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Threats to personal and global rights, dignity, peace & development are due to these 4 Entities..
1. Narcissists- Toxic People
2. Narcotics- Toxic matter Substances.
3. Narczones- Toxic Places eg.
4. NarcOrgs- like invaders from East-India Company, Russia, China..etc.
Unknown Insights & Secrets of Dr. Swaminathan’s Life by his own words, works & worlds. We see here how Spiritualic-Patriotism of his elders influenced the Scientific-Rationalism in young one. #Vivekatva and #Nationalistic-Sciences.
#Swami & His Sciences.
He passed away today at a ripe old mature age of 98years.. He contributed to Indian Sciences, Farmers and Indian Citizens Phenomenally. Here is a Tribute to an Indian-Firstly and Lastly from a Patriotic Family.
These are some deep-interpretations that ordinary media doesnt showcase and show the cause.
This post analyses and what is the roots causes in life of this Indian-Scientist and his Indianity that contributed towards the *Evergreen Revolution* how he contributed towards a Brown-Revolution in agri-sciences and influenced by Indic-Bharat.
1. Global Legacy of Mr.Swaminathan among 20 top Asians of 20th Century(1900-2000).
2. 3 Swamis who created personality of Swaminathan. (Swami Vivekananda(East), Swami Ramana Maharishi(South) & Mahatma Gandhi(West)).
3. He said No to his family profession of Medicine-Sciences and yes to the Nations_needs and calling of Agri-Sciences.
Egalitarian_Humanitarian Scientist of the Day.
Tributes to Dr. M.S Swaminathan. Father of the Green Revolution in India.
Good Sciences Increases Public_Safety. Food Sciences Increases Food-Security.-GRP
an example of this was Dr. M.S. Swaminathan.
A great Indian Scientist. Loved Sciences, Loved the nation.
4. Media Reports of Dr. Swaminathans life.
https://indianexpress.com/article/india/m-s-swaminathan-dead-8959783/lite/
We mourn the loss of a great Indian Scientist. https://www.thehindu.com/sci-tech/agriculture/agricultural-scientist-architect-of-green-revolution-ms-swaminathan-passes-away/article67356103.ece.
5. Taking Insights and Indsiration for Continuing his legacy of Scientific-Patriotism and not engage in Cultic_RIOTism.
Missions for More-Scientific_India by 2030.
https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/03/15/project-saghar-safespaces-for-skeptics-agnostics-humanists-atheists-rationalists-mission_scientific-nations2030/
Without this Indian Scientists look where the Neighborhood is.
Why do we see Tiff with a stiff ex-TISS VC?
Biased Medi News: https://www.freepressjournal.in/mumbai/fpj-exclusive-criminal-fir-filed-against-tiss-mumbai-vc-by-daughter-in-law
Less Biased Media News: https://indianexpress.com/article/cities/mumbai/tiss-ex-director-husband-son-booked-harassment-8957587/
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/reap%20what%20one%20sows
https://biblehub.com/proverbs/26-27.htm
Truth She and her Ex-Daughter in law are going through different stages of womanhood.
S109: 5 Stages in W.O.M.E.N’s Life..
And life is a game, married life in India is a gamble-game without proper codes & rules.
S364: Broadband_Husbands with Wifi_Wifes: How InterFamily_Complementing (+ve) Vs IntraFamily_Competing (-ve) Playout in the EMF-Field.
Double Blind-Critics’ experiments for types of feedback mechanisms. Insights from group interactions with 4 of Baseless hurtful Critics and 1 Basised Constructive & helpful-Critic.
In our ideological daily lives we get to see and hear few of our silent supporters and many of our vocal critics. We also maybe indulging in presumptions with biased-basisless negative criticizing or back gossiping, mud slinging, dirt smearing and hurting others reputation or contributions.
Let’s go to & see the roots of this phenomenon of group defamation or community based Character-Assassinations.
The Identity of my dear messengers giving toxic feedback in conversation is hidden. This is an Academic exercise for collective improvement in group-messaging. If you have any complaints or feedback to give can give it personally to me in comments below or to my email. I welcome all feedbacks constructive and destructive too.
How to see if its “Blind_Criticism (Flawed_Bias away from Truths/Facts) or Rational_Criticism (Fair_Basis in Truths/Facts)?
Critic#1: Profile of message sender is Software Engineer from Bengaluru. Well-intentioned, well read, socially aware, bright intellectual and very capable and responsible individual. We are close intellectual friends. Our Ideas overlap in many ways.
