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How Indian Youth and Public is being Dumbed down unduely by Socio-Politic-Religio & Cultural and Ideologic-Technological Influences? The imminent foreseeable Threats To India’s Future Youth and Society.
The Lack of Transparent-support, unbiased-guidance and Rationo-ethical_peerhood is leading to more Undue-Targeting, Undue-Influencing & Undue Advantage.
The Quadrinity (Four Factorial) of any Contract or Relationship.
1. Free-Will of People, Is there any free-will? As we are all pre-conditioned by our parents Gene’s and Present-conditioned by our environments Memes.
Our life is dependent heavily on our Peoples Clan & Allies of clan & Rivals of Clan (Genes & Capital), Places CPS Location(Cosmic Positioning System), Periods Contemporary Status of the world, Plans the Ideologies influencing the people, Processes in place like Constitution, Corrections and Corruptions, Planets ecology, Progress the quality, quantity and quantum of positive changemakers in action. All these can take one towards truly Free-Will of “Peer-Paradise” or lack of these can move one towards Free-ill of “Poor-MalaDies.”
2. Fair-Choice/Chance in the non Monopolyistic and Pro-Choices marketplace or ecosystem. Freedom and liberty is related to citizens being provided enough fair-choices (Rational Restrictions (Rules-Regulations) and empathic provisions. Also equal shared equanimous opportunity or fair-chances at making those choices.
3. Informed-Consent is when all the critical terms and conditions are explicitly stated and agreed with all relevant information.
4. Systemic & Agentic Synced performances and troubleshooting support of the contacts as per the said and unsaid Terms & Conditions of All-Contracts .
Premise: Equally important to What(IQ) we think/say/do is HOW(EQ) we say and with Whom(SQ) we say it too.. Logos, Ethos & Pathos of Life-Deals.
Tamasoma Jyothirgamaya.
From Darkness to Light.
Bayaoma Dhairyamgamaya.
From Fear to Courage..
Durgunoma Sadgungamaya..
From Wrong qualities(Vices) to the right qualities(Virtues)…
Durjanoma Sathjangamaya.
From the Evil-associates to the Divine-people.
Mayaoma Satchitananda gamaya..
From illusion to the ultimate divine bliss. -GuRuPanishad.
More awareness and proactivness on: How to reduce Genders-abuse, gender-enemity & genders-Wars and bring more genders-equanimity & peace..
Genders-Enemity or Gender-Equanimity & Gender-AMity how do we choose?
Note: these are written with real observations and not by imagination. Is Sarcastic and Satiric. As naturally a Human is born as a plain slate maybe with some genetic pre-coded. But most of the parento-social environment creates the bias, base or basis in a child or human. So hate, fear or love in Society is created by many factors this post explores these.
Contents:
1. Definitions of Mis-Groupic and Phil-Groupic.
2. Creating Misandry & Misogyny leading to more Gender-Conflicts, Crimes and Wars.
3. Creating PhilAndry & PhiloGyny leading to more Gender-Harmony, Chimes & inter-group love.
1. Definitions:
Mis-Groupic is a hate (Fear, Dislike & Anger) for members of a particular group.
Eg. Misandry is dislike and hate towards men or any human exuding masculinity(May be Implicit or expressed). Misogny is hate for women or feminity, Misotranny is hate for transgender or trannity. Mis-classtey a dislike/hate for a particular classteoureed(Class+Caste+Color+Creed) of people. MisoReligionic Is hate for religions..
Phil-Groupic is love (Trust, like & Respect) for members of a particular group.
Eg. Phil-andry is like and love towards men or any human exuding masculinity(May be Implicit or expressed). Misogny is love for women or feminity, Misotranny is love for transgender or trannity. Philo-classtey is love for a particular (Class, Caste, Color or Creed). Philo-Equanimity is love for equanimity, equality and gender-peace.
