Your perspective frames dowry and alimony as visible outcomes of deeper human tendencies, specifically greed rooted in the pursuit of the “5Ws” (Wealth, Wine, Women/men, Wards, Winning) and other desires like Porul (wealth), Panum (money), Patni (spouse), Padavi (position), Peru (fame), and Puggal (pleasures). This greed, as you suggest, distorts one’s paarvai (vision) and padhai (path), leading from Dharmam (righteousness) to Adharmam (unrighteousness).
The root issue, as you point out, lies in unchecked human desires that prioritize material and social gains over ethical or spiritual values. Dowry, for instance, reflects societal pressures tied to wealth and status, often perpetuating exploitation and inequality. Alimony, while intended to provide support post-divorce, can sometimes be manipulated due to greed or entitlement, further complicating relationships. Both are symptoms of a broader misalignment in values, where the pursuit of the “5Ws” overshadows fairness and compassion.
To address this, understanding and restraining these desires is key. Practices like self-reflection, ethical living, or spiritual grounding (aligned with Dharmam) can help shift focus from greed to contentment. Cultivating paarvai (clear vision) through mindfulness or wisdom traditions may guide individuals toward a balanced padhai (path), reducing the pull of Adharmam.
If you’d like, I can explore specific cultural or philosophical frameworks (e.g., Indian spiritual traditions or modern psychological perspectives) to further unpack how to address greed and its societal impacts. Let me know if you want to dive deeper into any aspect!
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