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Safety In Various Places.
1. Safety In Your Streets in Cities.
1. “We will leave, uncle,” they replied. But they continued partying. He then tried calling 112 to complain, but got no response.
2. Safety In Your Gym.
2. Gym-abuse. https://www.ndtv.com/india-news/gym-trainer-who-murdered-businessmans-wife-was-inspired-by-drishyam-6906830.
3. Safety online.
How to move from Depression’s Darkness to Deep Expressions of De-light.
False-Pride linked to Toxic Shame. https://themindfool.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Toxic-Shame-2-1024×1024.jpg
Two Types of Prides.
1. True-Pride based on ethics, logic & facts. eg. Pride of real Patriots & Pathmakers or Lawkeepers. eg. National Pride people have in freedom fighters, scientists & achievers. eg. P.T. Usha, Milka Singh, Neeraj Chopra, Abdul Kalam, This Pride-Type leads to Fame and Transformative-game.
Authentic Pride Wordings: I am proud of your work and character my Son.. I am proud of ur compassion and patriotism. Linked to Humanistic values and principles of life.
2. False-Pride based on politics, emotions & tacts. eg. Egoistic-Pride of criminals & Narcs in their rule-breaking achievements. this Pride-Type leads to blame-game, Flame & Toxic Shame.
False Pride wordings: I am Proud of my Bank Balance and large house. I am proud that I cheated & hurt that guy. You be proud of me that you are my daughter, go and kick all mens asses (Misandric Gender-pride). Linked to materials & peoples in life or literature.
Below are Anonymized conversations that are shared to make people aware, alert and vigilant of the risks in the under belly to individuals, families and Societies.
Wise men Learn from others experiences and Wiser men yearn to share such Shared-experiences so that others don’t have to learn the bitter way of personal-experience.
#Lifeoholics Nineononymous.
Authentic Pride Vs False-Pride
References.
Irrational Copycat Westo-global Sex-education without Contextual (Health, Family & Social) Ethics Education has lead to Gender conflicts, corruption of family & destruction of social relations.
Genders-Confusion Vs Gender-Clarity.
1.Sex is an action or intercourse, 2.Gender is an act (Behaviour or identity), 3.Attraction Sexual-Orientation is an interaction-affinity, 4. Biological-genetic-Identity is the Fact or interface.
A Holistic Gender Sensitivity and Sexual Ethics Education enlists below concepts.
1. Biologically Information.(Body-Being)
2. Psychological Information.(Brain-Broughtup)
3. Sociological Information.(Brood-Brotherhood)
There seems a Fundamental issue of difference between Legal definitions of Sexism & Genderism.. Sex & Genders..
hindi: Ling (Gender) & maituna (Sex).. Western Copycatism with out applying Indian-LAWgic is detrimental to Indic Systems.
S514: Tonic & Toxic Indian Genderities: Global Familiality 2024.
Types of Occupation.
Industrial-Professions.
Community-Professions.
Government-Professions.
Religious Professions
Public-service Professions
Academic Professsions.
Types of Influencers in Media & life based on later Impacts. #Influencers_Spectrum.
Inflencers that provide for more Wins-Bins-Sins. Lifenflencers
A Cumulative effect on you is the ratio of WIN-fluencers & SIN-fluencers in your life. eg: Mythically Demons like Ravana (Abductor of Sita) was influenced by his maternal side Sinfluence (of his Demom Kaikesi-asuri) more than Winfluence his paternal-side (of his Duedad Vishrava-rishi).
In Real-current Life many kids learn from their Correct parental-Winfluencers or Corrupt Parental-sinfluencers to win or sin in future likely. eg. An intergroup love-recruiter Sinfluenced by Dexter-webseries Cut his live-in Girlfriend and stored parts in fridge in Delhi(2023) and same story sinfluenced copy cat crime in Bengaluru(2024). One difference the Delhi-criminal has less remorse and lives in jail he may be back in Society while the Orissa-criminal had remorse and ended his own life. (Suicide is preventable;)
Similarly Winfluences drive more wins for society & Sinfluences drive more sins in Society.
there is possibility that influencers are on the Spectrum from Positive-Win or Negative-Sin with mixed mode or with a range(Bi-polar too). eg Religious or political radicals can have 2-faces & be 2-phased too where they are both Winfluencers & Sinfluencers too.. eg. Hitler in Germany he was an WInfluencer for Nazi party and axix nation & a Sinfluencer to europe & allies.