Genders-Diversity Vs few Gender-Dominancy. Gendered Professions like Army, Manual Scavenging, Driving, Auto-mechanic, preist-ing, illegal terrorism, alcohol & drug abuse and sex-trafficking.. etc is dominated by one gender where as Nursing, Gynaecology, school Teaching, flower ladies, brothels-prostitution, girl- trans child trafficking, begging. etc is dominated by other genders..
2. Creating Misandry & Misogyny(Misgroupy) leading to more Gender-Conflicts, Crimes and Wars. How to create a Fatherless or parentsless miso-family (dislike or hate for family) Society?
1. When Kid is born gauge ‘its’ or ‘hisr’ Gender, Color, Caste. etc and treat or name it with biases of Religion (name), Classte(surname) and Race(placename) etc from on that. Take undue advantage of the Matrilineal-Advantage and seperate kid from the kids father & the paternal family. Or if kid is born out of wedlock like teenage sex-lust affairs, prostitution, rape or surrogacy then abandon it, give unwanted or unplanned child up for adoption or state/government care homes.
2. When going to a maternity hospital try to see that the doctor & management is from your particular in-group (Classte, gender, or religious identity etc) and at any cost avoid the non in-group other community groups. Eg. +Ve Bias towards SameGender-Doctors & Healthcare professionals thus weedout the Out-group people by de-preferrring. So that they can give u sex determination and tell childs gender and if needed terminate it and create skewed gender ratio. https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2019/08/your-health-care-in-womens-hands.html
3. In Birth certificate if born in group with privileged classtey names continue the classtiness in use of surname. Dont give father’s name in birth certificate.. if child is from sperm donor, illegal conception or born of rape or to many father’s. This will devalue, undermine and unhealthily idea of fatherhood in the child’s life, family or society.
4. In School put the kid in a gender-biased or classte-religion biased schools run by politicians or religionists, where the school structure and human resource is dominated (Quantitative(numbers) or qualitative(power) or both) by a particular gender/identity/ideology. Eg. Recruit 90-100% of teachers/lecturers of a particular gender this would minimize diversity & inclusion also the value of other genders in childs education. Thus we successfully create a gender-power imbalance.
Do not include fathers name or number in th records so that the power, control and dominance of one gender is seen upon the childs life, so child can be under totalitarian control of parent of one gender and develop hate towards the other parent, gamily and targetted-gender.
5. In College/academia.
6. In Family & Relativehood.
7. In neighbhourhood.
8. In Office/workplace.
9. In Spiritual or worship place.
10. In public or street
11. In Government (Legis,Judis & Executive) or global relations.
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3. Creating PhilAndry & PhiloGyny leading to more Gender-Harmony, Chimes & inter-group love.
Look at all genders equally by encouraging inclusive and real-progressive ideologies. And not psuedo-progressive gender-biased, or Group-Biased logic and thinking.
Some Children are neglected & abused by their own parents and associated systems for their own selfish interests of gaining money or fame. Need to stop this exploitation of gendered-abilities. For eg male brain and bodies are due to hunter gathering times evolved for better spatial and orientation note most fast car drivers are men even if women compete they may do so if higher testosterone im blood. Hormones and neural networks gives abilities. This is being abused by Parents like below lead to child at risk.
How our patriots unite Indians by CommUnification and how the non-patriots, traitors & Anti-Indians (Supremacists of Chinese, Mid-East, Europeans, etc) divide India by CommunaLIEzation? For Vested interests in Global Geo-Religio_Politics.
KeyConcepts: Othering/Bothering Vs Brothering, Ferocity Vs Fraternity. Arbitrary-biased LIedeologies Vs Rationality-based Stridedeologies.
In India’s, any group’s, any Family’, your and our Futures; whether we have more Failures or Success depend on yOur support to forces that CommunaLize (Divide÷ and -Disintegrate) or CommUnify (Unite+ & Integrate♡) us. To know the difference between these 2 forces read this exposition.
Force that CommUnify is when the Central idea is to unite or unify around a focus based on Human Social values or National interests. Example a group for people interested in subject and sharing about Patriotism, Arts, Science or Education. Or communifying students or colleagues on a common path and vehicle taking us towards fundamental duties of our nation (Article 51_A CoI).
