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Unawareness and Western Globalistic-Copycatism is major problem in Indian Families & Societies. this is a major after effect of Colonialized Mindset.
Why Families and Members are unsupported, targeted & violated?
Your Unawareness-Ignorance, Families Innocence & Communities Collective-Negligence, can be a vulnerability for Narc-targetting & Nepo-entrapment of you & your family.
Families with out strong roots in their Indigi-Cultures & Procedures, are open prey to be wronged by Narci-Vultures of ill-ideologies & devil-psychologies.
We see 3 major phases of Indian Societies, with a proposed future positive phase.
1. Colonification of India million of years before 2500B.C..(IVC, Keezhadi, & other RVCs)
2. Colonization of India 1700BC -1947 C.E,
3. Irrational_Narcization of India 1990-2024.
4. Rational-Empathization of India 2025 Onwards..
Narcississm in Parents is responsible for many problems.. Narcisstic-inlaws replicate into Narc-kids & future Narc-Spouses.
4. De-Secularization, Sectarianization or Religionisation by Govt-Admin Acts & Policies.
Context: Nations, Religions & Regions are Major forces in Social-Public Interactions. This post attempts to see the processes and places involved in them through real scenarios.
Contentions:
1. True-Secularization; of a govt or admin policy is when the democratically elected govt or adminstration taking constitutional oath abides & provides laws, policies, decisions & actions to not favour, fear or frown on any sections of public with prejudice or bias. & treat every recognized religions-regions-languages naturally & impartially. So Govt-policies do not interfere nor impact religious-policies they are separated and maintain safe distance.
Eg. Govts do not discriminate over citizens based on religions (No taking money from funds of a selective religion or if they facilitate religio-tax it apply same rules for all religious sects.. i.e collect funds from all religious organizations equally). If Building or Displaying religious symbols or places in the Govt funded campus or organizations, then fund all religious sects equally.
2. Psuedo-Secularization: Favour own religious groups over other unfavoured religious groups for partiality or bias. Eg. Nation favoring one religion over others. or one Religion Favoring other native-nation over other nations.. Eg. The Refugees of a particular religion wanting to establish replace democracy to a theocracy aligned with the religion master-nation. eg. Holy Roman/British Empire controlling other nations.
Eg of Nationally elected leaders in their personal capacity can practice any religion individually, when they become a public servants one needs to either not publish one favoured religious sect or equally participate in other religious functions without bias. Eg a CM not publically attending religious leaders events or attending all religions events as a elected-leader.
3. Neutralization: Becoming Neutral by Reversing the existing religiosity or Secularity of a stance, policy or law.
4. De-Secularization; Introducing govt funded Religiousity in public or government functionings or Properties.
Eg. Funding & Building a new Worship place of only one sect-religion within a Government Office Campus without equal care for others..
Eg. of a live interaction between a New Public Building and a Religious Old Building.
A Sect’s new Temple being built inside court campus premises. On left is a Court Complex of a major city & the Compound wall is towards right. Inauguration date 23/10/24.
it seems there was existing temple there.. as can be deduced from below Conversation with a person who has seen the older religious structure in court .
(A Testifier-1) Temple was there in that place in Old Structure if I am not Wrong
(Inquirer) Was it ?.. Past 6years going to court, not seen in same place. if was there can give post any pics or any docs if was earlier. Think this is a leading to desecularization politics..
(Testifier-1) I am going to that Court from 2011 when that Structure(Parking) was not even there and opening was there for parking bikes.
(Inquirer) ok, what kind of temple was there, any documentation? then its Reclamation.
I have seen people performing Pooja before entering Court I used 2 park my vechile there only and benches used to be there for sitting also this testimonial is acceptable.
would have been gud practice, when old structure demolished cud have erected a Signage and demarcation at same place. so that knowledge of it was continued without any Confusion or Conflicts.”
The Problem with Secularity is Its being a One-way Street. I.e A State keeping away from Religions, But there also needs to be factors of Secularity-of Religions. Religions-lobbies don’t keep away from governments, they infiltrate and desecularize the governments for need of power and influence of their sectarian-agendas.
Black-White Polarized Thinking Vs Grey Scale Harmonized Thinking.
Core Metrics in life that impact mate-tricks of wife.
