify our interests and Fraternity.

Do connect If interested.

Good day.

Groups-Mitra Prasad.

Benefits of having good Friendship:

1. https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/friendships/art-20044860

2. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/experimentations/202203/what-drives-friendship-between-men-and-women

Example of Enemyship: Troy and Trojan Horse.. (Vibhishana and Ravana).

even if rekationship Either one is corrupt or both are..

What do u think.. who is the manipulative one and who is the manipulated one among these public Servants?

https://www.newindianexpress.com/states/karnataka/2023/feb/21/ips-roopa-vs-ias-rohini-karnataka-govt-reprimands-both-2549395.html

Example of Neutralship:

1. Vidura or Krishna to Kaurava and Pandavas.. They dint fight the war directly..

Examples of Good Friendships:

Ram and Hanuman, Vibhishana and Ram..

Magic Ratio of Successful Realtionships:

source of these ideas.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/curating-your-life/202206/the-gottman-ratio-happy-relationships-work

S248: Vi-Ve-Ka_nanda Trilogy on 12-Jan the National Youth Day,/GRP @2023.

Dear young Bros & Sisters the Youth of India,

Wishing all a Happy National Youth Day. On Jan-12’s.

https://www.thequint.com/lifestyle/national-youth-day-2024-popular-quotes-wishes-greetings-slogans-and-sms#read-more

Q: Where are The Indian Youth missing out.. See todays news.. ? https://www.ndtv.com/india-news/nine-doctors-arrested-in-karnataka-for-trafficking-consuming-drugs-3683412/amp/1

Ans: Many Youth are on paths of toxicity and irrationality due to avidya (Ignorance) and adharma (Immorality) and can improve by listening and extracting value from  Vivekananda’s message to the Youth of India. #ViVeKa-Method/Model of Life.

For Indian model of Rationalness is Viveka-tva.

https://dict.hinkhoj.com/rational-meaning-in-hindi.words

Basis of Technology is Science and the Basis of Science is Rationality.

https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/rationality

#Doctrine Of HigherDiscretion I.e #UpaVivekaSidanta.  #Hitha-Vivekam (Beneficial-Discretion). Viveka is not Discrimination (DurBeda) but it is Discretion (Su-Viveka). Also there exists a Spectrum between Discrimination (Negative-Hurting) to Discretion (Positive-Helping).

Is your Viveka Ur power of discrimination or Discretion?.. Viveka is it being misattributed by faulty English translations.

Q: What’s Distinction between Discrimination (Fake-Viveka) & Discretion (True-Viveka)?

Both are forms of diffrentiation, difference is Discrimination is irrational, baseless and more biasful (@Whims and fancies of a tyrant or a dominant group) , while Discretion is rational, bias-less and more basis full (@needs and fairness of empaths and Egalitarian groups).

How to Go from Right Facts to Fair_Acts to Helpful_Impacts?  Swami Viveka teaches us How.. through service dedicated to the nation Connecting Dots of Spirituality, Nationalism & Socialism.

Arise, Awake and Stop not until the goal is reached“. said Swami Vivekananda the Youth Icon Of India since year 1893 the ripples of claps from the religious parliament at New York.. that is 120+yrs of waves of that Speech and Swamijis work have been transforming many lives and institutions.

In an aligned spirit Let me request you to scroll, read and stop not until the end of post is reached. What good can it do reading this today on National Youth day 2023?..  Ans: Its to highlight the Youthful Facts of Swamiji, his Soulful acts and the impacts it has around us and how it influenced many & me too personally, this expressed in just three “Steps of Vi- Ve- Ka.”

Viveka‘ in Indic languages means ‘Discretion‘, Intellect or Intelligence..  I can say that With the Viveka like that of Vivekananda “Vee-Vake-up” to Ananda or Bliss.

In any subject the power/practice of discretion (different from discrimination that supremacism likes to mislabel it) or distinctions between things is essential to deeper understanding, be it Scientific-discretion (Rationality), Artistic-discretion (Artistry), Judicial-Discretion (Judiciary) or Civic-Discretion (Citizenry).

This critical faculty of Logical-Discretion (not Irrational-Discrimination) is what distinguishes us the homo-sapiens with ‘6th sense‘ I.e a more capable power among the animal kingdom. This power gives us the ability to say which is which.. eg. Which idea is helping and which is hurting, which tool is more useful and which is lesser useful to a given task. This is not to destabilize but to optimize our lives and society.

Below is what can make us better humans Vi-Ve-Ka (Vidya,Veeram, Kartavyam) (Education, Courage & Moral Duty).

Vi-Ve-Ka = Vidya +VeraVegam + Kar(tav)yam.

Let’s now together Introspect and define Vi-Ve-Ka and we find it also relatable to the 3 phases of Swami ViVeKananda’s Life.

