Q: Do you know, What Parenting Style did your Parents Use to Parent You?
AnsHint: 1. Divisive-Parenting Or 2. Integrative-Parenting.
Contemplate Before reading ahead..
DDP Vs IIP-Parenting Style.
Explanations.
Parenting is Citizening, We are providing the next gen of Citizens that can help or harm our nation. Diversity Vs Polarizity Citizening.
Like RTO (Road Transport Office) Provides for Driving_Licences(DL) of the people trained and capable of Driving on Road for making Safer Driving.
Similarly FTO (Family Transformation Offices) needs to provide for Parenting-Licenses(PL) to trained and capable of Parenting for making Safer Familying.
There are only 2 Parenting Styles based on intent & Outcome of Parenting/Citizening. One Leads to Integration and Amalgamation with Constitutional-Nations (Harmonizes), and other one leads to Differentiation & Mono-Polarization against Constitutional-Laws (Criminalizes).
For Emergency of Child Abuse Please REPORT at 112 or Childhelpline 1098.
1. “Divisive Destructive Parenting.” (DDP-IdeaVirus Propagation)
Teaches Differentiation, Discrimination, Domination, Hyper-Competition and oppression of Us Versus Them.
At Root is this Format “We and Our Xyz is Supreme & Better than Them and their Xyz. (Where XYZ can be anything gene, meme, skin color, race, parents, language, hair, names, class, caste, religion, nation, political-party, region…etc).
in a Family this leads to Maternal-Undue Advantage of Causing Parental-Alienation by hating Father and his Relative. vice versa also possible.
in a Nation this style of parenting leads to Hate towards laws of the land and other citizens as it claims exclusivity and feeds more Discrimination and less Discretion in Mind and Criminal-Behaviours.
Parenting style Teaches Divisive Racism, Religionism, Casteism, Supremacism, Hierarchies,
Effect it leads to more Polarized & Radicalizable Minds and systems.
DDP Parenting leads to if Successful to 1. Copycats or Xerox Narc-Copies.. Sychopant-Narc-Childrens, Hyper-Conservativism.
sychoFANcy.. https://edition.cnn.com/2017/12/22/health/psychology-of-sycophancy/index.html.
2. Extremistic DDP Failed Parenting leads to Child-Abuse like below Case..
2. Inclusive Integrative Parenting. (IIP_Virtuous Ideas Promotion)
This stems from Inclusive and Diversity based thinking. which is really Rationally-liberal and Ethically-Progressive.
Teaches Respect and Importance of Diversity, Discernment, Compassion b4 Competition, Cooperation, Hyper-Collaboration and Expressions of “Us Along With Them” and They are US only (Humanity Vs Haivanity).
IIP teaches Respect for Constitution of Nation and Patriotism first before anyother Divisivisms.
in a Family it leads to equal importance to both Father and Mother and Paternal & Maternal Side Relatives.
In a Nation this Parenting leads to Citizens identity in public & street road to be a Rational_National-First and later whatever Personal-PrivateIdentity is at their Home or ideological-Places.
Raising Patriotic Kids
Personally How My Parents Developed Patriotism in our family is by..
Exposing us to our Patriotic Songs, Patriotic Movies, and Books by Patriotic National Heros,
Taking us to National Republic Day and Independence Day Events at State Capital. Taking us to see Army men and also Celebrations of National Festivals like Constitution Day, Freedom Fighter Jayanthi.
Above Message Talks about Virtue-Ideas that help in Developing Valuable Virtuous Kids.
What is a Idea-Virus? https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2024/07/17/s516-ideaviruses-infecting-our-minds-nations/
For non-Constitutional Nationalism yes. Nationalism/Religionism=Tribalism.
For a Gud Democractic Constitutional National.
Real Patriotism= Real Nationalism= Constitutionalism.
Every Real-Citizen has to Keep Constitution as an Essential reading before any other religious or propoganda text or group-ideology..
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