The Resources for Giving Your Child Happy Equitable_Parenting.
S124: My ‘Pen’-Nance for Wisdom.
S123: The Parent-Self-Child: Trilogy of Epigenetics(123).
The Flow and Transmission of Life & DNA Happens in Triological Progressions. (The Rationalism of Natalism & Fatalism).
Keywords: ParentalTraits Inheritance, Genetic Interactions & Mutations, Gene:Intervene Ratio, Ravana Vs Ghatotkach , SPA Treatment Socrates, Plato & Aristotle.
“The Truth Shall Set us Free” -Bible
“The Truthers set the Truths free” -GRP
This we will Examine in through 3 Illustrations: 1.Character Study of Ancient Sources.
2. Character Study Of Modern Sources.
3. Character Study of Personal Sources(With Name Changed Off course).
S122: Is Desire the Root of all Suffering and Healing or Something else also is at the roots? /GRP
Question: Are Desires the Root of all problems in our lives? Revisiting Philosophical Maxims.

Postulate: 1. As Living being we all desire (Need:Greed) to live a good successful wealthy life.
2.The direction & level of desires vary person to person and time to time according to their internal interests & external expressions.
3. There are some correlations between a persons inherent Desires (Factors of Heart), Designs (Factors of Mind) and his Destiny (Factors of Soulciety Society+Soul).
The Root of Suffering/Evil/Problems is Impure Desire(Bias Greed instead on Need) Springing from Unethical, Irrational, Isolating, Secretive, Closed, Polarizing & Uncultured Dysfunctionality. The outcome of dwelling in satisfying this desire, Results in Disempowerment, Dissonance & Destruction in systems.
Eg. Desire for Power and Tyranny. Greeks, Italians, Arabians, more recently Hitler & Allies and Europeans, Russio-Americans desire to establish a Power, Supremacy World-Domination & Rule and bulliability over other countries and world like mordern Political-Economic colonialism or reverse colonialism (brain/resource gain) (America & China) . This dis-empowers other Non-Supremacist passive resource_less vulnerable & isolatable countries like Ukraine, Syria, Tibet, Taiwan, Srilanka, etc.. .
The Root of Healing/Goodness/Solutions is Pure Desire Springing from Ethical, Rational, Integrating, Transparent, Open, Egalitarian & Cultured Functionality. The output engaging with these desires and satisfaction of this drive results in empowerment, Resonance & Recovery in the system.
Eg. Desire for Equality & Equity: Non-Aligned Movement Nations.. these are the Third front of power which tries to depolarize the Bi-polar Power Structure(US-(Russia/China) and this helps is egalitarianism. Or equitable power sharing.
Eg. How China is Anti-Secular & Anti-Alt-Ideology ? https://youtu.be/GQtQS6n9EiA
Above view is at the level of Nations.
Conclusion: Twin Desires are at the root of suffering and healing. But what is at the root of desires?
The systemic influences (Biases and Basises).
Very useful quizzes & Tests. Sharing A resource page & place..
If you find this page with useful & novel views.. you will find the linked place also useful too.
1. Page: https://www.marriage.com/quizzes
2. Place: Seeking Pure-Desires and Healing the world in us. #huMANitarian🇮🇳2030:
https://chat.whatsapp.com/KecJokbFlP4F0azMaCyeyA
1. Science & Conscience https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2022/05/03/s128-a-vision-for-indian-institute-of-conscience-humanity/
2. Marrier/Family Protection Act. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2022/05/05/s130-marrier-protection-act-2030-proposed-act-for-safer-indian-marriages-as-per-ucc/
3. Roots of Religions: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/04/19/s289-realities-of-religions-all-that-you-must-know-but-no-one-told-you-about-spectrum-of-religions/
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S121: “3 Friends of Truth Sourcers”; Truth-Seers, Truth-Seekers & Truth-Speakers.
Only True-Seekers can find Deeper & Larger truths, all others are happy with the superficial_truths at different levels of Illusions (Trulse). This is a Dichotomy of Truth-Sharers (minds that Choose-Truths) & Truth-Shooters (minds that Shoe-away truths).
Sharing Truths with the truthful Builds Trust among Peers & Trusts in turn Builds Transformations both Personal & Social.
We all are in a world with a division, actually a trivison between the Facts : Faction : Fiction. This post is dedicated to the real Truthers in our life, who are True to their own conscience(Ethics), others sense of science(Rationality) & embody goodness of humanity(Compassion).
Transparency backs Truths, which inturn build Trusts, and Trusts builds Transformations in lives. On the contrary secrecy leads to mistakes leads to mistrust which creates deformations in life.
The Truthfulness, Safety, Happiness and Higher Functionality of our Society depends on this 3F_Ratio being Healthy, if not its what leads us to Fractures, Dysfunction, and Destructive imbalances within people, groups and society. (eg with a case in point below(Johnny Depp vs Amber Heart Abuse-Defamation Case)
It can be related also to Truth: Trulse : Lies.. The National Emblem of India states “Satyameva Jayate“.. But conditions apply is not stated in fine print any where.. This is true *Truth Triumphs* only in places where there are Truthful Systems and critical level of agents at Critical places. If the systems and agents are less truthful then Truth can’t triumph as Multiple-Lies attempt to harm the Singular-Truth. So read and share to help your Truths.
The truth triumphs only when there is a positive ratio of people on the side of facts.. If people choose or are conditioned to be satisfied with being on the side of faction or fiction. Then the truths, ethics and morality take a beating as common ordinary people are mostly in the darkness and injustices of factions or fictions..
On the Side of Truth+Facts there are 3 supporting Friends & one Guide.