1. ‘Vi-step’ 1st Phase of Vishaya (Facts) (Years 1863-1881) Vidya (Education), Vigour(Energy), Vichara(Thinking), Vishala(Vastness), Vidya(education) and Vinamrata(Humility-Discipline) of the young Narendranath at Kolkata in his founding childhood years.

He was a very inquisitive and enquiring young child full of curiosity and compassion. He was on a Quest of inquiry (Vichara Vimarshane) into many questions of life and society. This vigour of questioning of vishaya facts lead him to question his spiritual guru Sri Ramakrishna and get initiated into the monastic life as Vivekananda. Which led to the 2nd phase of speedy dedicated acts.

2. ‘Ve-step’ the 2nd-Phase of Ve-ga (Speed/Acts) (Yrs. 1881-1892), This phase with speed and force he set-out on a journey across the nation from the north to southern tip of The Indian peninsula, to Kanyakumari and and dint stop where the land stopped he swam across the waters of Indian Ocean to the Vivekananda-Rock to look at the mother land and meditate on his journey and the future. Here he saw envisioned and set out planning his mission of life. This is his phase of Which moved on to the 3rd most brilliant phase of Impacts.

3. ‘Ka’ the 3rd phase of Kartavya/Karma Yoga (Duty-Impact) (Yr.1893-1902) & Karmaphala Beyond till date. Here he set out on the most extraordinary journey across the space and time.. from Kanyakumari to Chicago to Colombo to Almora and more.. The Ripples he created as a spiritual-citizen has turned to great waves for our nation.

Impact-1: In this journey his first major impact was when he met JN Tata the worlds most philanthropic personality of the Century ($102 billion donation), where he impacted Tata in the creation of India’s best Institute of research 110+ years back the Indian Institute of Science (Mother/Father of IITs) fondly called by Bengalurean localites by the founder’s name as the ‘Tata-Institute‘. His letter is also a testimonial fact to Swami Vivekananda’s acts & Impact on J.N. Tata sourced from Tatas Company website.

1. https://www.tata.com/newsroom/jamsetji-tata-letter-to-swami-vivekananda

Impact2– Starting of the Ramakrishna Mission. Associating with greats like sister nivedita and other brothers of mission.

Impact3– Founding of Belur Math at Kolkata.

Impact4: Egalitarian Concept of ‘Daridra Narayana’. TREATING the Poor, Marginalized, Downdrodden, suppressed, oppressed and depressed classte as equally divine, godly and respecting them spiritually-honorable and valuable. Few ideas may have collaborated with Dr.Ambedkars Egalitarian Ideas if there may have been a chance meetup with like J.N Tata on the ship. There is a correlation similarity between Ambedkar and Vi-Ve-Ka that slogan of educate(Vidya), agitate(Veeram) and organize(Kartavyam) https://www.speakingtree.in/blog/when-swami-vivekananda-destroyed-the-caste-system

Impact4– Inspired & Inspiring many Indians including Subhash Chandra Bose (INA) , JN Tata(IISc), Gandhi, Tagore, Jayalalitha, Anna Hazare (Anti Corruption, Jan Lok Pal), etc

De-Biasing from Superstitionnand Irrationality.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Influence_and_legacy_of_Swami_Vivekananda

Many more impacts may be there not listed here..

Conclusion:

Expansion is Life, Contraction is Death” – Swami Vivekananda.

Thus swami ‘Vi-Ve-Ka‘-ananda was a youth icon of the Nation who lived his initiated-name sharing viveka of Vidya(Wisdom), Veerya(Valour) & KarmaNistata (Dedicated Service).

May we all be inspired by his message and works to get to the Facts, convert it to dedicated Acts and create positive Impacts in our lives and nation as Patriots for a Prabuddha-Bharat (Awakened-India 2030) as is the vision of Swami Vivekananda.

Bharat Mata Ki Jai, (Glory be to Mother India)

Bharatiya Bhaiya (Vivekananda) ki Jai, (Glory to Brother Vivekananda)

Bharatiya janta ki Jai. (Glory to all Indian Citizens).

One line Summary:

Vivekananda’s life teaches us the Attainment of Rationalness Vivekatva.. ViVeKa= Vishaya/Vidya + Veeram/Vegam + Karya/Kartavyam.

Better Discretion can be Achieved by Facts by Education + Acts with Courage + Impacts by our Duty.

Thanks for reading this Tribute to the great true Indian Patriot Swami Vivekananda our Indian Youth Icon written on National Youth Day Jan12 2023.

