S115: GRP (Grouper, Researcher & Progressor)

1. Grouper: I find Happiness and fulfillment in being part of an integrative and caring community. The ability to connect with and for others is beneficial as a team player, I would like to believe the world world is one team.

Guidance_Groups. Reasoned_Responsibility, Positive-Possibilities.

2. Researcher: I find a high level of intellectual curiosity to know and grow things and self. To see deeper knowledge and spread higher wisdoms. To make the world have less bitter and more better places and spaces. To make good gate keepers and more better space keepers.

3. Progressor: I find the need to make daily progress towards our common goal with Gratitude based actions, Responsibility based thinking and purity of vision.

Regards,

GR Prasad.

S114: Four Important Contributions of B.R.(Bharat-Ratna) AMBEdkar;  Birthday_Tributes (on 14-4-2022).

Paying Homage on Ambedkar Jayanti to the Visionary Phenomenon that was Dr. B.R. Ambedkar. It’s one way to idolize him and another way is to idealize & practice his ideas (Empowerment.. etc) and ideals (Egalitarianism.. etc) that made positive impacts for India and the world. This Post is Dedicated to Dr.Ambe and to the space for Egalitarians the BARI-Group_Allies. His Journey from being a BalaNayak & MookNayak to becoming a MahaNayak is admirable and inspiration to all minds seeking Rational & hearts seeking Equanimity.

Ambedkar is an Enigma a mystery to many.. like Science, Maths or any art.. He being a Sophisticated Intellectual can be misunderstood or disliked by minds which are not properly aware about him and are without making attempts to read him & his works and while on brighter side his ideas and ideals may resonate and inspire minds and hearts that genuinely want to learn and apply his philosophy, works, writings and contributions.

There are many original contributions which he made, in this article page we are trying to acknowledge & remember the top-4 of his contributions linking with his Name Dr. B.R A.M.B.E.dkar. 1. His Accomplishments and 2. His Writings.

1. His Top 4 Achievements & Character.

Fig 1: AMBEdkar an Enigma!!! chart

Top 4 Achievements (That Inspires)

1. Architect Of the Constitution of India.(1950)

2. MookNayak Founder Editor(1920)

3. Barrister at Law (1923)

4. Economist(1927)

Top 4 Character Traits (To Emulate)

1. Academic: Analytical+ Critical thinker, Powerful-writer & Free-Speaker & Parliamentary Debater: http://ambedkar.org/ambcd/DEBATE.htm

2. Mass Leader: Mahad Satyagraha for Water Equality.

3. Buddhist-Empowerer: Rational-Spiritualist founder of Navayana or Neo-Buddhism. This may be a path of bringing scientific temper into philosophy and religions.

4. Egalitarian-Emancipator: Striving for Social Justice for all the silenced, marginalized or oppressed. Debater for Human Rights and Duties.

2. His Top four Books/Writings.

Fig 2: AMBEdkar’s 4 Great Books to Read & Lead Life with.

1. Annihilation of Caste (Sociology): Link: http://ambedkar.org/ambcd/02.Annihilation%20of%20Caste.htm

2. The ProbleM of the Rupee (Economy): http://drambedkar.co.in/wp-content/uploads/books/category1/13the-problem-of-the-rupee.pdf

3. Buddha & His Dhamma (Rationality & Spirituality): http://drambedkar.co.in/wp-content/uploads/books/buddhadhamma/buddhaandhisdhamma-eng.pdf

4. Mr. Gandhi & Emancipation of the Untouchables (Politicality): http://drambedkar.co.in/wp-content/uploads/books/category2/4gandhi-emancipationoftheuntouchables.pdf

https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/B._R._Ambedkar

Conclusion: This post is intended as humble submission to you for a framework in viewing Ambedkar’s Legacy and Legalcy on his Birthday.

Useful References:

On National Scientific Temper Day, We Remembered Nehru but Forgot Ambedkar

http://www.columbia.edu/itc/mealac/pritchett/00ambedkar/timeline/index.html

https://www.indiawaterportal.org/articles/mahad-0

http://daic.gov.in/

Home

Useful RESOURCES:

1. PROJECT JAI-BHIM 2030: For Egalitarians Interested in a Project for More Equity, Justice & Egalitarianism around us for a more Better and less Bitter World https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2021/12/06/s88-project-jaibhim-india_2030-groups-vision-for-indian_egalitarianism/

2. My Gratitude to Seniors, Peers & Juniors @ BARI OpenSpace for Egalitarianism : https://chat.whatsapp.com/GSVgm8wonxfKKv7oHUr87e

Let’s Share Ideas to create near Ideal societies.

