Enemy, Frenemy & Friendship Spectrum Quiz.

This quiz evaluates your relationship with another person, placing it on a spectrum from Best-Buddy Friend (+5) to Beast-Bluddy Enemy (-5), including categories like Stranger (0) and Accomplice (+3). Answer the questions honestly to assess past, present, or potential future relationships. Each question contributes to a score that determines your relationship’s position on the spectrum.

This Bloody-Buddy_Test is dedicated to my-our Dearest Relatives & friends.. with Initial letters… A, B, C, D, K, P, R & S, Y.. In Path of Life I felt you helped me traverse fine as a buddy Thanks Bros & Sis. though I feel indebted hope to return the favours someday in some way. Grateful for your Relationships.

Instructions

• Answer each question based on your relationship with the person in question.
• Each question has multiple-choice options with assigned point values.
• Tally your points at the end to find your relationship score.
• Use the scoring guide to interpret your result.

Quiz Questions

1. How often do you spend quality time together?

• a) Almost every day, we love hanging out! (+2)
• b) Regularly, maybe weekly or so. (+1)
• c) Rarely, we don’t really connect much. (0)
• d) Never, we avoid each other. (-2)

1. Would this person go out of their way to help you in a tough situation?

• a) Absolutely, they’d drop everything for me. (+2)
• b) Probably, if it’s not too inconvenient. (+1)
• c) Doubtful, they’re not that reliable. (0)
• d) No way, they’d leave me hanging. (-2)

1. How do they act toward you in general?

• a) Warm, supportive, and genuinely kind. (+2)
• b) Friendly but sometimes distant. (+1)
• c) Neutral, no strong feelings either way. (0)
• d) Cold, dismissive, or hostile. (-2)

1. Can you share your deepest thoughts or secrets with them?

• a) Totally, I trust them completely. (+2)
• b) Somewhat, but I hold back a bit. (+1)
• c) Not really, I don’t feel safe. (0)
• d) Never, I don’t trust them at all. (-2)

1. Do they act differently around others compared to when they’re with you?

• a) No, they’re consistent and genuine. (+2)
• b) A little, but it’s not a big deal. (+1)
• c) Sometimes, it’s hard to tell who they are. (0)
• d) Yes, they’re two-faced or fake. (-2)

1. How do they make you feel when you’re together?

• a) Uplifted, valued, and happy. (+2)
• b) Generally good, but it varies. (+1)
• c) Neutral, no strong emotions. (0)
• d) Drained, annoyed, or disrespected. (-2)

1. If you had to compare them to a fruit or vegetable, what would they be?

• a) A sweet peach or vibrant carrot—delightful! (+2)
• b) A reliable potato or apple—dependable. (+1)
• c) A plain lettuce or cucumber—unremarkable. (0)
• d) A bitter lemon or prickly cactus—unpleasant. (-2)

1. If they haven’t reached out in a while, what’s the likely reason?

• a) They’re busy but will reconnect soon. (+2)
• b) Not sure, maybe they’re just distracted. (+1)
• c) They don’t care enough to stay in touch. (0)
• d) They’re avoiding me on purpose. (-2)

1. How do you view this person in your life?

• a) A true ally I cherish deeply. (+2)
• b) A decent friend or partner in some contexts. (+1)
• c) Just someone I know, no strong bond. (0)
• d) Someone I’d rather not deal with. (-2)

1. If rumors or drama start, how do you view their involvement?
   • a) They’d defend me or stay out of it. (+2)
   • b) They’d probably stay neutral. (+1)
   • c) Not sure, they might gossip a bit. (0)
   • d) They’d likely spread or start the drama. (-2)

Scoring Guide

• Tally your points: Add up the points from all 10 questions (ranging from -20 to +20).
• Interpret your score:
• +16 to +20: Best-Buddy Friend (+5) – You’re as close as it gets, like two peas in a pod!
• +10 to +15: Trusted Ally (+4) – A strong, reliable bond with minor hiccups.
• +5 to +9: Accomplice (+3) – You work well together, but it’s not super deep.
• +1 to +4: Casual Friend (+2) – Friendly but not a core part of your life.
• 0: Stranger (0) – No real connection, just neutral acquaintance.
• -1 to -4: Distant Acquaintance (-2) – More tension than connection.
• -5 to -9: Frenemy (-3) – A mix of friendliness and underlying conflict.
• -10 to -15: Rival (-4) – Active competition or distrust dominates.
• -16 to -20: Beast-Bluddy Enemy (-5) – This relationship is toxic or hostile.

How to Use This Quiz

• Past Relationships: Reflect on how someone treated you to understand why the relationship ended or changed.
• Present Relationships: Assess current dynamics to decide if you want to deepen or distance the connection.
• Future Relationships: Use this to set expectations or evaluate potential friends, colleagues, or partners.
• Strangers: A neutral score (around 0) is expected for someone you don’t know well.
• Accomplices: Look for scores around +5 to +9, indicating a functional but not deeply personal bond.

References

• Inspired by: Friends or Enemies Quiz
• Concepts of friendship dynamics adapted from psychological frameworks on interpersonal relationships, such as those discussed in works by Robert Sternberg (Triangular Theory of Love, applicable to friendship trust and intimacy) and John Gottman (principles of trust and betrayal in relationships).
• Scoring structure influenced by quiz design principles from online platforms like GotoQuiz, ensuring clear, testable metrics for relationship evaluation.