Self-Declarations:

I am inspired and impacted by my earliest by yoga classes at Vivekananda Ashram at Ulsooru Bengaluru. that I started(in 2001) by reference from my 12th std IIT-coaching classmate and friend Vivek from Viveknagar Bengaluru. After 3 months of Yoga, I did a 3 day spiritual retreat at RIMSE Mysuru(2006), then I used to join in at Vivekananda Study Circle at Indian Institute of Science reading Swamiji’s books and attending lectures at Ramakrishna Ashram Basavangudi. My parents health has been benefitted by Nature retreat at SVYASA Bengaluru, we as family have Visited major places in Swami Vivekananda’s Journeys at Kolkatta and Kanyakumari. I am blessed to have this association of the paths, principles, people and places of Swamy Vivekananda and Shri Ramakrishna & Sharada Devi, Vivekananda embodued the divinity and spirituality moving towards Rationality and global-humanity.

*Sharing Apt Meditations All-together* (SAMA-Spirituality Clubs) 4 SAMA-Mitras.

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Rules:
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For Patriots and Nationalism:

*VR Indians1st Bharath-Mitras: ShareNCare Place 4 Patriotic-India2030*:
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Get to the Facts: Set the Acts : Net the Impacts.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=P6KTCjwmdzs

S247: 10 Exams Resources for UPSC & Other Entrance Exams in India @2023 /GRP.

UPSC & Other Entrance Exams are a gateway to administrative and Government Jobs and Posts.

In this post, We have an Aggregation of important National & International resources for Indian Students, Professionals & Officials. DO SHARE WITH YOUR COMMUNITIES AND LETS AMPLIFY HELP & IMPACT FOR OTHERS..  Thank You All. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/01/11/s247-top-10-resources-for-upsc-other-entrance-exams-in-india-2023-grp/

I had Cleared GATE & Topped CEED exams, also prepped & appeared for UPSC and CAT Exams. Sharing few resources for preparing for exams. All the best for the preps and exams to all.:)

A. For General, Forward, Open Category Facilities for all..

1. UPSC Study Materials

All Imp C.A and material for upsc free🤗🤗

https://t.me/upsclassnotes

2. UPSC Coaching: https://t.me/vajiramandraviofficial

3. Insight-IAS: https://t.me/insightiasupdatednews

4. For GATE: https://t.me/gateacademyofficial

5. Uniting2 Empower For Students in all Indian Institutions:

*ResorcePlace4:* Higher-Edu@ (IISc,IIT,IIM, NIT,NiD, NLS..etc

*IIX-ians Grp* 4all
IndnInstitutes Acadmc-Mitras. https://chat.whatsapp.com/B5KhbddGhWiLN4VSUqPEwm

For Researchers & Philosophers: https://sites.google.com/view/samdham/home/registration

6. For General Educators Resources:

*Margdarsi’s_group: Misn4 Edu_India2030:
https://chat.whatsapp.com/JrwK1NvoVfTKXGSMwwbWMq

B. FOR Non-General, Other categories I.e Socio-economic Weakened sections, Backward, SC/ST, EWS and Minority Groups.

7. https://www.coaching.dosje.gov.in

https://www.coaching.dosje.gov.in/(S(e0tazanq52j1wwebipzzraox))/Home.aspx

8. Digital Nalanda: https://t.me/Nalanda_Academy_Wardha

9. BARI Students Researchers Group. https://chat.whatsapp.com/GSVgm8wonxfKKv7oHUr87e

10. Project JaiBhim. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2021/12/06/s88-project-jaibhim-india_2030-groups-vision-for-indian_egalitarianism/

11. https://www.ambedkarmission.org/

Anymore Resources can Connect.

S246: D’ Game of Names and Name of the Games. /GRP

What’s in a name? Wrote questioningly Shakespeare.. lol little did he know so much could be encoded in names… if he looked at the Indian Naming system or human Nomenclature.. Socio-Taxonomist may love to study the varied Indian Naming Norms.

Post-Content

1. The Game of Names.

Why does one Gender change its name after marriage to get identified to its partners family-name while the other gender doesnt? Are there any rationality or scientific advantage or benefit for this nomenclature practice/Social Custom? Or is it unnecessary cultural practice or is there some Rationale to give the child its father’s name or father’s family nomenclature? What about IVF Single Parent Kids.. With unknown Fathers gene, can they unknowingly have incestuous maritals after they grow with other spouse born of same sperm donor?.

Is Bejan Daruwala/Batliwala name any better than Janikirum or Johnny Walker? How does ur name and surname matter.

How Ideological-principles of Racism, Casteism, Classism, Religionism & all-Identitism is propagated through Group (Classte/Religion/Ideological) names and naming conventions?

Balancing Processes of Castification/Polarization and Decastification/Equitisation of society.

Egalitarianisation (More Equitable society) or Supremacisation (More Inequality(Socio,Economic,Politico-spiritual) in Society.

How can your name and surname define your Game, Fame & Shame in India and other Biases-Based Discriminatory systems.

https://www.thenewsminute.com/article/whats-name-tamil-nadus-stormy-past-caste-names-street-corners-and-institutions-49232

Tamizh Nadu maybe at forefront of De-castifying Caste based Surnames..

