S24: New Gems from the Gentle pen!

RandOM Ideas & Insights for my dear G-ders of this and Collaborators of this Glog.

69. For Spousal Marital Interviews 1. money-minded people look for B&B (Bigger Bank-balance & Buildings), 2. body-minded people look for bigger B&B (Body-Built, in men (Testosterone-levels, Wider-Shoulders, Deep-Voice-Shorter hair or bald&bold-masculinity) Biceps & Glutes-maximus(Butts) or in women (Estrogen-levels, Wider-hips, High pitch voice, longer hair-feminity) B@@bs & Bu##s) by natural-selection 3. Family Service-minded look for 3Cs (Character, Conduct & Company(all). 4. Spirit_Soul-minded look for 3ES (+ve Empathy, Egalitarianism, Environementism & Spiritualism). What is looked in yOu-ther and what do you look for in proposals, is what determines the Love-Contract, Marital-contract, Relation/Family-Contribution & future-confluences. GRP@10-8-23.

68. Few battles can be started & won with lies by liars (Eg. East India Company, Indian Rival Ideologies), few loaves of bread can be won by loafers, But the Final War shall be won with truths by truthers (Swadeshis, Indigenous Indians and Adi-Bharatiyas), all loaf shall be won by bakers, and Truth alone triumphs in the end, Goodness alone sustains for ever. #SatyamEvaJayathe, #SatvvamEvaSugatye.

67. Lesser question is about if one is biased or not, the *deeper-question* is of the degree bias… About How much of identifiable-bias is there in someone or group? Only the seekers like to know their own Blindspots.

66. To be alone is the fate of all great minds.-Arthur Schopenhuer.
And to be together is the fate of all humble hearts😀 -GRP(19/8/21)

65. If you want to go fast, go alone; if you want to go far, go together,

And if you want to go together with risk go with Narcs(Back-Stabbers), if you want to go safe, go with Empaths(Back-Defenders).

Numbers reversed from 1-64.

1. Manas idhare maarga, Ket-Manas adhare narakka, ole Kanasu idhare adhe swarga- GRP(Kannada) English translation below

2.Where there is will theres a way, Where there is ill theres Hell and Where a good dream there is heaven- GRP(10/12/20)

3a. The more aware & alert the Brotherhoods, the safer will be the Neighbhorhoods.- GRP(10/12/20)

3b. The more nurtured & cared are the childhoods, the more matured & caring would be the elderhoods.

4. Vigyana namma medulalli, Kannada namma hrudayadalli.

5. Science fills our Minds, Art fulfills our hearts- GRP

6. Curiosity kills the cat, human curiosity fills the gap -GRP

7. All is well, that ends well. All can be well, that intends to excel. -GRP

8. The Difference between Empaths and Narcissists is just one ‘S’!!. I.e While the Narcissists are very ‘self-ish‘, the Empaths are highly ‘Selfs-ish‘. -GRP

9. Higher calling many a times isn’t a shout out, it’s a whispering inner voice, emerging from the silence of the outer noise.-GRP(15/12/20)

10. In best sellers many buy, read & use KS, the Indian Kamasutra (LustyLoveManual) all over world. But what world may need now more than ever is an updated or revised KS 2.0, that is Indian Kutumba-Sutra (FamilyLoveManual) is more important than Kama-sutra for a Harmonious Society with Familial Intimacy of happy groups.- GRP

10.a KS1 May be a reason why there may be many students & experts at Kama and very less Students & experts of Kutumba on the Indian Sub-continent.

11. Patanjali wrote the Yogasutra (UnionManual), yoga is a global hit, i wish also to see the Yogya-sutra (EligibilityManual) which helps one to see what to unite with and what not to unite with.