Open Invite for all Free-Thinkers and Group Discussions Meeting on Occasion of Ambedkar Jayanthi

Topic: Discussions on “The debt owed by every Indian to Dr. Ambedkar“.

By Prof Mohan Gopal
Speaker Profile: https://youtu.be/JJYFU73Togg

Date: 14/4/22
Time: 7:30 to 8Pm.

Meeting Flow :10 mins of Sharing By Speaker Followed Q&A.

MeetingLink: https://meet.google.com/kyd-dbnb-rxh

Meeting Open Egalitarians Collaborative Space.:

https://chat.whatsapp.com/GSVgm8wonxfKKv7oHUr87e

S112: How 6 “MA-KaTs” States are defining the future of India & World? (States of Maha +Andhra + Karnataka +Kerala+ Telangana & TN)

Introducing the “Indian Egalitarians Triangle” (Connecting ‘Logical RaCEs‘.. I.e Rationality+Civility+Egalitarianism) need to extend to make it Quadilateral at Delhi from Existing Hi-RaTional-Triangle with apex points at Mumbai(West), Kolkatta(East), Kanyakumari(South). Norths-Souths Bonding and Partnering by Indian Diamond Quadrilaterals & N-S Triangles.

The Atlantic Bermuda Triangle(Devils Triangle) takes_away many things from our world, while the “Indian Egalitarians Triangle“..(Angel’s Triangle) gives many good things to the world,  Here is an explanation WHY it is So?..  and this +ve Contributive-triangle is possible only due to +ve Indian-Defending buffer Triangle Area (Northern Border Fronts) from NorthEast to NorthWest.. the International Land-Borders of Gujarat, Rajasthan, Punjab & Kashmir (Islamic-Countries Defenses) UP, Bihar, Western Bengal & N-E States (Communistic-Mao_Naxal Countries Offensive.) DEFENSE Triangle Connects Dwarka(GuharMoti) -Indira Col-Point and Kibithu Arunchal.P) Due to these extreme conditions the emotionality and border stress on these states are higher (Maoism(Chinepal), Pakism (Pakistan,Bangladesh Terrorism) & Malignism(Myanmar-Srilanka). Due to the Operational Defense triangle at the northy-hills, the Rationo-Egalitarians Triangle at the Central Southy-Plateau & Seacoast can operate effectively. This is an Indian Complementary Partnership.

#DevilsTriangle of Atlantiv Vs AngelsTriangle of India..  Cortes-Colbus(Colonialism) Vs Agastya (Patron of Siddhaism), Ashoka (Patron of Buddhism from Kalinga to world).

The Western Ghats of Kerala and Karnataka are going to be a hot bed of Contention Conundrum for Human-Resources & Global-Resonance. While the Land Of Tamil-Nadu and Telangana-Maharastra are going to play the supporting role for the masses and future of India-global.

BERMUDA-Triangle Vs #Egalitarians-Triangle.

The East Coast and the West coasts of India are very strategic resources for the world. Prehistorically the port’s on these coasts connected the shores of all major continents, the persecuted Jews(Cochin), Christians St.Thomas(Chennai), Parsis(Mumbai), Tibetans(Bylekuppe-Karnataka) & Buddhists(A.P) sought and have safely found refuge & havan in this Triangle(Isthumus). This note is to highlight the contributions of this region so as to focus on replicating these positiveness in other areas of India and world.

These are the KaT States(Karnataka, Kerala, Andhra, Tamil-Nadu +Telangana) in the KATegory of their own.. Why So Unique Contributor to Worlds Growth? know it here…

The cultures of the Malabar, Konkan Coast, Coromandal Coast connects the Arabian Sea, Bay of Bengal and the Indian Ocean. Watch out for news from Cities & Citizens of Bengaluru, Chennai, Hyderabad, Mumbai Strategically collaborating with Delhi, Ahmedabad, Kolkatta, UP and other States.. this is going to be very important for India’s Path and History.

What occurs here in this Triangular Peninsula gets impacted and has the potential to impact the world. The Places, Principles,  Passions & People are uniquely positioned to positively impact the world as there is a formation of the Indian Rational+ ‘Egalitarians-Triangle.’ and if the Critical mass is Irrational it can form the ‘Entanglements_Triangle‘.

Principle of Contentment and Contributions foundations of the Egalitarians-Triangle.