I too was asked what’s my pura Naam in a Central National Institution.. this was first cultural shock experienced by a person without a privileged surname.


There are 2 name formats we can see in India..( If More Human Nomenclature plz Share). Like Homo Sapiens.

1. Casteist Name Format

PersonName+Midname+ CasteySurname.. eg. Sai-Deepak Iyer.

2. Decastified Name Format.

Person name+ FatherName+Place Name.or Initials

Eg. J. SaiDeepak Mysuru

A msg from a groupee
I am from southern state My name is Nithi
And i changed my name to Thiruva Shant Nithi.

Thiruva is my birth place . Shant is my mother’s name ..

Some time ago my college certificate was given as Nithi M.

M is my father name!.

I think this works much better than casty-religiony Identifiable names. Eg Breddy, Setti, Kurma, Nodi…etc

The general way we introduce in South mostly in is with just basic Name with initials eg.. J. Saideepak, S. Jaishankar, or with Fathers name mjr. Sandeep Unnikrishnan.

Just ask randomly anyone in neighbhourhood, office or college. We just say our basic-name also look into the profile name.. few may use initials upon asking what’s ur name..

Eg Conversation with an egalitarian.

Indian1: Hi bro my name is Sandeep Kumar Sharma, what’s yours?

Egalitarian1: Hi Sandeep my name is Pradeep.

I2: Pradeep ok, what’s ur PuRa naam, your full name?

E2: my name is Pradeep. J.

I3: What is the initual ‘J’ in your name.. (Indian trying to get casty surname from the egalitarian).

E3: sir, J is the initial of Fathers name that is Janikiram.

I4: what’s your surname or family name? What’s in your certificates?

E4: my certificates is Pradeep J only, in passport its Pradeep Janikiram only..

E3:



Eg. MGR(CM Tamizh Nadu), HD Kumaraswamy Ex CM of Karnataka (he has dropped caste name which his dad had kept) also for his son Nikhil Kumaraswamy.. note Actor Puneet Rajkumar too(Name+Fathers name) no reference to Casty-Surnames etc..

T.N is one state in India which has done away with Castic_Identification.. to Decastify Public places.

https://www.thenewsminute.com/article/whats-name-tamil-nadus-stormy-past-caste-names-street-corners-and-institutions-49232

In North also we see this with Lal Bahadur Bharatiya.

https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/10/06/s377-gandhi_shastri-week-oct-2-to-oct-9-annually/

Politics of Names.

Do Voters Go by Names? Gandhi, Modi, Gowda, Yadav, etc.. Selection by *names or surnames* lead to Voters Bias, that’s what is Unscientific_Politics 4.0..

As wise-electors We look not at the name but at *the Game* or Behaviour and *Character of the Candidate*..

Like in Research we have double blind experiments that reduces name-bias.. we need upgrade to more Scientific_Politics 5.0 that can make people look for *game in the mind*.. also this is the game of names or blames? https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/01/10/s246-the-game-of-names-and-the-name-of-the-games-grp/

The Truth About Name Bias

S245: Identifying 3 Keystones of Constructive-Relationships & Lock-stones of Destructive-Relationships:

#LetsFigureItOut_Together.

Interospectional Question..

What do you think are top 3 traits/factors that matter for good-sweet relationships?* And what are those that matter for a bitter-toxic relationships? Im on a quest to answer this do share ur experiences i shall share mine in return.. lets discover it together Good day.

3 Keystones for arch of Stable Complete Consistent good-sweet Relationships.

1st Keystone: Trust

2nd Keystone: Respect

3rd Keystone: Care & Love

3 Lockstones for arch of unstable incomplete inConsistent toxic-bitter Relationships.

1: Distrust, Mistrust, Doubt & suspicions. Misunderstanding, Fear

2. Disrespect, contempt, Dislike, incompatibility. Anger. Blame-game

3. Apathy, anti-care, indifference, discrimination, disdain & hate.

3.

S243: “InDiA_Decision Method” of S’election & Decisive_Decisions:  Q1. Let’s Choose the Right Persons/Places for the Right Placements?

Project_India Method. To overcome and prevent the loss to India due to Selection, Election, Recruitment & Partnerships with Bad Faith Actors, Fraudsters, Misfits-cultics, Nepotistic-clans  & Neo-Narczis. #IndiaS’ElectionMethod_4Politics5.0

#InDiA Method of Selection for Life & Nation By GRP@2023 . (Tools For Better “Decisions, Precisions & Progressions“).

Lets “#Inquire_Diagnose_Accept.” By having

Investigation, Discretion & Adoption.

Most widely used paradigm by mass control-systems is InDeA-Method.. I.e Influence(Undue-Force), Decieve(Corrupt) & Assume to be True/False. (Unfair Pressure not with Proper Peer Review & Expert 360° Reviews (i.e in the new InDiA-Method).