One of my beloved and respected Friend and longtime Associate (He is a Dear good guy and most of time rational (Known and in communication since 5 years) but recently(since 3-4 months) has made multiple inter-linked false presumptions about me recently).
I trust he will understand me and my multi ideas-logies deeper & better soon. He had shocked and mocked me with this statement today:
2nd Msg Response I received to above statements.
Rational Analysis of this Response:
1. Members also have observed that you allow frequent violations esp irrationality & unsubstantiated allegations to facilitate your ideology/parochialism. (Call for Other members observations) who are the members when they conveyed and what are the details not given? (Strawman Fictional Arguement)
2. You have not removed them & not even stopped them. (Past history against some members also group has other admins too)
3. I comply with standard discussion rules. (Reference was to specific Group messaging policy rules this is irrelevant to specific group places). Lex Loci (laws rules apply as per location or groups)
4. Later you intentionally skewed the rules to suppress questioning & rationality. (Trulse and false accusation.. it’s maybe possible that rules were improved but untrue it suppresses questioning and Rationality. What it does is aids freedom of expressions with responsibility of impressions.)
Do review the group rules or Community Guidelines here below also known as Model Group Code of Conduct: https://bit.ly/3zMlXJh see it if “the 10 rules here Suppresses Questioning or Rationality?” In any way.. infact the rules are meant to promote freethinking & expression while protecting group against abusive messages and abuse of members-rights to Excellent-Environment. Btw Statistically the Friend also is common happy-member of 10 groups. He had violated our group-codes in 2 of the groups and was removed with valid reasons. We have cleared things to him he is always welcome back with group model code compliance, but member is arrogantly rebellious.
We many times hurt ourselves, others, our relationships and our communities by making snap judgements, with prejudices or misjudices there are implicit or hidden biases in the society which are very deeply ingrained and like back of our heads very hard for us to see directly.
There is a way of Fair Rational and Constructive Criticism and this is below.
Critic#2: a common alumni and very helpful altruist shared values and interest for our alumni campus community group.
Wonder and Survey to know more.
We got a feedback from member about Suppression of Questioning and Rationality in groups.. we are double checking with other members about this opinion. Plz do Express and feel free to suggest ideas to improve this Gmx Groupmember Experience.
Do note we are trying feedback mechanisms in group-improvement.. can contribute with valid suggestions to improve This-mitras group messaging services.
https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/09/24/s370-blind-unfair-critics-vs-rational-criticism/
Admins can practice this code and protocol: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/05/09/s294-india-admin-assignment-protocol/
My personal guesstimate of Biased-Critic: Basised-Supporters and Blind-Supporters ratio in my circle is 10:1000:2 . So I’m happy.
From Critic#3 in one Campus -alumni group.
Cherry Picking: When People Ignore Evidence that They Dislike
Positive Fair Constructive Critic#4
3rd Roumd of Baseless and Personally Biased Criticisms.
The Causes: Most of these unfair criticisms are baseless and biased by exaggerations, all-nothing thinking, cherry picking and Attribution error.. 1. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attribution_bias
Another faulty-thinking and expressing is based on use of a psychological tactic called psychological Projection.
Unfair Baseless Criticism 2024.
Case Study Criticism #4: This is from a New member about 2 months in a 4 year old group community of 198 members and had 17 admins, the newbie has an ideology that All Members have to be made Admins in order to make the Group be equal for all.. We had referred to the existing community guidelines and adminship requirements. This was a philosophical difference of opinion, now this was turned to adhominem by personal attack on admins & founder admin too. here is below tactic of personally attacking admin to enforce new ideas authoritarianly.
Two Men, 2 Pacts, 2 Paths and too many Impacts. Whom do U/V Celebrate? Let’s Cerebrate this question.
Why One Ideologue Attacked India (Like the Greeks, Arabs, Europeans & Chinese) and Other Patriot Supported India?
Short Answer: Kalams are Creation of a Secular Constitution & Kasabs a Creation of anti-secular Constitution (We see evidences in Neighbouring Nations also in Arab and African Nations with Anti-non Secular Constitution have State-sponsored Terrorism) Errors in Texts Causes Terror in Facts.
