Happy World Fathers’ Day 18th June, 2023. How to make society less Fatherless and more Fatherful + Beautiful. Role of Fathers and Grandfathers in forming Safer, Secure & Successful Families and Progenies. #IndianFatherness. & #IndianMotherness.
Indian Fathers’ Manifesto.2023
A father’s choice of how & whom he selects as his procreative mate like how both their genetic traits and characters are complementing will decide the quality of the next generations to come via genealogy.
Similarly if an healthy-father protects his children and family from Pathological-Viruses by natural or induced immunization from viral-attacks on body,
likewise an aware& worldwise father protects his children and family from Ideological-Viruses by advise and training immunization from verbal & psychological-attacks on minds and personality.
Fathers are Farmers who Toil in the soil of society to bring prosperity.
Fathers are charmers, who spoil the royals of society to bring in anarchy.
Fathers be aware, you are the leaders, if you falter in the fathering of next gen as fatherless, the mothership will go full speed in all directions but brotherless & rudderless.
Father’s Beware the Responsibility on your broad masculine shoulders like the Atlas carrying the world.
Qualities of MEN:
M– Meaning-makers, Mechanizers, Moral Leaders, Mass Gatherers…
E– Evolvers/Establishers/Entreprenuers/Enhancers…
N– Navigator/Nesters/Nurturers/Naturalizers.
FATHER:
F- Fighters/ Formers/ Familyers. Majority about 80% of protectors and martyrs in army_defence, police and labourers & repairers labouring at risky workfronts are men and fathers jus like 99.999% of those who become pregnant and deliver babies in hospitals are women.
A- Attitude of Servitude for Family
T– Testers and Testators
H– Headers and Herders
E– Establishers and Executors of Family Codes collaborating with other family members.
R– Responsibility Takers with or without delegation or Supervisions.
Matru Devo Bhava, Pitru Devo Bhava, Acharya Devo Bhava.(Sanskrit Shloka)
Matha, Pitha, Guru, Daivam (Tamizh Saying).
This blog is dedicated to my father (Dr. GAJENDRAN Raman (Karnataka Government Medical Officer) and his father (Thata. P.N Raman) A Staff of the Ministers Home (Govt of Karnataka) and also to my Son Master Hemmith Guru Prasad(who made me a father on World Industrial Design Day 29th June 2014.
Fathers Influence on the welfare of their kids is to be revived and rejuvenated for a happier and more fraternal society.
Indian Society may on street and public have been and in some places may still be a masculine dominated society, (note the phrase Male-dominated is not used instead I am referring to the masculine-dominated society) but at home and in the current modern cultural spheres it’s more a matriarchal, psuedo_patriarchal & feminine_dominated.. Motherly crafted/designed home than a Masculine_Fatherly designed home). Do reflect on who takes day to day &major decisions of the family & kids? Who decides the Food, Shopping, Events, Festivals, House Guests, Invites..etc)
A point in analogy is the way ramayana starts not to will the king Dasharath but it bows down to the will of his wife Kaikeyi, Similarly the Congress, BSP, AIAdmk, TMC, etc these parties have Women or the feminine dominating the leadership. Similarly in Families the Women of the family have a Matrilineal_advantage, on kids as they have more control over the minds & lives of their kids than their biological fathers can have.(Fathers though have nipples cant produce milk that babies need in childhood). The below product may help.
When we see our father he may have his strengths and weaknesses. His opportunities, challenges and struggles as modern day fathers have to compete with technology, misandric society, gender biased laws and legal systems, parental alienation syndrome, love-recruitments. The traditional role of a father being a progenitor, provider and protector is being usurped by many entities like the Corporations_Companies, State-agencies, narcisstic_feministic families relatives, by “anti-Dad mother” and anti-family entities like biased Courts, Cults and toxic Cultures.
Fatherless society is detrimental to Social wellbeing and welfare.
That’s why we need to revive fatherhood and think of how The “gender play gap” at home like the “gender pay gap” at jobs between the father and their kids can be leveled.
Some resources to help Fathers.
1. https://www.brighthorizons.com/resources/Article/the-art-of-being-a-father
2. https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2021/01/why-parents-and-kids-get-estranged/617612/
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What is happening when Fathers Positive Masculinity & Protective influence is taken away by tyrannical Matriarchal Material-families? Due to Alienation and mind control by narc-in law gangs and cultish-leaders as biological mothers. Ravanafication of Sons & kids.
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1. Modern Dramayana due to Narc-Families Fathers to be Aware: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/09/11/s362-modern-dramayanas-maha_haaraths-how-indian-society-is-changing-sinsce-1950-to-2025-75-years-of-constitution/
2. Insights from Institute of Family Studies: https://ifstudies.org/blog/life-without-father-less-college-less-work-and-more-prison-for-young-men-growing-up-without-their-biological-father
3. Parental Factors in Crime Prevention and Promotion. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/01/30/s262-who-are-the-narczis-and-how-world-war-3-0-is-happening-under-our-noses/
4. PARENTING archetypes: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/01/23/s257-parenting-triad-most-important-tri-factors/
5. For Mothersday: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2022/03/08/s109-the-5-stages-of-a-w-o-m-e-ns-life/
6. 25+ Kinds of Motherhoods. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2022/05/08/s132-how-many-kinds-of-mothers-are-in-mankind-memorable-happy-mothers-day-2022/
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