(1. SEE-Wider,

2. THINK-Deeper,

3. CHOOSE-Wiser.)

Smart_Steps for Smarter_Lives..!!

So that we dont disappoint ourselves and our Core-Values.

Good/Better Choices = Better Outcomes = Better-Lives = Better-Democracy= Better-India = Better-World.

Key-Ideas: Tools for Your-Empowerment. A Simple 3Step 360° Mental Framework, or Indian_Mind-Tool for Better Life-Choices, Scenarios & Life-Creation.

#Socio-Intellectual Due Diligence. Selection-due Diligence #Electoral_DueDiligence, #Relational_DueDiligence, #Marital_DueDiligence, Marital_design_thinking.

2023-2024 The Year Of Voting for the Next Indian & state Governments and Institutional Councils.

Your Choiced-Vote is Valuable, you can make it Awefuly-Worthless without any methods or make it Awesome-Priceless with the InDiA_Method of Choosing/Voting for Better-Futures.

HOW TO VOTE BETTER WAY..? is how we Route out fear and Route-in peace. SUKRAMA-Sutra.

https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/01/08/s243-india-3step-method-for-candidate-selection-how-to-choose-the-right-person-for-the-right-placement/

#Rational-DecisionMaking System. for Who Is Your Parli-Mate? Who are your Officemates & Bed/HomeMates, NeighbhourMates & Traffic-Mates & Nation-Mates. A Friend or Foe how to Know?. Team of Jatayu-HanuMan or Marichi-Ravana how to detect,  reflect & select?

Want better(Behtar) nation & institutions? BETTER-India can be formed by Better-Recruiting of (Parli-mates and Life-mates) if no one worthy dont vote for lesser of evil one can vote for NOTA (None of the Above) so the candidates are replaced and new Deserving & Ethical candidates are eventually selected, elected & inducted. And if found no partner moral or worthy enough its better to be single like Bhishma/Kalam..etc and not bear troubles in India like Pushrava/Kaikeyi (Father of Ravana) or SushantSR-2020, Athul Subhash-2024 (Abused by Spouse & Systems) .

Introducing the “India-Method” of Selecting-People of purpose for team-challenges & Problem Solving. Lives-Mate Evaluation & Selection Matters.

A Simple, Quick & Effective way for “Life_Decision-making Model” to use for Critical-Life Decisions of How to VOTE, WORK, MARRY, RETIRE AND PASS-ON..?

#Models4 BetterLife_Decisions

An App to cut the crap out of Candidate, Date or mate-selection, bait-Selection or Fate Selection.

If voting made any difference they wouldn’t let us do it. -Mark Twain

This may have been true in a less connected world, into current hyper-connectable world out voting(Choice of Govt Representatives) can be organized apptly.

Your Vote_Selection + Mates_Selection+ Dates_Selection..  = Fate_Selection.

In.Di.A-Method @2023 has 3 Phases

#1. Inventory Phase (See),

#2. Disscide (Disscus+Decide) Phase (Set) &

3. APPLY phase. (Act).

Your Wombmate (Twins+), gene-mates, Classmate, Workmate, Groupmate, marriagemate, Bedmate, Alumni-mate,  Church-Templemates,  Parli-mate (MP,MLA,MLC,UN-Rep) street-mates matter if you want it to matter. Politics of (Govt, Office & Home) depends On the critical-mass making a negligent-choice or an well-informed-choice. Every choice matters if one makes it by choice and not leave the choice to chance.

4 major life-decision who one 1.Votes for, Study/Work with, Manage/Marry, Retire, Passon.

Whom do you choose/vote as your friend/partner/representative(MP/MLA)/guide/boss/mentor-mentee/coach for the best life-Results & Outcomes for all?.

What may be a Good method of selecting a Candidate/Date/Spouse?.

Wrong/Sub-optimal Process leads to Wrong/dire Results & Risky-Outcomes..

Right/Optimizing Process leads to Right Results & needed Safer-Outcomes..

What are the more error-free & fool-proofer method/process for selection/decision-making.?

Every Recruitment (@Home, School, Office or Parliment) is a “Human Resource Challenge” & HR Best Practices help provide solutions.

Proposing to you & the world a Good “wHolistic-method” (& not a Worristic method) for Political-Elections , Marital-Selections & Social-Connections.. which will help one and all reduce negatives of life-dejections/rejections/ejections and amplify positives of life-elation/integrations/progression/evolutions.

It’s a decision to choose the best person/s among the “pool of profiles” who are capable and agreeable of performing/supporting the needed tasks within windows of opportunity and execution.

Eg. Choosing your representative for parliament (Civic Duty), choosing company/boss/president (Professional duty),  choosing your spouse (Familial Duty), choosing your friends/allies (Social Duty).

There are Basically 3 Main Steps of The “InDiA Democratic method” of Candidate Selection.

InDiA Selection Methodology.