Effect of CommUnification is Harmonious Collaborative progressive collectives, systems & outcomes for Social-Peace.
Communalize is when the central idea is identity-biased were one is labelled by their religious ideology Sectarianism, color of skin(Colorism), ethnicity of race/face, class or caste identity. Where the gatekeepers allow their implicit-biases in choosing the persons to be let in the group.
Effect of CommunaliZation is Polarized Conflictivr Die/regressive collectives, systems & outcomes for Social-Disharmony.
The phenomenon at work in both and many related cases is this.
Are you Facing a Tough-Relationship??, Pause the cribbing (oral-complaining) to near/Dearones and start de-scribbing (docuplaining) with the clear-ones.
Many only speak about Friendship, there is even a day to recognize and celebrate it. FRIENDSHIP DAY, but what is less recognized is every coin has 3 sides and not just one. When is Relationships Day.??
There are 3 types of relationships (Friendship(+ve), Neutralship(0) & Enemyship(-ve).
And the relationships evolutes to 3 different paths. Friendships make our life easier and otherships makes our life complexier and complicating.
It can be interconnected but it takes efforts and events to interchange the lanes in life.
1. Path of Neutralship(0). Here the way is smooth and plain there is no Ups or Downs. Like a flat road. The 3 phases in it to Introduce, Share Info, have a working relationship of stasis & proximity without either enemity(-ve) or amity(+ve). There is neutrality. Path of Co-Trailers..
2. Path of Friendship(+ve). There is a good exchange of Spare (Time & Resources), Care (Attention-Emotions) & Share (Power, Place, Info, Events & Experiences). External factors strengthen the bonds like Scares & Threats to the collective peace and connect resources, Care for each others life & wellbeing, & Friends share many things like visions, purpose, events and good feelings in the relationship.
The 4 phases of Friendships are “SORCE” of love. I.e Socialize, Organize, Revalue, CommUnify and Empower. There is a buildup of helpful experiences, years of trust, respect and loyality-love for each other with deep bonding and positve exchanges. Mutual-Trust improves and collective growth and excellence happens.
Path of Complementing/Cooperating-trailers.(on the Life-Trails) Friendship is a simple interest, Enemyship is complicative phenomenon.
Presence, Attention, Trust & Honor (PATHway) of Love and Friendship is Founded on fairness, Justice and empathy.
3. Path of Enemyship(-ve). There is a decline of bonding with seperation, mistrust, miscommunications, misjudgments, negative emotions of fear, anger and hate. Scare, Dare, Snare and Stare tactics are used.
The 3 phases of which may be IDDiotic.. Idealize, Devalue and Discard.. more phases are offend, oppress, de-power, destroy. Path of Competing/Conflicting Trailers. Shaming, victim-blaming, defaming, character-assasination, dis/mis informing, manipulation, mis/mal-guiding, snitching, targeting, cheating, frauding, biasing, malicious avoidance, ignoring, neglecting, gaslighting, Discriminating, false-complaining, demeaning, gossiping, backstabbing, mobbing, ragging, harassing, abusing(verbal, physical & ideological), hurting, cutting, lying, criminalizing, murdering(Aftab-Delhi Murders) and killing.
Do analyse your relationships in life one may see it evolves in these 3 paths of life.
Any more paths do let us know and explore and discover together.
Thanks and do share if you find it of value.. as friends we set the trends.
Your Mitram-mitra Prasad.
We have formed focus groups and communities to share and amplify our interests and Fraternity.
Ans: Many Youth are on paths of toxicity and irrationality due to avidya (Ignorance) and adharma (Immorality) and can improve by listening and extracting value from Vivekananda’s message to the Youth of India.#ViVeKa-Method/Model of Life.
#Doctrine Of HigherDiscretion I.e #UpaVivekaSidanta. #Hitha-Vivekam (Beneficial-Discretion). Viveka is not Discrimination (DurBeda) but it is Discretion (Su-Viveka). Also there exists a Spectrum between Discrimination (Negative-Hurting) to Discretion (Positive-Helping).