This Duo-Biographical Post explores how paths of “human-Rationality brings more Contributions and Cures” while “inhumane-Radicality brings more Destructions and Curses” for any Individual & society. How and Why In 75years of Independence of Sibling-Nations one is choosing and Benefiting from more-Rationality, while other is made to choose by coercion undue-influence and get hit by more-Radicality.
Religiousity (Me/My Heaven First) is different from Spirituality. Human-Spirit of Morality (mind)+ Ethicality (Action)+ Fraternity (Group) is= Spirituality (We/Humanity First).
Religious Ideas(Mind) + Practice(Action)+ Culticness(Group) is Religiousity(Me/My Clan/group -First).
Our Accounted-Actions brings Accumulated-Reactions, Thus Karma is not a bitch, “Karma is a Bommerang”, We Reap Tomorrow what we Sow Today. What One does and throws at others today is bound to return home and haunt us tomorrow(Narc-Collapse). Response can be Rewards in case of Positive Humane actions(Kalam) and can be Retards in case of Negative Inhumane actions(Kasab).
Two Personalities related from Indian Sub-Continent, both were Asians, both were from poor families, both of their parents may have had similar levels of educations (both kinds of edu I.e Scientific-Secular & Religious-UnSecular). They had many Commonalities and many Diversities as well.. the commonalities bring people on closer paths ; with diversities they can takeup different pathways. Like men have choice of being Kalam or Kasab, women examples are Kamala-Harris (US-Indian_Indic Ideological Roots) or Kalmee-Seema-Haider (Pak-Indian_Non-Indic Ideological Roots).
This post is a tribute to the great genius APJ Abdul Kalam; a Great Scientist and a Greater Humanitarian, an Inspiration and model-citizen for all Indians in general & Bahujan-Indians in particular.
My personal affinity to him is I have visited his home in Rameshwaram, I lived near his DRDO labs and adored his statues in Bengaluru, read his books and viewed his Speeches. Was an Organiser with a Spewch Contest by his Name in Bangalore. Also have Tamizh Ancestry like him.
Among Few of great Bahujan Inspiring Personalities. Like Bodhidharman, Kamaraja, A.R Rehman, Illaiyaraja, Pa Ranjith, RajniKanth, etc our Bahujan Scientist and Bahujan President APJ Abdul Kalam is a gem and genius.
Kalam was the Nuclear and Rocketing-Man who stood for Scientificity & Secularity. While Kasab was the unclear and Racketeering-man who killed for Religiosity, Virginity & eternity. First one had Thrilled many Indians in life(Ignited-Minds) and blessed by many youngones while the later-one killed many Innocent Indians (Ignited-Hate) and cursed by many people, families & nations. Why?.. They may have had the same instrumental Biological-Genes as south asians, same family circumstances.. then what was the difference in the Environmental Ideological-Memes.
and one got educated & selected as the President of a Nation and served the world Humanity by being a Scientist, Teacher and Empoweror of Values and Principles. He inspired many as an Indian & Bahujan, even now many aspire to be like him transcending religions, Clasteed, Linguistics or politics. Why?
And another got er-ducated and sent to dent public and kill many nationals of neighbouring nations and harmed the Humanity by being a brainwashed, killer, mass murderer and religiously created terrorist. He sinspires many to lookup to Patriots like Major Unnikrishnan(Bengaluru-India) who defended the nation and nationals bravely. His nation honors him, while the criminal who killed him had his narc-nation abandon him & other terrorists as citizens of the country. This is the act of a frauds-nation creating global corruption.
In Indian peninsula also the same Contemporaries.. we got 2 AKs.. Abdul Kalam (AK77) a Missile-man and Ajmal Kasab(AK47) a Terror-man, one man was the pride of a Profession, Home-State and Whole-Nation. Another man the dread of a city, state and global humanity.
From same side of Hindu-Kush mountains. (Hindu Istaraf Kush Hain, aur ustaraf sab jalte hain, Hindu Ke Khushi sain) “HinduKush mountain range“= HappyHindu, The Right right side of which all Hindus are happy the other side of which non-hindus(morally) are jealous of Hindus hence attack and want to convert the Hindus to monopolistic centralized Vaticanism or Meccanism).
Ideological war between Sciences and Religions is happening globally. Indian Scientific-Patriotic ideologies created Kalam and Non-Indian UnScientific-Idiotic_ideologies created Kasab. Both the AK’s family religious-ideology rooted in Mecca. What was the difference that one is buried at a memorial for whole world to see and cherish , while others’ memories are wished to be buried by his own people else they will legally, spiritually and globally perish.
effect of Taqqiya or Deliberate lying to fool the enemy.
