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We all have been, are and will be controlled by external and internal scripts that impact Life. Whether its benign-good_control or malign-bad_control that is the question. This post shall help one see which are the bad controls in Life. So one can see & create the good ones.
Our Control starts from Womb to tomb, from our Family-House to International Parliamentary Houses.
We are under covert control and influence of our Parents, Caregivers, Family, Relatives, Peers, School, Edu-Systems, Media, Religions, politics, neighborhoods, laws & language, every frame is a firm of control, the question is it intent benign (for benefit of many & all) or malignant (advantage of few and small groups).
Age-wise Content.
1. -9 months to 4years:
2. 5 to 10 years:
3. 11 to 18 years:
4. 19 to 30 years:
5. 30 to 60 years.
Intro what is a controller?… its an entity that controls our ideas, thoughts, thinking, words & actions also our days and lifes.
1. -9 months to 4 years.: Our genes & memes of our Parents and their Controllers Control us.
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I have been to many capital cities, but find the most deadly city in India to be Delhi. We need to change this from Deadly_Delhi to Delightful_Delhi. The Choice and the Voice for Dil se Delhi is here.
Below is a list of News that proves why Delhi is leading most dangerous city and how can it and other cities be made safer.
Sharing my Lived_Experiences, Inferences & Interventions from 15years(2008-2023) of evolving as an IIScian being close to IISc & IITs (the Campuses, Communities, Controversies & Contributions).
#SaveOurStudents Campaign2021 #Preventing_Students_Suicides & Deaths in Academia.
1. Riisc of the Mind: Mental_Fatigue, Info_Overload, analysis paralysis.
2. Riisc of the Body: Deficiencies Due to Brain Stress and Overwork. Eye Strain and issues, sedentary lifestyle diseases.
3. Riisc of the Groups/communities/Societies: Academic Bullying and abuse.
4. Riisc of the Situation_Environment/eco-Systems: Chemical and experimental setup risks.
5. Conclusion of How to Prevent and overcome these Risks.
With PoweR comes 4Rs: Resources, Rights, Responsibility and Risks.
This maybe few vulnerability or one of the Riiscs, R’IISc’s with IIScians..
“Analysis Paralysis”.. knowledge, paths and options for actions are more so it takes time and difficult to decide which path or option to take.
How to overcome the Analysis Paralysis and “just do it.”?. This is of gud inquiry where to draw the line for knowledge seeking and start to apply_practicing.
Game of Thoughts/Theories @Institutes
5. Conclusion of How to Prevent and overcome these Risks.
Request to not attack a person or family nor the Institutions in groups. The Blame-sharing factor varies case to case fro 20:80 to 50:50. Between Genetic & Environmental Factors for Suicides risks.
Testimony from an Alumni: anonymousised to hide Identity of Person and Place.
“On the topic of suicide, it is very easy to advise the right thing to do. But in reality, the affected person often shuts himself or herself off. Keeping a distance from others. Often hiding behind closed doors. Not giving access for others to help. I lost my close friend to suicide at Institute. He was brilliant and wanted to do the best research ever done. His experiments would be perfect, no less. It took him a long time to do his research, partly because he chose a very difficult problem. Probably all his batchmates finished before him and I think he was the last student of the batch finishing his work. I was not there at that time; like most students, I had gone on a post doc, in my case, to the National Health Institute . I got the news via a letter from another friend that this friend of mine had committed suicide in his hostel room on the eve of his PhD defence. I believe the overseas examiner, an ex Intitutian, had commented in the thesis report that the work was good but asked what the relevance of classical protein chemistry was in the scientific world where recombinant DNA technology was coming up. This devastated my friend. All his hard work, standing overnight many, many times in the cold room, shivering, manually collecting fractions to purify his protein and planning and executing perfect experiments… was all a waste. And he took his own life.
I think if some of us batchmates and friends were there, we might have been able to save him. He was alone and lonely and unable to handle the condescending comments of the examiner. I don’t know if there was any other factor leading up to this since I was not there at the time. It is important to keep in touch; with email and WhatsApp, that is easier these days.
“1984/85. I left IISc in Oct 84 and this happened a few months later. Yes, you can refer to this case. He was also from a very poor family in Punjab. He was supported in his studies and otherwise by his brother who was doing PhD in physics in Panjab Univ. The suicide created a vacuum that cannot be filled. He had so much potential.( in Indian Academia and Life).
Money-minded People speak of Genders-pay Gap, but non Speak of Genders-risks Gap or Genders-Suicides Gap why? Aren’t lives valuable than mere Money? One genders wants alimony because marriage has become about all-money.. not family or social harmony.
