S602: False-Pride that leads to Toxic_Shame & True_pride that leads to Transformative-game.

False-Pride linked to Toxic Shame. https://themindfool.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Toxic-Shame-2-1024×1024.jpg

Two Types of Prides.

1. True-Pride based on ethics, logic & facts. eg. Pride of real Patriots & Pathmakers or Lawkeepers. eg. National Pride people have in freedom fighters, scientists & achievers.  eg. P.T. Usha, Milka Singh, Neeraj Chopra, Abdul Kalam,  This Pride-Type leads to Fame and Transformative-game.

Authentic Pride Wordings: I am proud of your work and character my Son.. I am proud of ur compassion and patriotism. Linked to Humanistic values and principles of life.

2. False-Pride based on politics, emotions & tacts. eg. Egoistic-Pride of criminals & Narcs in their rule-breaking achievements. this Pride-Type leads to blame-game, Flame & Toxic Shame.

False Pride wordings: I am Proud of my Bank Balance and large house. I am proud that I cheated & hurt that guy. You be proud of me that you are my daughter, go and kick all mens asses (Misandric Gender-pride). Linked to materials & peoples in life or literature.

Below are Anonymized conversations that are shared to make people aware, alert and vigilant of the risks in the under belly to individuals, families and Societies.

Wise men Learn from others  experiences and Wiser men yearn to share such Shared-experiences so that others don’t have to learn the bitter way of personal-experience.

#Lifeoholics Nineononymous.

Authentic Pride Vs False-Pride

References.

https://www.sifkarnataka.org/

Published by G.R. Prasadh Gajendran (Indian, Bengalurean, IIScian...) Design4India Visions2030.

Advocate (KSBC), (B.Arch, LLB, M.Des) Defender of IndConstitution, Chief-Contextor for Mitras-Projects of Excellences. Certified (as Health&Fitness_Instructor, HasyaYoga_Coach & NLP), RationalReality-Checker, actualizing GRP (GrowGritfully, ReachReasonably & PracticePeerfully 4All). Deep_Researcher & Sustainable Social Connector/Communicator/Creator/Collaborator. "LIFE is L.ight, I.nfo, F.low & E.volution"-GRP. (VishwasaMitra)

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