Ones life and works are celebrated and brought honor to one Nation and profession, while other’s life and works are denigrated and brought dishonor to his nation and humanity.
So where are we headed? If more people Choose Kalams path of Sciences and Compassion with will to create for his home-land, & without will to procreate with 66 virgins in fantasy land.
Then we will create higher possibilities of science, scientific temper, Conscience and nationa-prosperity and global-peace.
More References:
1. Science = Safety : https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2022/11/22/s226-science-safety-grp/
2. Kalam was endresult a manifestation like a Remedy for Cancer, & Kasab was an infestation like a cancer in society. Prevent Carcinogenic Roots, Promote Anti-Cancer dhoots. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/09/09/s358-cancer-prevention-cures-survival-recovery/
3. Welcome Empathic Skeptic.. our nations development will depend on sharing ratios of Kalams (Scientific Temper): Kasabs (ReligoCultic-Temper). Let’s create more Kalams of India.
Why A.P.J could not have been created elsewhere in the world but in the Indic-South?
Because of the better higher RRR-Ratio in Southern-India. Especially from the Thiruvalluvar inspired Tamizh Nadu. Rascal-Radical_ideologies transformed to Resilient-Rational_Ideologies. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2022/08/18/s185-rrr-ratio-the-rama-ragu-ravana-ratio-of-society/
He was a visionary with mission 2020. He wanted to be remembered as a teacher for the welfare of Students. He may have liked Idea of Project InSAAF for Indian Students Safety & Welfare. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/07/13/s318-project_insaf-4-students-welfare-pan-_-i-ndian-n-ational-s-tudents-a-ssociations-f-ederation-2023/
Confidence and hard_work is the best medicine to kill the disease called failure lt will make u a successfull person
…..APJ ABDUL KALAM🙏🙏
Conclusion: Both Men were born in similar conditions of poor vulnerable homes from same religion, yet different nations and ideological places, Both Received Educations but..
one received only Cultic-Education without Rational-education that kept me-first thinking, it gave him head of lies/ice (dont think by own intellect) and hands of fire (only act as told by cult leader). And you will get eternal-heaven with 72 virgins and more materialistic Freebies, facilities & amenities for your life. Just sacrifice ur life for the religious-war. High Materialistic :Spiritualistic Ratio in Education.
The other received Religious Education, Moral-education, Community Education in his city, and excellent Scientific-Technical Education from Madras University. From the Egalitarians_Triangle Zone in India. Thus this was with education of culture, celibacy, humanity, excellence & music and many more Human-Value based education. This leat to We-First thinking as a DRDO Defence Science Organization. It set him on developing Head of truths/Science (do think with own faculties) and Wings of Fire (do act to elevate self, nation and humanity).
Depends on the Type of Education received.
The Materialistic : Spiritualistic Ratio of the education..
If more Materialistic it leads to More Me-First thinking and more Spiritualistic education is more We Thinking..
Why India or Hindus or Indus-ism (Hinduism+Jainism+Sikhism+Buddhism) is Under attack since Birth of Abraharmical Religions or even Marxist Anti-religious Ideologies..? The Key is India was the Most Prosperous Land and nation of the ancient world and all other civilizations wanted to plunder its riches while converting and enslaving for colonialism which was successful until 1947 or 1950. the Key Words are Ghazwe-hind & British-india.
https://wikiislam.net/wiki/Ghazwa-e-hind_(the_Conquest_of_India)
https://www.worldhistory.org/article/2025/the-portuguese-conquest-of-india/
Facts of Case and Facts of the Cause (Root Causes) Relationship. Inquiry into the Use, Misuse and Abuse of legal processes, places and professionals.
There is a Spectrum of Justice between Whites of Justices and the Blacks of InJustices. There is a grey spectral area of Un-justices.
How in a Rule-OF-Law the Tool of Law like Complaint and Case-Filing can be used to do good for citizens & families as well-intended and also can be Used to do harm ill-intended by Nautyzens and their Gangs.
What is the Facts of the Case?
Facts of the ‘Cause’?
False cases for Malicious-Proceedings Vs True verdicts of Genuine-Proceedings.
For more Legal-Justice Info.. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/08/22/s343-swot-analysis-of-justice-systems-for-just_india-2030/
It’s not only issue of married it’s also the unmarried.