Inquire-Diagnose & Act (Appoint/ Approve/ Avoid).

(InDiA-Methodology: All-in-One How2Model to Choose, Study, Work, Vote, Date, Marry, Pray, Partner, Procreate and Live_Successfully).

1. Inquiry /Investigate/Interospect (Scrutiny Tests & Filtering Exams)..Interview

2. Diagnosis /Discuss/Decide..

3. ACCEPT/ Appointment /Appraisal/ Admit/ Adopt/ Adapt…

STEP-1. In. INQUIRY.. (Investigate /Invite /Interview/ Introspect)

Inquire about the list of candidates/profiles available for the task or position (MP, Wife/Husband, Boss-Worker.. Founder-Cofounder..etc) Get access to the candidates list in your constituency, communities or circles.  If left to chance or emotions the results are with risks of failures and uncertainties.

For ease of use we are assuming this info for a Female named Kantara Kumari aged 20yrs in City of Bengaluru-India.

Eg-1. Vote-Selection: For Selecting your Constituency Representative In political election. See the constituency candidates list..(Selection Frequency once every  4 Years for complete term)

Find your constituency.. https://data.opencity.in/dataset/bbmp-ward-information

S37: Face & ace 5 kinds of Interviews!! Top- FAQs (Frequently Avoided QUESTions) /GRP.

Eg-2. For selecting your spouse in marital selection. Which follows the Doctrine of FCUK (Frequent Copulation for Unifying Kinships)_Sexual Pairing not regarding here Illegal-affairs & western immoral hypersexuality. Only considering Rational/legal/ethical-sexuality.

Find your Compatible-Ideologues and communities through good connections.

Eg-3 For Selecting your significant others in life-Connections.. Teachers, Boss, Collegues, Neighbhors, Community leaders, Influencers.. etc

Step 2. DISCUSS -Diagonise/Direction

Most import of 3 step critical to the process failure-Success is to diagnose in detail the pros and cons of  the post & all sides and credentials of the candidature. Do an in-depth background-verification process to have high unbiased-standards so to filter and enlist out only genuine, credible & feasible candidates for your job/task.

Most values need to be trustworthy, unbiased, civil and Rational, higher moral and ethical standards,

Eg1: Vote-Selection: check candidates crime records and Background verification along with party/personal manifesto here:  https://myneta.info/

1.Man(WHO): 2. Mandate(WHAT) : 3. Managing-Ideology (HOW). Model for Evaluation (How-Best).

  1. What needs to be done is easier…
  2. How it’s to be done is difficult…
  3. Who all will do it. This is the most difficult step.

Discuss the manifesto with your family and friends and like minded colleagues for selecting the best Manifesto and Mandates to choose. This is the benefit of Free-Democracy. You can discuss like sandbox and arrive at the best collective decisions that can positively create your nation/family/life.

Step 3. Appoint / Appraisal.

Final step is onboarding that is to get them on the team (1.Government(MP,MLA), 2.Family(Spouse,Adopted person),  3.Company(Recruited candidate, 4.Cult(Neo-Believer).).

This happens in 3 ways.  1. VOTE, 2.Marry, 3.Induct.

Eg1: Vote, Vouch & Validate for Your Candidate.

Register yourself on ECI and go vote. https://eci.gov.in/voter/voter-registration/

Eg. How Shivji Used the InDiA method for Selecting his soul-mate Parvathiji… Reason why the marriage is eternal and the modern LIE marriages are temporal is below..

https://www.hinduvision.com/post/shiv-parvati-love-affair-the-ultimate-divine-union

Conclusion: Thanks for reading the “InDiA Method of Life-Decisions” to Vote(18+Yrs), Work(21+), Marry(25+), Retire(60+) and Passon(90+).

-yours truly..

PriyaMitra, HumaRA-mitra, Citizen-Mitra, City-Mitra, JeevaMitra, JagatMitra, Kalyana-Mitra,     — GR.Prasad

G.R Prasads attempts and efforts at making the Intangible more Tangible, The Implicit more Explicit and the incomprehensible more Comprenhensible and the Required to be more Acquired to the Nation and Nationals.

Bonus-References:

1. Best “5_Types of Interviews” Questions for the 1st Phase of Inventory. Best read featured article on this blog.

https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2021/01/15/s37-questions-in-the-5-kinds-of-interviews-in-life/

Plz apply the India method to this post as well critically.

And can share comments and feedback for Inprovement and benefit of all India. In comments below.

