S270: 3 Types of Loves and Loyalities.

True_Love_Spectrum from True_Love to False_Love:

From,

1. Malignant_Lustful_Love (-ve)

2. Neutral_L0vst (0) to

3. Beneficial_Lightful_Love (+ve).

Mental AIDS_Test to be done for Lovers before marrying “AIDS = Acquired Integrity Deficiency Syndrome” (to filter out Love-Frauds & Love Recruiters).

Exploring and classifying: 3 Grades of Love-Lust.

1. Love, (True Integral Love)

2. Lovst (Mix) and

3. Lust. (False Seperatist Love)

We experience Different Kinds of Love from birth to death, Parental-Love as a Son or Daughter, Relatives-Love as a grandchild, nephew, niece, etc, Pet-Love from animals, Teacher-Student Love, Friends-Love, Romantic-Love, Spousal/Marital Love, and Patriotic-Love.

What’s Your Love-Life Style?..

1. Higher-Love,(Ideal) 2. Mid-Lovst(Deal) or 3. Lower-Lust(Duel-Devil).

Happy Valentines/Lovers Day Feb-14 2023.. Tru-Love for Knowledge and Spiritual Connection is highest form of love. Guru Prema, Guru Bhrama, Guru Vishnu, Guru Maheshwara. Preethi, Prema, Pralaya… Sharing 3 Kinds of Love on Lovers day. #Tri-Prema Vidya. Like Kamasutra is by Vatsayana this is a primer for “Krama-Sutra” by Rationayana (Rational-Vatsayana). Law of Gland Vs Law of the Land. Hi-loves (High-Love) Vs Lowes (Low-Love).

Whats Relation between Love & Loyality?: eg of three Kamal-Hassan’s Movie (Ek Duje Ke Liye/Pushpaka-Vimana & Sadma/Guna)

Love intially can help to Connect between two Entities (Sex Organs, People, Families, Group, Nations.. etc)(1.Competence), but finally its Loyality that can help to keep-connected the two-entities.(2.Compatibility_Completeness) Even if one extremely Breaches Trust the loyality fails.

In Hindi it can be said as Shumbh Prema-Preethi Dhinam. Though this cultural-meme is from the Euro-Christian nations.

What is love’s relation to loyality? #Classification of Love (Eu-Love+(Bonafide-Love), Zu-Love(0) (Equifide-Lovst) & Mal-love (-ve Malafide-Lust)

What is your Tri-Prema Style?. Su-Prema(+ve), Sa-Prema(0), Ku-Prema(-ve), Kru-Prema (–ve).

#LoyalLove, #FraudLove & #DisloyalLove. Posito-gamy, Negito-gamy and Neutro-gamy.

Exploring through Indian Cultural Ideas & Memes.

Love and Loyality for a Person (Interpersonal-Kama), Group (Fraternity-Dharma), Nation (Patriotism-RajaDharma) & Humanity (Humanism-LokaDharma, Manushatva).

Love is a Neuro-Hormo-Phenomenon. outcome of the “Interactions & laws of the glands”. (TestosteronEstrogen, Dopamine, Oxytocin, Prolactin, Serotonin, and Endorphins) this can be internal between two-entities like (Shahjahan-Mumtaz Mahal) This is Positive-Love.. If there is no hormonal or phermonal involvement there is zero love, engagement or attachments. In case of Positive-Love the overall net outcome is positive for Persons/Family/Community & Society (More Integration(Benefits) Less Destruction(Loss). There are other sides which are Negative-Love and Neutral-Love.

Example of Negative-Love. An eloper-lover will be ungrateful for all the parental or family care offered until 18-20 years of her/his childhopd and desert his/her home to be in Romantic or sexual-union with the eloper it may be a loafer or a seducer but their minds are Hijacked by passion for self instead of compassion for parents or families. When high on Emotionality people especially teens or adolescents become low on Rationality or Civility due to a process called hypo-frontality (NeoCortex of brain is less functional and thinking controlled by the lower or Reptilian Brain (amygdala).

A Druggie-lover of Women, Wine and Wealth. Eg..https://www.indiatoday.in/crime/story/woman-chopped-36-pieces-body-parts-scattered-across-delhi-man-arrested-2296994-2022-11-14

and Loyality is SocioEconomic-Political outcome factored from the “Exteractions & laws of the lands.”(Laila-Majnu, Romeo-Juliet, Heer-Ranjha, Devdas-Paro,.. etc).