The Issue of injustice needs to be overcome by Fraternity and Just-Brotherhoods of Manavamitras.
S87: Project MANava_Mitras: Connect Heart2Heart for Universal Brotherhood & Fraternity Since 2021. Awareness, Alertness & Altruism.
And Justice can be done only when Truths are Recognized and Honored. How to seek, See and Speak the truths?
S317: Your “Right to upRight_Education” & Right2 prevent Wrong_Education (i.e Indoctrination by Cult-ists).
Indian Lawyers-Kitchen has many special menu items like
1. For chats there is Bail-Puri.
2. Salad Bar Associaters have cooking without F.I.Re.
2. Sa-Mosa masala.
3. Cut-le(g)t Masala.
4. Brain Bheja fry
5. Cinammon cake with Summons sauce.
6. Instead of Italian-Pizza one can get Judicial-sazza.
7. Bread Pakoda and Dreaded Criminal Pakdo.
8. Kothu Parota at Courtu_pillar-ota without oota. For many Only Chombu no lota here.
9.
Our Lives I.e My/Your-Life is a Systemic_Super_Game of subsystemic-micro_games Played between different Groups as Teams and Domains as Playgrounds. Like the digito_physical-reality is created by dynamics of the EMF-(Electro-Magnetic Field) which is governed by Rules and EM-Spectrum. similarly analogo_social-realities is created by dynamics of the SMF– ‘sElectro-Maritalic Field’. (Social-Magnetic Field is driven by Ideological-Polarities in the Ideological_Spectrums)
And Family-Making is a game too & Family_Unit replications are also having some rules
Mote about maritalogy here: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2021/02/27/better-halves-equal-halves-equitable-halves-bitter-halves/
Reasons Why Russian Premier_Putin & Chinese Premier_Xi Stayed away from the G20 Summit at. DharmaKarma begets DharmaKshema, adharmaKarma begets CharmaPrema. Democratic_Bharath.?
Real Stories similar to Indian Mythology of Ramayana 1.0 (Journey of Rama; a Son, Prince, Heir, Brother, Husband, friend, fighter & leader) and Epic of Mahabharat 1.0 (Journey of empires/nations in the hands of two groups of Conflicting-cousins of a clan, (Tor)mentored by Shakuni and mentored by Jagadguru Krishna (King of Dwarka) in the middle of Kurukhetra(War/Life) to hopeless & Stateless Prince and cousin Arjuna of Pandavas.
Keywords: DRamayana 3.0, MohaBharat 3.0 in India2020. NayaBharat Vs MayaBharat (NewIndia Vs DarkIndia).
#Sita-Ram to Ravana-Surpanakha Spousal-Spectrum.
In Ramayana 1.0 @ Dharmakshetra_BharathaKandaKambudeepam, Sita was a Wife-by-law,
While in Dramayana 3.0 Surpanakha under mask of Sita are just in Wife-In-law not in Truth.
Maha-Brats & Dramayanas: Ramayana version 3.0; How families have re_moved from Maha-Bharata’s “Kurukshetra war” between Cousins for Power, Property & Rule over People to Griha-Bharat’s “Courtu-Kshetra Wars” between ex-Spouses for alimony-property of Groom & Hubbys-Parents (99% wives initiated legal abuse) and Child-custody (99% Hubby-side counter case for his childs right to access father). Its Like Rama 3.0 in C.E 2020 being falsely accused by Sitarpanakha and also by his twin sons Lusta and Krusha (Not Lova-Kusha) at Lankapuri Family Courts after eloping with paramour Ravana 3.0 from Ayodhya 2020 .
The Evolution of Family-Drynamics in India from old Rama-Yana means Rama’s (an Indian Prince) Prayana (Journey). How to create Modern Ravanas, Kutumbakaranas and other Woka-suras (Devilish Wokes).
We study here From Old_Ramayana 1.0 to current_Dramayanas 3.0 to Future_Dharmayana 4.0 (India’s Re Golden age the Amrut Kal of Satya-Yuga). From Irrational_Immoral Family-Biases to Rationo_Ethical Family Basis.
Encoding Base_Languages like (Latin, Greek, Sanskrit, Arabic, Tamizh, Kannada..etc) are Mediums (tools),
and what matters more to human progress is the Matter-Materials (Content) encoded with these mediums eg.(Tamizh-Thirukural, Greek-Republic..etc)
and also the Modes (Communications-Connects) eg. (Greek-Academia, Tamizh-Palikudam, Sanskrit-Gurukul..etc ) by which the contents with contexts are transmitted with amendments to next generations with good-faith & intent of goodwill.