1. The Truth-Seers. Ones who can recognize the truth from lies. They can see the pure-whites from the grey and the black shades. They are the seers.. Truer-Vision.(My personal estimate is 1 in 1000) These are our/my group Buddies who have seen witnessed our/my life story at home(My Relatives) school & college (My classmates), Office…etc.. Thanks to the truth-seers in life.
2. The Truth-Seekers. Ones who seek the light of truth and are comfortable near the light. And want to be closer to light and away from darkness of lies and illusions. True-Vision & Truer_motion. (My Guestimate is 1 in 10,000). These are friends who seek out the real reasons and causes in our lives. They are not assumers they are more close with you. These are more than acquaintances they have an idea of your character & personality. They may be close family, relatives and friends.
3. The Truth-Speakers. They are ones who see the truths, who move and stay close to truths and speak the truths so others can know it too. True_Vision, True_Motion & Truth_Promotions. (My Estimate is 1 in 1,00,000) the Rarest to find in society. These are really close people who can know all about your life/lives and they wish to speak the truth frankly with you, these are the rarest of rare individuals (High Empathic-Compassion Level). They speak because they care and they want you to succeed in life as they see themselves in you and others. They maybe the closest to us like mirrors our parents, Bros-Sis, gurus, mentors and coaches. They are Us and we are them.
4. True Source Sharers. They are the Satya-Gurus.. they not only show the way but drive you to the truths.. they dont give fish or fruit for short term hunger but teach and show how to fish or grow fruit for long term nutrition. They are the gurus of gurus, the creators of teachers. The meta-truthers who point guide & lead seeker closer to the facts & better truths. That’s why they are more than friends they are the rational researchers, philosophers and guides.
The role that one plays is a factor of the ‘Fact: Faction: Fiction’ Ratios of 1. the persons(Internal Factors ) and 2. the environment he is situated inside(External Factors).
If many Indian Citizens know, are reminded and practice the Fundamental Duties. It would create more Rational Scientific Societies which stand for ethics, truth and justice.

One Open_Project in these lines where people can contribute not money but Attention and Awareness in Project_Sagar. We share “Rational_Scientific_Stuffs”
Recent Truth-Seekers interested in:
The ‘Depp’er Truths Here: https://youtu.be/ep57Nj9eWmU.
Deppest Truths can be seen/found in two processes.. in the Doctors’ Gross-Examination & Lawyers’ Cross-Examination.
Few life-examples here: 1. Johnny Depp Case https://youtu.be/ATVo–DVCiw

2. Similar to Sushant Singh Case@Mumbai, but Indian Justice System is primitive of 1960s and such Malignant-Narcs make use of the legal loopholes to keep the narc abuse Lies-cycle running and the Truth-Cycles are slow:
3. Prince Harry & Meghan Markle vs the British Royal Family @London https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Ltu2vHKiAyE
4. How to move from Abuse to Awakening?
The Trulse Indices of Everything: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2021/01/18/s42-project-deepdarshi-for-saintsians-the-connected-truths-shall-set-us-free/
ABCDE’s of Creating Happy Societies. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2021/02/21/abcde-of-a-happy-society/

The opposite of it is, Truth-Deniers, Lies-Speakers and worst is Truth-Shooters.. https://bigthink.com/neuropsych/why-shooting-the-messenger-is-a-real-condition-explain-scientists/

Why is it easy to be caught and assume lies than to see deeply the truths.. because Maya is 3 times wronger than 1 Amaya-Truth. But 1-Truth facts when seen is more worthy than 3 lies stated.

