Are you Facing a Tough-Relationship??, Pause the cribbing (oral-complaining) to near/Dearones and start de-scribbing (docuplaining) with the clear-ones.
Many only speak about Friendship, there is even a day to recognize and celebrate it. FRIENDSHIP DAY, but what is less recognized is every coin has 3 sides and not just one. When is Relationships Day.??
There are 3 types of relationships (Friendship(+ve), Neutralship(0) & Enemyship(-ve).
And the relationships evolutes to 3 different paths. Friendships make our life easier and otherships makes our life complexier and complicating.
It can be interconnected but it takes efforts and events to interchange the lanes in life.
1. Path of Neutralship(0). Here the way is smooth and plain there is no Ups or Downs. Like a flat road. The 3 phases in it to Introduce, Share Info, have a working relationship of stasis & proximity without either enemity(-ve) or amity(+ve). There is neutrality. Path of Co-Trailers..
2. Path of Friendship(+ve). There is a good exchange of Spare (Time & Resources), Care (Attention-Emotions) & Share (Power, Place, Info, Events & Experiences). External factors strengthen the bonds like Scares & Threats to the collective peace and connect resources, Care for each others life & wellbeing, & Friends share many things like visions, purpose, events and good feelings in the relationship.
The 4 phases of Friendships are “SORCE” of love. I.e Socialize, Organize, Revalue, CommUnify and Empower. There is a buildup of helpful experiences, years of trust, respect and loyality-love for each other with deep bonding and positve exchanges. Mutual-Trust improves and collective growth and excellence happens.
Path of Complementing/Cooperating-trailers.(on the Life-Trails) Friendship is a simple interest, Enemyship is complicative phenomenon.
Presence, Attention, Trust & Honor (PATHway) of Love and Friendship is Founded on fairness, Justice and empathy.
3. Path of Enemyship(-ve). There is a decline of bonding with seperation, mistrust, miscommunications, misjudgments, negative emotions of fear, anger and hate. Scare, Dare, Snare and Stare tactics are used.
The 3 phases of which may be IDDiotic.. Idealize, Devalue and Discard.. more phases are offend, oppress, de-power, destroy. Path of Competing/Conflicting Trailers. Shaming, victim-blaming, defaming, character-assasination, dis/mis informing, manipulation, mis/mal-guiding, snitching, targeting, cheating, frauding, biasing, malicious avoidance, ignoring, neglecting, gaslighting, Discriminating, false-complaining, demeaning, gossiping, backstabbing, mobbing, ragging, harassing, abusing(verbal, physical & ideological), hurting, cutting, lying, criminalizing, murdering(Aftab-Delhi Murders) and killing.
Do analyse your relationships in life one may see it evolves in these 3 paths of life.
Any more paths do let us know and explore and discover together.
Thanks and do share if you find it of value.. as friends we set the trends.
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Benefits of having good Friendship:
1. https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/friendships/art-20044860
Example of Enemyship: Troy and Trojan Horse.. (Vibhishana and Ravana).
even if rekationship Either one is corrupt or both are..
What do u think.. who is the manipulative one and who is the manipulated one among these public Servants?
https://www.newindianexpress.com/states/karnataka/2023/feb/21/ips-roopa-vs-ias-rohini-karnataka-govt-reprimands-both-2549395.html
Example of Neutralship:
1. Vidura or Krishna to Kaurava and Pandavas.. They dint fight the war directly..
Examples of Good Friendships:
Ram and Hanuman, Vibhishana and Ram..
Magic Ratio of Successful Realtionships:
source of these ideas.
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