S969: Misandry, Malandry & Messogendry; Gender Crime Prevention.

Gender Crime: A gender crime is any illegal act or harmful behavior targeting an individual or group based on their gender identity or expression, including cisgender, transgender, non-binary, or other identities. These crimes are motivated by prejudice, stereotypes, or hostility toward a person’s gender and can manifest as physical violence (e.g., homicides, assaults), psychological harm (e.g., harassment, abetment to suicide), legal misuse (e.g., false allegations in divorces or dowry cases), or discriminatory practices (e.g., exclusion based on gender). Gender crimes encompass a range of offenses, such as intimate partner violence, dowry-related deaths, targeted attacks (e.g., the Pahalgam attack targeting men in 2025), and false case harassment, often reflecting broader societal issues like misogyny, misandry, or prejudice against transgender individuals.

Gender-Neutral Illustration: Gender crimes affect all gender identities. For example, women may face dowry-related violence (6,589 cases in India, 2021, per NCRB), men may be targeted by false dowry harassment allegations (31,292 false Section 498A cases, 2011–2013, per India’s Ministry of Home Affairs), and transgender individuals may face hate crimes (e.g., 60% of transgender homicide victims in the U.S. were targeted due to gender identity, Human Rights Campaign, 2023). These crimes disrupt social harmony and require legal and cultural interventions.

Real-Life Event: In December 2024, Atul Subhash, a Bengaluru techie, died by suicide, alleging harassment through false dowry cases (Section 498A IPC) by his wife, Nikita Singhania. Reported by BBC, this case highlights gender crime through legal misuse, causing psychological harm and death, impacting men and their families while reflecting broader gender conflicts (BBC, 2024).

Reference: BBC. (2024). Atul Subhash: A Man’s Suicide Leads to Clamour Around India’s Dowry Law. Retrieved from bbc.com.

Revised Report on Gender-Related Concepts and Crimes: Eugendry, Misgendry, Malgendry, and Messogendry

This report defines Eugendry, Misgendry, Malgendry, and Messogendry, integrating gender-based crimes such as divorces, fake case harassment, homicides/suicides, and other gender-targeted crimes (e.g., the Pahalgam attack targeting men). Each concept is presented in a gender-neutral manner, applicable to cisgender, transgender, non-binary, and other identities, with real-life examples and references to credible sources. The report addresses the complex interplay of gender dynamics and legal misuse, ensuring a balanced perspective.

1. Eugendry

Definition: Eugendry refers to the positive, affirming, and respectful recognition of an individual’s gender identity or expression, fostering inclusivity and validation without prejudice. It promotes dignity and respect across all gender identities, countering harmful stereotypes and supporting equitable treatment.

Gender-Neutral Illustration: Eugendry involves using correct pronouns, respecting gender expression, and creating inclusive environments, whether for cisgender, transgender, or non-binary individuals. It mitigates gender-based crimes by fostering mutual respect, reducing conflict in contexts like divorces or legal disputes.

Real-Life Event: In 2023, a Canadian workplace (Shopify) implemented a gender-inclusive policy, training employees to use preferred pronouns and offering gender-neutral facilities. During a team meeting, a non-binary employee was respectfully addressed with their pronouns (they/them), preventing potential harassment and fostering a safe environment. This initiative, reported by CBC News, reduced workplace tensions and supported employees across gender identities (CBC News, 2023).

Reference: CBC News. (2023). Canadian Workplaces Embrace Gender-Inclusive Policies. Retrieved from cbc.ca.

2. Misgendry

Definition: Misgendry encompasses misogyny (hatred or prejudice against women), misandry (hatred or prejudice against men), and mistranny (prejudice or hostility toward transgender individuals). It includes negative attitudes or behaviors targeting any gender identity, often manifesting in gender-based crimes like fake case harassment, divorces, or violence, rooted in stereotypes or bias.

Gender-Neutral Illustration: Misgendry fuels crimes such as false allegations in divorce proceedings (e.g., dowry or domestic violence claims), harassment targeting specific genders (e.g., men in false cases, women in dowry disputes), or prejudice against transgender individuals, leading to social and legal harm across all genders.

Real-Life Event: In December 2024, Atul Subhash, a 34-year-old techie in Bengaluru, died by suicide, leaving a 24-page note and an 81-minute video alleging harassment by his estranged wife, Nikita Singhania, who filed multiple false cases under Section 498A of the Indian Penal Code (IPC) for dowry harassment. Singhania had also accused Subhash of dowry demands, illustrating misgendry through mutual false allegations. The case, reported by BBC, sparked debates on misuse of gender-specific laws, affecting both men and women (BBC, 2024).

Reference: BBC. (2024). Atul Subhash: A Man’s Suicide Leads to Clamour Around India’s Dowry Law. Retrieved from bbc.com.

