Many memes are truthful, but some memes are not updated, maybe incomplete or have falsehood in the meaning the most dangerous meme is one which has Trulse-hood in it..
Those Good or Toxic-ideas this post tries to improve by linking pathways closer to higher, deeper, wider or alternate truths and trying to build a followup conversation with the meme-ing.
Re-memes: Revised Meme, Reviewed memes.
Original meme5:
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I Agree Sir, I too like the groups that practice liberty, equality and fraternity for equanimity & collective_progress. https://bit.ly/3zMlXJh
Orgin Meme4:
GRP re-meme4:
A Wise man once told his Brotherhood.. MANy-things, because that’s how they become a wise brother-hood.
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Original meme3:
GRP’s-meme: The difference between an ethical person and others is not a lack of strength , nor a lack of knowledge, but rather a lack of ILL. Grace the Reality. (GRP@24/1/22)
1.Original Meme:
Meme on Meme1:
What may decide our outward behaviours (karya or kriyas)?
Let’s analyze this meme line by line..
Time decides who you meet in life?
Is this sound & valid? I think it may not be Time but more like chance & probability that may decide who one meets in life.
Next it reads your heart decides? I think its ones mind or socio-emotional intelligence and compatibility needs which decides who one wants in life. Heart maybe just pumping blood and has very few neurons to have a cognitive ability.. but research is on in heart-math institute.
Arriving at last statement our behaviour decides who stays in our life. Maybe limiting as sometimes age and stage(circumstances and eventualities) decides who has to exit from our lives. No one stays permanently all have to exit someday.. only choice is how they support until they exit.
Inquiring into question what decides behaviours.
1. firstly are internal drives (endo-ic) of Feelings(bhavas), Instincts(ManasSmriti), impressions(Sanskars) Thoughts(Vichara), Foresight(DurDrusti), Motivations(Uttejna) perspectives(Drusticone), dreams(sapna) & ideas(upaya); holistic conscious awareness. Biases and fallacies, ideologies
2. next are external factors(ecto-ic) of stimulus (environment(prakruthi), exposures(stiti), laws (Neti) experiences(anubhava); along with social allies (mitras) and associations (Sangat). Feedback, Response with rewards and punishments.
3. Third important are the interlinking factors in between the Internal & External the (mesoic). Like the sensory organs, doors of Perceptions(pragna) and sometimes third party interferences where errors occur in transmission or translations.
2. Original Meme:
*WHEN MARRIAGE IS A MISTAKE.*
🧩 An Article worth reading
Most times when a *marriage is in trouble* , people tend to see their Marriage as a *mistake* rather than seeing the *mistakes they are making* in their marriage. At this point they *regret marrying their wife or husband, begin to think of a new partner, imagine marrying their ex or fantasizing a marriage without issues.*
Some even divorce or remarry and later wish they had *remained* with their first Spouse, as they find greater trouble in the new spouse. This is because *the first marriage was not a mistake,*(1) and the mistake has not been *discovered yet.*
So you can remarry as many times as you like, you will still experience problems in marriage until *you discover the mistakes you are making in your marriage and correct them.*
So divorce or separation is not a solution to consider when you are having problems with your marriage.(2)
When your car has a flat tyre, you do not abandon it, but repair the tyre and move on.
When we have a headache, no matter how excruciating, we do not cut off the head but take care of the headache.
When a bulb blows out in the room we do not change the room or the house, we replace the bulb and light up the room.
When we have challenges at work, we do not refuse to go to work, we go there to solve the problems.
So when marriage has an issue, we don’t have to try to change the spouse instead of changing the *attitude* that is creating the problem.
Most times when we see some couples enjoying their marriages and enjoying each other to the fullest, we admire and cherish them, but the opposite is seen in our own marriage. The reason is that some people have worked on their marriage *by paying the necessary price* and that is why they are enjoying the fruits of their labour. It is said, “The way you make your bed is the way you will lie on it”.
Your marriage is as *good* or as *sweet* as you make it. Some couples, because of the *negative things* they are seeing in their marriage, accuse each other of being responsible. They point accusing fingers at each other for being responsible. Some even say many bad things about their spouse, even *calling him or her names;* some think that marrying that man or that woman was a mistake.
*It is not so, your marriage was not a mistake,* *but you are the mistake.*(3)
Your *habit* is the mistake
Your *character* is the mistake
Your *manner, anger, unforgiveness, laziness, lack of love, lack of affection, lack of attention, impatience, bitterness, selfishness, ignorance, stinginess, not being considerate, infidelity and lovelessness are the mistakes.*
*Talking about Bitterness.*
Some still dream of a marriage with their ex seeing your spouse as a stumbling block. *Wake up* and smell the coffee. Be *content* with your spouse. That *behavior* is your mistake.(4)
So *get up now* and *build your marriage* because it is not a mistake.
*Divorce or separation* are never options unless it is LIFE threatening.(5)
*I Beseech Almighty GOD bless all marriages.*
Amen.
