Objective: To spread awareness about “Marital-AIDS” for prevention of Marital HIV & AIDS among brothers, sisters & in families, community, society & life. #AIDS-Spousal Spread Prevention.
#A Case for Pre-Nuptial Assessment & Agreements.
Prevention better than Cure, Precaution better than Curse.
There are two spectral ends of families the 1. Maritally-unaware, Socially Isolated and Politically-vulnerable and 2. the Maritally-Aware, Socially-Integrated & Politically-Informed. Risk of AIDS is higher to 1 & lower to the Safer-2. Which families are more around you?
Just like unprotected-sex with an infected person can trap a dearone in viral-AIDS(Type-1), similarly unprotected-relationships with an infected mind or family-gang can trap one in Marital-AIDS(Type-2). #Marital-AIDS Awareness.
#SafeAuthenticated-MaritalCheckList. Sharing in Public Health Interest and also in Pubic Health Interest.
This blog-post will make you Marital AIDS-Informed(Aware) and prevent folks from becoming Marital-AIDS Infirmed(Target-Victim).
Marital_AIDS= Body_AIDS + Mind_AIDS..
Its Spread of HIV (Honesty & Integrity Virus) & AIDS (Associative Integrity Deficiency Syndrome) in Marriages & Relationships. This leads to more Frauds & Failures in Relations Matrimony-Social Sites & Marriages.
Just 3 Steps of ABCs can protect Your Life from both physical-AIDS & Social-AIDS. Narc-AIDS (i.e Arrogance Induced Destruction Syndrome)
A.B.C of Marital Aids Prevention is “Avoid, Be-aware & Check” .
1. Avoid Adultery(illogical-Sex), risky Live-in, or Sexualling with HIV infected Persons . Exchange of body fluids during intimacy (Blood, Saliva or Genito-Rectal Secretions) from HIV carriers can infect you or our Young-Indians. Case in Point below.
2. Beware of having Live-In, Pre-Marital or Extra-marital(Polygamy/Open marriages) Relations with AIDS affected adulterous spouses with HIV or other STDs. Condoms are unreliable can tear and cause STDs & HIV-Infections.
3. Check for Contaminated Needles/Blades & Pre-Marital Screening with Socio-Psycho-medical fitness history of Spouse for hereditary complications, STDs & AIDS (Give and take reports of both spouses) before marriage or sexual intimacy, one can never know. Best is abstinence & In depth background checks for Safe-Marriage & less riskier marriages.
How to prevent Marital-AIDS in Spouse/s?
1. Due Diligent “Medico-Legal-Check” before marriage or Second-Marriage.
The Moral, Familial, Mental, Legal, Genetic-Blood, Religio’Social & other Compatibility Matters more than other Compatibility like horoscope, Height, Weight, Education etc.
2. Secret ABC’s of Marriages, Marriers & Relations.
Marriage and relationships is a very deep life changing topic and basic Education, Media, Medics nor society due to various reasons dont give open & valid information for prevention. Hence sharing this for our clarity and contribution.
Generally what is topically seen in Marital-Filtering of Men(Sexual-Selection) is these ABCs 1. A’s Appearance-Assets Status. 2.Bs Bachelors Degree & Bank Balance (Reptilian-Brain checkout the male-gender-charactertics of Male-Testosterone Levels by Bigger Biceps, Broad-Sholders/Penitrators & Bold Low bass voice eg Arnold Schwarzenegger by exercise and supplements). If in India also 3.Cs Class-Community & Caste(Colorism-Racism). Udyogam(Harder-Work-HTestosterone 4Protection) Purusha Lakshanam, Anukampam (Softer -Compassion HEstrogen 4Progression) Mahila Lakshanam.
And for Women what is seen is their 1. A’s Appearance & Assets 2. B’s Beauty & Brains (The Reptilian Brain sees Biological Parameters of better Female-Estrogen levels for progeny-bearing female-gender characteristics of Bigger Breasts, Buttocks-Hips & Feminine higher pitch voice eg. Kim Kardashian by Exercise & Silicone Implants) 3. Cs Compassion (2Hubby+MatrimonialFamily) & Child-Careability for Ethical-parenting.
Something Similar to both are Testosterone-Driven body-minds seek out Soft-Smooth(Hairless) Peach like curvy Feminine-Proportions for Sexual-Attention/Satisfaction and Estrogen-Driven body-minds seek out Hard-Hairy Banana like wedgy Masculine-proportions for Sexual-Attention/Satisfaction.
This Theory explains to an extent Behaviours in Genders-Sexuality Spectrum. In the Good Procreative Process there is a partnership between 1. Healthy-Masculine which has hormonally(Do-Ox-Se-En) evolved to (Protect+Provide) Give-Gametes(Gifts+Semen) in higher quantity and frequency that’s why one may observe in animal kingdom like pigeon if one bird is pursuing another.. it would mostly be a Male(Testosterone) behind a female(Estrogen) in few cases like a female in heat may pursue an attractive Male. & 2. Healthy-Feminine is evolving to Seek-Gametes of good genetic-quality for the progeny by (Naturing+Nourishing)
Negative A.I.D.S is Arrogance Induced Deviance Syndrome.
Awareness Induced Disciplined Systemists.
Since 1940s the old & current Marital-Systems are highly defective and degenerated globally and especially in our Messy-India.. giving rise to more Risky-marriages with higher Failure-Rates..
More Risky Red-Marriages are trapping innocent men and vulnerable-women of good families.
The 3 proposed solutions devised by our groups since 2019-2022 are:
- Gender-Neutral Marriers Protection Bill2030.
- Relational-Education vs Sexual-Education.
- Marital-AIDS Prevention Mission AIDSLess-India2030.
Reference:
1.Why sharing Psychological & medical fitness Certificate can help pre-maritally see link below
2. Sleeping Partner Incompatibility: Timing, Snoring and Sex-Timing & Frequency needs Mismatch
3. Insightful
https://thepowerofwhenquiz.com/?cn-reloaded=1
4. Pre-Marital Verification Check: https://sahodar.in/why-is-pre-matrimonial-verification-important-for-men/
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