Is your Viveka Ur power of discrimination or Discretion?.. Viveka is it being misattributed by faulty English translations.
Q: What’s Distinction between Discrimination (Fake-Viveka) & Discretion (True-Viveka)?
Both are forms of diffrentiation, difference is Discrimination is irrational, baseless and more biasful (@Whims and fancies of a tyrant or a dominant group) , while Discretion is rational, bias-less and more basis full (@needs and fairness of empaths and Egalitarian groups).
How to Go from Right Facts to Fair_Acts to Helpful_Impacts? Swami Viveka teaches us How.. through service dedicated to the nation Connecting Dots of Spirituality, Nationalism & Socialism.
“Arise, Awake and Stop not until the goal is reached“. said Swami Vivekananda the Youth Icon Of India since year 1893 the ripples of claps from the religious parliament at New York.. that is 120+yrs of waves of that Speech and Swamijis work have been transforming many lives and institutions.
In an aligned spirit Let me request you to scroll, read and stop not until the end of post is reached. What good can it do reading this today on National Youth day 2023?.. Ans: Its to highlight the Youthful Facts of Swamiji, his Soulful acts and the impacts it has around us and how it influenced many & me too personally, this expressed in just three “Steps of Vi- Ve- Ka.”
‘Viveka‘ in Indic languages means ‘Discretion‘, Intellect or Intelligence.. I can say that With the Vivekalike that of Vivekananda “Vee-Vake-up” to Ananda or Bliss.
In any subject the power/practice of discretion (different from discrimination that supremacism likes to mislabel it) or distinctions between things is essential to deeper understanding, be it Scientific-discretion (Rationality), Artistic-discretion (Artistry), Judicial-Discretion (Judiciary) or Civic-Discretion (Citizenry).
This critical faculty of Logical-Discretion (not Irrational-Discrimination) is what distinguishes us the homo-sapiens with ‘6th sense‘ I.e a more capable power among the animal kingdom. This power gives us the ability to say which is which.. eg. Which idea is helping and which is hurting, which tool is more useful and which is lesser useful to a given task. This is not to destabilize but to optimize our lives and society.
Below is what can make us better humans Vi-Ve-Ka (Vidya,Veeram, Kartavyam) (Education, Courage & Moral Duty).
Vi-Ve-Ka = Vidya +VeraVegam + Kar(tav)yam.
Let’s now together Introspect and define Vi-Ve-Ka and we find it also relatable to the 3 phases of Swami ViVeKananda’s Life.
1. ‘Vi-step’ 1st Phase of Vishaya (Facts) (Years 1863-1881) Vidya (Education), Vigour(Energy), Vichara(Thinking), Vishala(Vastness), Vidya(education) and Vinamrata(Humility-Discipline) of the young Narendranath at Kolkata in his founding childhood years.
He was a very inquisitive and enquiring young child full of curiosity and compassion. He was on a Quest of inquiry (Vichara Vimarshane) into many questions of life and society. This vigour of questioning of vishaya facts lead him to question his spiritual guru Sri Ramakrishna and get initiated into the monastic life as Vivekananda. Which led to the 2nd phase of speedy dedicated acts.
2. ‘Ve-step’ the 2nd-Phase of Ve-ga (Speed/Acts) (Yrs. 1881-1892), This phase with speed and force he set-out on a journey across the nation from the north to southern tip of The Indian peninsula, to Kanyakumari and and dint stop where the land stopped he swam across the waters of Indian Ocean to the Vivekananda-Rock to look at the mother land and meditate on his journey and the future. Here he saw envisioned and set out planning his mission of life. This is his phase of Which moved on to the 3rd most brilliant phase of Impacts.
3. ‘Ka’ the 3rd phase of Kartavya/Karma Yoga (Duty-Impact) (Yr.1893-1902) & Karmaphala Beyond till date. Here he set out on the most extraordinary journey across the space and time.. from Kanyakumari to Chicago to Colombo to Almora and more.. The Ripples he created as a spiritual-citizen has turned to great waves for our nation.