12. Awaiting at a traffic signal, I-observe interactions between 2+ connections are like the Trio-light signal, with some connections its gogo-green, with many its ambiguous-amber and with a few connection its resting-red.(/GRP)

13. Our head weight(Ego) too affects our overall weight. We may let go of ego first to set right the BMI(Body-Mind Interface). Our Attitudes sets-up or upsets our fat-titudes too.(20/12/20)

14. Our minds can perceive easily bodies which are physically weak challenged, some visually challenged or even minds which are weak mentally or technically challenged, there is difficulty as it’s very deep to spot hearts which are ethically or morally weak, challenged or disabled-GRP. (26/12/20)

15. If there is one thing most admirable in China as a super power compared to other nations is its ‘Filial Piety’. Lacking in other asian Societies, it’s a Filial pity.

16. The Truth shall set the seekers free after it has beaten the lies out of them. GRP(26/12)

17. Love is blind, so is hate. What is really eye opening is Deeper Knowledge of hearts and souls.(13/1/21)

18. Love or Lust is BLINDing because the blood flows more from the heart downwards to lower organs, while love is all-seeing when its for truth & knowledge as blood flows more to higher organs up from the heart.(13/1/21)

19. Man proposes and God disposes, and manytimes God proposes and man disposes. Only when we may listen to himr, hse can enlivens us. (14/1/21)

20. “Know thyself” say the greeks, along with others’ selves and more importantly ‘know thy-systems” say the G-eeks. (GRP-GreekyRespondingPartner) 28/1/21

21. He who thinks he is doer is also the sufferer-(RamanaMaharishi), Yes maharishiji and i think they who think h/se cant collaborate with the doers/thinkers are also a sufferers- GRP. (28/1/21) (Collaborate to Celebrate)

22. This world Environment makes many think they are here to cerebrate(Think & Figure out) life.. The outer wisdom is not encompassable by the individual mind or infinite minds. I think this is a logical error bringing up emotional terror. WE ARE HERE MORE TO CELEBRATE(Feel & live with) life.. The inner wisdom & kingdom is encompassable with compassion of One and connected hearts. (28/1/21-GRP) My understanding from my parents lives & discussions at GD3-grps(Thanks2 UB & Sh).

23. Let’s Cope with life by sharing hope in life.

24. Depression can seem like people going uphill and life going down hill.. what works is will, pill, chill and up skill.

25. When moving near to Depression is being in a consistent depressed state and in depressing environments, we need a Daily-Detox, catharsis of thoughts in mind by ‘Deep Expression’, purgation of warts on skin, a Liver cleanse by fast-diet & healing supplements.

26. There may be many things out of syllabus and important messages that dont reach us in time or through a faulty education system. That Life will Teach Us. If not learnt earlier it will teach in a harder way.

27. Some Ideas/people/groups are HomeMakers and some are HomeMakers+HomeBreakers.. and some are only HomeBreakers.  These are 3 categories of people in a spectrum, I have seen personally in my life.  Its hard trying to figure out who is who. DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEAS DO SHARE.. I AM SEEKING THIS KNOWLEDGE. GRP 24/2/21 @FC Blr.

28. If Love(True) is what makes the world go round, its Love Fraud that makes the world go crazy. GRP(24/2/21)

29. Those who want to only take away from a space will take leave, those who want to give a way for better space will stay and help change things. GRP(24/2/21).

30. The narc-abuse uses gaslighting, while the empath-cures using mass-lighting. They find a way towards the Brightness of Naked Truths away from the Darkness of well Clothed Lies. The higher Empaths like to practice Intellectual Nudity(encourage Transparency) while Narcs try to practice Intellectual Fashion/Fiction design & Obscurity(they like to Keep all Guess-ing(guess-lighting). GRP(10/3/21) insights from conversations at PriyaMitras-grp(group for suicide prevention)

31. A Narc Imposes, a flying monkey confuses, a resister/dissenter refuses, a bystander induces, An Empath Proposes, an Empathic-ally infuses, God/System Disposes. Where do we stand? (The world Drama by 7-Actors) GRP(14/3/21).