What United India and Divya_Bharath are more than nation is the cultural ideal principles and Moral Human Values.
These maybe linked to encoding of ethics and morality in the epics such as Ramayana and Mahabharath.
But unfortunately the Invasions of GreecoRoman-Chrislamutva and the left behind agencies of Educational Systems (Malgudi Days Convents) have and are eroding the Indic_Human Family & Community Values and leading to more Dramayana and GrihaBharat wars between communities.
Instead of More Noble Principled characters we are having more people following path of Kaikesi and creating her children like Ravanas and Shurpanakas with no boundaries or limits to material-greed & lust for power and control over others.
In modern Dramayana many men like the young unexplored & inexperienced Ramas, Bharatas and Lakshmanas are Honey Trapped by Shurpanakhas or Sitarphanakhas (Hybrids 50:50) in form of narc-women (Unfit due to toxic character-traits of Lower_Lustiness and Selfish_Greed to be rightly compatible moral-Wifes, Supportive-sisters nor Moralizing-Mothers) and Sitas being trapped by Ravana in form of narc-men(Unfit to be moral-Husbands/Bros/Friends/Fathers). The Normal State of Society depends on Rama(+ve) 5%: Ramana(0) 90%: Ravana(-ve) 5%.
We see Revenge of D.Rama where the exiled sons and daughter-inlaw dont get exiled but instead, when having a chance and choice exile to abandon & cast out their Aged senile Parents (Dasarath_Kaikesi etc, ShahJahan, Sudhodhana etc), out onto streets or senior homes or worst criminally try homicide at home.
During Ancient times People-Manufacturing towns and societies had higher Sita: Shurpanakaha Ratio, in modern times the Shurpanaka: Sita Ratio in women population is Higher. More number of Shurpanka like women are being created by Mother in Laws like Kaikesi, and less Sita like women are being created by current generation similarly Also Ravana:Rama Ratio Higher too.. this is reason we see many crimes of Rape cases (Ravanas) and False Rape Honey-Trap cases (Shurpanakas).
We see Ramayana may end in the war of Lanka between Rama and Ravana.. but where are its roots.. to see who are the underlying root causes that got two sons of India-Lanka fighting is due to their Mothers with similar sounding names Kaikeyi and Kaikesi they are the Kai (Hands in Tamizh) they are the hands that created the situation for Ramayana.. Do note the Power of mothers in kids life they can create or destroy good societies.
Why is it? Tried to understand & decode the ‘Bharatayana‘.. the Prayana or journey of Nava_Bharath the New_India.
Author Born in 1980s.. shares perspectives of being from the mid of 75years. How Human-Families have moved from Romayana 1.0 (Hunter-Gatherers_Nomadic Romer Early humans) GRamayana 2.0 (Early agri-town dwellers and settlers) Ramayana 3.0 (Ethical Civilizers with developed ideals and moral values), Grihayana 4.0 (focused on Grihastas or Family-Nation Building), Dramayana 5.0 (2023) (modern focus on individuality, cultity, materiality, sexuality & supremality.)
We are at crossroads from here the roads may seem splitting from year 2024 either we head towards Bharat_Dharmayana (Towards Better-India with more love, respect, justice, empathy, morality and ethical humane spiritual values) by Fraternity Or Fragmentality of Bharat_Adharmayana 6.B(Towards Bitter-Indias with hatred, doubt, injustice, psychopathy, immorality and criminal inhumane material_values).
Corrective Purushartas of Artha, Karma, Dharma and Moksha. (Material-Accumulation, Sense-Work Enjoyment, Righteous-Duty and Spiritual-liberation). In one word its ‘Mokshayana‘ Journey of Liberation.
Have been corrupted to the modern pursuit of Swartha, KruKama, Adharama and Mosha. (Selfishness, Hyper-Sexuality, Immorality and Fraudism). This is human Mooshikayana (Rat-Race) journey of Enslavement.
