IAS Wife Elopes With Gangster to TN.
IAS or Indian Administrative Services is a Tough Competitive Examination of Indian Civil Services. They have to study many Subjects and get to the interview process and selection happens.
Here is a Indian couple from TN. who are posted in Gujarat but they have drawn into a drama of Life. Let’s understand what went right and what went Wrong?
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What are 10 lessons for every Indian-MANavamitras from this Indian Couple & IAS Family from South TN??
10 Lessons From this Case.
1. Doing IAS may Train one to administer or manage over large area (DC) & many Public Officers and Organizations(Secretary), But it doesnt train one to Adminster their Homes or manage-marriages, forming good family, and clan-community relationships.
2. IAS training helps in selecting work, colleagues and juniors for working in the Indian Government (UPSC -Selection Commitee or Board), but doesnt train people to select the right partners at home for Familying in societies (UFSC: United-Family Services Commission Selection commitee).
3. The risks of Love-Recruitment and elopement are not only limited to low income and low status people it can happen to high income and high status home families too.
4. Elopement doesnt happen only with unmarried children but also married and committed spouses can betray, cheat & elope too. sometimes with their narc-parent support too.
5. UnLike Indian IAS Recruitment Systems the Indian Family Recruitment & Maritals Systems are not strong with processes to recruit the right spouse for the right family. Unfit Spouses mostly from same-clasteed bias are recruited in families later who show their true colors by betraying and breaching family/Marital-trust.
6. Mental Health is an important filter in maritals that’s not screened in the Indian Marital System.
7. Indian Statistics of Family Maritals & Broken/Token Families are not recorded in the census. this is an epidemic of toxic-marriages in India that needs critical study & review.
8. The Field of Maritology is to be developed to make better partnerships and families so that Marriers are protected from Affairs, Elopement, cheating, Frauds.. etc
9. South of India and mostly the Tamizh Hindus have no developed systems of Untrustworthy family or spouse to be de-married safely.
10. Suicide & Homicides and false Dowry cases are used as threats and creating false fake evidences and events to harass the innocent-spouses & unaware victim families. that’s causing untold disharmony and social pain for the society.
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