These are the Coasts & Land between them which gave the world CV.Raman, Ramanujan, Ramana Maharishi, Basaveshwara, BodhiDharman, Abdul Kalam, Thiruvalluvar, Ambedkar, AdiShankara, Phule, Agasthya-Vallalar, Sundar Pichai, Satya Nadella, Dr.Shiva Ayyadurai, Narayana Murthy,  etc.. and also on other side Veerapan, Vijay mallya, Zakir Naik, Nityananda, Kareem Telgi, Dawood, 2G Raja, Mining mafias of Bellary, KGF.. etc

Also recently which gave the Landmark Critical Constititional Questions of 1. Sabarimala-Entry for All-Women Verdict(Genders Vs Religious Equity), 2. Hijaburka vs uniforms in College/school (Religious Vs Secular-Equity),

Why the Deccans seems to be the Bermuda-Triangle of India with lot of hot Issues.? And the Dravidians being the skeptics, rebels and non confirmists.

This may be because of the interactions at the Ideo-Cultural fronts of Rationality, Diversity and Inclusivity with countering ideologies of Irrational, Monotonous-confirmity & exclusivity. At crux of issue is the divide between Egalitarians and Polarizers. Egalitarians think ethically as a group and for the well-being of all in group for “Self+Others empowerment” and while more Polarizers think selfishly as individuals or supremacists and aim for acquiring/possessing-power/resources through polarizations. Egalitarians-Share while Polarizers-Scare. Egalitarians are driven by Unconditional-Kindness/Trust(Open-Fair Practices for Collaboration) while Polarizers are driven by limitless Fear/Doubts(Scare-Tactics).(Closed-Unfair Practices for competition).

The Great Trigonometry Survey happened at the silicon valley of India.. Tech Halli of Bengaluru. The Cities in this Triangle of Chennai, Bangalore, Hyderabad, Mangalore, Trivandram, Kolkata.  With apex at Mumbai, Kolkata and Kanyakumari. Is going to be very important and critical in world history.

What happens here for 20 years from 2010 to 2030.. is going to define the world.

As this area its the crucible or arena of experimentation for 3 major Supremistic factors which are disempowering Indian-Egalitarian Factors .

1. Ultra Right-Wing-Extremism (Abrahamic Islamo-Christian-Jewish (Mid East+Europe),

2. Hyper-Consumerism Capitalo-Communists- (US-RusChina) instead of Indian Democratic-Socialism.

3. Mughalo-Aryan-Buddhist Supremic-Theists (Extreme Indian Right wingers) destabilizing the Indian-Centerists.

and there are positive harmonizing factors which has and will defend these onslaughts of oppression and division IndoDravidian-Humanists( practitioners of Ethical-Rationalism, Egalitarianism & Secularism).

What maybe the need for maintaining the peace and tranquility of the triangle… is 2 concepts DeBiasing & DePolarizing. This can be evolved, resolved & empowered through Two Socio-Peer Campaigns 1. Project-SAGHAR2030(Scientific-India) improve the Rationality to Irrationality Ratios of the society(Fact:Fiction:Faction) & 2. Project JaiBhim_India2030(Egalitarian-India) To Improve the Egalitarian(Equanimity) :is to Inequalitarian(Inequality) Ratio of the society.

References:

1. Hijab: https://www.barandbench.com/columns/karnataka-hijab-ban-legal-experts-supreme-court-judgment

2. Halal: https://scroll.in/latest/1021035/halal-boycott-campaign-in-karnataka-is-meant-to-divide-society-says-congress-leader-siddaramaiah

3. Halla of LoudSpeakers. https://www.news18.com/news/india/loudspeakers-and-the-law-in-india-as-noise-on-use-of-equipment-grows-what-courts-have-said-till-now-5010211.html

4. Social Boycotts: https://www.thenewsminute.com/article/social-boycotts-and-feudal-mindset-how-telangana-s-village-development-committees-work

5. The Karnatakic-Keralic Conflicts ( form of RightWing Conservatives Vs. Left wing Liberals) KasarGOD.

Rights v State Responsibility: Decoding the Kerala-Karnataka border dispute

6. A Landmark Lessons from Water Disputes: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kaveri_River_water_dispute

Further Readings:

Do read up relevant articles linked in post to get bigger picture. Else it can seem to be an incomplete jigsaw in mind.

Which Dravidian-Bhramin was famous to have rejected the practice of Religio-CLASSTE discrimative Dressing and wearing of Rebel or Dominant-Group Identity Symbols & Signifiers like types of dressing, Marks on forehead and unsecular salutations.

Interesting thread of inquiry and ideas in this msg..👍🏻👍🏻

Poo-nool.. why it’s called poo-nool or Flower-thread?