Impact-1: In this journey his first major impact was when he met JN Tata the worlds most philanthropic personality of the Century ($102 billion donation), where he impacted Tata in the creation of India’s best Institute of research 110+ years back the Indian Institute of Science (Mother/Father of IITs) fondly called by Bengalurean localites by the founder’s name as the ‘Tata-Institute‘. His letter is also a testimonial fact to Swami Vivekananda’s acts & Impact on J.N. Tata sourced from Tatas Company website.
Impact2– Starting of the Ramakrishna Mission. Associating with greats like sister nivedita and other brothers of mission.
Impact3– Founding of Belur Math at Kolkata.
Impact4:Egalitarian Concept of ‘Daridra Narayana’. TREATING the Poor, Marginalized, Downdrodden, suppressed, oppressed and depressed classte as equally divine, godly and respecting them spiritually-honorable and valuable. Few ideas may have collaborated with Dr.Ambedkars Egalitarian Ideas if there may have been a chance meetup with like J.N Tata on the ship. There is a correlation similarity between Ambedkar and Vi-Ve-Ka that slogan of educate(Vidya), agitate(Veeram) and organize(Kartavyam) https://www.speakingtree.in/blog/when-swami-vivekananda-destroyed-the-caste-system
Impact4– Inspired & Inspiring many Indians including Subhash Chandra Bose (INA) , JN Tata(IISc), Gandhi, Tagore, Jayalalitha, Anna Hazare (Anti Corruption, Jan Lok Pal), etc
“Expansion is Life, Contraction is Death” – Swami Vivekananda.
Thus swami ‘Vi-Ve-Ka‘-ananda was a youth icon of the Nation who lived his initiated-name sharing viveka of Vidya(Wisdom), Veerya(Valour) & KarmaNistata (Dedicated Service).
May we all be inspired by his message and works to get to the Facts, convert it to dedicated Acts and create positive Impacts in our lives and nation as Patriots for a Prabuddha-Bharat (Awakened-India 2030) as is the vision of Swami Vivekananda.
Bharat Mata Ki Jai, (Glory be to Mother India)
Bharatiya Bhaiya (Vivekananda) ki Jai, (Glory to Brother Vivekananda)
Bharatiya janta ki Jai. (Glory to all Indian Citizens).
One line Summary:
Vivekananda’s life teaches us the Attainment of Rationalness Vivekatva.. ViVeKa= Vishaya/Vidya + Veeram/Vegam + Karya/Kartavyam.
Better Discretion can be Achieved by Facts by Education + Acts with Courage + Impacts by our Duty.
Thanks for reading this Tributeto the great true Indian Patriot Swami Vivekananda our Indian Youth Icon written on National Youth Day Jan12 2023.
Self-Declarations:
I am inspired and impacted by my earliest by yoga classes at Vivekananda Ashram at Ulsooru Bengaluru. that I started(in 2001) by reference from my 12th std IIT-coaching classmate and friend Vivek from Viveknagar Bengaluru. After 3 months of Yoga, I did a 3 day spiritual retreat at RIMSE Mysuru(2006), then I used to join in at Vivekananda Study Circle at Indian Institute of Science reading Swamiji’s books and attending lectures at Ramakrishna Ashram Basavangudi. My parents health has been benefitted by Nature retreat at SVYASA Bengaluru, we as family have Visited major places in Swami Vivekananda’s Journeys at Kolkatta and Kanyakumari. I am blessed to have this association of the paths, principles, people and places of Swamy Vivekananda and Shri Ramakrishna & Sharada Devi, Vivekananda embodued the divinity and spirituality moving towards Rationality and global-humanity.
I had Cleared GATE & Topped CEED exams, also prepped & appeared for UPSC and CAT Exams. Sharing few resources for preparing for exams. All the best for the preps and exams to all.:)
A. For General, Forward, Open Category Facilities for all..
What’s in a name? Wrote questioningly Shakespeare.. lol little did he know so much could be encoded in names… if he looked at the Indian Naming system or human Nomenclature.. Socio-Taxonomist may love to study the varied Indian Naming Norms.
