S1133: Indo Genders Framework.. Indian Family Systems 2025.

Archetyping of Purush, Mahila & Bacha.. Kutumb Bachao Abhiyan.

Create an acronymed frame work either ALFA Male & Alpha Female,  with Letters in Purush & Mahila for a happy relational & Family Life.

To map Different characteristics needed for a Bi-morpho Team or Partnership. eg.. For Male = Morals, Attitude, Leadership, Establishment.

or ABCD Framework for Men= Attitude, Brotherhood, Civility & Discipline.

Below is an updated version of the previous frameworks, incorporating the new Family Purush, Family Mahila, and Family BACHA frameworks for children to complement the existing ALFA Male & Alpha Female (Purush & Mahila) and ABCD Frameworks. These additions focus on characteristics that men, women, and children can cultivate to foster a happy relational and family life, emphasizing a cohesive bi-morphic team or partnership.

Frameworks for a Happy Relational & Family Life

Framework 1: ALFA Male & Alpha Female (Purush & Mahila)

For Men: PURUSH

  • Passion: Bring enthusiasm and commitment to the relationship, fueling emotional and physical connection.
  • Understanding: Practice empathy and active listening to support your partner’s needs and emotions.
  • Responsibility: Take accountability for your role in the family, from providing stability to sharing duties.
  • Unity: Foster teamwork by prioritizing the partnership’s shared goals and values.
  • Strength: Show emotional and mental resilience to support the family through challenges.
  • Honesty: Be transparent and truthful to build trust and deepen the bond.

For Women: MAHILA

  • Mindfulness: Stay present and attentive, nurturing emotional intimacy and family harmony.
  • Adaptability: Embrace flexibility to navigate life’s changes while maintaining balance in the partnership.
  • Heart: Lead with compassion and warmth to create a loving, supportive environment.
  • Inspiration: Motivate and uplift your partner and family, encouraging growth and positivity.
  • Loyalty: Stay committed to the relationship, reinforcing trust and mutual respect.
  • Authenticity: Be true to yourself, fostering genuine connection and mutual understanding.

For Family (Men): Family PURUSH

  • Protection: Ensure the safety and security of the family, both physically and emotionally.
  • Upliftment: Encourage and support each family member’s growth and aspirations.
  • Respect: Model respect in all interactions, fostering a culture of dignity within the family.
  • Unselfishness: Prioritize the family’s collective needs, sharing responsibilities generously.
  • Stability: Provide a consistent and reliable presence to create a secure family environment.
  • Harmony: Promote peace and cooperation, resolving conflicts with fairness and understanding.

For Family (Women): Family MAHILA

  • Mentorship: Guide family members with wisdom and care, nurturing their development.
  • Affection: Create a warm, loving atmosphere through consistent expressions of care.
  • Healing: Offer emotional support to mend conflicts and soothe challenges within the family.
  • Intuition: Use insight to anticipate and address family needs, strengthening bonds.
  • Love: Infuse all actions with unconditional love, building a strong family foundation.
  • Advocacy: Stand up for the family’s values and needs, both within and outside the home.

For Children: Family BACHA

  • Bravery: Show courage in facing challenges and expressing themselves honestly.
  • Attentiveness: Listen to and learn from parents and siblings, fostering mutual respect.
  • Curiosity: Embrace learning and exploration to grow within the family and beyond.
  • Helpfulness: Contribute to family tasks and support others, building teamwork.
  • Appreciation: Express gratitude for family love and support, strengthening bonds.

This framework emphasizes complementary strengths that men, women, and children bring to a partnership, creating a balanced and supportive dynamic for a thriving family life.

Framework 2: ABCD Framework for Men, Women, and Children

For Men: ABCD

  • Attitude: Maintain a positive and proactive mindset to lead with optimism and resolve conflicts constructively.
  • Brotherhood: Build strong, respectful connections with others, modeling loyalty and community for the family.
  • Commitment: Dedicate yourself fully to the relationship and family, prioritizing their well-being.
  • Discipline: Practice self-control and consistency in actions, from daily routines to long-term goals.

For Women: ABCD

  • Affection: Express love and care through actions and words, strengthening emotional bonds.
  • Balance: Manage responsibilities and emotions to maintain harmony in the partnership and home.
  • Communication: Share thoughts and feelings openly, fostering trust and mutual understanding.
  • Devotion: Show unwavering dedication to the family’s shared vision and values.

For Children: ABCD

  • Adaptability: Be flexible in adjusting to family routines and changes, fostering resilience.
  • Belonging: Contribute to a sense of family unity by participating and showing loyalty.
  • Cooperation: Work together with family members, sharing responsibilities and supporting each other.
  • Discovery: Pursue learning and growth, bringing curiosity and enthusiasm to the family dynamic.

This ABCD framework highlights universal traits that men, women, and children can cultivate, ensuring a collaborative and harmonious relationship dynamic.

Published by G.R. Prasadh Gajendran (Indian, Bengalurean, IIScian...) Design4India Visions2030.

Advocate (KSBC), (B.Arch, LLB, M.Des) Defender of IndConstitution, Chief-Contextor for Mitras-Projects of Excellences. Certified (as Health&Fitness_Instructor, HasyaYoga_Coach & NLP), RationalReality-Checker, actualizing GRP (GrowGritfully, ReachReasonably & PracticePeerfully 4All). Deep_Researcher & Sustainable Social Connector/Communicator/Creator/Collaborator. "LIFE is L.ight, I.nfo, F.low & E.volution"-GRP. (VishwasaMitra)

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