Btw any product can be identity barred for eg..skull caps, turban, moustache less beards, color coded dressing, in modern times Pins, idcards and badges.. etc

This is to Brotherize ingroup and Otherize the out-group.

https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/01/13/s250-distinguish-communify-and-communalize-supremism-vs-supremacism/

What is to be seen is what’s the reasons and Rationality behind wearing of those group-identifiers.

https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2022/05/02/s126-language_supremacy-and-mwe-experiences-of-a-linguisticegalitarian/

An analogy is its false that only one religious Identity wears Skull Cap and Hijab. Even Jews, and Catholics wear it.

What matters More than they wear it is?.. WHY are these Products (Threads, Caps, Turbans, Black or white Face-head masks..etc) Worn and what attitudes and meanings does it Cover?

S110: RES-Q plan for Empowerers of Principles and the Principled.

Empowerers’ Manifesto For Personal & Global Collective Transcendence Through the RES-Q Method /GRP. 3_Steps towards a more Rational, Ethical & Sustainable_QualityWorld.

For our Self-Knowledge there are three “3 Most Important Self-Tests” are needed for all citizens are here (RQ, EQ & SQ-Tests). A proposal for “RES-Qing the world” in dis-ease and bring about a transformation not only for moving from world-unease [-ve:(] to world-peace [0:)] but to world-Happiness [+ve:)].

The human-human, Nation-Nation & fundamentally Ideology-Ideology conflicts stems from similar root causes which can be linked to 3 core areas of R.E.S -Quotients. Though these 3 Qualities needed in all entities, the faculties which need to champion with higher quantities are given under below 3 point- Paragraphs.

The RES-Q model plan can be used to evaluate the validity and applicability of an idea or idealogues keeping these 3 Critical_areas in mind. Just like Government has 3 pillars of :-

1. Executive(Hands of Sciences.) (RationalIntelligence, Police-Military & Bureaucrats) driven by Arts, Commerce & Sciences-Subjects.

2. Judiciary & Academia (Hearts with Conscience.) (Ethics-Emotional-Quotience) (Judicial & Higher-Academia) Driven by Personal-Values, Laws & Humanities-Subjects.

3. Legislative(Heads with Excellence) (Social-Intelligence _Political), Driven by Political and Social Psyche Dynamics Subjects.

& 4th pillar or Base is…

4. Public as Government (Bodies with Transience) CivicSociety, Industries, Subsidary-General Academia & Journalist_Media (Quantum of People) (RES-Q Syncd).

5th external Factors..

5. External Moderators (Places with Global-essence). Neighbouring Countries, UN & International Civic Societies & Communities.

1. R stands for Quotient of Rationality. This is related to the average IQ(Intelligence-Quotient) of the person, collectively of the family, state & nation. The use of it is in the personal-Intellectuality , public policy, constitution, frameworks, educatory and academic systems. Based on Critical-Thinking & Logical-Reasoning to empower Rationalism & Scientism at the grass root level. Do take the RQ test (Now & Come to next step) to measure and improve our score. This capability will help us in sensing & knowing what’s logically or technically correct or incorrect. Eg. Socrates, Albert_Einstein & C.V Raman. Leonardo, CEOs, Scientists, Technologists & Rationalists. Linked with mastery of principles of Science and Finance. This primarily is invocation of Rational_Generational-factors. Eg. CTO chief technology officer of Companies. Chief Secretaries of Ministries(IAS) & Chiefs of Defence Staffs.

https://programs.clearerthinking.org/how_rational_are_you_really_take_the_test.html

2. E Stands for Quotient of Ethics. This is related to the average Moral Quotient of people, groups & nations. Useful in the administrative, corporates and Judicial systems. Based on Ethical-Thinking & Moral-Reasoning to empower Idealism & Justice at the mid level. Do take the MQ test (Here & Now) and u may leave your scores in the comments below. This capability will help us see & say what’s morally right or wrong, and more deeper Legally lawful or unlawful. Eg: Aristotle, Martin Luther King, Jurists, Academics, Ethicists, Legalists, NGOs, Linked with mastery of principles of empathy, fairness and Inter-Personal morals. This primarily is invocation of Ethical_Operational-factors. Eg CPO Chief People-HR Officer of Companies. CJI of Supreme Courts. (ILS-Indian Legal Services)

3. S Stands for Quotient of Socialness. This is related to social and cultural intelligence of the person or public. Useful in the legislative, ambassadorship and politico-cultural systems. Based on Collective-Thinking & Social-Reasoning to empower Civilism, Civility, & excellence of civism at the top level. Do take the SQ Test (From Here Now) to Benchmark yourself and your peer-group and nation. This capability will help us gauge and do what’s socially-Civically helpful or hurtful. Eg Plato, Gandhi, Nehru, Ambedkar, Patel, Bose, Kalam, Socially responsible people, Civic Societies, NGOs etc.. Linked with mastery of principles of Group-Dynamics, Politics, Communal-Equity and Social_Sciences. This primarily is invocation of Social_Developmental-factors. Eg CEO Chief People-HR Officer of Companies. P.M or CM of Nation (ISS-Indian Social Services).