S120: Tri-Ideas of Ideo-Phobia, Ideo-Philia, Ideo-Neutria & the mix “Ideo-Factia”: The Ideo-Response Spectrum.
Well-known are Phobhias & X-o-Phobhias and every coin has 3 Sides know the less-known sides of x-Philia, x-Neutralia & x-Factia here..
Introduction of new Concept of “Ideo-Realia or Ideo-Factia” which is distinct from Ideo-Phobhia (Irrational Fear of the Idea) or Ideo-Philia (Irrational Love of an Idea)..
Eg. Indo-Phobhia (China_Pak), or Asio-Phobhia (Euro-America) Indo-Philia (US, Srilanka, Japan, Afghanistan, Iran, USSR..etc). Indo-Factia (Indian Citizens, US, Australia) / Indo-Neutria (Brazil, Indonesia,New Zealand etc Singapore…etc). #SecularoPhobhia..
1. IdeoPhobhia (Fear),
2. IdeoPhilia (Favour),
3. Ideo-Realia (Factful),
4. Ideo-Ignorantia (Factless)
5. Ideo-Arrogantia (Tactful-Heartless)
“Ideo-Realia or Ideo-Factia” may be defined as a Rational or Factual View/Response to an Idea.
Illustration: A person ‘X’ or view ‘Y’ can be 1. Ideo-Phobic (Idea-Hater (Against/Anti-View), 1(b). 2. Ideo-Ignorantic (Idea-Blind/unaware) Avoider.
2. Ideo-Realistic, Ideo-Realic, ‘Ideo-Factic‘(Idea-Seer) Rational Engager or
3. Ideo-Philic (Idea-Lover (For/Pro-View) Provider.
Premises: 1. Proper complete Classification leads to Discoveries of Realities, Improper incomplete Classification leads to Diffraction/Diffusion of Realities.
2. Like “Out of Sight, out of mind”, similarly “Out of Speech Linguistics, Out of Reach/Logistics.” That which are “In our Sights leads to Insights, and those In Our Languages leads to clearer images.
Promises: Reading this will enable and empower one in seeing the complete spectrums with Rational views/Responses (Factias by Basis right frame) and Irrational views/responses (Phobia & Philia by Biases leads to exaggerated Fear or Favour).
Eg: Examo-Phobia(Fear of Exams)(1. Aversion(-ve), Examo-Philia (Love of Exams)(2. Attraction(+ve), ExamoRealia (Rational View of Exam)(3. Assertion(1) & Examo-Ignorantia (Blissful Ignorance towards the difficulty of exam. 4. Negation(0))
Somewhere Between the Spectrum/Graded Classifications of Hyper_Homo-Phobhia (extreme Fear of Homosexuals)(Ultra-Conservative) and Hyper_Homo-Philia (extreme Love towards Homo-Sexuals (Ultra-Liberals) is Homo-Realia (Factual & Rational View of Homosexuals)(Rational-Centerists).
In Intellectual discussion or discourses tend to be dominated by the Vocal-Extremes of the spectrums and the Logical-centrists voices gets muffled in the cacophony of the extreme-views from the polarized environment. And many a times a person or a content is labelled Idea-Phobic spreading Idea-phobhia and maybe dismissed without giving apt chance to further investigation of the idea/idealogy. In order to not get biased we may see the complete spectrum to subject it to reasonable classifications and Rational-Investigation.
1. Xo-Phobia: A phobia is a type of anxiety disorder that causes excessive, marked, irrational fear of a specific object(X) or situation(X). Someone with a phobia could be afraid of certain people, animals, objects, places, situations, activities, or interactions.
We hear words like Homo-Phobia, Islamo-Phobia or Hindu-phobia, Entomophobia and many others in the list.. https://www.verywellhealth.com/list-of-phobias-5221226
2. Ideo-Ignorantia:(Bonus Concept) A Ignorantia is a type of state that causes excessive, marked, irrational blindness/invisibility of a specific object(X) or situation(X). Eg, Fat-Blind, can be termed as Fat-Ignorantic different from Fat-Phobhic, Fat-Philic(Fetish), Fat-Factic(Aware-Neutral)
3. Xo-Philia: A Philia is a type of state that causes excessive, marked, irrational love of a specific object(X) or situation(X).


