Indian Citizens Marital-Dating Safety 10Tips 2024.
1. Intro
2. 10 Commandments
3. Conclusions.
4. Marital Poem.
5. References.
We as Indians need improvements in A.I & ML (Altruistic Intelligence) & Moral-Marital Learnings if we don’t we will have more broken families & sickened people.
in marriage or any relation ‘Who‘ we choose depends on ‘How‘ we choose.._GRP2024.
Faulty Process leads to Faulty Persons & Positions..
Healthy Process leads to Healthy Persons & Propositions.
- Introduction.
A couples Love or proposal may start between 2 passionate partners or Prospective-Suitors needing romance and intimacy,
but a proposed marriage survives and thrives only with the 2 and more Compassionate Parties with more Integrative-interventions & less external divisive_interferences._GRP 2024. More Winfluence of Peer Efforts & Supports with Less Sinfluence of Predatory Sharks & Narcs.
Your Initial Courtship will lead to Years in Marital-Courtesy or Family Courts to see, depends on below commandments.
Current Indian Families have challenges of Higher Pre-marital underage Sex & pregnancy in Teens, Broken Dysfunctional Families, Parental Alienation-child Abuse, higher separation & Divorce rates, Lower Quality children and higher quantity of low quality kids & teens (Adhd, diasabled, aids-cancer, Specially challenged..etc), Domestic Violence and also Fake Cases pendency, delayed and no legal resolutions. This post syatemically analyses the difficulties and proposes 10 Tips and critical guidelines for Safer Better Maritals.
A Marriage or any Relation finally depends on What’s at the Foundations of the relationship, whether it is..
1. Passions of either (Dopaminal Acquisitions of Supplies, Status, Sex, Support, Sons, Slaving or Succession) for self + balls (I.e Ovaries,Testes..etc) exclusively eg. Shradananda case Or Bonny & Clyde..etc OR
2. Compassion of both (SerOxytocinal relations of Truths+ Tests + Trusts+ Transformations & Transcendence) for others +alls inclusively. eg. The Gandhi Couple, Murthy Couple… etc
The relationships weathers all storms in life or itself creates storms in life depends on below spousal-choices and Marital-Choices.. After your Education (Colleges & Colleague) & Career (Companies-Collaborators) Choices.. Your Marrier choices (Copulators-Coparent) Impacts the Citizens and their Futures’ progenies.
2. *10 Commandments of Selecting Spouse 4 Modern 21st Century Marriages.* _By Manavamitras
1. Thou Shall have Only Genuine Graceful Folkers Family(GGF) as Spouse & not (Fraud-Fuc#er Families(3F) or Narc-spouse, Narc-date or litigant misuse-abuser family before or behind me. (Narcopathy-Test to be done for Narciness.)
2. Thou shall make no voidable relation with Illegal fiancee-spouse or Online dater without 3rd trusted source party reference. (Filter, Review & ScreenOut High Coercion, Corruption & Crime index of Partners-Parties).
3. Thou shall not take or make name of my nation, parents and family in vain. always strive to bring positive fame to my self & associations. avoid connections or relations with corrupters, Pedophilics or sexual deviants. & “Keep the Marital-Relation & Relatives Holy.”
4. Thou Shall Honor our moral parents, in laws as well as wise elders’ Words, Advise, Opinions & Views & of those who care for ethics, relations & national wellbeing.
5. Thou Shall do multiple Background Verification checks of spouse to see their marital-fitness for Safety of marriage. (Diseases like AIDS physical & also moral-disease Acquired Integrity deficiency Syndrome). Enquire & find reviews of relatives, colleagues-friends & neighbhors of Spousal-family Character, Conduct & Contracts. KYC (Know Your Credibility by Reputation & Rating of personality & family.)
6. Thou Shall not get Maritally_Honey-trapped by Physical/Cyber scams or Baiting-Dating apps (Blunder-Tinder, Jeevan_Shortie, Burahath-matrimoney, Barbadi.com etc) and also help others from being Love-Life Scammed.
7. Thou Shall not allow Marital-Fraud Abuse this precedes Domestic Violence and report to police any MaritaLove-Frauds.
8. Thou Shall not commit adultery or commit to adulterers nor allow adultraitors sinfluence family or nation.
9. Thou shall not steal other men or women from their earlier families, communities, religions, marriages for enslavement, coercion, extortion, conversions Romance, sexual, love-Fraud or Narc-abuse. See beyond Sexual or Familial Compatibility, see also moral-Ideological Compatibility. marriage with polarized or polarizer minds/families are risky of breakable marriages .
10. Thou Shall not covet Money or Property of Spouse nor allow such coveting for my property. as Dowry or Dower in marriage. Make a Zero-Dowry premarital certificate premarital agreement before marriage certificate. Avoid false 498 or DV cases.