The “R.E.S-Q Model” for A better Human-Citizen and world Based on tri-core 1.Rationality, 2. Ethicality & 3. Civility with Globality.

Conclusion: Right now the education and social systems are based on more Tyrannical _Financial Rewards System, which makes the (Systems, Principals, Agents & Reagents) biased towards taking Exploitative Advantage of Rationality and Material Sciences, thus Neglecting values in Ethics, Cultural & Social-Responsibilty. Most of the Troubles we facing are rooted in the deficiency of ethics, morality and psychosocial-intelligence.

These three Critical capabilities(RES-Q) when balanced can bring in more resonance of Rationality, Ethicality and Sociality. The current trend of Disharmony is because we have imbalanced advance ment of material_sciences & lack in Humanistic & Social_Sciences. This imbalance is cause of the Viscious cycling with errors and terrors of judgements. Tri-Balance(Tralance) on other hand This Virtuous Tricycling can propel us towards Self-actualization and “Global Collective-Transcendence” with reference to Maslows hierchy of needs.

Do Take the 3 Tests of IQ, MQ & SQ . When you prove your family, communities and your nation scores and standards of living can improve. Do share the RES-Q model for Personal & Social-Tranformation for the world.

Thanks for Reading and Experimenting with this idea & mwe.

Yours sincerely,

RES-Qer Prasad.

Earlier had been with High IQ and MQ, which had created an imbalance and was having social-naivity. Now working more on improving SQ Scores. With Better RES-Q scores we can RES-Q Self and others.

S109: 5 Stages in W.O.M.E.N’s Life..

By age & taken up roles we can see 5 distinct phases in life like below.

1. Warrior of Odds (0-10) (Child)

2. Observer of life (10-20) (Adolescence_young lady stage)

3. Manager of groups (20-50) (Marrier_Wife Stage)

4. Ever-Loving to all (50-60) (Mother-in law Stage)

5. Nurturer of groups (60+) (Grandmother Stage).

Salutes to the Ideals of Women in all.. Guess which Stages have you covered and where one may wish to reach.?

Happy International Womens day 2022. To all great women of India and the world.

These 5 steps of life is tracing any Womens-Journey from a girl to an Empowered-lady to an Empowering-Women.

Stage 1. As a Infant-child a woman is a born Warrior naturally resilient, from the day she is born she fights risks, social-prejudices & parental/familial-biases. Being a daughter she may also be a worrier about welfare of her parents, siblings and relatives and sometimes the world. (Age 0-10). Eg. Greta Thunberg, Malala Yousafzai and other great fighter & compassionate-girls.

Stage 2. As a School/College-kid a woman is a good Observer. Her observational and perceptional skills are so wide and deep that it connects and keenly observes the guidance of good environmental factors like ethical-elders and genuine-sources. Building relationships as friends, playmates, classmates, students. (Age 10-20). Eg Ideal-Like Marie-Curie, Sarojini Naidu, Joan of arc, Shakuntala-Devi,..etc

Stage 3. As an adult women she can be an able Manager of tasks and goals at eduplace, workplace, home and in society. Well-Cultured & Matured women are backbone of families as home-makers and of office/workplaces as graduates, employees, entrepreneurs & value-makers. (Ages: 20-60). eg: Sudha-Murthy, Indira-Nooyi, Allada-Mara Thimmaka, Sister Nivedita, Indira Gandhi, Jayalalitha, woman in the workforces & defence services, Indian-HomeMakers, etc

Stage 4. As a citizen, family member, friend, spouse, sister, parent, colleague, mentor or teacher she is Ever-loving with other citizens & her siblings, relatives, friends, spouse & children. One can learn unconditional care & love from an Every-loving women who maybe a friend, spouse, colleague, mother, sister, aunt or teacher. (Ages 30-60). Eg. Sharada-Devi, Rani-Chennama, Jhansi ki rani, Kasturba Gandhi, women with duty of care, creating integrative_families & communities, PRIYA-mitras, etc

Stage 5. As a Genetic-Progenitor, Grand-parent and Senior-Citizen she is Nurturer in the roles of guides, parent, teacher, aunt, guardian, grandparent & Senior Citizen. Her natural valuable experiencesharing & cultural nurturing and mentoring of next generation cultured-women she can create for a happy and healthy families, communities & society. Thus the senior generation protects & projects the next generations of the world. (Age 40 to 60+) Mother-Theresa, Kamakshi Subramanian, Maya Angelou, Louise-Hay, Annie Besant, H.P.Blavatsky, Auroville-mother, Korean-Queen from India, Sindutai… etc

Conclusion: Women especially the motherly and sisterly are the Great bi-contributing force of family, Society and Nation.. If they are Ethical, Cultured, Moral & Upright Rationally they have the power of transformation of any nation. Like the Roots of a Tree they hold the underlying inter-web of a society that create and hold up healthy homes as grannies, siblings, Wifes, house maids, nursing & nurturing mothers.

