The less-informed and the well-informed spectrum. The Awareness-Gaps and Capability-Approach.
[26/05, 07:57] Che VIVEK Childfree: Freedom is selfishness manifested itself in not allowing societal norms or pleasantries or any other social propriety to stop you from doing what makes you happy or pushes you to your greatest potential.
[26/05, 08:04] Che VIVEK Childfree: freedom means you can choose and do anything you judge appropriate for your own life other than destroy freedom. Freedom is all about being selfish.
[26/05, 09:08] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: Freedom I think is to have choices to be Selfish or selfless or just the self.
Informed-freedom is to know which is gud in which situation.
[26/05, 09:15] Che VIVEK Childfree: Do u mean Situational priorities?
[26/05, 09:20] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: Yes, combined with Informed_decision making
[26/05, 09:22] Che VIVEK Childfree: By informed do you mean without self interest?
[26/05, 09:25] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: By informed I mean to see all Interests of self and others in the game of life
[26/05, 09:26] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: Being selfish only won’t take one far or high.. it may jus be static not progressive
[26/05, 09:27] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: Need to be all (Selfish+Self + Selfless)
[26/05, 09:28] Che VIVEK Childfree: By all do you mean our enemies as well?
[26/05, 09:28] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: Can be, mostly our allies as well
[26/05, 09:29] Che VIVEK Childfree: By allies do you mean others who help us to increase self interest?
[26/05, 09:30] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: Yes and give us opportunity to serve their Interests along the way,
[26/05, 09:33] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: Thus form a triad with us.. I have illustrated it here.
If there is no triangulation there is no sustainance
https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2022/01/31/s103-the-narc-triods-narc-narc-allies-silent-enablers/
[26/05, 09:33] Che VIVEK Childfree: It’s mutual interest, do you mean if someone going to help our interest then we going to help them to achieve their interest?
[26/05, 09:34] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: Yes, in the Symbiotic & trimbiotic relation
[26/05, 09:35] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: Thus being
Selfish as a leader,
Selfless for allies,
Self for others..
Is i think complete circle.
[26/05, 09:37] Che VIVEK Childfree: Do you who does not help our interest, we must not help as it’s not mutual?
[26/05, 09:39] Che VIVEK Childfree: places where there is enough narc-supply of 5Ws(Worldly-things, Wealth, Wine, Women & Wemen). Their overall attitude is more self-serving and immediate-selves(the nearest-family or narc-allies). Favourite Words: “I don’t Care about others”. Inner thoughts “I care mostly for my things & people/places giving me more things & pleasures”. They intend to take more from others than what they can or may want to give in return.
Humans are mostly above right?
[26/05, 09:40] Che VIVEK Childfree: Every wants go up in pyramid right?
[26/05, 09:40] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: In the current system yes,. But the ratio can vary country to country, ideology to idealogy
[26/05, 09:41] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: Depends on the drive
[26/05, 09:41] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: U need to be aware of the Mens-Spectrum
[26/05, 09:42] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: Alpha, Beta, Sigma Delta
[26/05, 09:42] Che VIVEK Childfree: Drives are universal right?
Food shelter sex belonging
[26/05, 09:43] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: Im speaking of Drive-levels
[26/05, 09:44] Che VIVEK Childfree: Do you thing this category, with respect to gaining dominance? And dominant get praise from others
[26/05, 09:45] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: That’s the effect.
The cause I believe is Socio-Biological.
Dependant of Cumulative Hormonal levels
[26/05, 09:46] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: And it can be altered
[26/05, 09:47] Che VIVEK Childfree: By biology, do you mean unconsciously we compete to get better mate to create children?
[26/05, 09:47] Che VIVEK Childfree: And avoid beta, sigma Delta as much as possible?
[26/05, 09:56] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: Nature proposes , man disposes
[26/05, 09:56] Che VIVEK Childfree: Please explain
[26/05, 09:58] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: Evolution is survival of the Most adaptive..
Nature proposes options and choices,
Man chooses the best choice they feel is gud.. the unaware entities have choices with higher risk , while the informed-choose with lower risk ..
[26/05, 10:00] Che VIVEK Childfree: Do you mean choosing best choice is good?
[26/05, 10:00] Che VIVEK Childfree: Or feel good?
[26/05, 10:02] Che VIVEK Childfree: Do you mean nature of human is selfish when given choice to feel good?
[26/05, 10:25] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: I think nature the ecosystem always wants to survive & thrive through entities,
Thus wants entities to make Better-Choices.. it should be rationally sense gud and emotionally feel gud.
is an outcome of freedom of mind & heart.
[26/05, 10:27] Che VIVEK Childfree: Economics is the study of how humans make choices under restraints. Humans make decisions in their own self-interest, weighing benefits and costs.
[26/05, 10:38] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: This is view at society level..
I am viewing at personal and group level..
A Human ia able to make decision based on the options the groups give and information he has about The cost benefit and risk.
[26/05, 10:39] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: Ur job is an option given by a group called company
[26/05, 10:40] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: Ur personal life is based on choices given by group called family & community
[26/05, 10:40] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: Our freedom is interlinked
[26/05, 10:41] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: My choice of answer is linked with my knowledge & with ur understanding & questioning
[26/05, 10:42] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: Right now we are in a symbiotic-interaction
[26/05, 10:42] Che VIVEK Childfree: At personal level cost and benefit is max pleasure and best children right?
[26/05, 10:42] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: This is for lower drives
[26/05, 10:43] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: For higher drives in Maslow’s hierchy of needd
[26/05, 10:43] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: Needs it’s different
[26/05, 10:44] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: When we do our conversation in group.. it becomes Triombiotic
[26/05, 10:44] Che VIVEK Childfree: True, that’s restraints right?
[26/05, 11:37] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: Hmm.. depends on the choices..
if 0-1 it’s restraint
1 -3 it’s Limited choice
3-10+ more choices
And infinite# is unlimited Choice zero Restraint
[26/05, 11:40] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: A buddhu-minded or Oppressed have limited choices In jail, mental hospital or narc homes societies. More restraints.
A Buddha-minded or empowered or empaths home society have more choices.. less restraints
[26/05, 11:41] G.R.PraSidhar [HithaMitra_Prasadh]: Buddha was an awakened-buddhu
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