S772: “WHO” Chooses or Who is “CHOOSEN” or “HOW” one chooses? What is the Sequence of Importance.

Our Choices, Decide our Virtues or Vices.

First important is How one chooses(Methods), Who(Choosers) and Whats Choice (Choosen).

Bro, appreciate the research ur doing to understand the situation.. plz document in a blog.. msg says biggest mistake “is marrying someone choosen by parents”.. well many have not done and love marriages also have issues.

also have a perspective on mistake in marital selection.. the insight i have is mistake is not *WHO* makes Selection whether Parents or Partners, relatives, brokers etc(People).. But *”HOW”* each  selection is made..(Process).  the faults lie in the unoptimized *Marital Selection Process* this needs improvement.

My parents and maybe others of their era marriages was done with the India Method.  thus its 40 years succesful marriage with their parents blessings..

S243: “InDiA_Method”of S’election & Decisive_Decisions:  Q1. How to Choose the Right Person for the Right Placement?

many marriages that follow these cultural methods are safer, others that deviate may suffer.