2. Place for men Genders_Sciences, Gender-Cultures & Genders_Safety for BetterMent of Sense, Self & Society. Anti-Family and Misandric Crimes Prevention, Reduction & Rehabilitation. *#Sarva-ManavaHitham.*
An Indian Cricketing Father’s Legacy, carried by a Worthy Son:
Mhmd Shami’ his Life-In-Cricket and Wife-In-Law(Wife by law only a Real-life Fraud-Wife).
Received today in Whats App Below Msg.
Mohammad Shami’s father Tausif Ali used to be the fastest bowler of Amroha. Their yorkers often scatter batsmen’s sticks. People all over the world said go and get professional cricket training in the club. There will be no bigger cricketer in Uttar Pradesh. But Tausif Ali didn’t have money. Everyone gave advice, but there was no one to help financially. Mohammad Shami’s father considered this as his destiny. Started family life at the saying of mom and dad. Tauseef Ali had 5 sons and within five cricket was created from the beginning. Little Shami was the fastest of all these. In Abbu’s cricket training, Mohammad Shami used to learn new things. Tausif Ali is sure that Mohammad Shami will fulfill my incomplete dream of becoming a cricketer. Tausif Ali realized why he could not become a big cricketer? He was ready to go beyond all limits to fulfill his son’s dream.
Tauseef Ali didn’t want to leave any core-exercise left for his son. When Mohammad Shami was 15 years old, Tausif Ali used to train his son to bowl. They had wickets ready in their field. Where Mohammad Shami used to practice bowling day and night. Then Tausif Ali thought now son needs a good academy. They sold the land and thought of enrolling a son in an academy in Moradabad. Coach Badruddin said I’ll watch this boy bowling first then I’ll decide. Mohammad Shami started bowling and the legendary batsman of Badruddin academy went kneeling. Badruddin immediately accepted his disciple to Mohammad Shami. Mohammad Shami sacrificed his life to fulfill his father’s dream. They didn’t do a naga a day. Even on the day of Eid, Mohammad Shami used to go bowling after offering Namaz. Whenever there was a cricket match in the academy, Mohammad Shami used to ask for old ball from the coach after the match was over. One day Badruddin asked what do you do with him? Mohammed Shami replied – I practice reverse swing. Since that day Badruddin himself used to get Mohammed Shami practiced reverse swing.
Badruddin took Mohammad Shami himself with him for the trial of UP Under-19 team. Selectors did the same to Mohammad Shami, which was done to Bhadohi’s Yashaswal. Same thing said to both players, will see next year coming. Badruddin thought Mohammad Shami could go far in one year. In such a way, they cannot be left dependent on UP Cricket Board. Coach Badruddin told his father, send Mohammad Shami to Kolkata. If the club does good in cricket there then it will make a comfortable place in the state team. Tausif Ali had no other option or fore thought. He wanted to see son Mohammad Shami playing for India in any Surat. Mohammad Shami reached Kolkata, but he neither had food grains to fill his stomach nor a roof to cover his head. Mohammed Shami didn’t want to put more pressure on his father. They decided, now whatever you have to do is do it on your own. Assistant Secretary of Bengal Cricket Association Devrat Das saw Mohammad Shami bowling in a match. Devvrat Das understood that this boy will overcome the world of cricket.
Devrat asked Mohammad Shami where do you live? Mohammed Shami could not say anything. I was hungry too. The survival was going hard. Sometimes railway station and sometimes bus stand. Devrat Das invited Mohammad Shami to stay at his home at the same time. He told Banerjee a selector of Bengal that you watch Mohammad Shami’s bowling once. Mohammad Shami started bowling in front of Banerjee. Big batsmen couldn’t move. Mohammed Shami was just uprooting wickets from his bowling. Love to hear the sound Shami gets after bowling the batsmen from the beginning. Banerjee told Mohammad Shami that I have seen many players in my life. Most players want money. Want name, respect and fame. But you are a true player. You just have to show the batsmen the way to the pavilion, you have no other destination. After this, Mohammad Shami joined Mohan Bagan Cricket Club on Banerjee’s team. There Mohammad Shami bowled in front of Saurav Ganguly. Dada was happy to see the talent. Saurabh Ganguly is the one who made the careers of players like Virendra Sehwag, Harbhajan Singh, Yuvraj Singh and Mahendra Singh Dhoni. Today we are going to tell us a new thing. Mohammad Shami was inducted into the Ranji team of Bengal 2010-11 on the saying of Saurav Ganguly. Within 2 years, on January 6, 2013 Mohammad Shami wore the Indian team jersey. Mohammad Shami never looked back after this since 2013.