Final Request we get the politicians, spouse or mates which we select.. please select-wisely. Your life and other lives depends on our Rational Decisions.

https://www.worc.org/how-to-recruit-candidates-to-run-for-office/

Marital resources:

https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/02/06/s264-reelationships-vs-realationships-which-is-which/

https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/01/08/s243-india-3step-method-for-candidate-selection-how-to-choose-the-right-person-for-the-right-placement/

*Political Resources:*

We the voters cannot always choose which Nepolitician families the Poll-Parties Choose to give seat to,

but W.E can *choose HOW W.E elect* our Political Representatives by our informed-voting systems. (#IndiaMethod For Politics5.0.
#VotebyIndiaMethod. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/01/08/s243-india-3step-method-for-candidate-selection-how-to-choose-the-right-person-for-the-right-placement/

S242: Digital-Egalitarianism; Neo-Pluralism with Transparency, Diversity and Inclusion in a Digital World.

Is your life more monopolized_unhealthily or decentralized_Diversified healthily.?

Every Coin has 3+ Sides. And thus the modern Inventions and Devices also have 3 sides, one is the Benevolent-Good Whiter Side, the Netzero_Neutral-Gray Side and third is the Malevolent-Bad Blacker Side of the Modern Internet and Social media.

We can See 3 sides of Social Media I have named them as below. As #SocialMediaSpectrum. In life there are few Absolutes there are many Relative-Spectrums.

1. Social-Media Academica(+ve): Sad-e’sangha (personal guestimate 10% of WebSpace-Time) eg.. Britannica, Science Journal, LinkedIn, Wikipedia, Amazon, Coursera, TED, ebooks, open library. etc. This SMedia lead to Knowledge-Skills Additions.

2. Social-Media Epidemica(-ve): Dur-E’Sangha.. (80% of thrash websites Tiktok, Instagram, FB, X.com, xxx.com Pornwebs, Darknet, rummy games, Fraud-Dating and Matrimoney_Buisness sites). This Social-Media Sites leads to Substraction of Money-peace and time..also many cases of toxic addictions.

3. Social-Media Neutrica(0): Shunya-eSangha. its zero impact websites just there for the heck of existing neutered.. they dont cause any additions or addictions.. maybe 10% of the web space-traffic again..(Paretos Principle of 80:20)

Are we beings digitally_manipulated with undue influence (E-malice) by others taking Undue Advantage of our Digital-Innocence.. protect self with 10 Commandments of Digital Safety.. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2022/11/12/s220-10-commandments-of-digital-safety-security-grp/

https://www.thenation.com/article/culture/david-dayen-monopolized-review/

Are you really free of coercion and toxic-influence ? In cultic-systems.

Or are you empowered with free-thoughts and freeing-associations.?

Or are you entrapped by Vested interests with mind controlled thoughts and Closed-Biased Association cultic-circles.

https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2022/11/12/s220-10-commandments-of-digital-safety-security-grp/

S241: All 50+ Helplines for YOur Social-Wellbeing (@India).

ALL Needed lines for help-Info in time of aid served here with link in Interest of Public Welfare.

Detaild List of Importnt (Ind) Helplines 📞☎ 2025.
Save/fwd this msg today⭐,
to save a life some day⛑.

PostIntent: There are many different problems of life, just like there are different medical-problems(Ortho,Neuro etc), better solutions are got from different specialists. Similarly different aggrieved-persons have different help-resources/Help-places.

#All Abuse Prevention.

#All Crime Prevention.

#RaggingPrevention, #HarrasmentPreventionResources. #DistressPrevention & Help.

#Life_Risk-Management. #Life-Problems_Remedies.

Motto/IdeaSlogan: Are you in a Hopeless spot?.. try spotting a Help-place for your problem to stop. You can start seeing the paths here below.

We are at distress due to exposure to disempowering systems, & it can be healed by connect with empowering support systems. Uninformed Parents, Friends, Spiritual-guides or Colleagues have vested interests and cannot give unbiased-right Information. Best Right Information/Support can come from an unbiased reliable source without vested interest(neutrality) in your problem.(Genuine Support Systems/Networks, Connections with Compassion).

This is why current parental-Training, Spiritual-training, Technical-education is inadequate for Larger Life.

More sincere and Expertised-training is needed for better quality of life and society. Especially enough valuable Life-Information is not shared at home and in friends/schoolmates circle. It needs focused and expertising networks.

Content of 4 Types of Helplines:

1. Government‘s i.e Central and State Govt Operated Helplines. Eg. Phn# 112 (Indian AIO Emergency Helpline)

2. NGO (Non Governmental Organisation) Operated Helplines. Eg. Phn# 8882 498498 (Save Indian Families) Family Helplines..