4. Xo-Realia: A Realia/Factia is a type of aware state that causes appropriate, marked, rational Response(Love/Fear/Neutrality) for a specific object(X) or situation(X).
Eg: Ophidophobia is fear of snakes.. Ophido-Realia is apt-response towards snakes(GRP Proposal). Ophido-Philia is love of snakes.
1. Extreme Left-Side (of Response-Spectrum) (Phobism) https://fearof.org/snakephobia/
2. Extreme Right response (Phillism) https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ophidiophilia
3. Rational Centered view.??? (Factism /Realism)
Awareness & Conservation of Snakes
Conclusion: Irrationality and Ignorance leads to Phobias, Philias and Ignorantia, while deep study and awareness of concepts, Ideas and Idealogies lead one closer to apt Responsible-Responses of Ideo-Realias and Ideo-Factic like… (eg: Xo-Realia/Factia, Testo-Realia, Examo-realia, Homo-Realia, Religio-Phobia , Religio-Phila Religio-Factia etc..
This will help identify if a behaviour or response is Homo-Phobic or Homo-philic or Homo-Factic, LGBTQ-Realistic. This can open up avenues for Intellectual discussions as to classify all points which maybe Logico-Phobhic, Logico-Philic and Logico-Factic.
Most rational views can be termed

This Terminology completes the Logical-Triad.

References:
1. Islamophobhia Vs IslamoFactia: https://virtueonline.org/what-islam-isnt-dr-peter-hammond?utm_source=clubhouse
2. Neither phobhia nor philia but Factia Should influence our belief systems.
Fear nor Favour but only Fervour of Rationality should drive a political decision by higher standards of Secularism.
3.
True-Secularism as a political ideology means.. No religion should have undue influence on the politics of the nation….
S119: Body, Brain & Brotherhoods: Health_Tools for people of Minor_Age (< 18yrs) on path of life. GR.PrAzad.
Detox the Toxins of (Body, Brain & Brotherhoods) for better futures of our young ones. 3 Cancers and 3 Cures.
To Save Your Kids & self from #DigitalHarm or #DigitalHaram and Instead replace with #Digital_Healing & #Digital_Help. Must Read, apply & Share this Critical_Safety_Information now. Are we Creating #Cancerous-Kids or #Contributive-Kids?
This Article page is dedicated to Innocent Young ones who have lost their Body, Brains & Brotherhoods and also to their traumatized Dear_Survivors who want to share out messages of prevention and recovery. Do leave comments below which can help others. Do connect other needy Kids, Parents or Teachers with the projects below.
The Core Idea of ‘3Bs-Cure‘ is the 3_Cancers harm kids pushing them towards Social-Isolation based on Corruptive-Individuality (Self-ish: Me, Mine & My Life), while the 3_Cures help them towards Social-Integration based on Collective-Identity (Selves-ish: We, Ours & Our Lives).
Sow Seeds of Negativity, Reap Deeds of Negativity.
GRP Questions: What may be the top 3 most useful tools for people under 18 years of age; which can benefit them the maximum for making their present less negative (cursed) & future more positive (blessed) Physically, Mentally & Socially?
GRP Answers:
1. Tools For Healthy_Body.
A. #FoodJustice by Nutrition Management:
NO, Avoid Junk, Artificial & Toxic Foods & Food Habits, High Sugar and Calories. Prevent Cancer of Body!!
See this to decide: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0JuyUDyeV9M

YES, Provide more Natural, Raw, Healthy Food & Life_Choices. More Fiber and Nutritious diet. InterGenerational Family Cooking & Dinning, Community_Eating Culture. This Positivity Promotes Cellular Homeostasis & Hormonal Harmony. Curative Factors.
Healthy Habits for Children and Families

Bro let’s #EAT_GOOD
‘Jaisa Ann Waisa Mann’ (Hindi), Form Follows Function, Body-form follows function of digestion.
2. Tools for Healthy_Brain.
A. #MentalPeace by News Management: NO, Avoid unrated and filtered web-content or portals, Unhealthy, Violent-Movies, Biased, toxic-websites, Media and Films: promotes cybercrime, cyber-bullying and child abuse, public-nuisances, Sinspiration and materialism. Addictive Games-Gambling, social media addiction, corrupting_content..etc Prevent Cancer of Mind!!
1.Disney Films Corrupting Kids https://youtu.be/uqPwkzp_36E https://www.bbfc.co.uk/education/rate-a-trailer