There are Basically 3 Net-Outcomes of Love and Loyality.

Above was a Tru-Lover of his Nation and People: “**Tru-love**” never lowers him but **Mal-Lowe** (For Property of partner like land, wealth, power,etc) it is for **Looting & extracting from your Wealth & “**House” and not for **Looking after & integrating with Families & “Homes” (Tru-Love**). **Mal-Love** is for Acquiring “Property” Quantity of (Wealth, Children, Status & Reputation).. **Tru-love** is for Sharing of “Properties” Quality (Health, Parenting, Society & Responsibility).

Net +ve Love/Loyality = Tru-Loyalty..More Collective-Happiness: They will Keep Your and others Nations Interests in their minds, actions and life. (Shivaji Maharaj/Bhagat Singh/Bharathiyar to Bharat-India) or The aim is Higher and pure desire to contribute. We can term it Ethico-Moralgamy. (Social-BENEFITS> Personal-COSTS). Outreach of Trust is enabling abundance and prosperity. Higher DOSE: Cortisol-Adrenaline time Pleasure:Pain Hormones. Method used is Test and Trust like how Shiva Tested Parvati before accepting her proposal.
–ve Love and Loyality = Lust & Disloyalty: More Collective-Unhappiness: They will Go Against their own and Others higher interests and fall prey to their lower desires or Lusts/Greeds (Sex, Wealth, power and Property). Social Risks-Losses Greater than Personal Costs or Benefits. Eg. (Mir Jafar commander to his King), 1. Aftab Poonawala lover and Cutter of Shraddha, 2. Subha and her Lover murders fiance Girish. https://m.timesofindia.com/india/Advocate-Shubha-Shankarnarayan-gets-bail-after-4-years-in-jail/articleshow/40087062.cms   Ladies-Men/Trans involved in unethical-gamy, Hypergamy, Bigamy, Polygamy and Extragamy instead of ethical-monogamy. More Info: https://lovefraud.com/ Breach of Trust Enabling Scarcity and Criminality. Lower Pain:Pleasure Index more Cortisol/Adrenaline and less DOSE Hormones in Blood.
Net(0) Neutral= Lovst & Non-loyal: Happiness Equal to unhappiness: The Lovers here will not be for or against eachother interests or may equally give and take.. eg.. Raja Wodeyar to British Interests Vs Tippu interests. They may be ignorant or opportunists. Who may connect and disconnect with minimum losses. They are who may come together for love-trails and seperate mutually so they have less collateral damages. Non-gamy or Zerogamy(Profit=Loss). BENEFITS=Costs. Just reach of Trust enables Status-Quo and Neutrality. Cortisol:DOSE (pain:pleasure) hormone in equilibrium. Index Close to 1. Eg. Vishwamitra-menaka Love Story..

Conclusion: Just like every coin has three Sides Head, Tail and the Edge. Love and Loyality have 3 Sides the Loyal-Love (Genuine), Disloyal-Love (Abusive) and UnLoyal Love (Opportunistic). Not all may have awareness experience or observations this may lead to Risks of Puppy-love, Mis-love, Fake-love, Love-Failures, Love-Frauds & Love-Deaths. And Better Awareness of this in families and communities can lead to Benefits of Tru-love, Divine-love, Real-love and worthy-love.

How can you recognize to create Su-Prema or Loyal-Love and avoid Ku-Prema (Disloyal Love Fraud)?. Prevent medico-legal cases like Majnu, Romeo or Devadas??? Su-Prema(Sanskrit)/Nala-Kadhal(Dharmam)(Tamizh) one Eg. from mythology is like Shiva-Parvathi‘s love story, While Ku-Prema(Sanskrit) /Keta-Kadhal(adharmam)(Tamizh) is between Lakshman-Surpanakha or Sita Ravana (Lust at First Cite)

By knowing and Practicing the In.Di.A Method of Love. Krama-Sutras before Kama-Sutras.

What are the Tri-Krama Sutras.?

1. Sukrama Sutras: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/01/08/s243-india-3step-method-for-candidate-selection-how-to-choose-the-right-person-for-the-right-placement/

2. Akrama-Sutras: https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2023/02/07/s266-phenom-of-love-recruitment-and-marital-conversions/