3. CONCLUSION:
The Persons with higher Moral-values will add value to life of self, others & nations (Paradisic) eg. Kalam, S.C Bose , While persons with more Material-Values will take valuables from others lives & nations (Parasitic) eg. Kasab, D Gang-boss, in the Final impact karmic calculations. there also maybe Kaslams who do both help their own and hurt others.
In any Marital Systems real good Authentic Spouses & Progenies are got when one has access to and practices of right Authentication Processes embedded in the Agents & Systems before partners are wedded, bedded & breeded, else Bad faith actors, deviants-misfits and frauds can infiltrate & corrupt the Familio-Marital systems and destroy its Sanity, Sanguinity & Sanctity.
We this see many youngsters doubting & dredding marriages choosing to stay single or in live-ins due to the Higher risks, heavy cost & low benefits or returns involved in the marital institutions. Trustability in relations, family & society is waning, more reliance or deviance on money, property & criminality is emerging.
This needs a national rethink with multi-ways also maybe UCC as a policy upgrade and awareness as peoples empowerment.
The Current Problem with Marriages is not only with Peoples, Places, Phases or Pedigree.. etc but at core its with the Foundational Principles, Parametrics & Processes underlying the Institutioning of marriages.
The Whys, Whats, Whens, When-Nots, Who & Who-nots, Where, Hows & How-Nots of marriages needs to be investigated and sorted in Safer Maritology or Marital-Family Studies.
Scientific “Marital Process Improvements” will result in Safer familial Outcomes and Better social Results for All Citizens and the nation.
If People miss out these Ten Commandments they may lead themselves to Sinfluences and hurt their own & Family-Team’s Health & Wins in Life like below.
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This illegal Spouses and paramours have AIDS. i.e Acquired Integrity Deficiency Syndrome. https://www.barandbench.com/news/wife-not-liable-husband-suicide-illicit-relationship-karnataka-high-court
https://www.unitedwecare.com/how-to-identify-a-narcopath-and-how-to-deal-with-narcopathy/
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4. Poem On Maritals. 11 Nov 2024.
“What is marriage, Dad?” my teen kid Hemmi asked,
I as a parent had ahead a big teaching responsibility tasked,
As I didnt learn this in school, nor had I read a related scroll.
I had not questioned my parents too, alas love and love-making was taboo.
I was dumb-stuck still as a statue, my answer was due & I had no clue.
In a muffled voice i made a bid, “Marriage is what your mom & I did”.
He looked up at me with his face like a question mark, I wished I could hide mine like Tony Stark.
His next Q-missile launched “Why did you both marry, Dad?”, I was afraid to answer & make him worry or sad.
I stated “because our parents and relatives told it to be good, but they told less of things to be critically understood.”
before his next missile I asked him a counter question soon, “from where did this marital thought come to you dear son.”
He told me “I heard my teachers in class talk about a marital news”, I wondered about the impact of genders skewed school’s views.
I wished him to not be Mis(s)-Informed by hearsay,
& wanted to inform him of truth seekers way.
I told “Maga, Marriage is a holy-legal bond between 4 parties to it, the Marriers, the Community or Religion & Government at site.
Marriages are not made in Heaven as is a saying,
but they can be portals to heaven or hells slaying.”
My wise son asked now, “How to marry safely & heavenly appa?”.
“Hemmi, This is important advise to you, don’t be fooled by nama or rupa.
Names & Forms are varied in the mayaic world, what’s to be derived is the Tatva i.e innerly held.
Essence of a person gives himr sense and presence, derivable from their phyical-fences, verbal-defences & Social-offences.
For marriage is a process, a quantum-engagement of many souls if both are deedy-divine, and is dumb-entanglement of assholes if even a side turns out as greedy-swine.
So son be careful about stages of marriages as hurry makes worry, consult many marri-sages not to be sorry.
be empowered with marital truths and facts, equip self with familial tools and pacts.
Finally do marry, as Stoic Socrates said if you marry a good person YOUr family will prosper, if bad your family may suffer & you will become a Philosopher.”
Hemmi Smiled Saying “Thanks dad for sharing so I-we don’t familially-suffer, for I understand all your love is for me-us to Holistically prosper.
Acknowledgements: Above content is our original work others are linked, I thank my parents for their life inspiration that we derived the 7 Elements of Marital Safety. Thanks to Hemmi’s Youngquiries that evoked deliveries. Thanks to Friends in Humara and Manavmitras for sharing news that inspired creative response(GuruKural) of above post. Hope its Valuable for All my dear Gders. please do post ur comments & suggestions for improvements.
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