In Nursing homes as Birthing Doctors and lady Nurses(Florence Nightingale). In parlours as makeup artists to beautify beasty faces..

While the leading & Complementing Men are the shoots and branches of the society which bring the fruits of labour home to the roots of family they are externally visible like grandpas buying stuffs for family also at non-home risky places like in jungles, on roads, Transport Vehicles, delivery boys, at Borders, In Police Stations, on workshops heavy Industry factories, in sewage drains.. etc.

General Acknowledgements: On International womens day 2022, This post is dedicated to all the good supportive women in our lives as mothers, grandmothers, aunts, teachers, friends, romances, spouse, daughters, nieces, neighbour-girls and students. Your Feminine-Presence is powerful and assuring..

Nature by chance creates Females by birth in all species but it takes ones choice, efforts and a wonderful journey of the 5-stages to become a complete & Ideal Women by character. #PositiveFeminity.

We are ever grateful to your graceful contributions, presence and ethical support in our lives & worlds. If love is what that makes the world go round.. then Centripetal love force maybe feminity & Centrifugal force maybe masculinity. When the complementary-forces are in balance(Positive-Genderity(F/M/T)) keeps the healthy equilibrium, while disturbances (Toxic-Genderity(F/M/T) of either or both sides may break the gender-harmony. The three sides of the coin of life collaborating-morally creates positive environments of excellences.

Ying-Yang Gender-Essence

Personal Acknowledgements: Dear Mother(Dr.Gowri), Grandmothers(Subba-nana patti, Ponnachi Patti & other pattis), Aunts (Rangiathe, Rukku-periamma, Kurzhi-periamma, Preethi-maami, Amlu chitha, Sumitha-chitha, Shanta-Chitta, Rani-chitha, Radhika-Chitha, Baby and Usha Aunty & all extended family members) Sisters-Cousins(Elders like Bannu akka, Mangai akka and other akkas, Younger sisters Hema, Kavitha, Babi, Brinda, Rani, Vani, Rami, Sundari, Deepika and all who have kept the responsibility of family welfare and make us proud as ancestrally-connected women in our lives.

Social-Professional Acknowledgements the infinte women as teachers, lecturers, gurus, classmates, colleagues, competitors, womanly-Neighbhours, collaborators in mission-groups, officers, public-servants, house-maids, co-drivers, strangers-on street, care-givers, peace-makers, etc initial-creators & nurturers of Ethical, Rational & Spiritual children, citizen, organisations, lives & a wonderful society.

Indian Women’s Peer Group: https://chat.whatsapp.com/JMFKNWBGzSrKFYgxbACtaG

Similarly Related:. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2021/12/02/s87-project-manav_mitras-connect-heart2heart-for-universal-brotherhood-fraternal-culture-friendships-group-prasad/

P.S: Written with an intent to honor the Influence of the Divine-Feminine(Woman-SuMatha)(Saraswati, Lakshmi & Nyaya-Devi Goddess of Justice/Ethics) and reduce the disruption of the Deviline-Feminine (IllWoman_Dur-Matha, Agyatha_Dusta) -Evilish, Maya, Kali, Dharidra-Lakshmi, Anyaya-Devi Goddess of Injustice/Toxics) in our lives, invite this to be read-critically and do correct or add to the page if seeing any conditioned-biases so it can be pro Positive-feminity/genderity (rooted in bright side of Eastern_Indianity) and less of Toxic-feminity/genderity (darkside of copycat cultural invasion of Western_EuroAmericanity lifestyle and ideology).

Eg. Of Modern Over_Empowered & Under_Garmented aundies: in pic Shoes-On, Pants-Off: Lightly Dressed & Lighting Lamp.

For help resources of all:

S241: Note 50+ Helplines for YOur Social-Wellbeing (@India).

My Mother has gone through all five phases of a WOMENS Life.. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2021/11/05/s85-my-mother-dr-gowri/

Also my Father and my Uncles/grandfathers have gone through the 3 Phases of a Man’s Life.

