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1. How Google-Effect its affecting Griha (Homes-Families)?
2. How Google-Effect its Affecting Gurus (Helpers-Educators)?
3. How its Affecting Guris(Heaven-Goals)?
A Company or Family is built of Interdependence and Division of Labours.
The Family Units till 3.0 were built on Individual Liberty, Collective Ability and Interdependence of the family-members and Co-dependence of Company Colleagues.
Right now the Google effect is not only reducing our cognitive-abilities but also collective-abilities, our need for valuing friendship, workmanship and Spouseship.
we are rejecting the roots of our humanity that’s familial trust and relational-wellbeing.
IAS or Indian Administrative Services is a Tough Competitive Examination of Indian Civil Services. They have to study many Subjects and get to the interview process and selection happens.
Here is a Indian couple from TN. who are posted in Gujarat but they have drawn into a drama of Life. Let’s understand what went right and what went Wrong?
If You or Your Family Member is in imminent threat of suicide. please call the Suicide Helplines for CPR-QPR.. Given Resources for Suicide Prevention in this page. https://tinyurl.com/3235884r
What are 10 lessons for every Indian-MANavamitras from this Indian Couple & IAS Family from South TN??
1. Doing IAS may Train one to administer or manage over large area (DC) & many Public Officers and Organizations(Secretary), But it doesnt train one to Adminster their Homes or manage-marriages, forming good family, and clan-community relationships.
2. IAS training helps in selecting work, colleagues and juniors for working in the Indian Government (UPSC -Selection Commitee or Board), but doesnt train people to select the right partners at home for Familying in societies (UFSC: United-Family Services Commission Selection commitee).
3. The risks of Love-Recruitment and elopement are not only limited to low income and low status people it can happen to high income and high status home families too.
4. Elopement doesnt happen only with unmarried children but also married and committed spouses can betray, cheat & elope too. sometimes with their narc-parent support too.
5. UnLike Indian IAS Recruitment Systems the Indian Family Recruitment & Maritals Systems are not strong with processes to recruit the right spouse for the right family. Unfit Spouses mostly from same-clasteed bias are recruited in families later who show their true colors by betraying and breaching family/Marital-trust.
6. Mental Health is an important filter in maritals that’s not screened in the Indian Marital System.
7. Indian Statistics of Family Maritals & Broken/Token Families are not recorded in the census. this is an epidemic of toxic-marriages in India that needs critical study & review.
8. The Field of Maritology is to be developed to make better partnerships and families so that Marriers are protected from Affairs, Elopement, cheating, Frauds.. etc
9. South of India and mostly the Tamizh Hindus have no developed systems of Untrustworthy family or spouse to be de-married safely.
10. Suicide & Homicides and false Dowry cases are used as threats and creating false fake evidences and events to harass the innocent-spouses & unaware victim families. that’s causing untold disharmony and social pain for the society.
The Light of Indian Institute of Science. GuruSthan_Place of the Guru. GuruSansthanam_System of the Guru. In the Post Covid-Pandemic & A.I ubiquitous World.
IIScian 4m2009 & IISc. On GuruPoornima SunDay of 21st July 2024.
Q: Do you know, What Parenting Style did your Parents Use to Parent You?
AnsHint: 1. Divisive-Parenting Or 2. Integrative-Parenting.
Contemplate Before reading ahead..
DDP Vs IIP-Parenting Style.
Explanations.
Parenting is Citizening, We are providing the next gen of Citizens that can help or harm our nation. Diversity Vs Polarizity Citizening.
Like RTO (Road Transport Office) Provides for Driving_Licences(DL) of the people trained and capable of Driving on Road for making Safer Driving.
Similarly FTO (Family Transformation Offices) needs to provide for Parenting-Licenses(PL) to trained and capable of Parenting for making Safer Familying.
There are only 2 Parenting Styles based on intent & Outcome of Parenting/Citizening. One Leads to Integration and Amalgamation with Constitutional-Nations (Harmonizes), and other one leads to Differentiation & Mono-Polarization against Constitutional-Laws (Criminalizes).
For Emergency of Child Abuse Please REPORT at 112 or Childhelpline 1098.
Teaches Differentiation, Discrimination, Domination, Hyper-Competition and oppression of Us Versus Them.
At Root is this Format “We and Our Xyz is Supreme & Better than Them and their Xyz. (Where XYZ can be anything gene, meme, skin color, race, parents, language, hair, names, class, caste, religion, nation, political-party, region…etc).
in a Family this leads to Maternal-Undue Advantage of Causing Parental-Alienation by hating Father and his Relative. vice versa also possible.
in a Nation this style of parenting leads to Hate towards laws of the land and other citizens as it claims exclusivity and feeds more Discrimination and less Discretion in Mind and Criminal-Behaviours.
This stems from Inclusive and Diversity based thinking. which is really Rationally-liberal and Ethically-Progressive.