32. Ordinary Narcissitic Individuals & groups know to use loopholes to manipulate anything,
While Extraordinary Narcissistic People & groups manipulate by creating loopholes themselves.
Similarly Ordinary Empathic Individuals & Groups want to fill the gaps to articulate anything, and extraordinary empaths articulate to fill the gaps. GRP(16/3/21)

33. The 3 most important things in life I believe are SelFamily-DailyCare, A CommunityOfBelonging-WeeklyEngagement and Sustained Supportive Social Circles-@Monthly Frequency. -GRP(16/3/21)

34. What is ‘Life’?: I see it is L.I.F.E: Living In Full ExpressiveSelf. And what is Death? I think it is D.E.A.T.H Devaluing Every Act To Heal.– GRP(16/3/21)

35. A picture paints a thousand words for a Visual artist and A word paints a thousand pictures for a Verbal artist.- GRP(16/3/21)

36. British Through East India Company used Divide and Rule policy to covertly conquer and Overpower Indians, Few of their ancestors globalists (Feast on India companies) still use divide and fool policy to conquer and overpower Indian Minds and hearts.

37. What we Indians & Global Citizens can aim for is a Unite and Rule policy, where we unite our visions and rule ethically through our decentralized missions.

38. In the Narcissistic-relationships ones feel like jet-lag as they are based on L.A.G; which are Lust(Money-Power-Sex), Anger(Ego) and Guilt(Oppressive-Submissive). Biological Analogy is relationship of Parasite/Vector-Host like Mosquito/Bedbug it feeds on the hosts blood(Narc Supply) which is the currency without giving/sharing any benefits. It’s short term and seems one sided where theme is ‘give less & take more’. Works on scarcity & fixed mindset(Carnivores) observe Hyenas, Vultures, wolves(dogs an exception) etc. Playing the Zero-sum game with Win-lose competitions. Focus is on Take-aways and taking back. Getting served more than serving. Key phrase is ‘debited deductions’- GRP(17/3/21)

38. While in the Empathic-relationships one+all feel the reverse of lag I.e G.A.L where both parties and others around feel glad, where there is Gratitude, Association and love shared among the environmentees(all around them). Biological Analogy is relationship of Symbiotic Agents like Honeybees-Plants or Ants-honeydew insect, here the currency is Honey(Empath Supply/Intrensic Value creation) where there is mutual benefit-responsibility sharing equal ‘give and take’ or more give and less take on both sides. It’s long term sustainable thinking and being; This is the Abundance & Growth Mindset(Most Herbs and Herbivores) observe Large hearted land mammal behaviour Elephant, Giraffe, Rhinoceros..etc playing the non-zero sum game with win-win collaborations. Focus is on Give-aways and giving forward. Serving more than getting served. Keyword is ‘credited contributions’- GRP(17/3/21)

39. And there is the middle path Neutral-Relationships.. this is the zero-zero relationship where there is only Win/Lose-Win/Lose. Other persons states doesnt matter to the other.(17/3/21)

40. For a more-Narc the end goal and purpose is purse, for a more-empath the end soul and purpose is pursuit of x-lens.(17/3/21)

41. What are the tendencies of people(&A.I) serving mostly their own-self’s limitless greed conditionally? Ans: Narcissistic tendencies (defective mirror-neurons(Disintegrated Contracted-self identity) (Focusgrp; SAINTS-grp). Malevolent Characters: Ivan the Terrible, Genghis Khan, Alexander the Great Conqueror. Globalistic corporates like E.I.C, HAL9000, VIKI(Irobot).. etc

42: What are the tendencies of people (&A.I) serving mostly Other-Selves’ limited needs unconditionally? Ans: Empathic tendencies (effective Mirror Neurons(Integrative Expanded-Self Identity) (Focusgrp; PRIYAMitra-grp) eg characters: Marshall Rosenberg, MLK, Edward Snowden, Julian Assange, Sonny(Irobot).. etc..

43: Minds which are satisfied with being in the comfort/bliss of ignorance, do not seek to know or understand the deeper/bitter truths of realities. And Minds which have a chance and choose to ask themselves and answer for others uncomfortable questions can see the reality of what and why things are the way they are. GRP(19/3/21) Blissful-Ignorance vs Beautiful-Knowledge.