*LET’S SEND THIS TO ALL OUR CHILDREN IN MARRAGES. IT WILL SURELY AMMEND A HOME.*
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*WHEN MESSAGE LEADs TO PREVENT MISTAKES.*
🧩 An Article worth reading twice.
The above unsigned msg has many logical fallacies and wrong ideas in it, it’s not from understanding the complex nature of marital-relations. Listing out below flawed points.
1. *the first marriage was not a mistake,* for some killed in marriage first marriage was their first and last mistake.
2. So divorce or separation is not a solution to consider when you are having problems with your marriage.(2) after a marital-counselling and assessment divorce could be the only good legal option for there is lack of social support or intervention in modern individualistic society for healthy-reconciliation.
3. *It is not so, your marriage was not a mistake,* *but you are the mistake.* This is Victim-Blaming mentality.
4. “Others Behaviour is not our Mistake”. A criminal and lovefraud is not the victims mistake.. it’s the crime and responsibility of the abuser.
https://www.abuseandrelationships.org/Content/Survivors/victim_blaming.html
5. *Divorce or separation* are never options unless it is LIFE threatening.(5) false-idea
many have lost their lives by time they realizes its was life threatening. Eg:https://m.timesofindia.com/city/hyderabad/Techie-from-Bangalore-lover-arrested-for-husbands-murder/articleshow/22824782.cms.
Right Idea:*Divorce or separation* are better options when marriage-counselling or psychological-counsellings dont work.. and it is high risk marriage and not safe marriage that has been done.
The above msg may lead to Victim-family Self-blaming and prevent the social-recognition of the Crime by unjust abusers and families, plz avoid spreading it can lead to enabling continued victimization of innocent souls, kids and their families.
We need better ways of Match-making families first and then speak about reducing marital-mistakes..
3. Original Meme:
*How to handle SENSITIVE People ?*
*My name is Dr Ritu Duggal I am a Human Pyschologist Who Has Attended 99% Of All The Meet Ups Of All WhatsApp Group Across India*😍
*After Attending 99% Meet Ups Across India This is What I found Out About People In WhatsApp Groups and Meet Up Groups*😔
*1*) *Tell them as much as LIES possible*
*2*) *Never hurt them with TRUTH*
*3*) *Unke Har Baat Pe Haan main Haan Milaaye*
*4*) *Never ask them why did they join a MEETUP group because they joined a MEETUP group because no 1 values them For Example, Their Spouses, Kids, Parents, In laws, Neighbour hood ppl, Maids, Work place colleagues and many more different kinds of people avoid them*
*5*) *Most of the sensitive victims join meet up groups just to get opposite sex contact details these kinds of HUMANS will never participate in the group chat but will be IRRITATING genders of OPPOSITE sex on their PM A lot*
*I am Dr Ritu Duggal I have done Human Pyschology and I have been part of different Meet Up Groups across PAN INDIA and these are the RESULTS of my Study Hope You all liked my Article*
*Best Wishes & Regards*
*Dr Ritu Duggal*😊
The biggest problem why ppl behaving sensitive is mobile addiction I feel.
Meme on meme:
How to handle SENSITIVE msgs in groups Sensibly?
My name is G.R Prasad I am a Secular-Humanist Who Has shared, Attended & Created most(I cant claim 99% as 100% is not known) Of groups on different topics for serving different purposes. The Meet Ups Of a lot of WhatsApp Group Across Bangalore and globe😍
After Attending (not 99%) most Meet Ups Across Internet This is What I found Out About People In WhatsApp Groups and Meet Up Groups😊 note the positive emoji.
1) Tell them as much as TRUTHS possible and Expose LIES..(SAINTians)
2) Never hurt them with TRUTH nor lies
3) Unke Har sahi Baat Pe Haan main Haan Milaaye aur galatians baat pe na kaho.
4) *Never ask our mitras why did they join a Resource group because they joined a MEETUP group because group members value them and their presence and contributions.
5) *Most of the sensitive victims join meet up groups to look for like-hearted souls and friends and insights, few join for ulterior motives..they are exposed eventually when they deviate from group purpose.
6) Many insensitive and insensible people may have done highest degrees also human psychology but may not be practicing on ethics or empathy. Dont go by the paper degrees that one person has, but by the degree of empathy & compassion in ones shared views & values.
7. A group is created by the shared purpose and values of the group and it can be an environment of excellence (EoE) when the 5R&D guidelines are practiced in the group.
*I am PriyaMitra GR Prasad. I have not done Human Pyschology but I feel empathy for others and want to help other mitras.. i have been part of different Meet Up Groups across PAN INDIA and these are few of insights of my experience & Study of groups Hope You all liked my positive response to a not so positive Article *
Best Wishes & Regards
Priya-Mitra Prasad. Not a Dr. Yet want to make Dr.. as a short form of Dear .
Wishing all Dr.Priyamitras to Live and Help-live. EOEs
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