1. Win-fluencers: Influence more of our Win or win-wins for both us & others to win in lives. help with collaborations & co-creations. Abundance & Growth Mindsets. Life Formulae ” I-win & You-Win = We-win.” Ant-Mentality I.e we-work for You-happy=Me-Happy. Final impact More Lawfulness & less Flawness in Society.
eg. MindSPAs Socrates, Plato & Aristotle, Empathic-Scientists, Heartful-Ethical-Spiritualists, etc
2. Bin-fluencers: Influence more win-loss for One Party over others losses. Zero sum game. Competitive & Exploitative gamers. “I Win & U loose”. Scarcity & Fixed Mindsets. Crab-Mentality. Me-happy, You-I dont care. More Lawlessness & more Flaws in Society.
eg. Hyper-materialists driving greeding for properties, Irrational-Ideologues driving breeding for religious domination of nations,
3. Sin-fluencers: Influence more of loss-loss for all, Negative sum game. Hyper violative, corruptive & corossive gamers, “Even If I loose, I want you-others also to loose & not win” Toxic & Negative Mindsets, Crap-Mentality. Me-Bad,You-Sad (Both never Happy only more sinners). More Anti-law & pro-flaw society.
eg. Radical Hedonists (Wealths,Wines,Wo/men), Radical-religionists,
4. Skin-influencers: To show more skin & nudity content around in Society & Digitality.
5. Grin-fluencers: Spread more emotions of hate, anger & enemity instead of amity between individuals, groups & nations.
6. Fine-fluencers: Influence more finesse & finality in Society.
7. Lean-fluencers: Influence more leaness in work, company, ownings & health.
8. Gin-fluencers: Influence more addictions like alcohol, intoxicants or stimulants, indocrinants, like drugs, opium, toxic-politics, Toxic social media, toxic-religions, mobile, games, movies, love, porn, sex,
References:
20 Types of Social Media Influencers You Need to Know About
https://influencersplace.com/blog/types-of-influencers/
The World’s Top 50 Influencers Across Social Media Platforms
To have More Wins in life, Connect, Collect and Correct more Winfluencers of Life. Below are some Winfluencers.
1. Socrates.
Below are Some Sinfluencers;
an Indian Kid(10 Years) under Sinfluence of Unhealthy-Cyber Sexuality, Molests poor Indian Sister. Monkey See, Monkey Do.
Unhealthy Genderity Kids minds being spoilt #SaveIndianMinds: https://www.news18.com/viral/influencer-molested-by-10-year-old-boy-on-bengaluru-street-she-narrates-ordeal-in-viral-video-9111480.html
Tripada-VamshaVriksha & Samaja-Vana.
1. Who/What Are We? &
2. Why are We? & What More can we be?
Such Questions are seldom asked and this is an attempt to answer such critical Socio-critical Questions that can impact our lives dearly.
Triphase_equation of a Personality by 3 Critical Factors
1. (Birth-BioParents) (Copulations-Ejaculations),
2. Bringup-Teachers (Cognitions-Educations) &
3. Brotherhood-Peers (Collaborations-Establishments).
“Know ThySelf” =Greek Maxim 300BCE.
“Know WhySelf” =GRP’s Maxim 2024
Unawareness and Western Globalistic-Copycatism is major problem in Indian Families & Societies. this is a major after effect of Colonialized Mindset.
Why Families and Members are unsupported, targeted & violated?
Your Unawareness-Ignorance, Families Innocence & Communities Collective-Negligence, can be a vulnerability for Narc-targetting & Nepo-entrapment of you & your family.
Families with out strong roots in their Indigi-Cultures & Procedures, are open prey to be wronged by Narci-Vultures of ill-ideologies & devil-psychologies.
We see 3 major phases of Indian Societies, with a proposed future positive phase.
1. Colonification of India million of years before 2500B.C..(IVC, Keezhadi, & other RVCs)
2. Colonization of India 1700BC -1947 C.E,
3. Irrational_Narcization of India 1990-2024.
4. Rational-Empathization of India 2025 Onwards..
Narcississm in Parents is responsible for many problems.. Narcisstic-inlaws replicate into Narc-kids & future Narc-Spouses.
See story of 2 Narc-kids here.. https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/delhi/tragic-love-story-teens-influencer-dreams-shatter-amidst-domestic-strife/articleshow/114596334.cms.
Mothers or Fathers in general do not create problem.. its the Narcy-parents who create More Narcs.
Resources For Recovery & Prevention:
1.
https://ineffableliving.com/8-stages-of-healing-after-narcissistic-abuse/
Stages of a Narcissistic Relationship
But for Payne, fame had come at a cost; it became increasingly evident in interviews and public appearances..
https://thefederal.com/category/features/liam-payne-1993-2024-a-pop-sensations-tragedy-a-life-lived-too-fast-151158
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