44. People & places are coincidental while the principles behind them are fundamental.

45. India is more than what the media says, we can trust India more and indian media less.

46. Being Our Awareness, Wie need to ‘be aware of the truths and beware of the Non-truths’. Extreme Individualism leads to more falsity, we can have more genuine validated truths from Triality(You, Me & Others)- GRP(23/3/21)

47. More children are learning about safe sex in sex education in current education system so population rate will be balanced. Where are children learning about safe relationships in culture education so that divorce/depression rates can be balanced? #ProjectHithashala.

48. If the courtship process between genders isnt improved socially then there will be more court-ships only I.e Relationship in courts. More than Bharat Matrimony app there wud be need of Bharat Alimony app. #MensHeartsTalk

49.  Daring minds Create something new, Caring minds Unite as ideas grew, Non-sharing minds Leave without clue while Sharing Minds Stay(SMS) like the glue. Which mind do we choose to brew? GRP(30/2/21)

50. The Abusers like British-EastIndia Company use the policy of “Divide all & Rule” to serve Selfish Ulterior Motives, while the Healers of India use the policy of ” Unite all & Serve” for our selfless higher purpose.

51. In The Pursuit of Fairness, world can be a better place when the more ‘mWe‘ strive to empower the goodness and disempower the evils within & around us. -GRP 12/4/21

52. Most look for Happiness.. Who is looking for Fairness? Fair&lovely can make only the skin fair, not the heart.

53. On our path we took a wrong turn & reached a dead end. We tried to find a way out of darkness, we could not see any light. We tried next to find a way to find some way, we reflected and finally were blown away to find that We are the way ahead.

54. When our mind is in selfish-thinking mode it asks “what’s in it for me?” In SELFish-Thinking mode our minds think “What’s in this for us?”./GRP 16/4/21

55. Individuality is derived from duality, this is paradigm for competition, isolation and loneliness. We propose collectivity which is a derivative of unity, this is a paradigm shift for Cooperation, collaboration and oneness. /GRP 16/4/21

56. Similarly virals too are caused by accidents leading to corruption or by acidic intents leading to corrosion.

57. A parent is born with a child, A service is born with a server, An idea is born with an ideator, A vision is borne with a visionary.

58. The StatElites aim to consolidate power, The Commercialites aim to accumulate money, The Intellectualites aim to accumulate knowledge. The Socialites aim to accumulate fame&Service. Who are the persons who aim to accumulate excellence in Oneness? Vthink its ‘The Spiritualites’ sharing the spiritual light. They are ones who bring light of insight to allthe-lites. GRP(25/4/21)

59. Life throws up hard challenges at us, and things go wrong. What is the best way out? To overcome it, its needed that we Unite, fight and make things right. GRP(10/5/21)

60. Is it when we succeed, that we have arrived?.. I think moved by purer inner drives, starting to ride life without fear but only love, thats when we begin to arrive.. (inspired by movie The Walk).(GRP-13/5/21)

61. Right Keywords can open up Locked worlds; not knowing helpful terms/ideas can terminate someone’s life, while knowing some words/skills can save our lives. Eg, SOS, CPR, Help!! & QPR. GRP(16/5/21)

62. ‘Divide and rule‘ is needed by more autocratic systems, ‘Unite and serve‘ is needed for more democratic systems. The critical mass choosing between these 2 options decides where Wme(we+me) are heading as a Society. GRP(20/5/21) on Mental-Health Action Day.

63. We share messages to our dearest communities not to see people scared but for people to be spared from the pains which have scarred lives, sometimes of self but mostly of nearones. (GRP 22/5/21).

64. We question the validity of any information not to be seen as Pro or Anti-something, but as reviewers seeking reliability and accuracy of the New-Information, Society needs the skeptics’-Inquiry which can sort-out the scientific, unscientific & parascientific.