3. Malgendry

Definition: Malgendry refers to malicious or harmful actions and attitudes deliberately targeting individuals based on their gender identity or expression, with intent to demean, exclude, or oppress. It includes gender-based crimes like homicides, suicides driven by harassment, or targeted attacks (e.g., Pahalgam), affecting cisgender, transgender, or non-binary individuals.

Gender-Neutral Illustration: Malgendry manifests in deliberate acts like murder, abetment to suicide via false accusations, or targeted violence against specific genders (e.g., men in the Pahalgam attack). It exacerbates legal and social harm, often linked to divorce disputes or gender-based prejudice.

Real-Life Event: On April 22, 2025, the Pahalgam terror attack in Jammu and Kashmir, claimed by Lashkar-e-Taiba, targeted men based on gender and religion, killing 26 people, including Navy officer Vinay Narwal. His wife, Himanshi Narwal, recounted the attackers sparing her but shooting her husband for not being Muslim. A man, Osaf Khan, falsely claimed Himanshi plotted the murder, leading to his arrest for malicious defamation. This incident, reported by BollywoodShaadis, exemplifies malgendry through targeted violence and subsequent false accusations (BollywoodShaadis, 2025).

Reference: BollywoodShaadis. (2025). Man Claims ‘Victim’s Wife’ in Pahalgam Attack Plotted Husband’s Death, Police Arrests Him. Retrieved from bollywoodshaadis.com.

4. Messogendry

Definition: Messogendry describes a chaotic, dysfunctional state of gender dynamics where contradictory, prejudiced, or inconsistent attitudes toward gender identities create confusion, harm, or social discord. It contributes to gender-based crimes like fake case harassment, contentious divorces, or suicides, reflecting a lack of coherent understanding across all genders.

Gender-Neutral Illustration: Messogendry arises in scenarios where conflicting gender attitudes—e.g., advocating for equality while perpetuating stereotypes—lead to dysfunctional outcomes, such as false allegations in divorces, harassment, or suicides, impacting cisgender, transgender, and non-binary individuals.

Real-Life Event: In January 2025, Puneet Khurana, a 40-year-old Delhi café owner, died by suicide, leaving a video alleging harassment by his wife and in-laws during divorce proceedings. His wife claimed domestic violence, while Khurana cited false accusations and financial demands, creating a chaotic legal battle. Reported by The Indian Express, this case reflects messogendry’s role in escalating gender conflicts, leading to tragic outcomes for all parties (The Indian Express, 2025).

Reference: The Indian Express. (2025). Bakery Owner Dies by Suicide at Delhi Home; Police Say Family Alleges Harassment During Divorce Case. Retrieved from indianexpress.com.

Analysis of Gender-Based Crimes

  • Divorces: Divorces often escalate into gender-based crimes when false allegations (e.g., dowry harassment under Section 498A IPC) are used to gain leverage, affecting men, women, and families. NCRB data (2022) shows 3.4% of male suicides and 52.5% of female suicides linked to marriage-related issues, highlighting mutual harm.
  • Fake Case Harassment: False accusations, such as dowry or domestic violence claims, contribute to psychological distress and suicides. Between 2011–2013, 31,292 Section 498A cases were found false, per India’s Ministry of Home Affairs, impacting men and their families (IndiaTimes, 2018).
  • Homicides/Suicides: Gender-targeted homicides (e.g., dowry deaths, 6,589 cases in 2021) and suicides (e.g., Atul Subhash, Puneet Khurana) are driven by harassment and legal misuse, affecting all genders. Women face higher intimate partner homicide rates (60% of female homicides), while men dominate suicide statistics (72% in 2022).
  • Other Gender-Targeted Crimes: The Pahalgam attack (2025) targeted men based on gender and religion, illustrating malgendry. False accusations, like Osaf Khan’s against Himanshi Narwal, further exacerbate gender conflicts, creating a cycle of harm.

Conclusion

Eugendry promotes inclusivity, while misgendry, malgendry, and messogendry fuel gender-based crimes like fake case harassment, contentious divorces, homicides, and suicides. The Pahalgam attack and cases like Atul Subhash highlight the need for gender-neutral laws and sensitized legal systems to address misuse and ensure justice for all gender identities. Legal reforms, as suggested by the Supreme Court in Arnesh Kumar vs. State of Bihar (2014), and public awareness can mitigate these dysfunctional dynamics.

Published by G.R. Prasadh Gajendran (Indian, Bengalurean, IIScian...) Design4India Visions2030.

Advocate (KSBC), (B.Arch, LLB, M.Des) Defender of IndConstitution, Chief-Contextor for Mitras-Projects of Excellences. Certified (as Health&Fitness_Instructor, HasyaYoga_Coach & NLP), RationalReality-Checker, actualizing GRP (GrowGritfully, ReachReasonably & PracticePeerfully 4All). Deep_Researcher & Sustainable Social Connector/Communicator/Creator/Collaborator. "LIFE is L.ight, I.nfo, F.low & E.volution"-GRP. (VishwasaMitra)

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