Teaches Respect and Importance of Diversity, Discernment, Compassion b4 Competition, Cooperation, Hyper-Collaboration and Expressions of “Us Along With Them” and They are US only (Humanity Vs Haivanity).
IIP teaches Respect for Constitution of Nation and Patriotism first before anyother Divisivisms.
in a Family it leads to equal importance to both Father and Mother and Paternal & Maternal Side Relatives.
In a Nation this Parenting leads to Citizens identity in public & street road to be a Rational_National-First and later whatever Personal-PrivateIdentity is at their Home or ideological-Places.
Personally How My Parents Developed Patriotism in our family is by..
Exposing us to our Patriotic Songs, Patriotic Movies, and Books by Patriotic National Heros,
Taking us to National Republic Day and Independence Day Events at State Capital. Taking us to see Army men and also Celebrations of National Festivals like Constitution Day, Freedom Fighter Jayanthi.
Above Message Talks about Virtue-Ideas that help in Developing Valuable Virtuous Kids.
“Idea–viruses” are toxic-content or memetic-codes(NLP) that infects & violates human ethics & national Lawgics, increasing demo of criminal demoralization in Citizens.
#Injury_Prevention_Life Safety-Awareness. Solutions for Problem of Demoralization-Demonization i.e Digital-Mental Corruption is
“Digital and Familial Patriotic Firewalls and Model Moral_Safety Protocols. Ethical-Compatriots Vs Immoral_Traitors.
like Bio-Viruses (Genetic-Intrusions) infect organisms, Cyber-Viruses infect phones, laptops & Digital Systems..
Similarly “Ideaviruses“(Memetic Intrusions) over the Web & Darknet like spiders trap human minds and make them slaves like Addicts, Rapists, Terrorists and Criminals against own fellow nationals & Humans.
IdeaViruses are linked to Defective & Infective Toxic Content(Data) like Pornography, Ideology Propoganda-materials, Biography of Cultic-founders, Evil Chat-bots etc..
These Ideaviruses once in the minds of kids or adults make them do irrational and criminal acts. Threat of A.I Badfaith Actors acting in interest of Commercial and political entities.
example as evidence of Recent IdeaViruses in form of Video seen or consumed by children and Rape-childPorn perverting videos the 3 Infected-boys have enacted this and killed a poor 8 year old girl-child. This is effect of IdeaVirus. a Bad Idea infused into human eyes, ears and minds. makes them slaves of the IdeaVirus.
1. For Kids Below 16 Years Dont give open Mobile or Tab or laptop without Child-safety filtering app.
2. Restrict usage of Screen by time and in open places like Living rooms. as Secrescy in rooms cannot be Monitored
3. Beware of company of other elder or neighborhood kids who maybe corrupted with IdeaViruses of Substance or Behavioural Abuse.
Info about IdeaViruses.
1. IdeaViruses are created by Vested Interests (Narcs, Perverts, Greedy Gangs..etc) that are corrupt themselves for narc-supplies. for eg.. Toxic-Genderity.
2. IdeaViruses are spread out in pamphlets, Online-Web portals etc for recruitment.. eg. radical organizations, sleeper cells and lone wolf.
3. IdeaViruses rely on Innocence of target-people and Ignorance of target-families..
4. To protect first one has to be aware of Toxicity of these Ideavirus infected contents like videos, Porn, Propoganda Books, Memes, Documentaries that create emotional triggers rather than rational questions.
#RealGendersEquality is not #Gender-Equalness. its bridging Genders-Equity & Equanimity. genders are created by nature for improved evolution of Humanity.
Every Coin Has 3 Sides. Similarly most Topics have 3 sides. Ethicals, Normals & Criminals are found in all 3 Genders.
Ethicals & normals understand and keep rules of Humanity for sake of welfare society? while the Criminals break rules for their own urge & advantage.
Read this post to understand better Genderity and also see how Science can create History not only in space but also in Biology.. Mr.Fahad an accountant became the First Indian-Transman and TransCouple to give birth to a Child.
Ones who do are associated with an action-Xyz are termed as Action-ists.. eg. Typing= Typist, Piano = Pianist, Sex(Action)= Sexist, Rape=Rapists, Violin=Violinists.
who are biased by race are Racists, by Genders are Genderists.
so Sexist is a misnomer.. Sexist is one who is Associated with sex, while Persons associated with Genders can be termed Genderists.
These Classifications important to identify the victims and offenders in Gender-Crimes(Real & Cyber too) for eg. in Online Tinder/Matrimony fraud specific gender groups are targetted. Only on understanding the Genderities can we deliver Gender-Justices.
Content:
1. Introduction.
2. Tonic & Toxic Genderities.
3. Conclusion.
1. Introduction:
“Genders” is a Complex Concept & Genders-Sensitivity education is Complicated by Vested interests. and Genders-Justice is even more difficult to Achieve.
like in Indian mythologies have given model-Archetypes for both Tonic & Toxic Masculinity, and Tonic & Toxic Feminity.. also Tonic & Toxic Transgenderity.
in Civiclions Vs Criminals eg are.. Rama-Ravana, Sita-Kaikeyi, Yudhistra-Dhuryodana, Krishna-Shakuni, Draupadi-Gandhari.