The Personal Challenge Googly by Indian_Ladies_misusing_Law in Shami and Other Men’s Life.
Mohammad Shami blessed with a lovely daughter after Nikah on 6th June 2014 in 2015. Everything was going well in his life, that’s when in 2018 wife Haseen Jahan made many disgusting accusations on Mohammad Shami. Dowry harassment, assault, illegal relationship with other women and taking money from Pakistani citizens. Mohammad Shami removed from the contract list of Indian team false Discriminatively At this time also Saurav Ganguly stood like a rock with Mohammad Shami. Grandfather Dada said, I will not remove Mohammad Shami from Bengal’s Ranji team until the allegations are proved. The whole feminazi and biased_media was against Mohammad Shami, but the fair truth seekers like Saurav Ganguly was with Mohammad Shami. Finally BCCI’s anti corruption unit found Mohammad Shami innocent and then his central contract was restored. Mohammad Shami has scored the highest 16 wickets for India in 4 matches of this World Cup. Mohammed Shami longs to meet his PAS Narc-Parentally alienated Syndromed daughter, but because of the beautiful world he has to face a lot of difficulty. Still Mohammad Shami is sacrificing his life for the country. Salute Mohammad Shami who is making India proud today with the cooperation of Tausif Ali, Badruddin, Devvrat Das and Saurav Ganguly. 🇮🇳
[13/11, 21:08] G.R.P (G.R. PrasadH) Grit, Reasoning, Peerfulness.: Shami and Shams, once is a mistake there is kshama, twice did he learn from the misstake or not this is the test match???
Shikhar Dhawan & other cricketers celebrities too face such.. Tragic Trapping in life as they have good cricket_coaches but very bad Marital-Coaches in life.
3 Sides of the Festival seen deeply for Deep_aWa(li)reness.
1. Good Sides of Traditional old Festivals: Light-White Shades of the (Spiritual_side)…Egalitarian_Essentials.
2. Bad Side of current form of Commercial Festivals. (Material_Side).. Dustyval. Dark-Black side Sectarian_Excesses.
4. Useful side of festivals. GREEN AND GREY SIDE Justival (Social_Side).. Rational Respectful. #EcoDeepavali #GreenDiwali #SmartDiwali.
Being environment friendly is misunderstood as being anti-festival. This to be clarified with concerns on this post. Being spiritual-liberal and being Religious-Conservative have many commonalities (follow in spirit) and difference (follow without understanding the spirit by later letters).
10 ways one can celebrate more green, safe & healthyeco-way.
1. Use less Plastic items. Use more natural reusable paper or wood based products instead of higher carbon footprint or single use and throw products.
2. Reduce or Avoid buying or burning firecrackers especially noisy high level decibel ones. Can buy more lamps and color lights to light up home.
3. More big Rockets and longer burning crackers cause more pollution and wastages. Can burn incense or mosquito repellent smoke in neighbhourhood instead of gunpowder and toxic crackers.
4. Wear Masks and avoid eating open outside food in cities for 2-5 days of diwali. You can prevent cancer by reducing ur inhalation & ingestion of toxins from the fire crackers deposited as layer on the city and citizens or worse in nearby vegetable farms.
5. During Take bath twice a day, Wash ur hands often, and keep the doors and windows closed or semi open. As smoke can get into ur home and lungs and on skin.
6. Take Special Care of Allergic prone people, Asthmatic, and weak senior citizens and kids also traumatized exodus seeking pets or Stressed Urban Animals, Birds & Beneficial Insects.
7. Instead of burning gunpowder, Toxic Metals, Paper and Plastic in dumma, one can do pradana dana of food, lamp, candles or Gyana Dana of books for same or equal amount of money. This will help light little young minds like lamps.
8. Instead of competing with neighbhour who’s got bigger crackers box and more unique crackers can collaborate on doing good deeds of cleaning up after bursting crackers and also foing to terrace to watch the crackers and stars(new moon) in the night sky.
9. Take all fire-safety precautions for safer diwali.
10. Buy ethical and Swadesi crackers which maybe costly but has higher quality and audited company for following industry best practices & safety standards. Use Swadesi Sustainability 5R principles. Of recycling paper etc.. let’s create Trash to Cash instead of Cash to ash. Words courtesy Deepthinking Deepthi Of ESP group.