The author has seen friends with such Marital Sequences: In 2013, 1 month of courtship (online @Bharat Matrimony), later 1 day of wedding extends to 1 year of marital-relationship (@HubbyOwnedHome & new caddie & kiddy) till 2014, 2 years of hardship in marriage (MIL tookback the parental control of Daughter’s Mind, Finances & theNewborn Kid. @HerNarcParents’s Home in same city (MIL is her own home-maker but other’s Home-Breaker) (fake cases filed by Wife in 2016), 7years of Itch & Court-Relationship (@ Bangalore Criminal & Family Courts(anyaya-degulas) since Dec 2016) with Wife-In-Law who is falsely & illegally using legal-claws intented for innocent women misused by narc-women, still ongoin halfway in 2023). Many frauded families like us, We mourn the death of socially Ex-wifes and but Wife-in-laws (narcly seperated spouses) who are intellectually brainwashed & killed by their Mother’s Slave-Daughters. So that Narc-‘Grand’mothers (Queen-Narcs) can entrap their Son-inlaws & familes by sending trojan horses or vishkanyas of enslaved Scapegoat or golden child who are Next in line as Narc-Princess Daughters. After child birth pull back the Wife formed trojan-horse with their new born children to take them both under their full mind control and dominion. Into their Narc-Cultic Isolation through Spousal & Parental Alienation, Isolation & Emotional Tyranny.
Differences between a true-wife/Spouse, a False-Wife/Spouse and a Wife-in-law. Everyone knows mother-in law(MIL), Father, Brother, and sister in laws. But due to modern Dramayana there are many Wife-in-laws or Wife-by-law who have husband/spouse in law who may have taken them in their homes assuming them to be wife-by-love without checking their worth (improper Recruitment process and decision)
A true wife/spouse is one who accepts the responsibilities of being a spouse and marrying into the family of the other spouse to serve her needs as well as needs of the marital-house.
A false case wife is one who marries to gain social status of married women with mangal sutra, bangles, thilak, property share, control over kids, opportunities to have and legitimize extra marital kids of ex-lovers by engaging husband and his family in false & faked cases like Domestic Violence, 498 Dowry, marital rape, adultry Maintenance Alimony..etc
Who is a Wife-in-law or Spouse in law. ??
A ‘Wife-In-Law‘ (WIL) is like a runaway bride, after marriage and kid she is a runaway deserter of house & spouse and also a parental abductor, alienator & AbUser of kids, who has for her own selfish and narcish(MILs) wishes, whims & narcies, without a reasonable cause or with a falsified excuse (mostly that hubby & family is bad and abusive(in truth many acts its defensive-expression of hubby in the face of Spousal-agression and covert manipulation by wife and in laws for husbands property, show of legal power & false prestige & ego based abuse). The ex-wife as per narc-mothers decision & instructions has covertly(with jewellery transferred by MIL) or overtly (after provoking a scene and creating a fake preplanned & staged drama) left and abandoned her legal marital-house (Husband and Inlaws place) or to hide her malice is demanding for keeping a separate home with maintenance by hubby, falsely accusing the Husband or Inlaws of wrongdoings (which may be in first place planned & triggered by her and her family only by provocations of verbal or intimidations of emotional abuse). A Wife in law makes a Hubby in Loss with FEAR Factors (Reduces Food, Exercise, Association-Friends & Rest-Relaxation).
How to start a fight on baseless grounds and project it by shifting blame on the Targetted Victim(Spouse or Harrassed Husband).?
Honest Hardworking Husband (HHH) returns home at night after work mentally and physically exhausted & tired. A ambushing awaiting Wife who is at home on maternity leave, Knows by experience it’s best time to create a scene and torture the unaware husband. She complaints that so many bad things happened to her.. the unaware-husband listens and empathizes patiently to resolve concerns. The preplanned wife escalates the situation by emotional manipulation and blackmailing. The hubby is confused, gaslighted and without energy or sleepless.. the quarrel is moved by the well home rested wife in order to create sleeplessness and sleep deprived torture to the office going hubby.
Useful Resources that can help in this Situations:
1. Awareness & Support group: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2021/12/02/s87-project-manav_mitras-connect-heart2heart-for-universal-brotherhood-fraternal-culture-friendships-group-prasad/
2. How to help families and aggrieved men to recovery: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2022/05/05/s130-marrier-protection-act-2030-proposed-act-for-safer-indian-marriages-as-per-ucc/
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For healing from narc abuse one needs to improve the N.E.A.R Factors: 1. Nutrition (Balancing Diet), 2. Exercise and Exorcises (Yoga or Walk activity), 3. AdWisers Associations(Good Community-company) & 4. Rest-Recovery(Sleep-Meditations).