Trinity of Genders & Genderity: 1.Male, 2.Female & 3.Hsemale. Gender-Myth is Binary.. Genders are Trinary in types.a Genderist Message.
Above Image highlights: Gender Dynamics in finances. gender role expectations or presumptions is one gender pays at table “Men-u pay“.. the other is equality at pay.. “me N u” both pay for menu.
Ones who Study & Engage Science are Scientists, similarly ones who study or engage in Sex or sexs(Acts) can be termed Sexists.
Image of 3 Sexists. one a Sex-Scientist like Vatsayana (Ancient-Sexist authored KamaSutra).
2. Tonic & Toxic Genderities in 2024.
A. Let’s look at Current Indian Feminity (Both Tonic & Toxic).
A1. Tonic_Indian Feminity.
Good example of *Global Positive Indian-Feminity* how good Indian wifes support good family life. eg Sudha Murthy, P.T Usha & Usha Vance, Akshata Murthy,..Indra Nooyi, Sportswomen, Businesswomen, Cultural leaders.. etc many Indian women who are Ethicals and work for family and nation.
etc they are Pink Collar-Civilions who do pink color civilics (Civil & Familial Progressive Acts).
A2. Toxic_Indian Feminity Another opp-example of Negative Indian Feminity is people who do Pink-collar Crimes (Criminal acts).. I.e Indrani-Mukerjea, Nyasa Devgan (Nepo-Kid @Singapore), Pavitra Gowda arrested (in Renukachary murder with Darshan Case). there many other cases eg. Subha Blr Airport case, Shabhnam Family Killing case. Who bring good repute to Indian Narc-Women(Sic).
B . Current Indian Masculinity (both Tonic & Toxic)
B1. Good Tonic- Indian Masculinity is ability to Promote Humanism, Ethics and Honor of Constitution and Conscience in Community… Who work for Family and Nation.
Ancient eg. Ashoka, Vivekananda Mythics.. Bheema, Hanuman,
Our 125 year old yoga-man in Varanasi.
Indian Sportsmen like Milka Singh, Neeraj Chopra, Cricket Team Players..
Go ManGo.. Example of Tonic Masculinity.Tonic Masculinty.
B.2: Toxic Indian Masculinity are guys who do crimes.. in India.. they bring Bad repute to Indian Masculinity and Brotherhood.. eg. Nityananda, Dawood Ibrahim, Vijay Mallya, Suraj & Prajwal Revanna(Under scanner) Asaram Bapu, etc..
Biologically Speaking the DNA has a major impact on how our bodies(including Brains) are created.. Being So.. The X & Y Chromosomes in the DNA.. provide for the Hormonal mix in our System.. Hence Genders (M/F/T) and Biological Sexual Orientation (Lesbian/Gay/Bi or Asexual) place a very important role in Personality, Character, Gender-roles & Family-making..
Genders-Ethics Awareness is low in Indian Societies hence W.E arent able to identify the behaviours or character of a person on a spectrum of Tonic to Toxic Masculinity.. The Publi & Media needs to go more deeper and wider to understand the Whole Spectrum & Matrix of Genderities.
When we understand then we can promote more Helpful Tonic-Genderities and Reduce Harmful Toxic Genderities in ourself, Communities & Societies.
As Parents and Aware Citizens we need to be aware of Threats to Genders-Peace by Genders-Divisive and Confusive Ideologies that take the Parental-Discretion and allow for Media-Perversion (Pride-Agenda of making more Confused-Sexuality).S
SOLUTIONS FOR GENDERS-CONFLICTS & Sexual-Violences:
In school Sex-Education Should be improved with not only Biology(Sex).. but it should be Genders and Sexual Ethics Education. that Teaches Cyber-ethics, Family-Making as Mature adults rather than Cyber consumers of Porn, leading to pre-teen Sexual explorations and Promiscuity. Teenage pregnancy is increasing this is spoiling Indian Society and Future.
Whats MIMARG-Complex? it’s short for “Military-Industrial-Media-Academic-Royals/Religions GlobalistsComplex” in the Socio-Political Operating Systems..
The control and Subversion of Public Interests & Welfare by Outdated Politics 4.0 & Evolving Politics 5.0.
MIMARC Leads to more Faker-Society & Politics_4.0 I.e the Diversion, Polarized-Divisions, Subversion of messing-lives of lot of Masses for the power, control and dominance (d-Eliteness) of few cl-Asses.
What we may need for Sustainable-Politics is understanding that Complex-Nexus creates Biases, Complexities and Complications for Public Welfare.
What we need is Public-Awareness and Participatory Democracy by the Aware-REAL_Patriots and Citizens (Rational, Ethical, Altruistic & Legal) for a more Egalitarian, Equitable & Equanimous Society.
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