If we look deeply at deepavali even if it’s a story or reality there is lesson from the journey(Ramayana). its not only Rama who returned to Ayodhya it’s his fellow yatris(Companions) Brother Lakshmana and life partner Sita too. The Trio together faced the journey exile(kaikeyi), threats(shurpanaka), frauds(marichi), abduction(ravana), corruption, Narcissism(ravana’s gang), battles(lanka), death(lakshmana), revival(Sanjeevini) though they were seperated & abused … their faith, trust, commitment and loyality(to each other) these are the real celebrations of such great personalities. Of victory of their relationships over corruption of other factors in the journey.
This is what is deep down a beautiful return of Good family and friendships (Hanuman, Sabari, Jatayu, Etc).. overcoming all struggles, challenges and evils that they faced together..
It’s the success of Brotherhood and familial_Partnerships in life.. life is *beautiful* with good relationships in cooperative, corrective & collaborative groups and is painful with bad relationships, corruptive, conflicting or Exploitative groups.
Context: Regarding Long messages like a thousand wala cracker vs a single rocket. Or Chinese lantern in deepavali.
Content: Long Narratives with multiple topics and issues have more chances of Misunderstanding and confusions than messages that are Concise, Clear & Contexted. Regarding fire crackers Instead of sentiments and rhetoric regarding adminship(under the belt punches) it’s good to provide info and connect to right sources.
Connection: this link has more factual information where there is a product(firecrackers) and diwali/deepavali or anyother event celebration industry(vested interests) there is bound to be tradition, competition and lobby.. eg Cadbury Vs Traditional Indian Sweets. Chinese crackers industry Vs Indian Cracker industry. More info on it is here.. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Firecrackers_in_India
The industry is toxic was exploiting children until M.C Mehta case.. is deadly.. and most risky industries use and exploit low classte workers.
My request to all Skeptics is to not be moved by politricks of it(pro-firecrackers or Anti-firecrackers) .. but do your own research(appo deepo bhava) and see how our privileged consumeristic choices impact lives of other vulnerable Indians. Can we be more compassionate towards fellow indians instead of being violent on the ears, earth or bring tears to the eyes.
Also today we recognize that if India is progressing and economic tree is giving fruits to us it’s due to the investments done many years back. So we recognize the contributions of Elder (40+years) Brothers and Sisters in group(30%).
Also we are here to support the younger bro and Sis Manavamitras (under 39years of age) I.e 70% of group.
A good gender_culture is a hallmark of good individuals, Institutions & nations.
Like Indian brotherhoods and sisterhoods are the grounds for nurturing relationships.
I thank my elder bros & sis in group for helping and being leading lights us and also the younger ones to keep your trust, love and affection on us..
You all guys 240+ are the lights that make our diwali celebrations more bright.. for a brighter and happier future for all. #Manavamitras(HumaneFriends)
Also today we recognize that if India is progressing and economic tree is giving fruits to us it’s due to the investments done many years back. So we recognize the contributions of Elder (40+years) Brothers and Sisters in group(30%).
Also we are here to support the younger bro and Sis Manavamitras (under 39years of age) I.e 70% of group.
A good gender_culture is a hallmark of good individuals, Institutions & nations.
Like Indian brotherhoods and sisterhoods are the grounds for nurturing relationships.
I thank my elder bros & sis in group for helping and being leading lights us and also the younger ones to keep your trust, love and affection on us..
You all guys 240+ are the lights that make our diwali celebrations more bright.. for a brighter and happier future for all. #Manavamitras(HumaneFriends)
For eg. This cultural practice needs to be reviewed. Its source is clearly China I see that they are anti-India.. but the mirror needs to be seen it’s not fabricated.
The unidentified source of video is very doubtful of its authenticity and authority. Though it has truths in its content, the intent and extent to which its targeting of Indian-cultural practices is to be noted. Having said that it time for deep introspection of modern excesses in the name of religious culture.. this is in general.. can religious practices be open to rational scientific reviews and can they be made better and less toxic and more careful towards humanity and nature.
It’s in our Spiritual nature these principles of Loka Samastha sukhino Bhavanthu. I see there is a contradiction in terms of lifecycles of firecrackers and their abuse. I would like to see a greener cleaner and more meaningful religious celebrations allover the Lokas.
Deeper Spirituality vs superficial Rituality
Essence of a practice vs Nuisance to others.
Similar to firecrackers on roads, are Doing religious Prayers or slogan on roads and in public places maybe seen as anti-secular and keeping loyality towards Religionism over Nationism or Humanism.
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