2. Thinking of taking Kids or teens to violent Movies like K.G.F or KashmirFiles etc Think Again after reading this below. It can change their brains irreversibly. https://healthychildren.org/English/family-life/Media/Pages/Adverse-Effects-of-Television-Commercials.aspx

3. Child-Risks of Adult TV, Sexual YouTube & Porn pop-ups: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2021/07/22/s65-a-call-for-de-pornification-of-the-media-internet-for-a-happysafe-society/
YES, Provide healthy content to mind through positive-life Books, Audio, Visuals & Environment. Corrective_Contents, Promotes Inspiration and Ethics & Rationality. Provide parental control and filter apps on devices like net nanny or Firewalls
https://www.techradar.com/best/parental-control
Bro let’s #VIEW_GOOD
‘Jaisa Dhyan waisa Gyan’ (GRP Original Hindi) Attention decides Attitudes.
3. Tools for Healthy_Brotherhoods (Sisterhoods/Bristerhoods/Siblinghoods all Humanhoods too).
A. #BrightBrotherhood by Relationship Management.
NO, Avoid biased, closed, cultic, alienating, secretive, toxic, abusive & materialistic brotherhoods(of all 3 genders) hungry on possessing money, wealth, knowledge, fame, power, sex, negative_bodyism and narcisstic_supply driven by passion. Prevent Cancer of Brotherhood’s!!
Eg of bad_brotherhoods: https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/worldnews/3003805/blue-whale-suicide-game-challenge-deaths-uk/

https://www.marcandangel.com/2013/06/09/9-warning-signs-youre-in-bad-company/
MLM Pyramid Scheme Groups or Cultic Groups: https://indianexpress.com/article/cities/hyderabad/families-torn-apart-people-sold-properties-invest-mlm-companies-lost-all-7882667/
Healthy Brothers Prefer less blind-faith in Party(Factions/Fiction) lesser and more higher value to open-eyed_Rationale of Policy(Facts)Truth.
YES, Provide healthy, supportive, positive & Transparent brotherhoods that spread respect, care and fraternity which promote ‘Empathic_supply’ driven by Egalitarianism & Compassion.
https://www.verywellfamily.com/types-of-clubs-kids-and-youth-2087395

Bro let’s #BEFRIEND_GOOD.
‘Jaisa Sangath Waisa Rangath’ You are Your Company. Like Association so is your transformation.
Eg: of a good brotherhood https://youtu.be/duyxN9QEU44
More Positive_Brotherhood groups accessible links below.
Conclusion: The Formula or Equation for 3Healthy-‘B’ees is:
For Healthy (Body, Brain & Brotherhood) = (Eat,View & Befriend) the Good(Ethical+Rational+Social) in life.
“EAT Good, VIEW good & BeFriend Good”
Further related Readings in This Blog:
1. The Diamond Model for Health
2. Relational Spectrums, De hooked,
3. From any Abuse to Awakening,
Access to Positive Brotherhoods:
1. Project Sagar Group for Rational_India or Scientific_India. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2021/05/06/project-saagar-safespaces-for-agnostics-atheists-reachouters/
2. Project Empathical.
3. Project Margadarshi_Hithashale:
https://chat.whatsapp.com/HhClmFy8izIF8zMRAtYrXH
3. Project JaiBhim:
4. Project Deepdarshi
5. Project Yselecters.
6. https://www.dailysignal.com/2022/03/30/leaked-videos-expose-disneys-not-at-all-secret-gay-agenda/
S118: Life Lessons from Personal Experiences: Value for saving LifeTimes and LifeCrimes:
20/2/22: Rat Poison Exposure Experience
Touched the poison bait while placing it in the rat pit. Got severe hand itching and pain.. lesson learnt: BE extra careful with dangerous chemicals.
S117: The most Important Index of a Nation: “Rationalists-Ratio” (I.e Rationalist: Neutralist: Irrationalist)
The path the future of a nation whether it prospers, sustains, implodes or explodes. Depends on one ratio that is the Rationalist_Ratios in it and in countries linked with it.
References:
How Irrationalists try to control the rationalists?
1. By Silence
2. By Verbal, Physical & PsychoSocial Violence
3. By Legal Violence
http://www.legalservicesindia.com/article/1857/Malicious-Prosecution.html