S308: Indian Fatherhoods Evolving? Cerebrating Father’s Day 2023.

I, my mom and my father are on our journey to be Mensches in life. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2022/10/04/210-how-to-be-a-mensch-not-a-grinch/

S108: Pancha-pentra: A Story in 5 Lines.

2. Life Event in 5 lines happened in 2010. A false- Trial near the Trial rooms:

I bought a canvas shoe previous week at the star-bazar store and happily wearing it walked in with my cousin to sunday-shop. I took clothes to trial rooms and tried out for right size, during which to my surprise found in a corner behind door a pair of old shoes. Immediately informed the trial rooms guard about it and we left for the next floor. After 15 minutes me and my cousin were sitting in the security room wrongly accused of shop lifting by the same watchman whom I tried to inform & help. I defended myself by asking them to check the video of my entry into store with same shoe and we were acquitted and left free after examination of my own shoe.

Tip: Beware of this at trial rooms check it’s clear without any abandoned things before you enter and use.

1. Lifevent/Story1 happened on 6/3/22: The Judge’s path.

One evening passing by a street, saw few policemen seated on plastic chairs over the footpath. Also spotted an unlit police-car beside a well-lit house. Little curiosity on who’s the owner, lead my eyes to the bright and large name-plate. It housed name of a high-profile legal person(Judge) connected with the ‘secularism vs religionism in education’ national-debate at this moment. Wonder if the name-plate is covered(Burka-ed) would same amount of security cover be required?

S106: Dependence, Codependence, Independence, Interdependence & En-dependence (/GRP)

Sharing an Idea-Script for more ‘En-dependence’ which can align our collective-Journey for Persono-Global Peace & Prosperity. The cause maybe the Greed-Satisfaction of few by PoweResource-accumulation(Abuse of Secrecy-Isolation/ MisCommunications or disConnections) vs Need-Satisfaction of Many by PoweResource-distribution (Infuse of Transparency-Integration/ Pro-Communication & Strengthening-Connections).

Keywords: Dependency, Co_Dependency & Inter_Dependency.

The game of life is between the negative-deformatives and the positive-reformatives. The Super power one can have is to be trustable and testable while being able to test and trust others character & truths.

Declaration of EN-dependence 2-March 2022.

mWe the principled-people of humanity…. pledge our allegiance to our country & nationality and also to Ideals & Humanity. To keep the Principles of Egalitarianism, Rationalism and Secular-Humanism as Prime Importance before any other ideologies.

Mind-spaces leads to Mind-frames leads to Mindsets.

Trying to ideate and bring out the 5 different primary quality of relationships that can occur and develop between two entities, beings or humans(Cities, States, Nations, Gene-Races, Religions, Continents and Idealogies). This Categorizations can be used to evaluate the power dynamics between entities to see if its tending towards progress (Egalitarianism with power-balances, successes, Fairness & Justice in systems with higher PeaceFul-Outcomes) or regress (Discriminationism with more power-imbalances, errors-failures, Unfairness and injustice in systems with higher Painful-Outcomes).

Get Exdependence from Pain and move towards peace.

1. Dependence(Nirbartha): (The Server-Served Relations).

One Side Depends fully on another for its needs and leads(Inputs & Processing). While may not give anything in return. Eg: 1. Infant has dependence on parents or guardians. 2. Citizens have dependence on their community, city or state for Education, Health, Civility & National Security. 2. Newbie East India Company and Mughal-India. This relationship may be nurturing or introductory in nature with positive outcomes for all in the space that creates Healthy or growing Bonds. The power-equation is one-sided with or without free-consent. There is Cooperation with Give and take. Giving Fish or Vegan-dish to someone needy. The Trust level is limited to the Transactions and is not absolute.

2. Codependence(Du-Nirbar): (The Master-Slave or Abuser-Victim Relations) This is where one entity becomes needy of the other and creates an unhealthy bond where one is gaining more and other is gaining less power, while being kept in trauma-bond without any free choice or voice. Eg. Created Dependence of east India company on pre-occupied India. Re-Invasion of Ukraine by Russia(2022). Intent maybe to disempower, over-power & keep status-quo a one-sided power equation with coercion & without consent. Monopolistic-Power dynamics operating here. It’s principle of Conquer, Divide & Rule. There is principle of Take all and give small. Eg: Cultic-Monopolistic Ideologies & Idealogues. This path leads to more Fixed-Mindsets. Game of Dominance. Selling your Fish to someone, cut/ban his access to any other food and get him addicted to fish that you control. There is Psuedo-Trust, False-trust, Negative-Trust in this relation that one or both entities in relation aren’t fair or trustworthy.