3. Other Private Institutions based helplines. Eg. 1860 500 1066 (Apollo Hospitals-India)

4. Inter’National Helplines. Eg Alcoholics Anonymous Deaddiction Helpline @ US (+18008391686).

In Detail:

1. Govt Operated (All 4Indians):

1. India EMERGENCY Line: 112
2. Childrens Helpln: 1098

3. Elders_Helpline: 14567
3. Woman & Transgender: 1091
4. Mens Helpline#1 (NGO with App): 8882498498

5. Cyber Helplines: 1930

6. Mental Care @ Telemanas: 14416

7. MensHelpline #2: 9278978978 (not yet from GOI Mens Commission)

8. Health: 108, 1800-599-0019.
9.Transgenders2:100
Police🚓: 100
Fire🚒: 101
Ambulance: 102,108

Marginalized Atrocities Help: 14566
AnimalsHelpline: 09820122602 ;09650609880
Harassed by Auto Drivers: (@Blr) 080-25588444 /555

Voters Helpline: 1950
Electricity:(Blr) 1912
BWSSB:(Blr) 1916
Medical& Blood: 104, 1062
Consumer Protection Compl:1800114000
Eye/Org Donatn: 18001037100 /18001203648
NoisePollution: (@Delhi) 155271
BurningGarbageBBMP:
@blr 07676022555

DLSA Free Legal Services.. 15100.

2. NGO Operated____:
1. Menshelpline:
8882498498 (SIF1)(AI)
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.akki.saveindia
& 9278978978 (SIFF)
2. Moblynch & Hatecrimes (AI):1800313360000 (UAH)

https://nalsa.gov.in/services/legal-aid/claiming-free-legal-aid-application-procedure

3. Anti_Suicide_Hlplns:
Citywise (@BLR: Sahai_08025497777)
https://www.thebetterindia.com/94553/suicide-helplines-india/
MHealth@Nimhans:08026995530
LGBT/Trans:18002000113 (Sahaay)

4.Blood:
Friends2support.org(AI)
AllKarnataka@ 9480044444

3. Other Hlplns Private Ref:
5. AntiCorruption: https://trak.in/tags/business/2014/01/09/anti-corruption-helplines-cities-states-india/
6. https://mensline.org.au/
7. https://indianhelpline.com
8. Treeplanting:Saytrees+919740651640

4. International Helplines___:

Alcoholics Anonymous and Other UN Based Helplines here in link:  https://www.helpguide.org/find-help.htm

Bonus Chat-Lines and Hot-Lines to help.. https://988lifeline.org/chat/

Thanks for Reading:

Lies we Keep to Self Shall make Us & others Weaker,

Truths we share for others shall make us & others Stronger. _GRP..

This page is dedicated for all the lost souls who were silenced without reaching out to the Helplines.  Do reach out to good people and see how your like transforms.

NGO Praana in Bengaluru:

-Compiled for Public Interests
(Rev1.0 on:17/7/19) updated on 21/3/23.
4The_HUMaRa_Group:/(GRP🖖🏽)
LokaSamastaSukhinoBhavanthu🌏
-Alert:The list is collated from the web, Do due-diligence while calling needed helpline & to revise the list u may cnct with HumaraGrp admins.
Wan2share seek2join:
The_HuMaRa_Grp👭👫👬

Top 10 HelpPlaces for Different Purposes:

1. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2022/08/22/s187-life-game-of-empathy-vs-narcissism/

2. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2021/01/26/s45-i-want-us-all-to-survive-thrive-my-tryst-with-suicide-prevention/

3. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2022/01/17/s97-p-l-e-a-s-e-stop-it-initiatives-for-people-looking-to-end-academic-suicides-everywhere/

4. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2022/08/12/s183-an-open-letter-to-my-dear-indian-sisters-brothers-on-rakshabandhan-2022-remembering-a-sisters-love/

5. *ResourceGrp4:* WEgilance2 Enable Safety-Awareness unify Suraksha-Mitras.

*SAINTians: SafeT-Mitras*
Crimeless & Safer-India🇮🇳2030:
https://chat.whatsapp.com/DoA6q5GxdVtFCxWgfPCeO4

Families Anonymous

https://nmba.dosje.gov.in/toll-free

Janaspandana Public Grievance Helpline: 1902

S240: Neo-“MRP” /GRP Marriage & Relationships as “Social-Optimization Problems” and Solutions for Optimized Outcomes.

Familial MRP= Marital Recruitment Process.

CRP= Company Recruitment Process.

CLRP= Cult Recruitment Process.

CmRP=Community Recruitment Process..

CIP: Company Induction Process.

MIP=Marital Induction Process.

Just like “companies benefit” from a proper and well formed Human Resource Recruitment Policy and Process..

Similarly Communities can benefit from a proper, well informed and formed Marital Recruitment Policy.

Some communities use unethical head-hunting(Love-Crusade/Jihad/Hindutva/Budhutva..etc) and poaching from other companies-communities without the knowledge/consent of the Reporting-Managers/Parents and in the process ultimately such social-malpractices in the industry/community/subsystems loose trust and credibility, support of the larger systems.

We may see it from a less seen perspective

Marriage is a recruitment process.. if done well it leads to growth of both and welfare of society, if done improperly its loss to both & farewell of happiness in the society

We know it well, we may like to read this

https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2021/01/15/s37-questions-in-the-5-kinds-of-interviews-in-life/

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