S109: 5 Stages in W.O.M.E.N’s Life..

By age & taken up roles we can see 5 distinct phases in life like below.

1. Warrior of Odds (0-10) (Child)

2. Observer of life (10-20) (Adolescence_young lady stage)

3. Manager of groups (20-50) (Marrier_Wife Stage)

4. Ever-Loving to all (50-60) (Mother-in law Stage)

5. Nurturer of groups (60+) (Grandmother Stage).

Salutes to the Ideals of Women in all.. Guess which Stages have you covered and where one may wish to reach.?

Happy International Womens day 2022. To all great women of India and the world.

These 5 steps of life is tracing any Womens-Journey from a girl to an Empowered-lady to an Empowering-Women.

Stage 1. As a Infant-child a woman is a born Warrior naturally resilient, from the day she is born she fights risks, social-prejudices & parental/familial-biases. Being a daughter she may also be a worrier about welfare of her parents, siblings and relatives and sometimes the world. (Age 0-10). Eg. Greta Thunberg, Malala Yousafzai and other great fighter & compassionate-girls.

Stage 2. As a School/College-kid a woman is a good Observer. Her observational and perceptional skills are so wide and deep that it connects and keenly observes the guidance of good environmental factors like ethical-elders and genuine-sources. Building relationships as friends, playmates, classmates, students. (Age 10-20). Eg Ideal-Like Marie-Curie, Sarojini Naidu, Joan of arc, Shakuntala-Devi,..etc

Stage 3. As an adult women she can be an able Manager of tasks and goals at eduplace, workplace, home and in society. Well-Cultured & Matured women are backbone of families as home-makers and of office/workplaces as graduates, employees, entrepreneurs & value-makers. (Ages: 20-60). eg: Sudha-Murthy, Indira-Nooyi, Allada-Mara Thimmaka, Sister Nivedita, Indira Gandhi, Jayalalitha, woman in the workforces & defence services, Indian-HomeMakers, etc

Stage 4. As a citizen, family member, friend, spouse, sister, parent, colleague, mentor or teacher she is Ever-loving with other citizens & her siblings, relatives, friends, spouse & children. One can learn unconditional care & love from an Every-loving women who maybe a friend, spouse, colleague, mother, sister, aunt or teacher. (Ages 30-60). Eg. Sharada-Devi, Rani-Chennama, Jhansi ki rani, Kasturba Gandhi, women with duty of care, creating integrative_families & communities, PRIYA-mitras, etc

Stage 5. As a Genetic-Progenitor, Grand-parent and Senior-Citizen she is Nurturer in the roles of guides, parent, teacher, aunt, guardian, grandparent & Senior Citizen. Her natural valuable experiencesharing & cultural nurturing and mentoring of next generation cultured-women she can create for a happy and healthy families, communities & society. Thus the senior generation protects & projects the next generations of the world. (Age 40 to 60+) Mother-Theresa, Kamakshi Subramanian, Maya Angelou, Louise-Hay, Annie Besant, H.P.Blavatsky, Auroville-mother, Korean-Queen from India, Sindutai… etc

Conclusion: Women especially the motherly and sisterly are the Great bi-contributing force of family, Society and Nation.. If they are Ethical, Cultured, Moral & Upright Rationally they have the power of transformation of any nation. Like the Roots of a Tree they hold the underlying inter-web of a society that create and hold up healthy homes as grannies, siblings, Wifes, house maids, nursing & nurturing mothers.

In Nursing homes as Birthing Doctors and lady Nurses(Florence Nightingale). In parlours as makeup artists to beautify beasty faces..

While the leading & Complementing Men are the shoots and branches of the society which bring the fruits of labour home to the roots of family they are externally visible like grandpas buying stuffs for family also at non-home risky places like in jungles, on roads, Transport Vehicles, delivery boys, at Borders, In Police Stations, on workshops heavy Industry factories, in sewage drains.. etc.

General Acknowledgements: On International womens day 2022, This post is dedicated to all the good supportive women in our lives as mothers, grandmothers, aunts, teachers, friends, romances, spouse, daughters, nieces, neighbour-girls and students. Your Feminine-Presence is powerful and assuring..

Nature by chance creates Females by birth in all species but it takes ones choice, efforts and a wonderful journey of the 5-stages to become a complete & Ideal Women by character. #PositiveFeminity.

We are ever grateful to your graceful contributions, presence and ethical support in our lives & worlds. If love is what that makes the world go round.. then Centripetal love force maybe feminity & Centrifugal force maybe masculinity. When the complementary-forces are in balance(Positive-Genderity(F/M/T)) keeps the healthy equilibrium, while disturbances (Toxic-Genderity(F/M/T) of either or both sides may break the gender-harmony. The three sides of the coin of life collaborating-morally creates positive environments of excellences.

Personal Acknowledgements: Dear Mother(Dr.Gowri), Grandmothers(Subba-nana patti, Ponnachi Patti & other pattis), Aunts (Rangiathe, Rukku-periamma, Kurzhi-periamma, Preethi-maami, Amlu chitha, Sumitha-chitha, Shanta-Chitta, Rani-chitha, Radhika-Chitha, Baby and Usha Aunty & all extended family members) Sisters-Cousins(Elders like Bannu akka, Mangai akka and other akkas, Younger sisters Hema, Kavitha, Babi, Brinda, Rani, Vani, Rami, Sundari, Deepika and all who have kept the responsibility of family welfare and make us proud as ancestrally-connected women in our lives.

Social-Professional Acknowledgements the infinte women as teachers, lecturers, gurus, classmates, colleagues, competitors, womanly-Neighbhours, collaborators in mission-groups, officers, public-servants, house-maids, co-drivers, strangers-on street, care-givers, peace-makers, etc initial-creators & nurturers of Ethical, Rational & Spiritual children, citizen, organisations, lives & a wonderful society.

Indian Women’s Peer Group: https://chat.whatsapp.com/JMFKNWBGzSrKFYgxbACtaG

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P.S: Written with an intent to honor the Influence of the Divine-Feminine(Woman-SuMatha)(Saraswati, Lakshmi & Nyaya-Devi Goddess of Justice/Ethics) and reduce the disruption of the Deviline-Feminine (IllWoman_Dur-Matha, Agyatha_Dusta) -Evilish, Maya, Kali, Dharidra-Lakshmi, Anyaya-Devi Goddess of Injustice/Toxics) in our lives, invite this to be read-critically and do correct or add to the page if seeing any conditioned-biases so it can be pro Positive-feminity/genderity (rooted in bright side of Eastern_Indianity) and less of Toxic-feminity/genderity (darkside of copycat cultural invasion of Western_EuroAmericanity lifestyle and ideology).

For help resources of all:

S241: Note 50+ Helplines for YOur Social-Wellbeing (@India).

My Mother has gone through all five phases of a WOMENS Life.. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2021/11/05/s85-my-mother-dr-gowri/

Also my Father and my Uncles/grandfathers have gone through the 3 Phases of a Man’s Life.

S308: Indian Fatherhoods Evolving? Cerebrating Father’s Day 2023.

I, my mom and my father are on our journey to be Mensches in life. https://grpvcare2dare.design.blog/2022/10/04/210-how-to-be-a-mensch-not-a-grinch/