3. Independence(Anirbar/Swatantra) or Self-Reliance(Swa-nirbar/Atma-nirbar) (Stranger-Stranger Relations): This is where an entity becomes free of the controlling and Dominance-relational transactions. where the entity by itself or by initiative of other entities end the inequal power-bonding. Eg: free-India from British Monarchy. Retreat of US from Afghanistan or Russia from Ukraine. Need no give or take between entities. Game of Prominence. Give him choice of Fish as per his wish no overt-compulsion or covert-coercion. There is less relevance of inter-entity trust in this case, there will be reliance on the shared environmental-reliability and implicit associated-Trust level.

4. Interdependence(Sama-nirbar/Mitr’-Nirbar):(Peer2Peer & Family-Friend Equitable-Freeing Relations) This where the relationship between the two entities is of equal and fair dealing. The two sides are connected, trusting, supporting & depending on each other and sustain each other for their needs while willingly serving the others connected needs. The power-equation is balanced and matured. Eg: your life-relation with Self & Dearones relatives close to you: Current relationship between Free-India & Europe or US. There is free, Mutually-beneficial Give and Take. A space of Limited-Empowerment until keeping the relation captive or transactive. Game of Symbience. Give him fish, teach him to fish maybe make him a partner in fishing. Trust level is above average and is mutual.

5. Prin-dependence or En-dependence or ExDependence (Siddanta-Nirbar(Principled), upa-nirbhar, Nir-nirbar, ): (The Empowerer-Empowered Teacher-Learner Relations) This is a dependent relationship which is formed to empower the independence of the submissive or disempowered entities. Here the idea is to create relationships with 3 phases of Nurture(Infancy-Ignorant), Support(Adolescence-Aware) and Release(Fully Responsible-Adult/Trained). Eg. 3-phases of Apple-Inc & US(Environment), Garage, One-Building & International Company. Eg2: a good Educational System, 1. Inducts-Neophytes, 2. Trains-Professionals, 3. Empowers-Excellors/Leaders. It’s not based on Monarchy(rule of one) or Anarchy(rule of none) but on Panarchy (rules of and for all). There is More Empowerments, Collaborations, Cooperations and less Conflicted-Competitions. This path leads to more Growth-Mindsets. Game of Collective-Excellence. Give fish and teach him fish-rearing and help him setup fisheries together contribute to International fishing or enable him to become vegan and have hirs end-dependence or freed-dependence from fish, fishing and the fisheries. Trust level is peak 100%.. It can be that one trusts the other more than its self-trust.

Our Goal is much of India has reached stage of Independence(1947-90) and Interdependence(1990-2020), our next goal can be to create the collective exdependence, endependence(EndDependence) or even prin-dependence (Dependence on Principles. systemic-entities which are empowered with decentralized autonomous Entities (families & groups, Nations/Countries) (DAEs & DAFs).

Ref: https://ethereum.org/en/dao/

The Idea of En-Dependence can be used for a more Empowering-Peaceful(Ethical-Rational) and less Disempowering-Painful Society (Non-Ethical & Biased).. Can one be an En-Dependant entity(Person or Group) for Persono-global positive-order improving from the Old and current World-Disorder.

P.S: I wish we together create spaces of positive-InterDependence between creators and readers of this page. Feedbacks in form of comments are welcome here.. I wish this blog as a catalyst for our human Transience through end-dependence from all pain and towards path of peace.

The root of all sufferings is greedy Desires..

Adapted quote from Buddha the more competitive desire for more land, money & human resources in their name/account or under their control without limits of morality, humanity and universal-legality. Lack & suppress Science or Conscience.

The root of all resolvings is needy desires.. Says author of this blog.. the more collaborative desire for more laughter-love, harmony & spiritual resources channeled through them and helps people to be self-controlled so they practice morality, humanity & Universal-legality. Spread Science & Conscience.

S107: 4 Types of C-Forces based on their effect on the planned journey:

Many may have been introduced to G-forces on a person in flight in aviation. What is being introduced in this ideo-page is concept of C-Forces effective on a person, Team or group set for a journey on a path.

The 4 C-Forces are 1.Creative, 2.Corrective 3.Corruptive & 4.Conclusive

Imagine you want to learn for a degree in education. One has these four forces being applied on the entity that is you. Or one wants to inculcate morning jog or yog in their daily-Schedule.

1. Creative: This is the Intitiative force that may be internal-motivational force due to a need for healthy living or can be external-motivational force from others. This induces acceleration from a state of inertia(rest), rotational or circular motion roughly from the current location towards the intended-destination.

2. Corrective:

3. Corruptive:

4. Conclusive:

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