M.A.R.I.T.A.L.S among Earthlings. Safely_Marriages as Pan-Global & Trans-Human Phenomenon.
Globally Chronologically Marriages have Evolved from Marriage 0.0 to Marriage 6.0..
every idea or institutions evolve.. Marriage 0.0 was the African Primates marriage. Marriage 1.0 was biological just between 2 Human beings(Homo Sapiens Caveman marriage), Marriage 2.0 was tribally recognized and formalized (Hunger Gatherers/Agriculturist pre religion), Marriage 3.0 was religiously sanctioned by shamans & religious priests (River Valley Civilizations), current version of marriage is Marriage 4.0 is Politically recognized by king for fu<king, regulated and certified by Governments (Personal-family Laws).. Marriages 5.0 are live-in and ad hoc adjustments without any cultural or relational involvement. Marriages 6.0 need to be more rational and systemic.
Human Beings have both Best & Worst of Creators, Creations & Creatures.. Why? #MoralDiversity
India has a Unfamiliar Familiality problem with Narc Fractured Families as Unlike at WORK side which is formalized and organized for careers, at the FAMILY side its unorganized, casualized and misorganized.
At Work (Occupation) the Blue Collar crimes are acknowledge, resolved and justified, but at in Maritals (Copeulation) the Pink Collar Crimes aren’t recorded, acknowledged nor does the Maritals end in Justice as its delllllaaayed, dismayed & undisplayed.
Like Career-counsellors help candidates for Career-Choices, Marital-counsellors need to aid MANdidates for Marrier -Choices, The Barriers in Society, Loopholes in law & Lusty In laws can create havoc in the lives of families.
Indian Psychologists are only now being Personal Trauma-informed factoring Narc-ACEs cases, but very few socio-psychologists are Social Drama-Informed factoring faces & phases to be able to guide and help the needies and without which the Need-dies or the needy-dies.
Keywords: #PreventionOfFamilial-Failure or Alienation & #Promotion of Familial-Progress. #NarcAlienation as ACEs & Relational-Trauma
In any Place, Race, Nation or Culture or Species of animals these are basic elements of a Marital Relational Bonding.. Be it Ancient-Africa or Modern-Madagascar. Without even one of these elements the Maritals for collaboration between Spousal Families can turn to Martials for Competition between Houses.
Secrets of Healthy-Relations & Happy-Marriages are that there are no or less crappy secrets between the Members, Marriers or their families.
These below is the Basic list of Elements needed in a Happy Healthy Maritals in the Acronym of MARITALS.. One may
- Morals.
- Allys.
- Rearing Rituals of Culture, Customs & Children.
- Intelligence & Integrity.
- Trust & Transparency..
- Altruism
- Love, Law & Language..
- Society & Spirituality.
Intro evolution of marriages from Individual-Needs to Duo-Reads, Bio-Agreeds to Familial-Deeds to Future-Breeds to Material Greeds+bleeds or Moral Feeds+Leads.
If one or More of these marital elements Fail Though the spouses & inlaws differ & suffer. The worst victim of such Sub Optimal Marriages are the children.
Maritality in society is dependent critically on Morality of individuals.. No or low morals even in one side or party the relationship fails.. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2024/11/22/s640-essentials-in-maritals/
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