Why the Brit-created Indian Judicial System is like the Court system of the blind Nepo-king Dritarastra of Hasty-inapur of Epic Mahabharata.?
S343: SWOT of Justice Systems for Justier_India @2030.
What’s needed to change the system to created a Behtar-Bharata i.e a Better India is a Rational UCC..
S325: Rational UCC Vs Biased UCC: Citizen’s Call2Action for Better Uniform Civil Code.
Literature plays an important role in showcasing culture & creating futuro-CULTures. For eg. How lovers are encoded by nature and nurture of Abhigyan-Shakuntala, Romeo-Juliet, Sadma and Heer Ranjha of Bollywood, Troy & Ramayana, Laila-Majnu and Mughaleazam(Salim-Anarkali). Of Sparta300 and Mahabharata, of Sermon at Mount by Jesus(Gita-Verses) and Sermon at Horses_Mount by Krishna(Bible Verses). Prince Sidhartha-Yashodhara & Rahula from kala_griha-entrapment towards enchantment and Enlightement by Dhamma-path. Sermon st the deer park and following Bodhi-Mission for freeing the world from misery of Maya-Materialistic_Illusions.
How to check and detect Trye-Victims/Aggrieved & Fake-Victims/False-Claimers..?
Here is a way ro see Victimology or Victim-Types: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/07/09/s314-types-of-victimhoods-1-real-victims-innocent-abused-vs-2-fake-victims-narc-abusers/
The root of our Children are the parents. Thus the root of evil malicious people are faulty-parenting.
The Situation is such that many After Independence & Constitution the 1st Generation Indians 1950s to 70s borns could successfully pair and have kids, the next 2nd gen 1980s to 2000 Born who married in 2010s to 2020s are facing the heat of Problematic new laws and cultural confusions. Thus the next gen 1990s to 2010 borns who are becoming about 30years now are uncertain and fearful of trusting the unjudicial_marital Systems. What Japan and China is facing maritally we may facing in due course. How do we escape and protect families & society from this issue of Trust-Deficit & higher Criminally-Deviant Youth?
Ravana may have been deheaded by Ram.. but Ravana’s character trait as a malignant narcissist is decoded by Dr. Ramani Durvasula (a Sri Lankan Coincidently). To understand and know more about Ravana-Ramani link see videos below.
#NarcStrike is better as in today’s narc-manipulated society & life, the shape shifting shrewd-shurpanakhas for marriage take the form of Sincere-Sitas, as they are created and empowered by systems by Modern_Ravanas (are Narc Father in laws Femi_Janaka) And Dark-Ravani (Narc_Mother-In laws).
The Lanka(Narc Ruled Place) isnt far from Ayodhya anymore it has come near Ayodhya(Grooms well ruled Place) its Janakapuri (Narc BridesPlace) itself.
Its Lankapuri where the “Sitarpanakhas” (Hybrids of Sita and Shurpankha) return to the Narc-parents and are kept hostage for their children, money and service to them. These children Lusta and Kusthas are held hostage by their narc-grandparents by control of their minds & supply of money and addictive-isolative stuffs.
modern Grihabharat its not only Innocent young boys like Abhimanyus caught in Chakravyuh but really even great warriors like Arjuna or Strategists Krishna cant escape the *Chakravyuh- trap* of the modern Narcs.
signs of Narc Parental- Alienation seen in his family life. its sad he played Krishna in Mahabharat but is caught by Surpanakha instead of radha or rukmini or shubhadra. This is Mohabharat 3.0. Where Indian-Shaitani_Sitas(By Choice) (Sanatani-Sitas By chance) may marry Rave-party Ravana due to their bigger wealth and bigger-bodyparts and also Ramas and Arjunas may marry Shurpankahas and Menakhas who can take false personas by use of facial Make-up, Silicone- Tone-up and digital fake-up. Marriers Beware of Marital Frauds.
https://www.ndtv.com/india-news/allegations-left-daughters-traumatised-mahabharat-actor-nitish-bharadwaj-bureaucrat-wife-smita-bharadwaj-5088253
In MohaBharath 3.0: a new trend is Sitas get marries Ravanas instead of Ramas & Krishnas by Shurpanakhas.. and Shikandis can honeytrap Bhishmas. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/09/11/s362-modern-dramayanas-maha_haaraths-how-indian-society-is-changing-sinsce-1950-to-2025-75-years-of-constitution/
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