Sapthapadi or 7-circles with 7-Vows importance in hindu weddings. Illustrated with 2 live caselaws Indian Cricketer Shikar Dhawan Versus his Australian Ex-Wife Eesha Mukherjee (Divorce-Trap 2012 to 2023). #Marital-Navigation_Systems.
7 Marital-Compatibilities Checklist. (SatDwars & Sat Checkin more Inner-Personality (Mind_Moral Quality) before You CheckOut Person Profile (Face & Body, Qualifications).
#7Rounds of Marital-Interviews Before #7Rounds of Havan. #Saat-dwars before Saa-Pheres. If not marriage can not survive of 7Live but can end in 7-years,months or 7days
1. Genders Compatibility: (Natural Complementary Genders) (Same_gender Marriages is unnatural and is of no use to Nature.) God dint create Adam & Steve. Shiva & Parvat. Eg. One person dint check the genders It was a third Gender(Intersex) hiding as a women to extract Alimony from husband after filing fake false case Harrassment of good family.
2. Age, Maturity & Attitude Compatibility: One family gave false age to get married to younger persons (younger & younger looking women (<30) get better marital offers &deals than older women as menopause is earlier for Women). had Bad attitude to life saying life is about money and gaining wealth and property only. So they marry with gaining status of a married woman/man only upon pressure from family. And not genuine interest in marital-commitments to other spouse.
3. Ideological Compatibility: They have conflicting idealogy of Toxic-genderity where they want to act opposite way to the needed marital_gender roles. They want to be the other gender too and are miso-gendery (Misandric, MisTranny or Misognic). Toxic-Feminity, Toxic-Tranyity or Toxic-Masculinity is harmful to formative_family & Supportive_Society.
4. Family Compatibility: are the families legal misusers having history of Civil_Criminal Litigations of abusing the Legal-Systems. Then they will be prone to repeat in marriage.
5. Hearty emotional Compatibility(EQ): people with high IQ but low_EQ & Empathy are prone to turn selfish, narcissistic in a relationship and turn it into a toxic-relationship.
6. Biological Compatibility: Genetic, Hematological & Sexuality factors. People with HIV, Opposite RH factor, Genetic Disorders like NPD, and Diabetes can turn the marriage into a carrier of such genetic disorders and diseases.
7. Sociological Compatibility: Social Supremacism and Superiority or Inferiority complexes in the larger clan_group can impact the marriage negatively by losing respect to the relationship and Partnership. At worst it can end in honor killing and best in relational discontent and disconnect.
8. Astrological_Horoscope Compatibility:
Shikhar Dhawan Test-Cricketer but not a Test-Marrier because BCCI regulates Indian Cricket. But who Safe guards Indian Untested_Marriages.? So marriages are being like 20-20 cricket reels instead lifetime-deals. A 7 year itch is becoming shorter with googly witches and unstable unplayable marital pitches. Making Duck-out of good Batsmen, by wicked bowling of lie spinners coming of twisted tongues and viscious minds of unethical-marriers.
What is a Marriage? Whats 7pheras for 7Janam(Lifes) or 7 Jahanums(Hells).
What’s the significance of this ritual that every Rational-Hindu needs to know and practice these, which Blind-Believers of every practice may ignore at their own peril and perish in life.
This the Ceremonial Service conducter Panditji or Priest/Poojary needs to explain & give as an administered vow (like in Christian and Islamic Acceptance of Marital Contracts) being the Facilitator of good marital practice. But alas the Religio-Social Responsibility of Religious leaders is not followed. Weddings are done as fancy rituals on stages and money spent to showcase the economic status of the marriers parents and families.
Wedding are jus bland ritualistic and not meaning-making events, which are supposed to align the marriers in a Marital-Contract for life. And make them good spouses who understand the roles, rights, duties, responsibilities and also the risks of breach, liabilities and legal penalties consequences to their paired-actions, marital-behaviours and family alliances.
The modern meaning of procedural_marriages and relevance of Marital-Weddings are lost to history and over driven by the Religio_Marital-Industry.
7 Important Marital Vows & Needs:
1. Family Food (Metophorically Anadanam-Anappurneshwari): Food is the most basic need. Top priority is life Providing food for family in earlier days of Large family Home-Making with division of labor even seen in Nesting behaviours of Birds, primates and tribal familes like in Africa and Asia. one genders members had role of outdoor Food gathering like Hunting, Farming, Bread-Winning & Protecting Home from animals and invading tribes. Another Gender used to accept the food brought by the foraging and Outdoor-labouring gender, ration and prepare food and equitable sharing for all members in the family.
2. Health & Prosperity (Metaphorically Ayurveda Dhanvantari & ArogyaLakshmi).
3. Wealth (Metaphor of Dhanlakshmi).
4. Love & Respect (Metaphor of Kamadeva & Vasudaiva-kutumbakam) for each other and both paternal and maternal families.. but this is being changed with matrilineal advantage in current gynocentric-society where the Mothers family gains an upper hand over the maritals & children of marriages. The paternal members’ respect and equal rights are polarized by scrupulous abusive maternals.
5. Children from Familyhood. The Children were seen as inheritors of paternal families and culture as Indian marriages primarily being patri-local. But due to lack of choices for maternal grandparents and their greed for progeny they are ready to breach fair-marital practices and usurp the children as property of Brides Father and mother. This maybe due to the unconscious greed for Male-progeny in the Only Female Familied Parents.
6. Long life for each other. Earlier partners cared for each others long life like Karva chaoth and fasting prayers for the long life of more risk taking partners. But due to life insurance and pension schemes death of partners is more beneficial to the sitting partner after the children is born and taken under control of maternal families. The fathers are disposable members only useful for further milking of alimony and properties. This is done as narc-minded women and MILs need the in-marriage baby as thier future insurance slaves and workers, but dont need the husbands. They would have gone for IVF and Artificial Insemination if Govt makes it legal for single parenting without stigma of illegal pregnancy in society. Marriage gives them a cover to hide their intentions also an opportunity to extract social status and privileges of married women. While they can fix the husbands in fake false domestic violence and maintenance cases. So shorter the life of husbands the better is it for such narc women and they can live life care free and responsibility free. With alimony money and custody of the slave-mindcontrolled kids.
7. Loyal Friendship: This is good as companionship is a hall mark of partnering and collaboration for life and afterlife Spiritually.
But current materialistically motivated generation is just friends for benefit. Spouses are driven by greed for more money, property, sex, lust, power and dominance for self. Eg. Ceasar, Marc Anthony and Cleopatra.
1. How western legalism superficially dis-interprets the hindu Marital system and Culture practices: https://www.livemint.com/news/hindu-marriage-is-invalid-without-sat-phera-ritual-says-allahabad-hc/amp-11696483175577.html
7 janam or 7 jahanum..
2. Shikar Dhawan.. could hit sixer of googly on cricket field, he but on marital field dint have proper coaching, should not have been trapped by this googly from a family from hooghly.. beware of Matrilineal Familes.. they are trap for men like this..
This is why manavamitras is doing Family Maritality awareness in groups. Since 2019.
https://www.livemint.com/news/india/shikhar-dhawan-gets-divorce-on-grounds-of-cruelty-by-wife-aesha-mukerji/amp-11696434083428.html
What are top Reasons of Divorce to be known to avoid it.
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