With better Stats we can have better States.
When lifes phase looks like in a tunnel, look at the light and move towards it & away from the darkness. Keep at it daily to get to brighter days.
We need for any communications or relations, that we make to be non-violent, non-ambiguous and Non-conflict generative. i.e it needs to prevent further conflicts.
eg. cud be Israel-Palestine 2000 years of conflicts.. the interactions & communications have not prevented or prempted the escalations even to this day.
similarly in our Communications & relations.. can we find means to not only resolve but also prevent conflicts. this is in view with sustainability, to meet todays and futures needs.😊 I hope this is some form of preventive communication..
People who Stay & People who leave.
Yes, most commonly people who are opportunistic leave yes, and few who are humanistic stick with us.. we are grateful to the few who stay and relate positively with us..
for example.. of my own about 30+Cousins, and extended close relatives, I have 10 cousins who empathize understand and know our situation and pains, and of the 10, 4 are in alignment also in the support groups here.. i thank the 2 cousins and 2 cousin in laws to be understanding, caring & supportive in the cause for mens welfare.
similar metrics arise in friends circle, of the 100+ classmates and collegemates(500+) i have connect with there are about 10+ classmates and 30 collegemates who align with the situation.. so roughly about 10% of my inner circle(including women) are aligned with mens reality & cause(they in group here). im thankful to you friends who empathize with the reality of Indian brotherhood. i Respect the gesture thanks. it gives us hope there is light in Society not all is darkness. Tamasoma Jyothirgamaya.
Current Indian “Socio-Marito-Legal Systems” are lacking the Ethico-rational means to tackle the problems posted by “MIL-itant MILs” (Narc-Mothers who control & instigate Co-dependent daughter’s to initiate fakings by false-prideEgo, false-allegations and malicious litigations on Hubby & Her Inlaws).
This is at core of why so many pending Family-court cases in the legal system that gives no hope to citizens for Familial-Justice and Community-Peace.
#GenderEthos. #Marital-Interfamily Symbiosis vs #Marital-InterFamily Dysfunctions. #Familial-Deviances.
This is an Eye-opener Post reviewed from Latest News Reports that show increased numbers and severity of Homicides or Inter-spouse Domestic Violence.
Premise is: The threat to Relations that MILitant-MILs or mother In Laws pose to citizens & families. While Current SocioSystems are dysfunctional leading to more Conflicts & Crimes and less Resolutions & Resolves in Society. This hinders nationals Socio-Health and Nations Public Health & Welfare.
1. Toneic-Marriages are institutions that create Harmonious_families based on truths, trust, Interdependencies & cooperations helping to progress & better lives for many Citizens,
while 2. Toxic-Marriages are dysfunctional institutions that create traumatized minds, Spouses, kids, families & communities with more lies, distrust, Anti-dependencies & Conflicts hurting to depress & bitter the lives of many citizens.
There is a Systemic-Need for Better “Home-Sciences & Family-studies” that can mitigate, alleviate the Socio-emotional pains, Negative-Deviances & Criminality in Family members.
Modus Operandi of Randis (Commercial-Sex-MILs): Instigate daughters to become Illicit-Wives, to Infiltrate-Hives & Interfere-Lives.
Just like Your life depended more on WHAT your (Bio-Chrono) mother & father did or did not do in their lives, Similarly Your Married-Life also depends more on WHAT your Mother-in-law & Father-in-law have done & are doing in your Spouse’s life. #Parenting-Matters to You #InLawParenting-MattersTo your marriage.
#NarcParenting= DarkParrioting.
“The girl willingly married Vishal but later ended the relationship under her mother’s pressure. False cases were filed against him by the woman under her mother’s influence,” one of Vishal’s relatives told the media.
India though is progressing fast Economically & Technologically, we are regressing ethically & ethnologically. We see multiple challenges & Inequalities.
There is a boiling Cold-Civic Wars thats brewing at homes, workplaces, Neighbhourhoods, communities & cities based on identities of Genders, Castes, Religions..etc. This is endangering public rationality, morality & peace. by igniting moral-poverty, Ethics-depravity & criminality.
External Work-World may be a Male-oriented due to gender differences in Neuro-Muscular gender abilities.
while the inner Home-world is women-oriented due to gender difference in
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