Post-Content
1. The Game of Names.
Why does one Gender change its name after marriage to get identified to its partners family-name while the other gender doesnt? Are there any rationality or scientific advantage or benefit for this nomenclature practice/Social Custom? Or is it unnecessary cultural practice or is there some Rationale to give the child its father’s name or father’s family nomenclature? What about IVF Single Parent Kids.. With unknown Fathers gene, can they unknowingly have incestuous maritals after they grow with other spouse born of same sperm donor?.
Is Bejan Daruwala/Batliwala name any better than Janikirum or Johnny Walker? How does ur name and surname matter.
How Ideological-principles of Racism, Casteism, Classism, Religionism & all-Identitism is propagated through Group (Classte/Religion/Ideological) names and naming conventions?
Balancing Processes of Castification/Polarization and Decastification/Equitisation of society.
Egalitarianisation (More Equitable society) or Supremacisation (More Inequality(Socio,Economic,Politico-spiritual) in Society.
How can your name and surname define your Game, Fame & Shame in India and other Biases-Based Discriminatory systems.
Tamizh Nadu maybe at forefront of De-castifying Caste based Surnames..
I too was asked what’s my pura Naam in a Central National Institution.. this was first cultural shock experienced by a person without a privileged surname.
There are 2 name formats we can see in India..( If More Human Nomenclature plz Share). Like Homo Sapiens.
A msg from a groupee I am from southern state My name is Nithi And i changed my name to Thiruva Shant Nithi.
Thiruva is my birth place . Shant is my mother’s name ..
Some time ago my college certificate was given as Nithi M.
M is my father name!.
I think this works much better than casty-religiony Identifiable names. Eg Breddy, Setti, Kurma, Nodi…etc
The general way we introduce in South mostly in is with just basic Name with initials eg.. J. Saideepak, S. Jaishankar, or with Fathers name mjr. Sandeep Unnikrishnan.
Just ask randomly anyone in neighbhourhood, office or college. We just say our basic-name also look into the profile name.. few may use initials upon asking what’s ur name..
Eg Conversation with an egalitarian.
Indian1: Hi bro my name is Sandeep Kumar Sharma, what’s yours?
Egalitarian1: Hi Sandeep my name is Pradeep.
I2: Pradeep ok, what’s ur PuRa naam, your full name?
E2: my name is Pradeep. J.
I3: What is the initual ‘J’ in your name.. (Indian trying to get casty surname from the egalitarian).
E3: sir, J is the initial of Fathers name that is Janikiram.
I4: what’s your surname or family name? What’s in your certificates?
E4: my certificates is Pradeep J only, in passport its Pradeep Janikiram only..
E3:
Eg. MGR(CM Tamizh Nadu), HD Kumaraswamy Ex CM of Karnataka (he has dropped caste name which his dad had kept) also for his son Nikhil Kumaraswamy.. note Actor Puneet Rajkumar too(Name+Fathers name) no reference to Casty-Surnames etc..
T.N is one state in India which has done away with Castic_Identification.. to Decastify Public places.
Do Voters Go by Names? Gandhi, Modi, Gowda, Yadav, etc.. Selection by *names or surnames* lead to Voters Bias, that’s what is Unscientific_Politics 4.0..
As wise-electors We look not at the name but at *the Game* or Behaviour and *Character of the Candidate*..
What do you think are top 3 traits/factors that matter for good-sweet relationships?* And what are those that matter for a bitter-toxic relationships? Im on a quest to answer this do share ur experiences i shall share mine in return.. lets discover it together Good day.
3 Keystones for arch of Stable Complete Consistent good-sweet Relationships.
1st Keystone: Trust
2nd Keystone: Respect
3rd Keystone: Care & Love
3 Lockstones for arch of unstable incomplete inConsistent toxic-bitter Relationships.
1: Distrust, Mistrust, Doubt & suspicions. Misunderstanding, Fear
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